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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Someone said to me that she thinks women choose their first husbands as a bull: good reproductive potential, family men, good genes, breadwinners etc. However, the second husbands are picked for passion.

I think she has a point, what do you think?

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

I think, statistically, most women still choose their first husband for life.

Sorry to be a tad boring.

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my ex-wife chose me because she thought she could control every aspect of my life and have complete freedom to belittle me in public.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I've not had either. Did a 22 year stretch with a bastard though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crikey no on both points.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never want kids and I have my own job. My first, and only to-date, husband was chosen for love and passion....and a whole host of other reasons that have nothing to do with family potential, reproduction, or breadwinning.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One husband was enough....ex now....will not be doing anything silly again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never want kids and I have my own job. My first, and only to-date, husband was chosen for love and passion....and a whole host of other reasons that have nothing to do with family potential, reproduction, or breadwinning.

-Courtney"

"Only to-date"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my husband when I was 13,the last thing on my mind was breeding genes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never want kids and I have my own job. My first, and only to-date, husband was chosen for love and passion....and a whole host of other reasons that have nothing to do with family potential, reproduction, or breadwinning.

-Courtney

"Only to-date" "

Can't have him getting too comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure, asking for evidence of reproductive potential before marriage must have come along since I got married. Unless you can now deduce sperm counts just by looking at someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not sure, asking for evidence of reproductive potential before marriage must have come along since I got married. Unless you can now deduce sperm counts just by looking at someone. "

Potent sperm has a much more full bodied taste apparently...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One husband was enough....ex now....will not be doing anything silly again."

I married steel 17 years ago because he was a damn good fuck and haven't looked back since . I know a few will jump on this as we are swinging but why have one when you can have many more

Saffie

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

My ex husband was a panic buy as I thought I was gonna get left on the shelf. While it wasn't all bad I wish now id stayed on the shelf it's not so bad up here after all!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not sure, asking for evidence of reproductive potential before marriage must have come along since I got married. Unless you can now deduce sperm counts just by looking at someone.

Potent sperm has a much more full bodied taste apparently... "

Good health is a often considered (by evolutionary biologists) as an indicator of good reproductive potential.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chose mine because he has everything. I only intend to have the one husband.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I chose mine because he has everything. I only intend to have the one husband. "

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

How do they choose their third?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think my ex-wife chose me because she thought she could control every aspect of my life and have complete freedom to belittle me in public."
sounds just like my ex wife,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha love it.

Both my husband's were ejits!

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"I chose mine because he has everything. I only intend to have the one husband. "

I chose my wife because she was good at mixing concrete, and she put up with my humour. I couldn't afford a second!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think, statistically, most women still choose their first husband for life.

Sorry to be a tad boring.

Mr ddc"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw a guy in a local MacDonald a few weeks ago now was shocked how much he looked like Ian Huntley I attully nearly went up to him n asked if anyone else had thought this n it left me wondering what it would be like if you looked like a famous killer. Would it be detrimental to your life.....

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I think, statistically, most women still choose their first husband for life.

Sorry to be a tad boring.

Mr ddc"

Agree. Didn't think there'd be a husband number two!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I saw a guy in a local MacDonald a few weeks ago now was shocked how much he looked like Ian Huntley I attully nearly went up to him n asked if anyone else had thought this n it left me wondering what it would be like if you looked like a famous killer. Would it be detrimental to your life....."

Was that husband no1 or husband no 2?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I saw a guy in a local MacDonald a few weeks ago now was shocked how much he looked like Ian Huntley I attully nearly went up to him n asked if anyone else had thought this n it left me wondering what it would be like if you looked like a famous killer. Would it be detrimental to your life.....

Was that husband no1 or husband no 2? "

Hahaha nither I'm husbandless n staying that way!

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Women choose husbands who have money.

The first one so she can snaffle his. The second so he won't try to snaffle hers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I chose mine because he has everything. I only intend to have the one husband. "

That was my intent too.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"Women choose husbands who have money.

The first one so she can snaffle his. The second so he won't try to snaffle hers."

So wrong!!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Women choose husbands who have money.

The first one so she can snaffle his. The second so he won't try to snaffle hers."

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"I chose mine because he has everything. I only intend to have the one husband.

That was my intent too. "

And mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women choose husbands who have money.

The first one so she can snaffle his. The second so he won't try to snaffle hers."

Is that where I went wrong?

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone said to me that she thinks women choose their first husbands as a bull: good reproductive potential, family men, good genes, breadwinners etc. However, the second husbands are picked for passion.

I think she has a point, what do you think?"

I don't know if as Ginger was in a long term relationship before we met if this counts because when we do tie the knot will be her first husband and would never call myself a bull

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By *amslam1000Man
over a year ago

willenhall


"I think my ex-wife chose me because she thought she could control every aspect of my life and have complete freedom to belittle me in public. sounds just like my ex wife,"

and mine plus she could spend all my wages +10% now 4 years later i end the month with a little left over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody glad Iv never been married now !

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I always go for passion!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hahaha love it.

Both my husband's were ejits! "

???

What's an ejit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think my ex-wife chose me because she thought she could control every aspect of my life and have complete freedom to belittle me in public. sounds just like my ex wife,

and mine plus she could spend all my wages +10% now 4 years later i end the month with a little left over"

Why didn't you just marry women who had their own careers then? I wouldn't have ever married anyone who would be freeloading off me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think my ex-wife chose me because she thought she could control every aspect of my life and have complete freedom to belittle me in public. sounds just like my ex wife,

and mine plus she could spend all my wages +10% now 4 years later i end the month with a little left over

Why didn't you just marry women who had their own careers then? I wouldn't have ever married anyone who would be freeloading off me. "

On,y had one and was widowed 18 years ago and no one has ever got even close since , so there's no chance of husband no2.... Not even sure I'd even live with anyone again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine choose me for life been through difficult times together and stuck together like glue,what don't kill you makes you stronger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting for the first...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahaha love it.

Both my husband's were ejits!

???

What's an ejit?"

Eejit.. Aka idiot

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"I chose mine because he has everything. I only intend to have the one husband.

I chose my wife because she was good at mixing concrete, and she put up with my humour. I couldn't afford a second!

"

Ithink you mean 'prepared to' rather than 'good at' regarding the concrete mixer. I was very pleased to get it after mixing by hand.

Surely we marry someone because we love them, have shared interests, and want similar things from life.

Just me?

Mrs DDC

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