FabSwingers.com forum: new girl in work

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So theres a new girl in work, and im pretty sure that she used to be on fab, not long ago either...she looks like her but i cant be 100% as i was only talking to her for a short while, do i say something? Or do i keep my mouth shut and hope that she says something....thats of course if it is her!

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

"do I recognise your vagina from somewhere?"

cant go wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm... I feel a smack in the chops might be likely...lol..

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Keep your gob shut.

Business and pleasure should remain separate.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I went to a brothel in New South Wales once and over reception hung a sign declaring:

BUY 10 GET 1 FREE WITH NEW GIRL

Maybe you could get a similar scheme started in your workplace?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

""do I recognise your vagina from somewhere?"

cant go wrong

Sounds good, cant see it going down to well though haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Keep your gob shut.

Business and pleasure should remain separate.

Spot on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Keep your gob shut.

Business and pleasure should remain separate.

I mixed business & pleasure for 14 years

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Blimey, its hard enough to start a new job without having someone staring, or worse, leering and winking at you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Keep your gob shut.

Business and pleasure should remain separate.

I mixed business & pleasure for 14 years

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did you with a good outcome ? X

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Try role play the conversation with yourself in your head and imagine how it might go.

Preclude any outcome that involves you shagging.

See what you think at the end of it...

Hint - *Dont*

Flames

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Email her a link to your profile

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

My personal view is this...

If you want to drop into a conversation that you're a member of a swingers site, that's fine. If she was and wants to admit it, that's up to her. If she doesn't then assume you're wrong and never mentioned it again.

Cal

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By *estlands4Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

Try dropping "fab this" and "fab that" into the conversation - just in a normal way as in when you're talking to her say wow that sounds fab or you had a fab time - then see if she picks up on It

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could go horribly wrong for both of you....

But only if you ignore the risk....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Keep your gob shut.

Business and pleasure should remain separate.

I mixed business & pleasure for 14 years

did you with a good outcome ? X

Well I get on fine with my ex so yes!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Some people don't understand discretion or boundaries it would appear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, don't always agree with the do nothing response but on this occasion I do,

It has been said but it's so right, from her point of view she has just started a new job, she doesn't need the embarrassment if it goes wrong,

The post about mentioning the swingers site is spot on, but not for a good while until she has settled and give you a chance to gauge her potential reaction, she could be a manager runner,

Keep Mr tickle in his fabric castle,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say to her "you look fab", then tap your nose and wink!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Say to her "you look fab", then tap your nose and wink! "

And when she stops pissing her pants laughing and shouts out who the fuk is this geezer.... Austin fook'in Powers ? !!!!

You can hide behind the water cooler and blush like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send a round robin email to the office, or better still the company saying you are a swinger who has a profile on Fab. Include a few pics so they know you aren't bullshitting. Cock pics will be fine. If she replies saying "I am too" and sends everybody a fanny pic, job done! Literally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like everyone has pretty much said, leave it at the thinking stage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Keep your gob shut.

Business and pleasure should remain separate.

Unless you run a sex club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Send a round robin email to the office, or better still the company saying you are a swinger who has a profile on Fab. Include a few pics so they know you aren't bullshitting. Cock pics will be fine. If she replies saying "I am too" and sends everybody a fanny pic, job done! Literally

I'm going to do that tomorrow

Wish me luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to do that tomorrow

Wish me luck

Good luck.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

A guy tried to chat our daughter up once by asking if he'd seen her on Babestation, I won't repeat her response.

Don't even consider mentioning it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP your profile says your discrete and your fab life if your fab life

As the new girl she may not appreciate you taking about fab to her

Discretion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Keep your gob shut.

Business and pleasure should remain separate.

Sage advice.

Opening that can of worms could see you sacked for sexual harassment.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Keep your gob shut.

Business and pleasure should remain separate.

Unless you run a sex club?"

If I ran a sex club I wouldn't fuck my customers! Unprofessional is that! I'd have private parties for my friends!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like another fantasy post.

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"Blimey, its hard enough to start a new job without having someone staring, or worse, leering and winking at you."

That's how I show people that I like them.I also like to lick their face..

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"A guy tried to chat our daughter up once by asking if he'd seen her on Babestation, I won't repeat her response.

Don't even consider mentioning it."

Surely that's a compliment ? It's not easy being suave these days...

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Guessing that she wasn't ever interested in meeting you while she was on fab, on what level could you think it would be ok to approach her at work,... the word stalker springs to mind.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"A guy tried to chat our daughter up once by asking if he'd seen her on Babestation, I won't repeat her response.

Don't even consider mentioning it.

Surely that's a compliment ? It's not easy being suave these days...

Not really a compliment in her opinion no and she's her mother's daughter

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"So theres a new girl in work, and im pretty sure that she used to be on fab..."

That's:
"used to be on fab..."

As in left. Quit. Closed her account. Decided, for whatever reason, she no longer wanted to be on here.

What more needs to be said?

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy her a Fab ice lolly, but don't ask any questions and watch her reaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PMSL

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

"Keep your gob shut.

Business and pleasure should remain separate.

I mixed business & pleasure for 14 years

I think I still owe you half a crown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no !!

Most people try and keep their Fab life to themselves

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Mouth. Shut.

What difference does it make if she was or not..

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

If she is the boss's illegitimate daughter you may get to inherit the firm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op what has it got to do with you what sites she goes on.

Or do you feel that if it is her, and you mention it, that she will have sex with you.

If it was her, can't you understand how menacing it could feel to her that you have confronted her with it, especially as she's just starting a new job.

For gods sake just focus your swinging activities on here and mind your own business about work colleagues supposed activities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send her an email asking 'hi howz u' or 'wot u up 2'

She'll know you frequent fab.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Why would she say anything, let alone to you OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op what has it got to do with you what sites she goes on.

Or do you feel that if it is her, and you mention it, that she will have sex with you.

If it was her, can't you understand how menacing it could feel to her that you have confronted her with it, especially as she's just starting a new job.

For gods sake just focus your swinging activities on here and mind your own business about work colleagues supposed activities.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Op what has it got to do with you what sites she goes on.

Or do you feel that if it is her, and you mention it, that she will have sex with you.

If it was her, can't you understand how menacing it could feel to her that you have confronted her with it, especially as she's just starting a new job.

For gods sake just focus your swinging activities on here and mind your own business about work colleagues supposed activities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really think it's wrong to confront anyone outside of this site, but we see many threads saying that swingers have been spotted in supermarkets, next door neighbours, work etc and should the person go up and say hi. some people think they have a right to sex just because they've recognised another person offline.

OP on a side note, your profile text seems at odds with this thread. It states you are very discreet and your fab life is kept separate - Hmmm!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hell no !!

Most people try and keep their Fab life to themselves

This^^

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"Op what has it got to do with you what sites she goes on.

Or do you feel that if it is her, and you mention it, that she will have sex with you.

If it was her, can't you understand how menacing it could feel to her that you have confronted her with it, especially as she's just starting a new job.

For gods sake just focus your swinging activities on here and mind your own business about work colleagues supposed activities.

That's all very good iconic but what if she has nice tits? Kind of blew a hole in your argument haven't I.

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By *ildt123Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

No! Say nothing, leave well alone.

If it is her why embarrass the poor girl, and like Mr DDC said she has left, and didn't contact you before she did.

If it isn't her then you're looking at sexual harassment in the work place and probable dismissal.

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

"Keep your gob shut.

Business and pleasure should remain separate.

Unless it's your job....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op what has it got to do with you what sites she goes on.

Or do you feel that if it is her, and you mention it, that she will have sex with you.

If it was her, can't you understand how menacing it could feel to her that you have confronted her with it, especially as she's just starting a new job.

For gods sake just focus your swinging activities on here and mind your own business about work colleagues supposed activities.

That's all very good iconic but what if she has nice tits? Kind of blew a hole in your argument haven't I."

Lol well yeah, I've got no comeback for that

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

apart from looking like a pest or a total muppet and maybe a formal discipline on your file, what could possibly go wrong..

as said leave it as a fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you are creepy for even wanting to approach her. This is her private life on here and you are trying to mix it with her work, like she even likes you.

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

do• ask if you recognise her from somewhere

dont• listen to the people who say stalker, sexual harrasment, pest, muppet or creepy.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Yeah, I don't see any flaws in this plan at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone walked up to me in Tesco's and said "Hey, you're Deepest Blue from Fab", I would bloody die a thousand deaths. I would want a big hole to open up in the floor, right by the cheese counter, so I could jump into it.

Particularly when I saw they had a cucumber in one hand and a jar of KY jelly in the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone walked up to me in Tesco's and said "Hey, you're Deepest Blue from Fab", I would bloody die a thousand deaths."

I'd just high 5 them and get on with my life.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"If someone walked up to me in Tesco's and said "Hey, you're Deepest Blue from Fab", I would bloody die a thousand deaths.

I'd just high 5 them and get on with my life."

I'd say, No I'm not. He hasn't got boobies like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone walked up to me in Tesco's and said "Hey, you're Deepest Blue from Fab", I would bloody die a thousand deaths.

I'd just high 5 them and get on with my life.

I'd say, No I'm not. He hasn't got boobies like this.

I see what you did there.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'd be chuffed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both of your heads should be saying "No"

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Have you fucked her yet OP?

Haven't been paying too much attention to the thread so apologies if you've already come back to say "yay - went for it and she gave me a blowy in the loos!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op what has it got to do with you what sites she goes on.

Or do you feel that if it is her, and you mention it, that she will have sex with you.

If it was her, can't you understand how menacing it could feel to her that you have confronted her with it, especially as she's just starting a new job.

For gods sake just focus your swinging activities on here and mind your own business about work colleagues supposed activities.

Some people think that because your on fab your permanently on the look out for a shag

Oh she's on fab she's bound to not mind me mentioning it and of course she'll be interested, we're all after a shag after all

I'd be mortified if I started a new job and some guy came over and started asking me about my profile on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

say nothing - shes left fab you dont know why and she has a new job - think the worst shes had upheaval - apart from not mixing the two - leave well alone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Try dropping "fab this" and "fab that" into the conversation - just in a normal way as in when you're talking to her say wow that sounds fab or you had a fab time - then see if she picks up on It

I like it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"do• ask if you recognise her from somewhere

dont• listen to the people who say stalker, sexual harrasment, pest, muppet or creepy.

Sounds good too, doesnt mean im stalking im just curious, had so much abuse from this post i only asked a question

good job i laugh it off, but cheers pal

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

A private life is called that for a reason .

It doesn't matter if you recognised her 100% work is work and private life is best kept that .

Respect other people's privacy as I'm sure you'd hope they would do the same for you.

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By *ythenshawefredMan
over a year ago

stockport

Definitely don't say anything directly unless you get talking regular and even then only say something along the lines of 'I'm sure I recognise you for somewhere!' Never know she might volunteer some information even if it's something like where she drinks or which gym she goes to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A private life is called that for a reason .

It doesn't matter if you recognised her 100% work is work and private life is best kept that .

Respect other people's privacy as I'm sure you'd hope they would do the same for you. "

Im not planning on blurting it all over the office.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"A private life is called that for a reason .

It doesn't matter if you recognised her 100% work is work and private life is best kept that .

Respect other people's privacy as I'm sure you'd hope they would do the same for you.

Im not planning on blurting it all over the office."

I think you should consider how this young woman might feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""do I recognise your vagina from somewhere?"

cant go wrong

Hahahahaha!!!!! This made me snort my coffee!!!!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"do• ask if you recognise her from somewhere

dont• listen to the people who say stalker, sexual harrasment, pest, muppet or creepy.

But if she denies it agree she "must just have one of those faces" and leave it there.

Also best to have this conversation in a social situation rather than a work one. So don't walk up to her whilst she's working, maybe ask whilst making coffee or at the water cooler or at lunch. And not when anyone else is around.

You can throw in that you've used the Internet for dating and to meet people.

Pushing it or making it more than a quiet but light topic could make it stalkery or creepy as could not leaving it if she clearly doesn't want to go there.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"A private life is called that for a reason .

It doesn't matter if you recognised her 100% work is work and private life is best kept that .

Respect other people's privacy as I'm sure you'd hope they would do the same for you.

Im not planning on blurting it all over the office."

how would you feel if you had caught an STI for which you were being treated and met one of the staff from the clinic in a public place and they discussed the details with you?

and yes medical staff have an ethics code etc but if you mention it to her at work, possibly even out of work she may still put a complaint in and you probably dont want that given the issue..

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