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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So when you received a message, what do you usually do?

Read the message first then check the profile out

or

Check the profile first then answer/ignore the msg if the profile has/hasn't caught your attention ?

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Read the message first, then I decide if I want to check the profile out..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at prof first if public pics , if not public pics and no pic attached don't even bother opening message

Prob why I have 724 unread messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As above!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Read the message and reply...simple

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"So when you received a message, what do you usually do?

Read the message first then check the profile out

or

Check the profile first then answer/ignore the msg if the profile has/hasn't caught your attention ? "

Generally look at the profile first, but we'll always reply to messages... even if it's a "no thanks".

Cal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Look at prof first if public pics , if not public pics and no pic attached don't even bother opening message

Prob why I have 724 unread messages "

But still took time to answer mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the message, go to profile, look at pics (if any), read the text (if any), go back to message - send a no thanks message or continue the conversation.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See if they attached a face pic with it or if they have face pics on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So when you received a message, what do you usually do?

Read the message first then check the profile out

or

Check the profile first then answer/ignore the msg if the profile has/hasn't caught your attention ? "

Depends how polite it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look at prof first if public pics , if not public pics and no pic attached don't even bother opening message

Prob why I have 724 unread messages

But still took time to answer mine "

Certainly did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read the message first, then I decide if I want to check the profile out.. "

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read message, if it piques interest, check profile, if that piques interest reply positively.

One or two word messages go straight to B1N right away regardless of who sent it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read the message and reply...simple"

^ this! I guess it would be different if I was a lady and inundated but the unread message icon lights up infrequently enough to make it easy to reply to anyone that's been good enough to message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What? Receive a message?! What is this that you speak of?

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

Read message first, then look at the profile and then reply or delete depending if I'd like to meet them or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the message, respond, sometimes there's nothing to be said and sometimes there's awesome banter. About 2-5 days later I think hmmm I wonder what you look like.....then I ask for a face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends if i can see it just says hi delete.

Otherwise probably check the profile first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check out the profile to see if it's someone I'm likely to want to meet. Then read the message and respond accordingly.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

All my messages are usually forum related bollox anyway, I know nobody wants to shag me

Seriously though, I read the message, then the profile and respond accordingly

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Look at the profile first, then if I think any of the pics are suss I google search them.

Then I send them a message with a link to some of the porn/gay websites I have found 'their' pic on.......then I get blocked

But seriously

check profile for distance, interests, age etc - If they are in Scotland for instance I will reply with a sorry you are 400 miles away.

But if I like the profile I will open the message and depending what they wrote I will either:

chat until they start trying to get me to talk dirty.

Thanks but no thanks.

Ignore.

Or tell them they are an idiot.

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Do a celebration dance and woop for half an hour then reply to the message

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Dan I am the same lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a lot less cock pics, or a face pic with a cock pic, so if there's pics attached i look at the messages first.

If no pics i go to the profile.

If i can tell it's a crap message then i don't even do either of these things and ignore it. Like a dirty story or just xxx, hey, wuu2, etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check profile first and see if height and body type are good. If not i delete message without opening. If they are i check pics. If there's no public face pic and the message doesn't have pics attached i delete without opening. If there are face pics i check the text of the profile. If it's bad i delete the message without opening. If all are good i open the message.

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

Struggling here what is receiving a message . Lol. As they are so rare usually read the message as it's probably a reply and I've already seen their profile.

Feel free to send messages to me

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Read message, check profile and pics and then reply even if it is a simple no thanks. Easy really but then we don't get 100s of emails a day.

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