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By *ikeC81 OP   Man
over a year ago

harrow

I suppose this is a thing that in my time in the scene that is a bit confusing.

Do couples that don't meet single guys mind single guys perving over photos or respectively perving them in a club

I suppose why I ask is that I have often been in a club and not sure that do the couple like single men or are they happy to watch so intend up not saying or doing anything

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

All you can do is talk to them and ask. Worst they can do is say no.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

As a single guy, I have perved many couple's profiles and admired them in clubs. Not been remonstrated for it yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose this is a thing that in my time in the scene that is a bit confusing.

Do couples that don't meet single guys mind single guys perving over photos or respectively perving them in a club

I suppose why I ask is that I have often been in a club and not sure that do the couple like single men or are they happy to watch so intend up not saying or doing anything "
do they have the numbered tickets like they have in supermarkets ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I don't get are couples that full swap with other couples but won't meet single men, whats the difference between the man in the couple having sex with the fem and a single man?

Is it because they don't like mfm or is it because single men don't bring something to the party?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find too many single men are really interested in Stevie rather than both of us so only Steve meets single men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we went along to a singles night and got perved on we would not have cause to complain.

More than happy to soak up a little visual attention. Sometimes we found it hard to go to a club on a couples night so would pop to a single for a little play and enjoy the atmosphere without any intention of playing with singles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I don't get are couples that full swap with other couples but won't meet single men, whats the difference between the man in the couple having sex with the fem and a single man?

Is it because they don't like mfm or is it because single men don't bring something to the party?"

i think alot of it is that single men arent actually single!! i have no.probs with single guys however i have more of a problem with people who are a "couple" yet they are usually both married to some one else but wont entertain "single" guys!! double standards lol

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

For us it's because I'm more interested in the ladies. I also don't like the idea of mfm. K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I don't get are couples that full swap with other couples but won't meet single men, whats the difference between the man in the couple having sex with the fem and a single man?

Is it because they don't like mfm or is it because single men don't bring something to the party?"

Think we can answer this as we are one of those couples who full swap but don't meet men.

It's basically because we don't feel that a mfm 3sum would satisfy us both. We both get very turned on by seeing the other having sex with someone so that bit is missing if we had a single man join us.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I think that on here, many couples block single guys so they aren't continually harassed with messages. It's much easier for the couples to just message a single guy if they want to meet one..

In a club, if single guys are allowed in, then they can assume that the couples may be looking for one (or more) to join them. I know that when we go to a club, we are generally open to seeing who tickles our fancy at the time.

My advice to any single guy at a club would be to talk to as many people as you can, be fun and friendly but have no expectations. You'll most certainly have more fun if you talk to people and more chance of success. Remember though that a couple is a couple, talk to both of them. More often than not, couples will look for guys as extras, not just to take the Mrs away and shag her.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why even ask? If you like looking at their public pictures then do it! They will never know...or care.

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By *unkydesignCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

It's because everybody has a choice. If they don't play with single guys that is their choice. Asking for reasons won't change the fact that they won't play. The trick is to move on and concentrate on those who are looking for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I don't get are couples that full swap with other couples but won't meet single men, whats the difference between the man in the couple having sex with the fem and a single man?

Is it because they don't like mfm or is it because single men don't bring something to the party?

Think we can answer this as we are one of those couples who full swap but don't meet men.

It's basically because we don't feel that a mfm 3sum would satisfy us both. We both get very turned on by seeing the other having sex with someone so that bit is missing if we had a single man join us."

I kind of understand what your saying because the actually watching each other is the bit we really enjoy, thats why I enjoy mfm I 1st to watch her while I'm having sex with her, best of both worlds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I don't get are couples that full swap with other couples but won't meet single men, whats the difference between the man in the couple having sex with the fem and a single man?

Is it because they don't like mfm or is it because single men don't bring something to the party?

Think we can answer this as we are one of those couples who full swap but don't meet men.

It's basically because we don't feel that a mfm 3sum would satisfy us both. We both get very turned on by seeing the other having sex with someone so that bit is missing if we had a single man join us.

I kind of understand what your saying because the actually watching each other is the bit we really enjoy, thats why I enjoy mfm I 1st to watch her while I'm having sex with her, best of both worlds"

I get to watch not 1st watch lol

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

we are really on here for single guys (with criteria that suit us) , love to meet couples in clubs but the guys are the main thing we look for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I don't get are couples that full swap with other couples but won't meet single men, whats the difference between the man in the couple having sex with the fem and a single man?

Is it because they don't like mfm or is it because single men don't bring something to the party?

Think we can answer this as we are one of those couples who full swap but don't meet men.

It's basically because we don't feel that a mfm 3sum would satisfy us both. We both get very turned on by seeing the other having sex with someone so that bit is missing if we had a single man join us.

I kind of understand what your saying because the actually watching each other is the bit we really enjoy, thats why I enjoy mfm I 1st to watch her while I'm having sex with her, best of both worlds

I get to watch not 1st watch lol"

Ah, I get ya.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I don't get are couples that full swap with other couples but won't meet single men, whats the difference between the man in the couple having sex with the fem and a single man?

Is it because they don't like mfm or is it because single men don't bring something to the party?"

3somes are different to 4somes. There's good and bad in both. With couples a 4some is like 2 lots of 1 on 1 with watching.

3somes again is different depending on if it's MMF or MFF. Or bi MMF. All good but different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I don't get are couples that full swap with other couples but won't meet single men, whats the difference between the man in the couple having sex with the fem and a single man?

Is it because they don't like mfm or is it because single men don't bring something to the party?

3somes are different to 4somes. There's good and bad in both. With couples a 4some is like 2 lots of 1 on 1 with watching.

3somes again is different depending on if it's MMF or MFF. Or bi MMF. All good but different."

its mfm if its straight remember

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By *ikeC81 OP   Man
over a year ago

harrow

It's interesting thoughts I suppose I have never really asked my couple friends that which is funny.....

I suppose would as a couple your approached by a single guy who was respectful but you weren't in to single guys would you be flattered or would you be frustrated that they approached you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's interesting thoughts I suppose I have never really asked my couple friends that which is funny.....

I suppose would as a couple your approached by a single guy who was respectful but you weren't in to single guys would you be flattered or would you be frustrated that they approached you "

Flattered can't see why people would be frustrated. Why be in the club in the first place?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's interesting thoughts I suppose I have never really asked my couple friends that which is funny.....

I suppose would as a couple your approached by a single guy who was respectful but you weren't in to single guys would you be flattered or would you be frustrated that they approached you "

We meet single men so can't really be offended when one of them contacts us, in a club you can't really be upset it comes with the territory if no here and you have put no single guys then yeah it must be frustrating

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

There are guys in clubs who sometimes behave badly, but the vast majority are fantastic. ditto for this site, some really nice guys on here

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By *ikeC81 OP   Man
over a year ago

harrow

I hate when guys behave badly in clubs it really pisses me of

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I can only tell you what our opinion is. We don't meet single women but if they want to look at our pictures, look at us in clubs or even chat to us we're more than happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only played as a couple in clubs and we seemed single men,but she was fussy and any men that stalked we would never play with. She would approach men she fancied and asked them if they wanted to fuck her.non ever refused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do couples that don't meet single guys mind single guys perving over photos or respectively perving them in a club"

Don't care about photo's and respectfully in a club is fine, part of the reason we are there not in a hotel or at home! though leaning on my shoulder to get a better look at what I am licking was a step too far, we stopped play at that point

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By *irtyandfilthy2014Couple
over a year ago

under the apple tree

We don't meet single guys because we are here mostly because the fem is bi. More than happy to socialise and chat with guys in a club, and to be watched, as long as they aren't pushy.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

To answer the question.

No problems with single guys checking our profile out and when at a club have no problems with others watching us so long as they keep a respectable distance. On occasions some and I include other couples here have got so close to us playing it is like being at the doctors.

We don't play with single guys for the simple fact that we get enjoyment from seeing the other having a good time and we don't feel we get that same enjoyment from a mfm. Before we are accused of being hypercritical we have never had a ffm but imagine the dynamics would be different as Mrs Tyke does like the ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I don't get are couples that full swap with other couples but won't meet single men, whats the difference between the man in the couple having sex with the fem and a single man?

Is it because they don't like mfm or is it because single men don't bring something to the party?

3somes are different to 4somes. There's good and bad in both. With couples a 4some is like 2 lots of 1 on 1 with watching.

3somes again is different depending on if it's MMF or MFF. Or bi MMF. All good but different.

its mfm if its straight remember"

Should it be capital letters? What does lower case mean?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"What I don't get are couples that full swap with other couples but won't meet single men, whats the difference between the man in the couple having sex with the fem and a single man?

Is it because they don't like mfm or is it because single men don't bring something to the party?

3somes are different to 4somes. There's good and bad in both. With couples a 4some is like 2 lots of 1 on 1 with watching.

3somes again is different depending on if it's MMF or MFF. Or bi MMF. All good but different.

its mfm if its straight remember

Should it be capital letters? What does lower case mean? "

Is lower case soft swing and upper case FULL SWAP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I don't get are couples that full swap with other couples but won't meet single men, whats the difference between the man in the couple having sex with the fem and a single man?

Is it because they don't like mfm or is it because single men don't bring something to the party?

3somes are different to 4somes. There's good and bad in both. With couples a 4some is like 2 lots of 1 on 1 with watching.

3somes again is different depending on if it's MMF or MFF. Or bi MMF. All good but different.

its mfm if its straight remember

Should it be capital letters? What does lower case mean?

Is lower case soft swing and upper case FULL SWAP?

"

I think you're right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is lower case soft swing and upper case FULL SWAP?

I think you're right! "

it's the mFM or the Fmm that confuses me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Err it's a preference thing.

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