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By *ark10102020 OP   Man
over a year ago

catterick

i love to have a meet with a.

f

ff

mf

but no one ever seens to bite the bate any one no why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Do you want comments on your profile?

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By *est Wales WifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Carmarthen

Everyone told you why in your virtually identical post yesterday.

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

my heart is numb, has no feeling

so while im still healing

just try and have a little paaaaaattience

hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You had plenty of advice yesterday. Act on that......continual asking would suggest to people that you want to be spoon fed your way through to a meet.

You've been pointed in the right directions, now it's up to you to work it out for yourself.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'm just read your yesterday's thread so i won't bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just gonna throw it out there but maybe you are coming across abit desperate by having more meet ads on your profile than actual profile text.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I predict an UNLOS coming soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I predict an UNLOS coming soon."

MysticCracken has spoken

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

Untick some of your likes on your profile

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"i love to have a meet with a.

f

ff

mf

but no one ever seens to bite the bate any one no why

"

What sort of 'bate' are you offering? Does it involve cake?

Or is it more the 'master' variety...

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For someone in the army (sigh, another one) I would ask for basic English lesssons, then correct all of your spelling mistakes, write a decent profile without sounding desperate, and then possibly you may get somewhere.

UNLOS seems the way forward though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How weird. We are literally fucking morning noon and night most weekends. No idea OP sorry.

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"i love to have a meet with a.

f

ff

mf

but no one ever seens to bite the bate any one no why

"

bite the bate ....sorry we don't respond to a preconstructed enticer, you sound like you are very desperate, that will put many people off ....oh and it's spelt Bait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bite the bate ....sorry we don't respond to a preconstructed enticer, you sound like you are very desperate, that will put many people off ....oh and it's spelt Bait "

Another one, it's Know not no!

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By *ark10102020 OP   Man
over a year ago

catterick

yer i do plz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I want doesn't get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Desperation.. Not a nice trait!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta love that little green arrow!

Yep sorry mate, but you've posted lots of threads on here asking for help.

I think it's time you put the effort and thought in, to sort a meet for your self!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol"

This

...and googly eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi OP,

I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and tell you what you can do improve and possibly get more meets.

Here is some advice. Take what you want, leave what you want.

Pictures: Try to have some good pictures with good variety in your public gallery. A face (if you can), a full body shot, and a bum pic usually go over well. You can keep a dick pic in private for those women who like to see that before meeting you. You have a number of face pis, and that is great, but a good body shot is pretty important on here.

Text: The text should reflect you and what you are looking for, along with what you can offer to a potential meet. Try to show your personality. A bit of fun and wit is often appreciated. Make it long enough to say something, but short enough that it will likely be read. Just a blank statement that your spelling is bad is pretty useless as far as telling me why I should meet you. I don't want to have to ask you about you. Put something on your profile and then the conversation can go from there.

If you are really interested in the scene and want a better chance of meeting people, try going to some socials and clubs. They are a great opportunity to meet people without relying just on your profile. Its up to you.

Messages: Don't use the scatter-gun approach to messages. I would recommend choosing a few people that you really like the look of and sending them each a tailored message. It does not have to be war and peace, but it should be friendly and directed at them specifically for the best results. If you can attach a face pic that is a bonus.

I hope this helps. Give it some time and effort and see how you get on.

-Courtney

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