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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Probably a question for singles rather than couples for obvious reasons. But open to all.

Who do you talk to and/ or ask advice about your sex activities/ swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Google is my friend

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

All sorts of people but I'm a chatterbox.

When I first started out I asked questions on the forums... in those days there was no such thing as a stupid question and people were happy to help and share their experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my best mate (also swinger) a very nice guy i meet up with who's been doing this a while and my mum lol she knows i am on here so i can ask her anything

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Any fucker who'll listen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The local Catholic priest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All sorts of people but I'm a chatterbox.

When I first started out I asked questions on the forums... in those days there was no such thing as a stupid question and people were happy to help and share their experiences.

"

When we first joined fab, we asked the forum a serious question...we got 7 answers, none of which were very helpful.

-Courtney

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

People in the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Away from here or here?

Apart from my parents everyone knows about my swinging, I never ask for advice from anyone because no one understands it, they all think 'I'm irresponsible' 'playing with fire' so they listen and not say a word now!! Well actually I have two guy friends I've known since school and they are both into the scene, one gives me tips the other just says 'I'm a free wank' yeah thanks for that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the voices in my head....

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Other than the BF I have a couple of good Fab friends I can talk about pretty much anything sexual with and vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people on here and a couple who I used to meet and that's about it. Except for an old school friend who loves abroad and she is naughtier than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fwb. We talk about anything and everything.

Or my reserve fwb.

Got it covered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting advice on here, especially for men, is fraught with minefields

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"All sorts of people but I'm a chatterbox.

When I first started out I asked questions on the forums... in those days there was no such thing as a stupid question and people were happy to help and share their experiences.

When we first joined fab, we asked the forum a serious question...we got 7 answers, none of which were very helpful.

-Courtney"

Yeah I started out on a much more forgiving little site and it felt like we were a bit of a family which was lovely. Everyone looked out for each other. It was way smaller and pretty friendly. There weren't nearly so many stupid questions as there are here though.

What was your question?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Getting advice on here, especially for men, is fraught with minefields "

Yes, I suffered clothes pegs on my cock (photo on request) due to an evil minded advice thread and innocent confusion about pegging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting advice on here, especially for men, is fraught with minefields

Yes, I suffered clothes pegs on my cock (photo on request) due to an evil minded advice thread and innocent confusion about pegging "

Always someone arsing around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a couple of Women I talk to on here, Offering and taking advise, It's lucky really as I don't talk to anyone in the real world about sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We asked for practical advice about the lifestyle on the forums since that is where many of the experienced players. However we mostly go 1 or two word answers.

We then just direct messaged people. All the returns were very good, clear and practical advice. Some we said thankyou too, others we arranged to meet.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Getting advice on here, especially for men, is fraught with minefields

Yes, I suffered clothes pegs on my cock (photo on request) due to an evil minded advice thread and innocent confusion about pegging

Always someone arsing around "

I was lured in by advice pretence. It was a cruel charade, advise given purely to dismay, disrupt and deny an honest fellows' journey through the sexual jungle.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

My imaginary friend.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I talk to a brick wall. Get more out of it than I do trying to talk to people on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only each other to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The friends I have made here that also translate to real life x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My imaginary friend..... "
me and mine are arguing

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting advice on here, especially for men, is fraught with minefields

Yes, I suffered clothes pegs on my cock (photo on request) due to an evil minded advice thread and innocent confusion about pegging

Always someone arsing around

I was lured in by advice pretence. It was a cruel charade, advise given purely to dismay, disrupt and deny an honest fellows' journey through the sexual jungle. "

The Siren's call lured you into deep waters, then hung you out to dry. A sad, precautionary tale to unsuspecting sexual sojourners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive asked a couple of questions on here. Mainly about words I wasn't sure the meaning of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums unless i thinnk there will be... dum dum dum JUDGEMENT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly myself.

Occasionally strangers on the bus.

Hitch hikers.

My cat.

God.

The woman that hands out my meds.

The nurse that wipes the drool off my chin.

People who post questions on the forum.

Other than that, no one.

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By *rant4Man
over a year ago

South Wales & London

The tree at the bottom of my garden is a really good listner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forums unless i thinnk there will be... dum dum dum JUDGEMENT "

So every question then

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I've asked a couple of questions on here, and I talk to my friends who all know we're on here

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Getting advice on here, especially for men, is fraught with minefields

Yes, I suffered clothes pegs on my cock (photo on request) due to an evil minded advice thread and innocent confusion about pegging

Always someone arsing around

I was lured in by advice pretence. It was a cruel charade, advise given purely to dismay, disrupt and deny an honest fellows' journey through the sexual jungle.

The Siren's call lured you into deep waters, then hung you out to dry. A sad, precautionary tale to unsuspecting sexual sojourners "

Tis true...to all men, come to arms, gather thy wits whilst you may! Deny the soothsayers lurid suggestions and knoweth this - that truly, that better than a free lunch meet, will be, in the sadness of time, be yet another lonely, frantic wank in the toilet

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Just chat on here really, not sure where else I'd chat about it to be honest.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"All sorts of people but I'm a chatterbox.

When I first started out I asked questions on the forums... in those days there was no such thing as a stupid question and people were happy to help and share their experiences.

When we first joined fab, we asked the forum a serious question...we got 7 answers, none of which were very helpful.

-Courtney"

I'm intrigued Courtney, what was your question? Maybe we'll do a better job of it now (not holding on to much faith though).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting advice on here, especially for men, is fraught with minefields

Yes, I suffered clothes pegs on my cock (photo on request) due to an evil minded advice thread and innocent confusion about pegging

Always someone arsing around

I was lured in by advice pretence. It was a cruel charade, advise given purely to dismay, disrupt and deny an honest fellows' journey through the sexual jungle.

The Siren's call lured you into deep waters, then hung you out to dry. A sad, precautionary tale to unsuspecting sexual sojourners

Tis true...to all men, come to arms, gather thy wits whilst you may! Deny the soothsayers lurid suggestions and knoweth this - that truly, that better than a free lunch meet, will be, in the sadness of time, be yet another lonely, frantic wank in the toilet "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forums unless i thinnk there will be... dum dum dum JUDGEMENT

So every question then "

Pmsl usually i only ask questions like whats a cock? so its not too bad

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

ive asked a couple of questions on here..im still pretty shy about doing those type of posts though,..i have a couple of people who ive met that i can bounce off, if necessary..

mainly i work it out for myself though, or read/ watch/observe...ask straight questions of people. use my common sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forums unless i thinnk there will be... dum dum dum JUDGEMENT

So every question then

Pmsl usually i only ask questions like whats a cock? so its not too bad "

Male equivalent of a hen

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I talk to other swingers about swinging.I don't ask for advice but get it sometimes anyway...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Probably a question for singles rather than couples for obvious reasons. But open to all.

Who do you talk to and/ or ask advice about your sex activities/ swinging?"

I once asked if I had a big cock and almost everyone said no, so I wouldn't trust all you read on the Internet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I talk to other swingers about swinging.I don't ask for advice but get it sometimes anyway... "

Haha yeah. Advice is common, welcome or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably a question for singles rather than couples for obvious reasons. But open to all.

Who do you talk to and/ or ask advice about your sex activities/ swinging?

I once asked if I had a big cock and almost everyone said no, so I wouldn't trust all you read on the Internet. "

Look pretty big in those shorts but you can never quite tell until giving deep throat.

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I chat to fab friends male and female. They tend to put things into perspective and tell me when I'm acting like an arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Google. No one on here to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab friends. Or Google

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

No one really apart from on here. Received some really good advice through these forums. This has really helped me be more confident on here and to promote myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All sorts of people but I'm a chatterbox.

When I first started out I asked questions on the forums... in those days there was no such thing as a stupid question and people were happy to help and share their experiences.

When we first joined fab, we asked the forum a serious question...we got 7 answers, none of which were very helpful.

-Courtney

Yeah I started out on a much more forgiving little site and it felt like we were a bit of a family which was lovely. Everyone looked out for each other. It was way smaller and pretty friendly. There weren't nearly so many stupid questions as there are here though.

What was your question? "

Haha. It wasn't anything that interesting. We were a soft swap couple at the time and wanted to know more from couples who did full swap...we were trying to make up our minds.

Instead, we went and looked at blogs and other forums that were much more helpful.

Its a bit sad that fab can't help a little more in that way, but I get now that a lot comes from knowing the people on the forum. Its easier to see where people are coming from when you know them and I get much more out of the forums now.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All sorts of people but I'm a chatterbox.

When I first started out I asked questions on the forums... in those days there was no such thing as a stupid question and people were happy to help and share their experiences.

When we first joined fab, we asked the forum a serious question...we got 7 answers, none of which were very helpful.

-Courtney

I'm intrigued Courtney, what was your question? Maybe we'll do a better job of it now (not holding on to much faith though)."

Oh! Just saw this. Well, as I said to DG, it isn't really something I need answered anymore

Would have been nice at the time, though

-Courtney

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"My imaginary friend..... me and mine are arguing "

Nice big ball Tosh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My imaginary friend..... me and mine are arguing

Nice big ball Tosh "
ooo its between your legs now. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my psychiatrist

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"My imaginary friend..... me and mine are arguing

Nice big ball Tosh ooo its between your legs now. xx "

Can't get rid of the damn thing.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My imaginary friend..... me and mine are arguing

Nice big ball Tosh ooo its between your legs now. xx

Can't get rid of the damn thing..... "
watch yer don't lose it

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"My imaginary friend..... me and mine are arguing

Nice big ball Tosh ooo its between your legs now. xx

Can't get rid of the damn thing..... watch yer don't lose it "

Nah, can find it in the dark easy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My imaginary friend..... me and mine are arguing

Nice big ball Tosh ooo its between your legs now. xx

Can't get rid of the damn thing..... watch yer don't lose it

Nah, can find it in the dark easy.... "
ah well yer have met me. You have had bigger balls than that between yer legs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very good you two ball handlers

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"The friends I have made here that also translate to real life x"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"My imaginary friend..... me and mine are arguing "

Make it up, yours just phoned mine sobbing.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"My imaginary friend..... me and mine are arguing

Nice big ball Tosh ooo its between your legs now. xx

Can't get rid of the damn thing..... watch yer don't lose it

Nah, can find it in the dark easy.... ah well yer have met me. You have had bigger balls than that between yer legs "

Yeah they did swell up a bit that time didn't they....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It really is ridiculous in some ways when people come on here asking for honest, sage advice and just get the piss ripped out of them for having a herb preference.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I don't think I've ever asked anyone advice on sex??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was talking to someone, who got completely the wrong end of the stick about something totally unrelated, and then stopped talking to me.

Lessons learned, don't start threads and don't talk to anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My imaginary friend..... me and mine are arguing

Make it up, yours just phoned mine sobbing."
mine forgot my birthday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably a question for singles rather than couples for obvious reasons. But open to all.

Who do you talk to and/ or ask advice about your sex activities/ swinging?"
I don't ask for advice scarlet but can give you some if you would like xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mi uncle kev he knows everything..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"My imaginary friend..... me and mine are arguing

Make it up, yours just phoned mine sobbing. mine forgot my birthday "

Kick him out, it'll never work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably a question for singles rather than couples for obvious reasons. But open to all.

Who do you talk to and/ or ask advice about your sex activities/ swinging?"

Nobody

It's not something I talk about with others I like to keep it private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It really is ridiculous in some ways when people come on here asking for honest, sage advice and just get the piss ripped out of them for having a herb preference. "

pmsl

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I don't tell any friends i am on here so enjoy the conversations with people I chat to about the whole thing...

The forums can also be illuminating but also sometimes need to out and take some stuff with a pinch of salt

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By *emini1637Woman
over a year ago

Warwickshire

I've made some nice friends on forums and a couple of work friends, we can talk to each other about anything and I'm even dragging them to a club social soon!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Probably a question for singles rather than couples for obvious reasons. But open to all.

Who do you talk to and/ or ask advice about your sex activities/ swinging?I don't ask for advice scarlet but can give you some if you would like xx "

Go on then.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I innocently posted about the Land of Pound and people commented that they sometimes sell bullets. I thought they meant ammunition.

A mod from Rugby sent me a message and set me straight.

I had hoped this would help.

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/418370

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

My real life best friends know what I get up to and are happy for me.

I talk to some male friends on here and I have made female friend on here who has advised and helped me no end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I innocently posted about the Land of Pound and people commented that they sometimes sell bullets. I thought they meant ammunition.

A mod from Rugby sent me a message and set me straight.

I had hoped this would help.

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/418370"

Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It really is ridiculous in some ways when people come on here asking for honest, sage advice and just get the piss ripped out of them for having a herb preference. "

Don't worry Steve, thyme is a great healer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't ask for sexual advice. I like the trial and error method. I have a friend who I met away from Fab,who is also on here too,who I talk about about sexual stuff amongst others things. We have recommended men to each other too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no one to talk to, I'm just a poor boy nobody loves me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no one to talk to, I'm just a poor boy nobody loves me."

He's just a poor boy from a poor family...spare him his life from this monstrosity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no one to talk to, I'm just a poor boy nobody loves me.

He's just a poor boy from a poor family...spare him his life from this monstrosity "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Close family,the ones who won't judge me for being promiscuous. But i don't talk about sex much tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hookers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably a question for singles rather than couples for obvious reasons. But open to all.

Who do you talk to and/ or ask advice about your sex activities/ swinging?I don't ask for advice scarlet but can give you some if you would like xx

Go on then."
don't talk to strange men

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I may speak to 1 or 2 ex swingers who used to play but don't any more.....

But tbh I make my own mind up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably a question for singles rather than couples for obvious reasons. But open to all.

Who do you talk to and/ or ask advice about your sex activities/ swinging?"

I learn from porn, like every other man, obviously!

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Like to talk to other Ladies like me who have the same life style and none of there friends know like mine its good to talk about things Jane

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By *ighting17thMan
over a year ago

Bodmin


"Probably a question for singles rather than couples for obvious reasons. But open to all.

Who do you talk to and/ or ask advice about your sex activities/ swinging?"

I talk to people on here. I found them very helpful and, for the most part, very sincere x

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