FabSwingers.com forum: How many unopened messages you got

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Big fat zero

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Lots x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

113

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

396 at the moment I usually have more but I did a mass delete about a week ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"4"
i read then either answer or delete asap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

455. I've deleted loads too. If they're not messages hoping Norwich beat Liverpool then I'm not interested

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By *ark10102020Man
over a year ago

catterick

lots and lots no one wants to talk to me and i dont no why i am a lonely man in need of so loving

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

"113"

I only sent you 112

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"396 at the moment I usually have more but I did a mass delete about a week ago "

I'll not bother messaging you then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"455. I've deleted loads too. If they're not messages hoping Norwich beat Liverpool then I'm not interested

Kin ell. Surprised mine get through lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"396 at the moment I usually have more but I did a mass delete about a week ago

I'll not bother messaging you then lol"

I do read some but I always look at profiles first if they are from people I've clearly stated I am not looking for, or they have public pics that don't take my fancy then I don't even bother opening the mail

No point I already know I'm not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not one.i never get messages ever,im about to cry!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I logged onto 3 unread messages earlier

Today was a good day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only have 49 at the moment. Tomorrow will be busy in answering them.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"396 at the moment I usually have more but I did a mass delete about a week ago

I'll not bother messaging you then lol

No point I already know I'm not interested

Ouch! Applying cold Water to my burn!

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick

6 cause I delete anytime I'm on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

19, couple are from people i'm already chatting to but most of them i'm about to delete.

I'm pretty good at keeping on top of my inbox, deleting intruders as i chat, and gone back to blocking a lot of people (don't care if that breaks my blocklist again, it's happening every week anyway), the pesterers are no more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Love it when that little yellow square flashes up! Someone mail me

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

4 ..sorry, its late, and im busy on other threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any but think its just because my sister Pandora keeps hiding them in her box.

And I certainly wouldnt want to open that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 mmm should i take a look ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 now.

Probably reply to them tomorrow or forget.

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

Zero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1009 lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1009 lol xxx"

Impressive lol. Most will say nice tits lol

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By *ighting17thMan
over a year ago

Bodmin

"1009 lol xxx"

Lol! Take a while to work through that little lot!

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think

0 - no-one messages me anymore!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One, saved with party details, for next Saturday.

I like to keep a tidy box,

don't want it busting out everywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being online in the twilight hours, makes them rise like bats...1...2....3.........4.........5......fuck off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

69 I'm not joking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 my box is kept tidy too

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By *ighting17thMan
over a year ago

Bodmin

"0 - no-one messages me anymore!!

I'll write if you like. Could do with the company lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"0 - no-one messages me anymore!!

Just read your profile. Surely they are following your wishes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"69 I'm not joking!"

So tempted just to annoy your ocd lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single man, not too many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

43 today all from the same woman.

I'm just deciding whether to meet her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1 my box is kept tidy too

It is a tidy box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None I'm a good girl I opened them all

just didn't answer many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"43 today all from the same woman.

I'm just deciding whether to meet her

I exaggerated the numbers somewhat for artistic licence.

I have 0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"43 today all from the same woman.

I'm just deciding whether to meet her

I exaggerated the numbers somewhat for artistic licence.

I have 0

Lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm getting on top of it, fifty something - they spawn. My friends always get replied to as soon as I can/notice - they're lovely.

I have no service or reply guarantees for others.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

None, the real question is how many unread messages have we got in our outbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

14.. Did have 70 but I read them all not so long ago

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By *otpussieCouple
over a year ago

city centre

200 don't know how to start with Dem ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"200 don't know how to start with Dem ?? "
I have zero good morning all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"200 don't know how to start with Dem ?? "
well an easy way to start would be if they are not within say a 100mile radius of where you live and if they have no pic let's face it no pic why? And distance you aren't gonna meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read them all then mark them as unread so everytime I log in I feel loved !

So approximatively 122

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

144 and counting lol

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

One. Question is shall I open it now, or save it for later and go back to sleep....

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

"One. Question is shall I open it now, or save it for later and go back to sleep...."

Go on open it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero. We read all of the 1 or 2 we get per day.

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

"One. Question is shall I open it now, or save it for later and go back to sleep....

Go on open it lol "

But then he'll know I've seen it and I'll have to reply...snd I've only got two hours before I have to get up for work....oh the dilemma!

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By *CoastFunMan
over a year ago

Southampron

"I logged onto 3 unread messages earlier

Today was a good day "

3?! This is unheard of for us single men

2's my most when I've logged on, now I've a target to try and achieve. I'll only count messages from women though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Big fat zero

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me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"0 - no-one messages me anymore!!

Just read your profile. Surely they are following your wishes?"

Don't be silly. It couldn't possibly be the answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

108

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two however both are from guys so it's the standard. Thank you for your message. I'm a not seeking to meet with another man as this isn't my thing. Good luck .

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None I always open and reply to mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None now...tumble city

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"4 ..sorry, its late, and im busy on other threads

None!! Suzy love your new pic have just fabbed it mmm very sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 90 at the minute

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

1013

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

0 lol only because I opened them yesterday

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"1013"

Check again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None, but strangely my outbox is full of unopened messages...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This subject makes me laugh!

How difficult is it to open messages - it's not as "time consuming" as a lot of women make out!

Lets say that 95% of the messages say "hi how are you wanna meet "

How long does it take to read and delete?

Or not even read - just delete it and stop attention seeking that "I simply don't have time to read ALL my messages"

Really?

I'm a single female and I also get a lot of messages but I always somehow manage FFS!

Get over yourselves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This subject makes me laugh!

How difficult is it to open messages - it's not as "time consuming" as a lot of women make out!

Lets say that 95% of the messages say "hi how are you wanna meet "

How long does it take to read and delete?

Or not even read - just delete it and stop attention seeking that "I simply don't have time to read ALL my messages"

Really?

I'm a single female and I also get a lot of messages but I always somehow manage FFS!

Get over yourselves!

It's an ego thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not one person has said they don't have time to read their messages, they have just said how many messages they have got so I'm not sure the reason for your rant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's an ego thing

Exactly - yawn!

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not one person has said they don't have time to read their messages, they have just said how many messages they have got so I'm not sure the reason for your rant.

"
Penelope he's not ranting can I come into your pitstop? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not one person has said they don't have time to read their messages, they have just said how many messages they have got so I'm not sure the reason for your rant.

I'm in a ranty mood ....

And come on - it is like that lets be honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 38. I use my mobile most of the time so I can't go to unread messages like you can on a pc. They will all be replies of ok,thanks for at least replying to me,or parts of a conversation I was having and opened a later message,the unopened ones show on the thread. When you're chatting to someone it's easy for unopened messages to fall off the first page. I look at them when I go on the desktop site.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

1017

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not one person has said they don't have time to read their messages, they have just said how many messages they have got so I'm not sure the reason for your rant.

I'm in a ranty mood ....

And come on - it is like that lets be honest!

I'm going through my messages now, saying I'm not interested in some, chatting to others which then gets a reply so the messages increase. I like the messages from people who have gone unlos because they're easy to deal with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This subject makes me laugh!

How difficult is it to open messages - it's not as "time consuming" as a lot of women make out!

Lets say that 95% of the messages say "hi how are you wanna meet "

How long does it take to read and delete?

Or not even read - just delete it and stop attention seeking that "I simply don't have time to read ALL my messages"

Really?

I'm a single female and I also get a lot of messages but I always somehow manage FFS!

Get over yourselves!

I read and reply to all first messages,even fancy a fuck ones. If I'm chatting to a sexy man on here the last thing I'm worried about is opening a message that says ok. It can wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't been on much the last 2 days so not had chance. Hidden my pics so hopefully won't get loads more messages so I can go through these ones.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I don't have any unread messages. I tend to reply as they come in. I'm a reply to all sort. I used to just say a simple 'no thanks x' but lately I've taken to saying 'thanks but I'm not meeting at the moment. Have fun x' and I've not had one stroppy reply. I'm sticking with that forever.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

3427

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None, I read them, respond to them, or not, and then delete them.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

It would be net resting to see what this looks like when you turn it around...... Into many 'sent unread' do you have pin your sent messages - guys will have loads, fees/couples very few I suspect.

I had two in my inbox today - feeling honoured

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Clearly I'm now taking the piss! Mine are mostly from when I put a new photo up,as I use my phone it only saves so many before they fall of the page,so I don't get a chance to answer them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

33.... was a lot more but they seem to be falling off now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clearly I'm now taking the piss! Mine are mostly from when I put a new photo up,as I use my phone it only saves so many before they fall of the page,so I don't get a chance to answer them. "

I wish Fab did sound effects. A crashing noise as they fall off the page. A Family Fortunes style 'na naaaa' noise when we send a "no thanks" reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None. I get very few "speculative " messages. Those I do receive I answer fairly quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clearly I'm now taking the piss! Mine are mostly from when I put a new photo up,as I use my phone it only saves so many before they fall of the page,so I don't get a chance to answer them.

I wish Fab did sound effects. A crashing noise as they fall off the page. A Family Fortunes style 'na naaaa' noise when we send a "no thanks" reply.

Oh god yes!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clearly I'm now taking the piss! Mine are mostly from when I put a new photo up,as I use my phone it only saves so many before they fall of the page,so I don't get a chance to answer them. "
you didn't say how many but as I messaged you a week ago and you didn't reply to me I must be one of the fall off the pagers

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

None....we open and answer all of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have any unread messages. I tend to reply as they come in. I'm a reply to all sort. I used to just say a simple 'no thanks x' but lately I've taken to saying 'thanks but I'm not meeting at the moment. Have fun x' and I've not had one stroppy reply. I'm sticking with that forever.

I answer them straight away too if im online. Dont get enough of them to save them till later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I posted a meet when I first joined and got 1300 replies. I gave up in the end and just mass deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

65.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Clearly I'm now taking the piss! Mine are mostly from when I put a new photo up,as I use my phone it only saves so many before they fall of the page,so I don't get a chance to answer them. you didn't say how many but as I messaged you a week ago and you didn't reply to me I must be one of the fall off the pagers

See further up...Apologies,let me rub that bump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None....

I open them all. And reply to most

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Recieved messages from others 0 as I read and reply.

Sent messages well 50% of them don't get read or read and no reply or deleted with no reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We only have 49 at the moment. Tomorrow will be busy in answering them.

-Courtney"

I'll wait a while before I send you one then guys!

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By *errible_TwoCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Woke up to 3 but we have had more this morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think this shows the level of competition men have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

none here too

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

2 but they are one liners that I can read without opening. Will open and delete one (repeat offender) and save the other as I want to respond

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I posted a meet when I first joined and got 1300 replies. I gave up in the end and just mass deleted"

Odd that given I've seen women complain that the meet today gave them a big fat zero responses, must be because you were new meat lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

752

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I posted a meet when I first joined and got 1300 replies. I gave up in the end and just mass deleted

Odd that given I've seen women complain that the meet today gave them a big fat zero responses, must be because you were new meat lol"

Wasn't too new and it was on my old profile. I had some awesome veris off people I had already met and posted a meet asking for someone to join me and my fuckbuddy in a hotel. Think it was the veris that attracted them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

due to posting on one thread I now have 152 in my inbox, I will get to them though I promise xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a message???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At this moment only 18

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

533 unread. I start out trying to reply to them all but then it gets out of hand. Occasionally I mass delete them but it always turns out this way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

96. In 2 days. Need to tweak my filters again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never get any?!!

lol

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By *oulgirlWoman
over a year ago

Your Dreams!

Woke up to 327 this morning !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Woke up to 327 this morning !"

Not surprised x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *t3_jalapenoMan
over a year ago

darlo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did a mass delete last night.

Came on this morning to 5, answered a couple and deleted the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Woke up to 327 this morning !

Not surprised x"

Nor am I, gorgeous pics x

I got a neutral number 0 .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

760 now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only average 2 or 3 non male messages a day, sometimes get none! I must be monster!

Then again I don't do searches as it bores the shit out of me, I just talk to women or couples that contact me.

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By *oulgirlWoman
over a year ago

Your Dreams!

"Woke up to 327 this morning !

Not surprised x"

Too many to answer......will have to bulk delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I posted a meet when I first joined and got 1300 replies. I gave up in the end and just mass deleted

Odd that given I've seen women complain that the meet today gave them a big fat zero responses, must be because you were new meat lol

I agree with that. I sometimes put daft fake veri's on my profile. They are over the top 'sucks like a dyson' type, clearly just a total piss take. But the amount of people that believe them and mail me wanting 'some of that'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woke up to 12 this morning....all now read all answered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I posted a meet when I first joined and got 1300 replies. I gave up in the end and just mass deleted

Odd that given I've seen women complain that the meet today gave them a big fat zero responses, must be because you were new meat lol

How can you put a veri on your own profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I posted a meet when I first joined and got 1300 replies. I gave up in the end and just mass deleted

Odd that given I've seen women complain that the meet today gave them a big fat zero responses, must be because you were new meat lol

I had some funny ones because I had, had some proper funny first few meets. I had been to a club was in a locked room with someone and a d*unk guy tried to get in and bent the lock to the door so we couldn't get out. The guy I was with left me a very funny veri

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over a year ago

"I posted a meet when I first joined and got 1300 replies. I gave up in the end and just mass deleted

Odd that given I've seen women complain that the meet today gave them a big fat zero responses, must be because you were new meat lol

How can you put a veri on your own profile?"

In the profile text.

Give me a sec and I'll put them up.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None - I answer most of mine or delete the nasty ones!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Woke up to 327 this morning !

Not surprised x"

???

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Zero. I very rarely get any messages. I'm not overly fussed at the minute if I get messages or not. They're usually from blokes anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

411 now, it was 455 last night so I'm slowly getting through them

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

122

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None, we try and answer our messages as soon as we can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This subject makes me laugh!

How difficult is it to open messages - it's not as "time consuming" as a lot of women make out!

Lets say that 95% of the messages say "hi how are you wanna meet "

How long does it take to read and delete?

Or not even read - just delete it and stop attention seeking that "I simply don't have time to read ALL my messages"

Really?

I'm a single female and I also get a lot of messages but I always somehow manage FFS!

Get over yourselves!

It's not a time thing. Mostly I see the first line and I'm put off. If not I might look at the profile. I'm usually put off at that point. If not I read the message. Sometimes with a view to replying politely later others are maybe from people I chat to from the forums. Some days I get too many I don't get through them and I can't be bothered scrolling down. Eventually I do a bulk delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Zero. I very rarely get any messages. I'm not overly fussed at the minute if I get messages or not. They're usually from blokes anyway

Are you sure it's zero?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

146. Mostly one-liners I can read in the preview without opening and from those who haven't bothered reading my profile. I may delete them all later but I normally let them just drop off the page.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I posted a meet when I first joined and got 1300 replies. I gave up in the end and just mass deleted

Odd that given I've seen women complain that the meet today gave them a big fat zero responses, must be because you were new meat lol

How can you put a veri on your own profile?

In the profile text.

Give me a sec and I'll put them up.

Just read them

I am now desperate to meet you too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I posted a meet when I first joined and got 1300 replies. I gave up in the end and just mass deleted

Odd that given I've seen women complain that the meet today gave them a big fat zero responses, must be because you were new meat lol

How can you put a veri on your own profile?

In the profile text.

Give me a sec and I'll put them up.

Just read them

I am now desperate to meet you too

There's a queue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This subject makes me laugh!

How difficult is it to open messages - it's not as "time consuming" as a lot of women make out!

Lets say that 95% of the messages say "hi how are you wanna meet "

How long does it take to read and delete?

Or not even read - just delete it and stop attention seeking that "I simply don't have time to read ALL my messages"

Really?

I'm a single female and I also get a lot of messages but I always somehow manage FFS!

Get over yourselves!

What's the difference between deleting them as I go and saving the ones I would delete up to do a mass delete? How's that being arrogant or attention seeking?

God forbid, someone might take a different approach to you!

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

"This subject makes me laugh!

How difficult is it to open messages - it's not as "time consuming" as a lot of women make out!

Lets say that 95% of the messages say "hi how are you wanna meet "

How long does it take to read and delete?

Or not even read - just delete it and stop attention seeking that "I simply don't have time to read ALL my messages"

Really?

I'm a single female and I also get a lot of messages but I always somehow manage FFS!

Get over yourselves!

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Zero. I very rarely get any messages. I'm not overly fussed at the minute if I get messages or not. They're usually from blokes anyway

Are you sure it's zero?

My first message received in about a week! Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I posted a meet when I first joined and got 1300 replies. I gave up in the end and just mass deleted

Odd that given I've seen women complain that the meet today gave them a big fat zero responses, must be because you were new meat lol

How can you put a veri on your own profile?

In the profile text.

Give me a sec and I'll put them up.

Just read them

I am now desperate to meet you too

There's a queue.

I'm not surprised. It must be the hairy chest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 400, I'm such a popular stud........not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even unattractive woman can get 300+ messages!

Lucky girls lol

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"This subject makes me laugh!

How difficult is it to open messages - it's not as "time consuming" as a lot of women make out!

Lets say that 95% of the messages say "hi how are you wanna meet "

How long does it take to read and delete?

Or not even read - just delete it and stop attention seeking that "I simply don't have time to read ALL my messages"

Really?

I'm a single female and I also get a lot of messages but I always somehow manage FFS!

Get over yourselves!

What's the difference between deleting them as I go and saving the ones I would delete up to do a mass delete? How's that being arrogant or attention seeking?

God forbid, someone might take a different approach to you!

It's not rude not to reply. My profile states I meet rarely and please take a lack of response as I'm not interested or not meeting right now. I don't owe anyone a reply and reading and deleting tends to get me more 'you read my message, didn't you like me?' messages. Considering I have my looking for turned off so people get a warning I'm not looking to meet when they message anyway I would think that would be enough. And I have never moaned about having to reply to lots of messages. I used to once a week when I was on the computer rather than my phone but other than making me feel better about being polite the outcome for the people sending them was the same.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Since I last posted I've Just uploaded a new pic showing my weight loss now my inbox as shot up to 345

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even unattractive woman can get 300+ messages!

Lucky girls lol"

Yeah! 300+ messages from men who think we're unattractive but through sheer desperation would fuck us anyway. I feel SO special.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even unattractive woman can get 300+ messages!

Lucky girls lol"

Boggles...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even unattractive woman can get 300+ messages!

Lucky girls lol

Yeah! 300+ messages from men who think we're unattractive but through sheer desperation would fuck us anyway. I feel SO special."

Well it's only my opinion and all but I think you are beautiful.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

None but then Dicks been up since 6 so he may have opened some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even unattractive woman can get 300+ messages!

Lucky girls lol"

But do they have an unattractive personality?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ones worth replying to, have been

Ones for the maybe, read

Shit messages, filed B1N

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

6 here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I checked this morning and had 7 unread. I nearly dropped my wheetabix. I then checked and they were all admin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ones worth replying to, have been

Ones for the maybe, read

Shit messages, filed B1N

I won't message you then saying "Fancy a fuck?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm too nosy to not open them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pretty much delete everything every day. Had 40 odd unread last night after a bulk delete of hundreds the day before.

Changed filters and tweaked profile and it seems to be working.

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By *oconut2Woman
over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond

Loads lol mainly from those that don't read profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even unattractive woman can get 300+ messages!

Lucky girls lol"
I know I'm ugly but helps bells

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Currently 10 after deleting those that clearly haven't read my profile.

Filters are on & doing their job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even unattractive woman can get 300+ messages!

Lucky girls lol

But do they have an unattractive personality?

There's only so much personality that can be shown in a profile, anyway most guys don't read profiles and most don't care about personality let's be honest.

I guess it's a mixture of lots of desperate men that would fuck anything and the fact that there's lots more males than females.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even unattractive woman can get 300+ messages!

Lucky girls lol"

Oh great. . I'm worse than unattractive then. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even unattractive woman can get 300+ messages!

Lucky girls lol

Oh great. . I'm worse than unattractive then. ..

Haha no one said that so don't be silly

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

None as I have been incognito for a while

you ain't seen me right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even unattractive woman can get 300+ messages!

Lucky girls lol"

*Scratches bollocks. Sniffs fingers*

Wish I was an unattractive woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even unattractive woman can get 300+ messages!

Lucky girls lolI know I'm ugly but hells bells

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clearly I'm now taking the piss! Mine are mostly from when I put a new photo up,as I use my phone it only saves so many before they fall of the page,so I don't get a chance to answer them.

I wish Fab did sound effects. A crashing noise as they fall off the page. A Family Fortunes style 'na naaaa' noise when we send a "no thanks" reply.

Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even unattractive woman can get 300+ messages!

Lucky girls lol

*Scratches bollocks. Sniffs fingers*

Wish I was an unattractive woman.

Haha yeah clearly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even unattractive woman can get 300+ messages!

Lucky girls lol

Oh great. . I'm worse than unattractive then. ..

Haha no one said that so don't be silly "

But going by what you're saying even the desperate ones don't message me so that must make me beyond unattractive? People must look at my profile and

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"0.

I'm too nosy to not open them!

Same as

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 15 and its all from men lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Big fat zero

I bet you wish you never started this thread

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