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By *herealdeal90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Physically. What do women find fancy about men? When I see a woman, I see a gorgeous girl, the long hair, the smooth skin, the curvy body, small feet, the boobs and bum. The curvier the better, and of course the gorgeous thing in between the legs. All these things turn me on about a woman. So what do women like about men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me its the smile and eyes the catches my attention first, Then the rest follows

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By *dinMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"For me its the smile and eyes the catches my attention first, Then the rest follows"

best put me bum away then

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Tall, well-built, a gorgeous smile, that naughty twinkle in the eye, a strong jaw-line with stubble that grazes your neck as he kisses it, big strong arms and hands to pin you against the wall and a deep gruff voice telling you how much he wants you and what he's going to do to you.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me its the smile and eyes the catches my attention first, Then the rest follows

best put me bum away then "

Ohh I don't think you should

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By *dinMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Tall, well-built, a gorgeous smile, that naughty twinkle in the eye, a strong jaw-line with stubble that grazes your neck as he kisses it, big strong arms and hands to pin you against the wall and a deep gruff voice telling you how much he wants you and what he's going to do to you.

- Amy. x"

you don't want much then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me its the smile and eyes the catches my attention first, Then the rest follows

best put me bum away then "

Don't you dare!!

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By *dinMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"For me its the smile and eyes the catches my attention first, Then the rest follows

best put me bum away then

Ohh I don't think you should "

if you insist lol nice socks btw

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By *dinMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"For me its the smile and eyes the catches my attention first, Then the rest follows

best put me bum away then

Don't you dare!! "

not going to fight popular opinion

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

I'm hillious apparently J xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me its the smile and eyes the catches my attention first, Then the rest follows

best put me bum away then "

Oh don't do that!!!! Your bum is lovely!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Smile, chest, bum and thighs and gsoh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tall, well-built, a gorgeous smile, that naughty twinkle in the eye, a strong jaw-line with stubble that grazes your neck as he kisses it, big strong arms and hands to pin you against the wall and a deep gruff voice telling you how much he wants you and what he's going to do to you.

- Amy. x"

Definetly all of this ... Mmmmmm

Anita x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience they want a cross between dirk diggler Brad Pitt a DIY expert and someone who cage fights for charity events and has a title with money to match.

You always look more attractive if you are rich famous feared and respected by other men and desired by other women.

If all else fails you can have the looks and personality of of public toilet provided you are outrageously rich and stupid.

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By *dinMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"For me its the smile and eyes the catches my attention first, Then the rest follows

best put me bum away then

Oh don't do that!!!! Your bum is lovely!"

well thank you kind lady x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'm attracted to faces, but not in a drop dead gorgeous way but more of a glint in the eye, the way they smile or the eyes, something that lights up their face

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By *dinMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Smile, chest, bum and thighs and gsoh"

tick, maybe, definitely, yep and I try

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"Tall, well-built, a gorgeous smile, that naughty twinkle in the eye, a strong jaw-line with stubble that grazes your neck as he kisses it, big strong arms and hands to pin you against the wall and a deep gruff voice telling you how much he wants you and what he's going to do to you.

- Amy. x

you don't want much then lol"

Oh no, I'm easily pleased.

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By *dinMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Tall, well-built, a gorgeous smile, that naughty twinkle in the eye, a strong jaw-line with stubble that grazes your neck as he kisses it, big strong arms and hands to pin you against the wall and a deep gruff voice telling you how much he wants you and what he's going to do to you.

- Amy. x

you don't want much then lol

Oh no, I'm easily pleased. "

maybe I can be of use then lol

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By *dinMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Tall, well-built, a gorgeous smile, that naughty twinkle in the eye, a strong jaw-line with stubble that grazes your neck as he kisses it, big strong arms and hands to pin you against the wall and a deep gruff voice telling you how much he wants you and what he's going to do to you.

- Amy. x

you don't want much then lol

Oh no, I'm easily pleased. "

nice ass btw

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Smile, chest, bum and thighs and gsoh

tick, maybe, definitely, yep and I try"

you carry it well too

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By *dinMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Smile, chest, bum and thighs and gsoh

tick, maybe, definitely, yep and I try

you carry it well too"

well if I don't big myself up who will lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Charismatic-(the light behind the eyes)- no use being pretty and hot and dumb!

Height, masculinity, strong fore-arms.

Tats but only good ones (subjective)

A cheeky smile, and nice muscles- I like to feel every inch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mind and humour. Then it's when there's a glint in their eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes, smile, humour... I'm a simple girl!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And shoulders. Strong arms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tall, well-built, a gorgeous smile, that naughty twinkle in the eye, a strong jaw-line with stubble that grazes your neck as he kisses it, big strong arms and hands to pin you against the wall and a deep gruff voice telling you how much he wants you and what he's going to do to you.

- Amy. x"

Abso ...bloody.....lutely

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By *dinMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Tall, well-built, a gorgeous smile, that naughty twinkle in the eye, a strong jaw-line with stubble that grazes your neck as he kisses it, big strong arms and hands to pin you against the wall and a deep gruff voice telling you how much he wants you and what he's going to do to you.

- Amy. x

Abso ...bloody.....lutely "

I see a trend developing here lol

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By *dinMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Eyes, smile, humour... I'm a simple girl! "

simple is good for us men to understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the type of guy that will turn my head is a well built guy, not necessarily muscular just big build, big biceps and a nice broad V shaped back, long hair, dark preferred, must be well groomed, beard, again well groomed, heavily tattooed, pierced, bit rough looking looking but clean, sarcastic since of humor and a dirty smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm attracted to faces, but not in a drop dead gorgeous way but more of a glint in the eye, the way they smile or the eyes, something that lights up their face"

Would a torch do? Only thing that lights up my face! Haha

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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over a year ago

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By *raig DavidMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

For me it's the smile and a love ass, lovely legs. I'm easily please me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tall, well-built, a gorgeous smile, that naughty twinkle in the eye, a strong jaw-line with stubble that grazes your neck as he kisses it, big strong arms and hands to pin you against the wall and a deep gruff voice telling you how much he wants you and what he's going to do to you.

- Amy. x"

oh yes xx

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By *herealdeal90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

I'm liking the answers girls. Thanks. Good to know what girls are really thinking and what they want. So judging by your comments. You want a well built lad who's tall and got stubble. And smile is a must. Well Iv got a stubble, looks like I need to work on everything else. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tall, well-built, a gorgeous smile, that naughty twinkle in the eye, a strong jaw-line with stubble that grazes your neck as he kisses it, big strong arms and hands to pin you against the wall and a deep gruff voice telling you how much he wants you and what he's going to do to you.

- Amy. x"

I've got an image in my mind......gonna have to go and.........

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By *iggy1Woman
over a year ago

DORCHESTER


"Tall, well-built, a gorgeous smile, that naughty twinkle in the eye, a strong jaw-line with stubble that grazes your neck as he kisses it, big strong arms and hands to pin you against the wall and a deep gruff voice telling you how much he wants you and what he's going to do to you.

- Amy. x

you don't want much then

lol"

I'll have what she's having!

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By *sla69Woman
over a year ago

coventry/Leicestershire border

Tall gentleman...knows how to turn me on mentally as well as physically, a nice smile and a nice rear will always get me as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not looking for or asking for approval from women .

Someone who is capable of making own decisions ,

Someone who does not need to ask women what they like and accepts that they are mental and can change their mind over what they want every second

Someone who understands that everything that you do right for women is just messing it up . And making you look like a "sweet friend"

Confusing isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far really liking that non have insisted on six pack and ripped.

I can do tall,board shoulders, muscular back and neck, string arm's and legs, stubble.

Fall down in the loads of hair dept but I have a grey Jason Statham thing going on, piercing hazel eye's, good sense of humour.

Just not ripped and definitely not waxed anywhere.

I am a man.

Jools love's snuggling upto my chest. Makes her feel safe apparently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the type of guy that will turn my head is a well built guy, not necessarily muscular just big build, big biceps and a nice broad V shaped back, long hair, dark preferred, must be well groomed, beard, again well groomed, heavily tattooed, pierced, bit rough looking looking but clean, sarcastic since of humor and a dirty smile "
Hello, my name is Jean - Claude Van Damme!!!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But you women are bloody hard to please tho, no wonder us men get so confused.

Men are much easier.

Boobs check

Mouth check

Not a nutcase, even then that's open to discussion.

Fanny and a pulse

Most guy's be happy with that.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"But you women are bloody hard to please tho, no wonder us men get so confused.

Men are much easier.

Boobs check

Mouth check

Not a nutcase, even then that's open to discussion.

Fanny and a pulse

Most guy's be happy with that. "

Id like to think personality counts as well we are all the same apart from the physical differences that define our gender xx. I sometimes think what would be the case if we were all both genders the same right across the board would the same physical requirements apply? xxx

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri


"Tall, well-built, a gorgeous smile, that naughty twinkle in the eye, a strong jaw-line with stubble that grazes your neck as he kisses it, big strong arms and hands to pin you against the wall and a deep gruff voice telling you how much he wants you and what he's going to do to you.

- Amy. x"

.

Spot on.

If you find this man I hope you're willing to share him with the rest of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Italian supercar, holiday home in south of France, heart condition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tall, well-built, a gorgeous smile, that naughty twinkle in the eye, a strong jaw-line with stubble that grazes your neck as he kisses it, big strong arms and hands to pin you against the wall and a deep gruff voice telling you how much he wants you and what he's going to do to you.

- Amy. x

.

Spot on.

If you find this man I hope you're willing to share him with the rest of us "

Sounds like desperate Dan to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience they want a cross between dirk diggler Brad Pitt a DIY expert and someone who cage fights for charity events and has a title with money to match.

You always look more attractive if you are rich famous feared and respected by other men and desired by other women.

If all else fails you can have the looks and personality of of public toilet provided you are outrageously rich and stupid.

"

Nope not for me. Don't like any of that. I currently have the horn for Mickey Flanagan.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

It's a certain kind of frame that does it for me and then the vibe is all important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a certain kind of frame that does it for me and then the vibe is all important. "

why do women always say stuff like that , yet they know deep down looks do not mean anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A smile can turn me weak then broad shoulders and a little taller then me...which isnt hard

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Nice personality and very attractive for me

Wearing tight designer undies also helps

As I am very hard to please then I suppose it's a challenge but then again it works both ways

Hate guys who are full,of shit so big clues

Xxxx

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"It's a certain kind of frame that does it for me and then the vibe is all important.

why do women always say stuff like that , yet they know deep down looks do not mean anything "

Neither of my points are about looks per se, so not quite sure what your comments mean?? The vibe is the most important thing to me in the end, but a certain type of frame is what is going to make me finds out what kind of vibe a man has, and another type will totally prevent it!

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark


"Not looking for or asking for approval from women .

Someone who is capable of making own decisions ,

Someone who does not need to ask women what they like and accepts that they are mental and can change their mind over what they want every second

Someone who understands that everything that you do right for women is just messing it up . And making you look like a "sweet friend"

Confusing isn't it

"

Check

Check

Check

Fuck!

A penny just dropped on number 4 with me and a "sweet friend"

So any ideas how to turn it around?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice personality and very attractive for me

Wearing tight designer undies also helps

As I am very hard to please then I suppose it's a challenge but then again it works both ways

Hate guys who are full,of shit so big clues

Xxxx"

Aren't we all full of shit??

We're either too nice

Too much of a lad

Too quiet

Too loud

A bastard (ref micky flannegan) bastard bastard.

A bad boy

Boring

Tight

Spend too much

A mummies boy

Too aloof

Not sympathetic

To sympathetic, get off you're smothering me with emotions.

Sportsmad

Sex mad

Car mad

You have no interests get a hobby.

......

Anything else I have missed

Honestly ladies we do try we really do, but in our defence and come on you must admit it.

Lots of women are pretty high maintenance!

Jumps into nuclear fallout shelter and hides.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"Tall, well-built, a gorgeous smile, that naughty twinkle in the eye, a strong jaw-line with stubble that grazes your neck as he kisses it, big strong arms and hands to pin you against the wall and a deep gruff voice telling you how much he wants you and what he's going to do to you.

- Amy. x

.

Spot on.

If you find this man I hope you're willing to share him with the rest of us

Sounds like desperate Dan to me. "

As far as Beano land characters go, Desperate Dan is hot.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"Tall, well-built, a gorgeous smile, that naughty twinkle in the eye, a strong jaw-line with stubble that grazes your neck as he kisses it, big strong arms and hands to pin you against the wall and a deep gruff voice telling you how much he wants you and what he's going to do to you.

- Amy. x

.

Spot on.

If you find this man I hope you're willing to share him with the rest of us "

I have found him.

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over a year ago

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's a combination of things, drawn together into a great and acceptable mix - for me. I like a strong, lean body, taller than myself usually. Arms that have shapely muscles and sizeable hands. His posture is confident, his body open and accessible. Facially he'll have a good balance for me between wonderful eyes that are alive and alluring, chin, nose, brow and face shape all having definition and mixed well. Healthy hair, preferably clean or rough shaved facially. Shoulders that have shape and bulk and distinctively is different in form views from sideways or in front - so not barrel like. His voice is deep and he's able to be both soft or commanding with it. His cock will be above 5 inches and well shaped.

I have a matrix of elements that are assessed, some with higher priority than others. Some will be overlooked if absent. A guy without limbs could be perfect, there's no issue that he may not have all aspects of the desirable traits.

And dating and very casual shag guys will potentially vary, where different personality characteristics will gain vastly different significance.

It's also a lot of fun to have some variety, and thus my interests and priorities evolve. Some configurations will remain undesirable, both personality and physical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not looking for or asking for approval from women .

Someone who is capable of making own decisions ,

Someone who does not need to ask women what they like and accepts that they are mental and can change their mind over what they want every second

Someone who understands that everything that you do right for women is just messing it up . And making you look like a "sweet friend"

Confusing isn't it

Check

Check

Check

Fuck!

A penny just dropped on number 4 with me and a "sweet friend"

So any ideas how to turn it around?"

When you are in the sweet friend zone it's pretty hard to get out of . And you have probably messed it up .

But practice on her anyway ,

1 don't be so available if she ask to do something say am busy , but offer an alternative , if she is busy say maybe next time.

2 criticise her look , oh my god, look at your hair I could never date someone with hair like that .

3 mention a party that you got an invite too, if she fishes for an invite , say sorry got a date.

Point 1 I bet you say yes I will do it

Point 2 I bet you have never said she looks rough

Point 3 I bet you normal ask her to accompany you

You need to be less available, and have other women interested in you . But like I said you have probably messed it up anyway

Learn from this mistake . And keep a few rules

Never be available , always be busy

Never talk for too long on phone , just long enough to make date , and then say , sorry someone at door etc ,

Always take longer to text back than they take to text you .

I have even said to women, wow playing hard to get is so sexy. Wish the other women were not so easy

If they are not interested , move on to the next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice personality and very attractive for me

Wearing tight designer undies also helps

As I am very hard to please then I suppose it's a challenge but then again it works both ways

Hate guys who are full,of shit so big clues

Xxxx

Aren't we all full of shit??

We're either too nice

Too much of a lad

Too quiet

Too loud

A bastard (ref micky flannegan) bastard bastard.

A bad boy

Boring

Tight

Spend too much

A mummies boy

Too aloof

Not sympathetic

To sympathetic, get off you're smothering me with emotions.

Sportsmad

Sex mad

Car mad

You have no interests get a hobby.

......

Anything else I have missed

Honestly ladies we do try we really do, but in our defence and come on you must admit it.

Lots of women are pretty high maintenance!

Jumps into nuclear fallout shelter and hides. "

You forgot Peacock.

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By *raig DavidMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

For me it's the smile and a love ass, lovely legs. I'm easily please me.

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark


"Not looking for or asking for approval from women .

Someone who is capable of making own decisions ,

Someone who does not need to ask women what they like and accepts that they are mental and can change their mind over what they want every second

Someone who understands that everything that you do right for women is just messing it up . And making you look like a "sweet friend"

Confusing isn't it

Check

Check

Check

Fuck!

A penny just dropped on number 4 with me and a "sweet friend"

So any ideas how to turn it around?

When you are in the sweet friend zone it's pretty hard to get out of . And you have probably messed it up .

But practice on her anyway ,

1 don't be so available if she ask to do something say am busy , but offer an alternative , if she is busy say maybe next time.

2 criticise her look , oh my god, look at your hair I could never date someone with hair like that .

3 mention a party that you got an invite too, if she fishes for an invite , say sorry got a date.

Point 1 I bet you say yes I will do it

Point 2 I bet you have never said she looks rough

Point 3 I bet you normal ask her to accompany you

You need to be less available, and have other women interested in you . But like I said you have probably messed it up anyway

Learn from this mistake . And keep a few rules

Never be available , always be busy

Never talk for too long on phone , just long enough to make date , and then say , sorry someone at door etc ,

Always take longer to text back than they take to text you .

I have even said to women, wow playing hard to get is so sexy. Wish the other women were not so easy

If they are not interested , move on to the next"

Thanks man! You're 100% right, it is to late. I was sitting in the pub tonight with her, looked on fab and read your reply and I immediately put it into action, "you look wrecked", "you need a hair cut", she soon perked up, and as I type she's texting,lol, I've already moved on my dear, reply to ya tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a certain kind of frame that does it for me and then the vibe is all important.

why do women always say stuff like that , yet they know deep down looks do not mean anything "

For sex with strangers off the Internet looks mean quite a lot tbh.

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Broad shoulders with no chip on them. A cheeky smile. Lovely hands. Peachy ass. Fabulous mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a certain kind of frame that does it for me and then the vibe is all important.

why do women always say stuff like that , yet they know deep down looks do not mean anything

For sex with strangers off the Internet looks mean quite a lot tbh."

I agree, this is fantasyland, I'm looking at people I would never come across in my normal hum drum life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love men...

I like their broad shoulders

Peachy Arses

Stubbly chins

Hairy armpits

Muscly legs

Deep voices

And of course the obvious!

And failing that I'll take a man that's funny and sweet - looks aren't so important to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me personally. .to make me laugh..muscular..big brown puppy dog eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not looking for or asking for approval from women .

Someone who is capable of making own decisions ,

Someone who does not need to ask women what they like and accepts that they are mental and can change their mind over what they want every second

Someone who understands that everything that you do right for women is just messing it up . And making you look like a "sweet friend"

Confusing isn't it

Check

Check

Check

Fuck!

A penny just dropped on number 4 with me and a "sweet friend"

So any ideas how to turn it around?

When you are in the sweet friend zone it's pretty hard to get out of . And you have probably messed it up .

But practice on her anyway ,

1 don't be so available if she ask to do something say am busy , but offer an alternative , if she is busy say maybe next time.

2 criticise her look , oh my god, look at your hair I could never date someone with hair like that .

3 mention a party that you got an invite too, if she fishes for an invite , say sorry got a date.

Point 1 I bet you say yes I will do it

Point 2 I bet you have never said she looks rough

Point 3 I bet you normal ask her to accompany you

You need to be less available, and have other women interested in you . But like I said you have probably messed it up anyway

Learn from this mistake . And keep a few rules

Never be available , always be busy

Never talk for too long on phone , just long enough to make date , and then say , sorry someone at door etc ,

Always take longer to text back than they take to text you .

I have even said to women, wow playing hard to get is so sexy. Wish the other women were not so easy

If they are not interested , move on to the next

Thanks man! You're 100% right, it is to late. I was sitting in the pub tonight with her, looked on fab and read your reply and I immediately put it into action, "you look wrecked", "you need a hair cut", she soon perked up, and as I type she's texting,lol, I've already moved on my dear, reply to ya tomorrow "

My advice with women is do the opposite of what you think will make her like you .

Hold out your hand to grab her hand, then when she puts her hand forwRd , move away .

Never hold her hand , always put your hand in your pocket so she has to link in your arm . I would say if she goes to hold your hand at any time pull away or keep moving your hand

When. Walking down the road, if you see a bench ahead or lamppost , head to it so she thinks your going to walk her into it.

Most importantly if she asks what your type is say totally the opposite

Never give a straight answer . Women like to discover things like looking for berries in the woods

My latest and it works . Oh my god you poor thing, you have holes in your jeans ( I know you buy them like that ) they explain, they bought them like that .

You say really , let me have your email address, I will email you , and I can show you the shops that dont sell second hand clothes .

Whatever they say eg rudeness etc etc , just look at them patronisingly

When they write the email, say put your number down . I would give you mine, but you look the type to text me 100 times .

Fact women ask for your number because they have no intention of calling you , and it's easier than saying no you can't have mine

Never give your number to a woman

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark


"Not looking for or asking for approval from women .

Someone who is capable of making own decisions ,

Someone who does not need to ask women what they like and accepts that they are mental and can change their mind over what they want every second

Someone who understands that everything that you do right for women is just messing it up . And making you look like a "sweet friend"

Confusing isn't it

Check

Check

Check

Fuck!

A penny just dropped on number 4 with me and a "sweet friend"

So any ideas how to turn it around?

When you are in the sweet friend zone it's pretty hard to get out of . And you have probably messed it up .

But practice on her anyway ,

1 don't be so available if she ask to do something say am busy , but offer an alternative , if she is busy say maybe next time.

2 criticise her look , oh my god, look at your hair I could never date someone with hair like that .

3 mention a party that you got an invite too, if she fishes for an invite , say sorry got a date.

Point 1 I bet you say yes I will do it

Point 2 I bet you have never said she looks rough

Point 3 I bet you normal ask her to accompany you

You need to be less available, and have other women interested in you . But like I said you have probably messed it up anyway

Learn from this mistake . And keep a few rules

Never be available , always be busy

Never talk for too long on phone , just long enough to make date , and then say , sorry someone at door etc ,

Always take longer to text back than they take to text you .

I have even said to women, wow playing hard to get is so sexy. Wish the other women were not so easy

If they are not interested , move on to the next

Thanks man! You're 100% right, it is to late. I was sitting in the pub tonight with her, looked on fab and read your reply and I immediately put it into action, "you look wrecked", "you need a hair cut", she soon perked up, and as I type she's texting,lol, I've already moved on my dear, reply to ya tomorrow

My advice with women is do the opposite of what you think will make her like you .

Hold out your hand to grab her hand, then when she puts her hand forwRd , move away .

Never hold her hand , always put your hand in your pocket so she has to link in your arm . I would say if she goes to hold your hand at any time pull away or keep moving your hand

When. Walking down the road, if you see a bench ahead or lamppost , head to it so she thinks your going to walk her into it.

Most importantly if she asks what your type is say totally the opposite

Never give a straight answer . Women like to discover things like looking for berries in the woods

My latest and it works . Oh my god you poor thing, you have holes in your jeans ( I know you buy them like that ) they explain, they bought them like that .

You say really , let me have your email address, I will email you , and I can show you the shops that dont sell second hand clothes .

Whatever they say eg rudeness etc etc , just look at them patronisingly

When they write the email, say put your number down . I would give you mine, but you look the type to text me 100 times .

Fact women ask for your number because they have no intention of calling you , and it's easier than saying no you can't have mine

Never give your number to a woman "

You sir, are my new GOD! You've hit on a bunch of things I do all the time, the lamp post thing, lol, that's so the opposite of me, will have to test it out!

And the type thing, I go for the type I like so I've fallen into this trap so so many times, when I think back, duh!

Straight answers! Shit I'm like an open book, lol, but again thinking back, so so many times!

I love the jeans line, that's so going to get used, lol, I'm busting my balls laughting at it.

Heard a good one, walk up to a bunch of girl and say "are you talking about me?" normally get "NO" back then say "why not?" and walk off!Circle back later

Never give your number to a woman? Point being you only take hers? You'll have to explain more mate, that sounds counter-productive but somehow I know you're right!

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over a year ago


"Physically. What do women find fancy about men? When I see a woman, I see a gorgeous girl, the long hair, the smooth skin, the curvy body, small feet, the boobs and bum. The curvier the better, and of course the gorgeous thing in between the legs. All these things turn me on about a woman. So what do women like about men?"

First it's his eyes, then his smile, a well toned body - oh I'm describing Bob lol x

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

A smile that makes his eyes twinkle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What BradleyandAmy said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Never give your number to a woman? Point being you only take hers? You'll have to explain more mate, that sounds counter-productive but somehow I know you're right!

"

Reasons why not to give a woman your number , and take hers .

Chances are she will not call you , and is using at as a way to get rid of you .

When you ask for her number , she says give me yours , and you do straight away , means your too pmuch of a pansy to stand up to her , and a lady she is walking over you .

If you have the number, she is thinking why aren't you calling ,

She is thinking about the guy that is not calling or texting ,

When you ask for her number and she says I will take yours ,

Say , no you look like you will call me 100 times a day

No how do I know your not mental

I usually say I don't even know you and your expecting my number

Some girls do call, but I am talking about the type of girl here that get lots of blokes try it on , lots of numbers on pieces of paper . Gets asked out loads.. The good looking 10/10 for looks girl

She is used to everyone saying how wonderful she is , how sexy , how lucky they will be to date her . Etc etc .

I have actually come to the conclusion , that this only works on really good looking girls. And the less good looking ones find it insulting ,and won't give you a chance because they are way out of your league .

but most importantly . If they don't want to know . Move onto the next one , give up find the next . Every time you go into a shop flirt with the assistants , don't ask for their number to start with just practice .

If you think I like this girl and she has not replied to you say a week later

Do the hey missy , I like your playing hard to get , wish more girl were like you .

Just move on and move on .

These only work in real life, get the hang of chatting girls up and you will never need the Internet again

Remember there is a lot of sexy well dressed successful women out there who are just as single as the rest

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over a year ago

Eyes...smile ...ass if he's any ink or bald huge big plus and a soh not one of these guys that talk constantly about themselves. The ability to listen and a damn good kisser.

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over a year ago


"Tall, well-built, a gorgeous smile, that naughty twinkle in the eye, a strong jaw-line with stubble that grazes your neck as he kisses it, big strong arms and hands to pin you against the wall and a deep gruff voice telling you how much he wants you and what he's going to do to you.

- Amy. x"

Bloody hell Amy!

*puts hand up* me too, me too!!!

Can I have one too please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I also order a nicely defined broad chest with a bit of chest fur please!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Broad shoulders with no chip on them. A cheeky smile. Lovely hands. Peachy ass. Fabulous mind."
ta daa x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Can I also order a nicely defined broad chest with a bit of chest fur please!"
ta daa

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Tall, well-built, a gorgeous smile, that naughty twinkle in the eye, a strong jaw-line with stubble that grazes your neck as he kisses it, big strong arms and hands to pin you against the wall and a deep gruff voice telling you how much he wants you and what he's going to do to you.

- Amy. x

Bloody hell Amy!

*puts hand up* me too, me too!!!

Can I have one too please "
ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I also order a nicely defined broad chest with a bit of chest fur please!"

Good to see some appreciation of chest fur x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Eyes...smile ...ass if he's any ink or bald huge big plus and a soh not one of these guys that talk constantly about themselves. The ability to listen and a damn good kisser."
ERM .. Waving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes and smile first .

Personally like chest hair too

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Silly name Cock pics and a massive ego..... oh Like !! Lol

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"It's a certain kind of frame that does it for me and then the vibe is all important.

why do women always say stuff like that , yet they know deep down looks do not mean anything

For sex with strangers off the Internet looks mean quite a lot tbh."

Exactly!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Not looking for or asking for approval from women .

Someone who is capable of making own decisions ,

Someone who does not need to ask women what they like and accepts that they are mental and can change their mind over what they want every second

Someone who understands that everything that you do right for women is just messing it up . And making you look like a "sweet friend"

Confusing isn't it

Check

Check

Check

Fuck!

A penny just dropped on number 4 with me and a "sweet friend"

So any ideas how to turn it around?

When you are in the sweet friend zone it's pretty hard to get out of . And you have probably messed it up .

But practice on her anyway ,

1 don't be so available if she ask to do something say am busy , but offer an alternative , if she is busy say maybe next time.

2 criticise her look , oh my god, look at your hair I could never date someone with hair like that .

3 mention a party that you got an invite too, if she fishes for an invite , say sorry got a date.

Point 1 I bet you say yes I will do it

Point 2 I bet you have never said she looks rough

Point 3 I bet you normal ask her to accompany you

You need to be less available, and have other women interested in you . But like I said you have probably messed it up anyway

Learn from this mistake . And keep a few rules

Never be available , always be busy

Never talk for too long on phone , just long enough to make date , and then say , sorry someone at door etc ,

Always take longer to text back than they take to text you .

I have even said to women, wow playing hard to get is so sexy. Wish the other women were not so easy

If they are not interested , move on to the next"

This kind of purile game playing would turn me off in minutes, if I was not so polite Id tell a guy like that to go fuck himself lol! Nooo, if they want me they have to come get me! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not looking for or asking for approval from women .

Someone who is capable of making own decisions ,

Someone who does not need to ask women what they like and accepts that they are mental and can change their mind over what they want every second

Someone who understands that everything that you do right for women is just messing it up . And making you look like a "sweet friend"

Confusing isn't it

Check

Check

Check

Fuck!

A penny just dropped on number 4 with me and a "sweet friend"

So any ideas how to turn it around?

When you are in the sweet friend zone it's pretty hard to get out of . And you have probably messed it up .

But practice on her anyway ,

1 don't be so available if she ask to do something say am busy , but offer an alternative , if she is busy say maybe next time.

2 criticise her look , oh my god, look at your hair I could never date someone with hair like that .

3 mention a party that you got an invite too, if she fishes for an invite , say sorry got a date.

Point 1 I bet you say yes I will do it

Point 2 I bet you have never said she looks rough

Point 3 I bet you normal ask her to accompany you

You need to be less available, and have other women interested in you . But like I said you have probably messed it up anyway

Learn from this mistake . And keep a few rules

Never be available , always be busy

Never talk for too long on phone , just long enough to make date , and then say , sorry someone at door etc ,

Always take longer to text back than they take to text you .

I have even said to women, wow playing hard to get is so sexy. Wish the other women were not so easy

If they are not interested , move on to the next

This kind of purile game playing would turn me off in minutes, if I was not so polite Id tell a guy like that to go fuck himself lol! Nooo, if they want me they have to come get me! ! "

If it works for you, well done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I also order a nicely defined broad chest with a bit of chest fur please!"

*delivery fees may apply*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Never give your number to a woman? Point being you only take hers? You'll have to explain more mate, that sounds counter-productive but somehow I know you're right!

Reasons why not to give a woman your number , and take hers .

Chances are she will not call you , and is using at as a way to get rid of you .

When you ask for her number , she says give me yours , and you do straight away , means your too pmuch of a pansy to stand up to her , and a lady she is walking over you .

If you have the number, she is thinking why aren't you calling ,

She is thinking about the guy that is not calling or texting ,

When you ask for her number and she says I will take yours ,

Say , no you look like you will call me 100 times a day

No how do I know your not mental

I usually say I don't even know you and your expecting my number

Some girls do call, but I am talking about the type of girl here that get lots of blokes try it on , lots of numbers on pieces of paper . Gets asked out loads.. The good looking 10/10 for looks girl

She is used to everyone saying how wonderful she is , how sexy , how lucky they will be to date her . Etc etc .

I have actually come to the conclusion , that this only works on really good looking girls. And the less good looking ones find it insulting ,and won't give you a chance because they are way out of your league .

but most importantly . If they don't want to know . Move onto the next one , give up find the next . Every time you go into a shop flirt with the assistants , don't ask for their number to start with just practice .

If you think I like this girl and she has not replied to you say a week later

Do the hey missy , I like your playing hard to get , wish more girl were like you .

Just move on and move on .

These only work in real life, get the hang of chatting girls up and you will never need the Internet again

Remember there is a lot of sexy well dressed successful women out there who are just as single as the rest "

This seems like it was written for the days of landlines.

Most people these days stick number in one phone then missed call the other so you've both got each others number sorted in 2 minutes.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"Tall, well-built, a gorgeous smile, that naughty twinkle in the eye, a strong jaw-line with stubble that grazes your neck as he kisses it, big strong arms and hands to pin you against the wall and a deep gruff voice telling you how much he wants you and what he's going to do to you.

- Amy. x

Bloody hell Amy!

*puts hand up* me too, me too!!!

Can I have one too please

Can I also order a nicely defined broad chest with a bit of chest fur please!"

Oh, chest hair is a must!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man. Not as in anything make with a pulse!

A real man! Confident, knowing and sexy as hell!

Sara

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Never give your number to a woman? Point being you only take hers? You'll have to explain more mate, that sounds counter-productive but somehow I know you're right!

Reasons why not to give a woman your number , and take hers .

Chances are she will not call you , and is using at as a way to get rid of you .

When you ask for her number , she says give me yours , and you do straight away , means your too pmuch of a pansy to stand up to her , and a lady she is walking over you .

If you have the number, she is thinking why aren't you calling ,

She is thinking about the guy that is not calling or texting ,

When you ask for her number and she says I will take yours ,

Say , no you look like you will call me 100 times a day

No how do I know your not mental

I usually say I don't even know you and your expecting my number

Some girls do call, but I am talking about the type of girl here that get lots of blokes try it on , lots of numbers on pieces of paper . Gets asked out loads.. The good looking 10/10 for looks girl

She is used to everyone saying how wonderful she is , how sexy , how lucky they will be to date her . Etc etc .

I have actually come to the conclusion , that this only works on really good looking girls. And the less good looking ones find it insulting ,and won't give you a chance because they are way out of your league .

but most importantly . If they don't want to know . Move onto the next one , give up find the next . Every time you go into a shop flirt with the assistants , don't ask for their number to start with just practice .

If you think I like this girl and she has not replied to you say a week later

Do the hey missy , I like your playing hard to get , wish more girl were like you .

Just move on and move on .

These only work in real life, get the hang of chatting girls up and you will never need the Internet again

Remember there is a lot of sexy well dressed successful women out there who are just as single as the rest

This seems like it was written for the days of landlines.

Most people these days stick number in one phone then missed call the other so you've both got each others number sorted in 2 minutes.

"

I don't I take their number , and do not crank call them so they have mine . the missed call is a way of making sure the number is correct

When the woman takes your number you get her to call you so you have hers. As a way of checking that you have the right number for her

If they are the sort of woman that feels they need to give out a wrong number rather than just saying (your not my type) then that's not the sort of woman I want , better to find out now than later

Any woman that does not know her number is not the type of woman I want to know

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By *uncan LynnCouple
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

Eyes if facing you , a twinkle , a warm smile , nice mouth

A nice body

If facing away , a nice bum

Nice hands

Lynn

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting answers

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark


"

Never give your number to a woman? Point being you only take hers? You'll have to explain more mate, that sounds counter-productive but somehow I know you're right!

Reasons why not to give a woman your number , and take hers .

Chances are she will not call you , and is using at as a way to get rid of you .

When you ask for her number , she says give me yours , and you do straight away , means your too pmuch of a pansy to stand up to her , and a lady she is walking over you .

If you have the number, she is thinking why aren't you calling ,

She is thinking about the guy that is not calling or texting ,

When you ask for her number and she says I will take yours ,

Say , no you look like you will call me 100 times a day

No how do I know your not mental

I usually say I don't even know you and your expecting my number

Some girls do call, but I am talking about the type of girl here that get lots of blokes try it on , lots of numbers on pieces of paper . Gets asked out loads.. The good looking 10/10 for looks girl

She is used to everyone saying how wonderful she is , how sexy , how lucky they will be to date her . Etc etc .

I have actually come to the conclusion , that this only works on really good looking girls. And the less good looking ones find it insulting ,and won't give you a chance because they are way out of your league .

but most importantly . If they don't want to know . Move onto the next one , give up find the next . Every time you go into a shop flirt with the assistants , don't ask for their number to start with just practice .

If you think I like this girl and she has not replied to you say a week later

Do the hey missy , I like your playing hard to get , wish more girl were like you .

Just move on and move on .

These only work in real life, get the hang of chatting girls up and you will never need the Internet again

Remember there is a lot of sexy well dressed successful women out there who are just as single as the rest "

That exactly what I mean, this is pub and club banter that I fail miserably at! Wouldn't be trying it on a date! Cheers man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have absolutely no idea how to chat a woman up.

Do women actually like being chatted up?

Besides it's not the initial chatting up its the, what happens if it works and she actually wants to talk.

That's when it would go pear shaped, what do women like to talk about?

I know you should try to get them talking about themselves but isn't that a bit cliché?

Doesn't really matter tbh as I have my beautiful Jools.

I just wonder should I ever find myself single again.

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By *uncan LynnCouple
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

Why interesting

It's all in the look before any words are spoken x

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By *eLuv2PlayCouple
over a year ago

Alpena

Having sampled very thin to average to well muscled to heavy set men, I don't have a favorite male physique.

The men I've continued to be drawn to, are the ones with sexy minds, naughty eyes and very masculine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So far really liking that non have insisted on six pack and ripped.

I can do tall,board shoulders, muscular back and neck, string arm's and legs, stubble.

Fall down in the loads of hair dept but I have a grey Jason Statham thing going on, piercing hazel eye's, good sense of humour.

Just not ripped and definitely not waxed anywhere.

I am a man.

Jools love's snuggling upto my chest. Makes her feel safe apparently. "

She has taste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really couldn't say, as I find the men I like attractive for very different reasons. I couldn't limit myself to just one or two types or characteristics. I guess I'm a greedy creature

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over a year ago


"

I don't I take their number , and do not crank call them so they have mine . the missed call is a way of making sure the number is correct

When the woman takes your number you get her to call you so you have hers. As a way of checking that you have the right number for her

If they are the sort of woman that feels they need to give out a wrong number rather than just saying (your not my type) then that's not the sort of woman I want , better to find out now than later

Any woman that does not know her number is not the type of woman I want to know

"

having their phone number memorized is one of your selection criteria for knowing another person.

Impressive level of mentalness there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

eyes smile and i adore a guy that can make me laugh im a sucker for a witty guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physically.. Op what is this thing you mention? Do not be shy or hold back now.

Physicall attraction. For me the whole package. Remembering though we all have imperfections. What we find attraction for is not same as one to the next.

Physically it is what appeals to our eyes and the brain interprets this.

So I see cocks.. No not an attraction. Besides lots talk from it for me its a turn off.

Whole package.

Nice body

Persona...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tall seems to be a favourite but how tall?

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"Tall seems to be a favourite but how tall? "

I like 6'+ but so long as they're taller than me (5'7) I'm usually happy...

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's height, shoulders, chest hair, nice smile, thick solid thighs and a shapely bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it's height, shoulders, chest hair, nice smile, thick solid thighs and a shapely bum "
you called ?

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