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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Really someone for all of us? In terms of love etc? I often think mine has died or emigrated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe there is, I was sceptical in my younger days but I stumbled upon my 'one'

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think that there is more than one person for most of us but that doesn't mean you'll actually meet.

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"Really someone for all of us? In terms of love etc? I often think mine has died or emigrated "

You still have time xx

We were lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw. I do think there's many right people for us but we'll just never meet them.

Keanu Reeves is mine, i'm sure of it. He's actually been to chorley as well but i missed him.

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Yes, but sometimes we have to wait until they have tried the rest before they find the best

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

The number of people on the planet would suggest there is someone for everyone.

That said, it's amazing how many find their someone in the same neighbourhood.

There is a book out showing how the numbers work. The more criteria you set the less likely you are to find anyone, let alone the one for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if that one person is someone who has already been in and out of your life, does that mean there's no one else out there...sobering thought

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

I hope so x

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"The number of people on the planet would suggest there is someone for everyone.

That said, it's amazing how many find their someone in the same neighbourhood.

There is a book out showing how the numbers work. The more criteria you set the less likely you are to find anyone, let alone the one for you.

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In my 20's I had a huge list in my 30's I have become more open lol

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

www.youtube.com/watch?v=kijpcUv-b8M

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"What if that one person is someone who has already been in and out of your life, does that mean there's no one else out there...sobering thought "

Life is a process. We're not the same people we were five years ago (unless we're really boring and manage to never have any experiences that change us in any way).

On that basis alone we must create opportunities for someone else to be the right person at that time.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"Really someone for all of us? In terms of love etc? I often think mine has died or emigrated "

There are hundreds for all of us. Thats why Im too scared to go out.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I found out that the one for me is a lesbian so I have had to change my religion. I'm now a Jedi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't believe there are but there might be hope cos the world population has 7 billion people in it, my match might not live in the UK, wonder what country they might be in

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"No I don't believe there are but there might be hope cos the world population has 7 billion people in it, my match might not live in the UK, wonder what country they might be in "

Sweden?

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"Yes, but sometimes we have to wait until they have tried the rest before they find the best

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We did it the other way around lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I don't believe there are but there might be hope cos the world population has 7 billion people in it, my match might not live in the UK, wonder what country they might be in

Sweden? "
Yes in Sweden it might be, back home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I imagine the sun and moon are lovers,

But their orbits mean they rarely meet.

Chasing, and circling each other, but missing

Each other in moments far too fleet.

But once in a while they get the chance

To catch up with each other and kiss.

And when they do the world is awed

By the beauty of their eclipse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here? Yes I think there is someone for everyone, its just keeping them interested when you find them.

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By *angerousEyesMan
over a year ago

weston


"I think that there is more than one person for most of us but that doesn't mean you'll actually meet."

with billions of people this has too be true.

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"I think that there is more than one person for most of us but that doesn't mean you'll actually meet.

with billions of people this has too be true."

We seemed to find each other easily enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everybody is somebody's everything, nobody is nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

Destined to be alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really someone for all of us? In terms of love etc? I often think mine has died or emigrated "

I'm just going to work through a few until I find 'the one'.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well I don't know, most of us have had long term relationships or marriages by the time we reach a certain and and some say they regret it but they must of thought they where the "one" at the time.

There's also a lot of people that have not settled down, ever, so they haven't found the one.

So if your saying the right one for now, then I think I'd say most people find someone for however long, if your saying "the one" as in being with for the rest of your life then I'd say no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there must be many that are right ...not just one. Otherwise it's pretty freaky how many find "the one" considering how big the world is and how many people there are.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I believe there can be several in a lifetime, so yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about how much of someone else's bad habits and personality defects you can put up with.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"What if that one person is someone who has already been in and out of your life, does that mean there's no one else out there...sobering thought "

I don't like this thought!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id rather gave an intense short burst of happiness, than years of drudgery.

So, yes there is, but no guarantee how long the are there.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I think there can be several people who are 'the one' at different points in our lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eventually yes but I think sometimes it's not easy to find them but they will find you when you least expect it.

I had a really bad marriage but if I hadn't met him and moved to the midlands with him then I wouldn't of met Paul. I had a very bad destructive relationship before that too and before that was my childhood sweetheart who was having a affair with my best friend.

However I think it takes you going through the shit ones to appreciate what you have now. I also think it's hard when to know to throw the towel in on a relationship, and it's also hard to know when to keep fighting for each other Xx

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