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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It become extremely hard to find girl for threesomes these days on fab

Time has changed or we ve been away for too long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is. I would say near in impossible lol. I prefer a threesome with a girl. Hubby prefers us with a guy. We go to clubs as we both leave happy. I have given up on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's still lots of genuinely bi ladies on here, but as the site had grown then demand has started to outstrip supply.

When the 'where are the bi girls' threads start up the general advice tends to be that a lot only choose to meet in clubs these days but of course, there are still quite a few that meet directly off of here - I guess like any situation where demand exceeds supply the successful people are those who can stand out above the rest of the crowd, have something special to offer and do all they can to properly attract the ladies.

Good luck in your search, I hope you find what you're looking for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

either we are lucky or just doing something right - we have met a few bi fems and having a lot of fun with them -

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By *ippleloverWoman
over a year ago

Sherborne

Hello....happy bi girl here! However being based in the southwest means location can be an issue, doesn't stop me though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive given up looking for couples because when ive had it in profile most of the time i had the man message saying he wants to meet on his own or telling wat i will or wont be doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am really yearning to play with another woman at the moment, it's been so long. I think I need to be more proactive in my search!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it is. I would say near in impossible lol. I prefer a threesome with a girl. Hubby prefers us with a guy. We go to clubs as we both leave happy. I have given up on here. "

We too have given up on here too much aggro and trauma at least at clubs you know they are there to play not chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It become extremely hard to find girl for threesomes these days on fab

Time has changed or we ve been away for too long "
nope it's still difficult xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive given up looking for couples because when ive had it in profile most of the time i had the man message saying he wants to meet on his own or telling wat i will or wont be doing "

Same here!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I would say I knew a lot more single bi females in the 'old days' - but a lot of them have settled down now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll post what I always post on these threads; it's just as difficult to find a good couple as it is for you to find a single bi fem. Too many couples have their own agenda and see bi fems as a toy, some are not as stable in there relationships as they say, it's either one of the them rather than both of them who wants it. The list could go on and on. When I was meeting, I always preferred private meets and met couples on here, so it does happen. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It become extremely hard to find girl for threesomes these days on fab

Time has changed or we ve been away for too long "

It's not hard at all really

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It become extremely hard to find girl for threesomes these days on fab

Time has changed or we ve been away for too long

It's not hard at all really "

Mine is

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I've always wondered how women meet other women. Neither will send the first message or reply ??

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Well this is a new twist on the typical male 'I can't get laid' thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always wondered how women meet other women. Neither will send the first message or reply ??"

We do, we just don't shout about it.

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Had plenty girl on girl fun over the years when there husbands been at work

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well still no luck so many fakes here but we not giving up lol

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Just because a profile says 'bi' doesn't mean that we'll play with anyone.

Hard enough to meet nice single guys never mind liking both people in a couple. Also it is riskier on your own meeting a couple.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I'll post what I always post on these threads; it's just as difficult to find a good couple as it is for you to find a single bi fem. Too many couples have their own agenda and see bi fems as a toy, some are not as stable in there relationships as they say, it's either one of the them rather than both of them who wants it. The list could go on and on. When I was meeting, I always preferred private meets and met couples on here, so it does happen. Good luck."

this.. i do still meet though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are indeed right . I looked for ages to surprise a friend. .but alas nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always wondered how women meet other women. Neither will send the first message or reply ??

We do, we just don't shout about it."

Another one bites the dust

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Unicorns I tell you!! Unicorns!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Unicorns I tell you!! Unicorns! "

It's a matter of time before someone straps a dildo to their head and renames themselves....

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Unicorns I tell you!! Unicorns!

It's a matter of time before someone straps a dildo to their head and renames themselves...."

Well there's my next avatar!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met single women many times now . Taken some out with us and had a great time .

Met others at their place , clubs and so on ...

Still can't understand why so many on fab see the single bi females as the ultimate meet .

Don't get me wrong , it's fun and we and they love the play , but we don't really even look for these meets . They just happen . So maybe that's why we get the meets .... Go figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It become extremely hard to find girl for threesomes these days on fab

Time has changed or we ve been away for too long "
so you want to be scissor sisters ?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Unicorns I tell you!! Unicorns!

It's a matter of time before someone straps a dildo to their head and renames themselves....

Well there's my next avatar!! "

Consider yourself double dared...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuinely bi lady here

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"It become extremely hard to find girl for threesomes these days on fab

Time has changed or we ve been away for too long "

Queue up here to complain the site isn't as good as it used to be

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By *unkysoulWoman
over a year ago

Mitcham, Surrey

I've only met one couple from a contact on here, and it took me over 6 months to get the courage up to do that. Bless them for their patience!

But from there they kindly took me to a party where I met others, and it's really sort of rolled from there. I have made some fantastic friends and had some awesome experiences.

I still find the thought of meeting couples 'cold' really daunting, and so that initial social interaction amongst others is still my preference.

And I consider myself fairly confident...

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"I've only met one couple from a contact on here, and it took me over 6 months to get the courage up to do that. Bless them for their patience!

But from there they kindly took me to a party where I met others, and it's really sort of rolled from there. I have made some fantastic friends and had some awesome experiences.

I still find the thought of meeting couples 'cold' really daunting, and so that initial social interaction amongst others is still my preference.

And I consider myself fairly confident..."

And this from one of the sexiest ladies out there. It's interesting. The lack of confidence appears to be more restrictive than numbers.

I have encouraged a good friend to get out there and be proactive. She had her first social yday and loved it. I have no ides why she hadn't done it before.

She will go from strength to strength I hope.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Learn with us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not sure how replies works yet feel stupid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a three some then surely the title should be girls on guy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Most of girls drop after few messages also not sure how to recognise fake

Seems like half of profiles here are fakes

What is the reason to have fake profiles? Anyone..?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it's a three some then surely the title should be girls on guy?

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Seems like most couples meet with another girl just to please man

But our goal is girls fun man there just to keep fun

Don't mind just watching and not joining unless asked so

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"If it's a three some then surely the title should be girls on guy?

Seems like most couples meet with another girl just to please man

But our goal is girls fun man there just to keep fun

Don't mind just watching and not joining unless asked so"

an equal three way dynamic...personally not interested in anything else with a couple.. i dont want to be seen or treated as the extra xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it's a three some then surely the title should be girls on guy?

Seems like most couples meet with another girl just to please man

But our goal is girls fun man there just to keep fun

Don't mind just watching and not joining unless asked so

an equal three way dynamic...personally not interested in anything else with a couple.. i dont want to be seen or treated as the extra xx"

Tried to reply u private but we blocked so getting u into threesomes would be impossible lol

But your profile nice

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"If it's a three some then surely the title should be girls on guy?

Seems like most couples meet with another girl just to please man

But our goal is girls fun man there just to keep fun

Don't mind just watching and not joining unless asked so

an equal three way dynamic...personally not interested in anything else with a couple.. i dont want to be seen or treated as the extra xx

Tried to reply u private but we blocked so getting u into threesomes would be impossible lol

But your profile nice "

all my message filters are on, its not personal...and its not impossible, i just have to have enough interest and i would message you first...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well we are open to.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bi female.......

Ok that statement is false but I do genuinely hope you find what you are looking for

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Well we are open to....."

this is some tips for others wanting to attract a bi single female..

i cant see proper pics of you both on your profile.

you profile doesnt state wanting an equal 3 way dynamic or similar terms.. in fact id says nothing about you at all and what you offer or what you expect..

it doesnt say whether you travel where you prefer to meet or anything..

if i had received this profile to my inbox, i would have just deleted it..thats being honest.. xx

if youd like to expand your profile and add your pics, and find me somewhere on the forum..i would be pleased to take a look and possibly message..

at the moment you could be anyone including a single guy, and i wont open my inbox and cause myself stress in working it out...i hope to see you later, if not, happy swinging xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well we are open to.....

this is some tips for others wanting to attract a bi single female..

i cant see proper pics of you both on your profile.

you profile doesnt state wanting an equal 3 way dynamic or similar terms.. in fact id says nothing about you at all and what you offer or what you expect..

it doesnt say whether you travel where you prefer to meet or anything..

if i had received this profile to my inbox, i would have just deleted it..thats being honest.. xx

if youd like to expand your profile and add your pics, and find me somewhere on the forum..i would be pleased to take a look and possibly message..

at the moment you could be anyone including a single guy, and i wont open my inbox and cause myself stress in working it out...i hope to see you later, if not, happy swinging xx"

Recently we decided to come back here profile at the moment might not look the way u d like to see

Photos we still keeping as it is due to privacy reasons but sending photos of both of always in first messages ( that way we can delete them after u saw them just feels more secure )

Agreed on Text in profile so will get updated

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Well we are open to.....

this is some tips for others wanting to attract a bi single female..

i cant see proper pics of you both on your profile.

you profile doesnt state wanting an equal 3 way dynamic or similar terms.. in fact id says nothing about you at all and what you offer or what you expect..

it doesnt say whether you travel where you prefer to meet or anything..

if i had received this profile to my inbox, i would have just deleted it..thats being honest.. xx

if youd like to expand your profile and add your pics, and find me somewhere on the forum..i would be pleased to take a look and possibly message..

at the moment you could be anyone including a single guy, and i wont open my inbox and cause myself stress in working it out...i hope to see you later, if not, happy swinging xx

Recently we decided to come back here profile at the moment might not look the way u d like to see

Photos we still keeping as it is due to privacy reasons but sending photos of both of always in first messages ( that way we can delete them after u saw them just feels more secure )

Agreed on Text in profile so will get updated "

be good to read it when its done xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Feels easier to explain everything by chatting privately

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Feels easier to explain everything by chatting privately "

quite possibly, however you are talking about why you dont get threesomes and i am attempting to help you attract more than one potential meet...it will save you in the long run from keep writing the same stuff.. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Feels easier to explain everything by chatting privately

quite possibly, however you are talking about why you dont get threesomes and i am attempting to help you attract more than one potential meet...it will save you in the long run from keep writing the same stuff.. x

"

Updated so u can read more about us and our fantasys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Feels easier to explain everything by chatting privately

quite possibly, however you are talking about why you dont get threesomes and i am attempting to help you attract more than one potential meet...it will save you in the long run from keep writing the same stuff.. x

"

Let us know what do you think now or what we have missed tnx

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Feels easier to explain everything by chatting privately

quite possibly, however you are talking about why you dont get threesomes and i am attempting to help you attract more than one potential meet...it will save you in the long run from keep writing the same stuff.. x

Let us know what do you think now or what we have missed tnx"

being honest it sounds like you presumably the guy has wrote it..

the 'id like to' makes that obvious.

im still not convinced you are a couple.and unless you have a great profile that appeals to me and public pics of you both, its too much detactive work on my part..

its just not thought out enough and its all about what you want..

i suggest you spend sometime together redoing it, not just 5 minutes, maybe look at some successful couple profiles and see what you can glean from them..i hope you find what you are looking for x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not properly bi so don't really count. But for threesome purposes, I would rather the dynamic of three people meeting as equals and therefore don't meet couples, but will meet two singles. I'm just not interested in feeling like an add-on to an established couple, and I also need to find both the other two people attractive, which seems much more likely with three separate profiles who have chosen to get together. Logistically it's more difficult, but still preferable to feeling like less than an equal participant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Feels easier to explain everything by chatting privately

quite possibly, however you are talking about why you dont get threesomes and i am attempting to help you attract more than one potential meet...it will save you in the long run from keep writing the same stuff.. x

Let us know what do you think now or what we have missed tnx

being honest it sounds like you presumably the guy has wrote it..

the 'id like to' makes that obvious.

im still not convinced you are a couple.and unless you have a great profile that appeals to me and public pics of you both, its too much detactive work on my part..

its just not thought out enough and its all about what you want..

i suggest you spend sometime together redoing it, not just 5 minutes, maybe look at some successful couple profiles and see what you can glean from them..i hope you find what you are looking for x"

Yes male was typing its obvious both of us cant type on 1 device lol

But we thought we were honest and profile saying that pics of both of us available on request that not a problem to proove so adding up to profile more letters won't make u believe anyway ( feeling stupid now of the fact profile not attractive )

...... arr tired now bed time now so hope to here more later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always wondered how women meet other women. Neither will send the first message or reply ??"

we find the all lady events - place is full of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, its hard to find a woman here lol.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"I agree, its hard to find a woman here lol."

Don't be so impatient...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've always wondered how women meet other women. Neither will send the first message or reply ??

we find the all lady events - place is full of us "

man mainly typing messages ( 90% ) while girl watching and pleasing herself ( 90% )

but man get the blame why he is typing not the girl

also ( 90% ) accused of using made up couple profile and quickly qualifying as fake

no matter how hard getting blacklisted in a sec

women temper ????

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree, its hard to find a woman here lol.

Don't be so impatient..."
I got lots of patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree, its hard to find a woman here lol.

Don't be so impatient...I got lots of patience "
not that hard dude you just live to far away from us lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree, its hard to find a woman here lol.

Don't be so impatient...I got lots of patience not that hard dude you just live to far away from us lol "

well we travel 150 miles no problem last summer drove to north wales set off 11pm got there by 6 am but those 4 days would stick in our memory forever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree, its hard to find a woman here lol.

Don't be so impatient...I got lots of patience not that hard dude you just live to far away from us lol "
That's right, need to travel to Manchester, wales or Scotland lol.

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