FabSwingers.com forum: Honesty

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is honesty so hard to deal with??

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No....

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Nope, it's essential in my book - but it needs to be twinned with compassion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problem with honesty here .

Agree with needing compassion too .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no honesty is always the best policy

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By *sla69Woman
over a year ago

coventry/Leicestershire border

Honesty is always the best policy... as long as people can deal with the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not enough honest folk in my opinion. Too many liars, cheats, timewasters and fake profiles on here. But on the forums some of you are ok.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Totally agree

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Agendas are the problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Agendas are the problem

Not if they're shaved

Oops, you said AGENDAS

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By *sla69Woman
over a year ago

coventry/Leicestershire border

I think a lot of people have to remember what this site is about...Sex... if you make some god friends all well and good but i take it for what it is

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

"Agendas are the problem

Not if they're shaved

Oops, you said AGENDAS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to be honest all the time, I don't have the memory capacity to remember any lies

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

They do say the truth hurts

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Being upfront is important so you know what is going on, but I guess some people [reasonably] hold some stuff back until they get to know someone. Sometimes that is fair enough...I don't suppose telling everyone everything straight away is what happens in many walks of life...has to be within reason though...I don't mean finding out that the photo is from 25 years ago or the couple is really a single man or whatever...

Some information and sharing has to come from trust and people working out they can share stuff safely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I cross my fingers does it still count?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

No , Honesty may sometimes hurt you but never as much as being lied too! Red

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

You just need be honest with your words,I would rather tell the truth and be honest to others.

Mean what you say,just don't be mean with what you say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Being upfront is important so you know what is going on, but I guess some people [reasonably] hold some stuff back until they get to know someone. Sometimes that is fair enough...I don't suppose telling everyone everything straight away is what happens in many walks of life...has to be within reason though...I don't mean finding out that the photo is from 25 years ago or the couple is really a single man or whatever...

Some information and sharing has to come from trust and people working out they can share stuff safely."

Some great responses. Thanks folks. Keep 'em cumming, as they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See I'm complete honest here, what you see is what you get, ask me anything and I shall tell.

The problem I have with swinging regularly, I spend a lot of time with my ex (various reasons) and when guys want to FaceTime and stuff but I can't, I tell them the truth and they get the right hump with me!!! Jog on, I have stuff going on away from here, I'm not gonna lie to anyone about why I can't talk etc.

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners

can i turn this into another philosophical debate? hahahaha

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"No , Honesty may sometimes hurt you but never as much as being lied too! Red"

Very very true

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"can i turn this into another philosophical debate? hahahaha

No. Some of us have only just woke up

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Ha. If this place were really honest there wouldn't be so many inflated egos amongst a certain gender.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Ha. If this place were really honest there wouldn't be so many inflated egos amongst a certain gender."

I think a fair few less of that gender too

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I have to be honest all the time, I don't have the memory capacity to remember any lies

There are many folk who have been tripped up by their inconsistencies, but I think there are some people who repeat the same lie often enough so that they actually believe it to be true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im honest 99% of the the other 1% is my own business.

Some people prefer being lied to. Some people should cushion their 'truths'

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Ha. If this place were really honest there wouldn't be so many inflated egos amongst a certain gender.

I think a fair few less of that gender too

True. Keep falsifying lads!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for some it seems to be

words can cut deep. and when its the truth they can cut even deeper

but its still better than being bullshitted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always honest here... Nothing to lie about anyway!

As long as others can live with their half- or non-truths, I don't have a problem with them. There's usually a reason, and I'm not likely to be in a position where I require an explanation....

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"for some it seems to be

words can cut deep. and when its the truth they can cut even deeper

but its still better than being bullshitted"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes think I'm too honest & open on here.

I expect others to be like that too but that is rarely the case

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

I tend to think honesty is the best policy in most cases.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely honesty is the best policy, especially if you are looking to meet people. Being anything less will always end up biting you in the ass... on saying that maybe that's why some are less than others!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez if you lot were to be believed, it's a site full of mother Theresa's. ...I've never encountered such an honest bunch. ....Unless you aren't being strictly honest, you devils

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Jeez if you lot were to be believed, it's a site full of mother Theresa's. ...I've never encountered such an honest bunch. ....Unless you aren't being strictly honest, you devils

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

The truth hurts but it is the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty open and a crap lier so its easier to be truthful.

There are ways to do it though- kinder is better x

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Jeez if you lot were to be believed, it's a site full of mother Theresa's. ...I've never encountered such an honest bunch. ....Unless you aren't being strictly honest, you devils

Just call me st bladey

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

I say it like I see it and expect the same in return

...but as a wise man once said

Everybody Lies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jeez if you lot were to be believed, it's a site full of mother Theresa's. ...I've never encountered such an honest bunch. ....Unless you aren't being strictly honest, you devils

I'm being honest when I say you have a cracking arse

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Jeez if you lot were to be believed, it's a site full of mother Theresa's. ...I've never encountered such an honest bunch. ....Unless you aren't being strictly honest, you devils

I'm being honest when I say you have a cracking arse"

It true he is being honest. But the rest is pretty fucking good to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is honesty really needed for NSA?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty is the best policy, most of the time.

I suffer from ME/CFS so don't/can't feel like playing all the time or always at the drop of a hat.

Clare has some Bi interest and 'has my blessing' (if that is the right way of putting it) to play alone with anyone she would want to. By putting that on our profile all we would get is single blokes and couples looking for an extra female, which isn't what we want as we both want this to be a shared part of our lives.

So yeah, lie or mislead a little bit, guilty as charged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jeez if you lot were to be believed, it's a site full of mother Theresa's. ...I've never encountered such an honest bunch. ....Unless you aren't being strictly honest, you devils

Hahaha

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Nope, it's essential in my book - but it needs to be twinned with compassion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah it's overrated. I really don't care if someone is honest with me or not. As long as they play the game.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I think intent is the issue.

My name isn't Lickety but the intent isn't to lie about my name but to protect my identity.

I always prefer the truth, it doesn't have to be delivered with callous relish but it is much better than a polite lie that then leads to hurt.

I won't side track on omissions but I believe that what a lot of people mean when they say someone wasn't honest is that they omitted to tell them something material.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Honesty for me but you can be honest in a nice way, no need to be brutal

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