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How seriously do you take swinging?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Meaning, is it just a bit of fun.

Is it just a hobby

Or a complete lifestyle and you live it.

For us while it's just a bit of fun and we certainly don't let it take over. We take it seriously enough due to the fact we are letting strangers enter our personal sexual life so to a degree you have to be serious but in the terms of safety and security and sexual health.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meaning, is it just a bit of fun.

Is it just a hobby

Or a complete lifestyle and you live it.

For us while it's just a bit of fun and we certainly don't let it take over. We take it seriously enough due to the fact we are letting strangers enter our personal sexual life so to a degree you have to be serious but in the terms of safety and security and sexual health. "
just fun for me I like people chatting meeting and debating oh and sex but I don't have to have sex with everyone I meet to enjoy myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't class myself as a swinger, I'm not doing it as a couple or with couple.

I'm just here to find someone who can make my toes curl on a regular basis...

and having fun trying to find him x

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Always with a liddle humour

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I like the sexual freedom it gives but as for the rest of it I don't take it that seriously at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An occasional bit of fun. We don't meet often. We do enjoy the social aspect of fab though but wouldn't say we're very active swingers.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well many wouldn't call me a swinger by the strict definition but in terms of being someone seeking no strings sex, just a rare but of fun a few times a year is all it is to me, a rare break from the norm.

I like the banter in here but see it more akin to other social media channels but actual meets are rare

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

24x7? No.

A little extra? Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meaning, is it just a bit of fun.

Is it just a hobby

Or a complete lifestyle and you live it.

For us while it's just a bit of fun and we certainly don't let it take over. We take it seriously enough due to the fact we are letting strangers enter our personal sexual life so to a degree you have to be serious but in the terms of safety and security and sexual health. just fun for me I like people chatting meeting and debating oh and sex but I don't have to have sex with everyone I meet to enjoy myself "
yeah I'm still waiting on my horse food lol

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It's one of my hobbies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't take it seriously at all....

Its simply a means to an end for me....

Easy access to sex on my own terms....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a bit of fun,something extra to tittilate our sexual.appetite and experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit of fun for me, I enjoy chatting here and chatting to guys, the sex is a bonus tbh!

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By *ay and DeborahCouple
over a year ago

Co. Down

Dont take it seriously at all..just a liitle extra curriculum activity now and again..find it quite hard to find those where everyone is happy enough to want to get naked with to be honest. But thats fine as when we do....its a lot of fun!

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By *ack LondonMan
over a year ago

London

The site is fun and it would be nice to hook up with some nice people. I would love to 'swing', but currently I'm a 'swingle'!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Not a lifestyle.....not even a hobby because that suggests something regular....just the occasional bit of fun. If my circumstances were different, I'd do a lot more sex, go to clubs and such and be well away.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

Here for fun.

Dating can be tedious and sometimes I just want to "hook up!" Though it has to be the right people. Apart from that, I don't really go any further with fabs.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

The forums are more addictive to me than actual meets. I can still go out "on the pull" and have loads of fun in doing so, but failure is fun anyway isn't it? At least you have a laugh in the process.

This site is just another tool in my box, but I wouldn't say it has taken over my life. As a 53 yr old bisexual smoker, my chances on here are limited anyway. I can always have a wank without worries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet two or three times a week and are out for about four hours each night . So 8 to 12 hours a week . So could be a hobby I guess .

I come on the forums in spurts ... Sometimes an hour a day others not at all for weeks .

Time spent looking for meets / putting pics up .... Not much at all .

But we would say swinging is a lifestyle choice we have made , we wouldn't want to change it . We love this lifestyle or hobby or whatever you want to call it

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We're definitely in the "bit of fun" camp... we can go months without meeting or clubs, although we always have a good time when we do meet.

Cal

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

Just fun fun fun

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Very...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's ok when there's nowt on the telly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's ok when there's nowt on the telly. "
I don't watch tv love them boots xx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it's a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a bit of fun for me. Certainly don't take it seriously.

Can while away the time.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

It's something I pick up when I want to, sometimes with my OH - we both like the social side and have met many interesting, genuine people and made not too many but a few really good friends over the years, with whom we meet upo regularly and it often does not even involve sex but just good conversation and laughter and common interests.

If there were no swing scene from tomorrow I/ we really would miss that friendship aspect and some of the steamy stuff. That said it does not rule our lives, never has and I doubt it ever will.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Something to dip into now and do then, not Something to take serious.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"it's a shag"

Go on then, if you insist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a swinger but I have seriously good fun being here and meeting!

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