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By *odareyou OP   Man
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

So you get this message from

1) a smoking hot bloke/ lady/couple...

2) an average looking bloke/lady/couple

Would you answer either message.. ?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

*delete*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought the idea round here was to not reply to messages !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*delete* "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of coarse they took the time to send message ,and good manners in our book say reply to all if only with a polite thanks but not for us style message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I always reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you get this message from

1) a smoking hot bloke/ lady/couple...

2) an average looking bloke/lady/couple

Would you answer either message.. ? "

In all honesty?

1) a smoking hot bloke/ lady/couple...

Response: "Hey there"

2) an average looking bloke/lady/couple

Response: "Thanks for your message but...[insert generic rejection]"

I know its hypocritical, but it is what it is.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if it just says hi there i wouldnt even look bh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends what sort of mood I'm in. Sometimes they will receive a 'Hi' in return, the conversation usually stops at that point anyway unless it continues with the predictable 'Howz U'

Other times, when I just can't be arsed it gets filed under B1N, no matter how hot or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you get this message from

1) a smoking hot bloke/ lady/couple...

2) an average looking bloke/lady/couple

Would you answer either message.. ?

In all honesty?

1) a smoking hot bloke/ lady/couple...

Response: "Hey there"

2) an average looking bloke/lady/couple

Response: "Thanks for your message but...[insert generic rejection]"

I know its hypocritical, but it is what it is.

-Courtney"

But both are still replies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just reply with hi lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you get this message from

1) a smoking hot bloke/ lady/couple...

2) an average looking bloke/lady/couple

Would you answer either message.. ? "

Would you OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you get this message from

1) a smoking hot bloke/ lady/couple...

2) an average looking bloke/lady/couple

Would you answer either message.. ?

In all honesty?

1) a smoking hot bloke/ lady/couple...

Response: "Hey there"

2) an average looking bloke/lady/couple

Response: "Thanks for your message but...[insert generic rejection]"

I know its hypocritical, but it is what it is.

-Courtney

But both are still replies. "

Yes, we always reply (unless it was something offensive...)

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"So you get this message from

1) a smoking hot bloke/ lady/couple...

2) an average looking bloke/lady/couple

Would you answer either message.. ? "

If they don't meet what I'm looking for what difference does it make how smoking they are?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish we could record our PM subject, I could put on my Leslie Phillips voice and say " well helloooooo". That would work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete. If they cant read any profile and send a face pic at least, not worth it

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By *0hnnyBrav0Man
over a year ago

Great Wyrley

Reply to messages?

That's sooooo yesterday!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Of coarse they took the time to send message ,and good manners in our book say reply to all if only with a polite thanks but not for us style message "

I don't get the "good manners" response.

If my profile states single, white, sub men and I won't reply if you don't meet what I'm looking for how is it bad manners to ignore the message from a married black Dom from Timbukto? !!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I wish we could record our PM subject, I could put on my Leslie Phillips voice and say " well helloooooo". That would work. "

Yeah, I might well send that back to the smokin' hot one anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not inundated with messages so I'd probably reply to both.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

HELLO, COLD CALLER.

YOU HAVE REACHED DIAMONDJOE'S HOUSE OF PAIN™, HOW MAY WE DIRECT YOUR CALL?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish we could record our PM subject, I could put on my Leslie Phillips voice and say " well helloooooo". That would work.

Yeah, I might well send that back to the smokin' hot one anyway "

Not Leslie Phillips.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

dont have to decide, that's why i have message filters on

i like my life simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes Suzy but then you miss out on messages from me!

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Yes Suzy but then you miss out on messages from me! "

but i cant message you anyway, cos youve done same thing xx

but i loves you anyways xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend the answer the message I think has the best chance of me ending up bumping uglies with someone

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By *odareyou OP   Man
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"So you get this message from

1) a smoking hot bloke/ lady/couple...

2) an average looking bloke/lady/couple

Would you answer either message.. ?

Would you OP?"

I've responded to all messages, I do prefer a bit more than "hi". generally because I'm quite chatty or have too much time on my hands with a bit more than .. "hi to you too.."

I've had a couple recently a one was from a very attractive lady .. the other a silhouette.. maybe I'm jaded or for whatever reason and I gave a thoughtful response to the attractive lady and a hello back. to the silhouette..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I copy and paste extracts of War and Peace to both

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

If the profiles and photos got my attention then yes (assuming my profile wasnt hidden and I was looking for meets)

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I copy and paste extracts of War and Peace to both "

hehe do you do requests?

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By *omeotherguyMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire

It just depends if their message gets my attention. It's quite possible I'm drawn into conversation and we end up finding there is a spark. Or not.

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Reply with... 'back atcha '

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I wish we could record our PM subject, I could put on my Leslie Phillips voice and say " well helloooooo". That would work.

Yeah, I might well send that back to the smokin' hot one anyway

Not Leslie Phillips. "

Nah, not my type!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I copy and paste extracts of War and Peace to both

hehe do you do requests? "

Only on an open mic night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you get this message from

1) a smoking hot bloke/ lady/couple...

2) an average looking bloke/lady/couple

Would you answer either message.. ? "

Depends on if the profile tells me more...pics and an appealing profile I'd reply, no pics and a crap profile (or a profile that didn't appeal to me) and I wouldn't - but that's how I treat all messages from the simple 'hi' to war and peace

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd say hi back cos I'm not a rude person.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I copy and paste extracts of War and Peace to both

hehe do you do requests?

Only on an open mic night "

does mike like being opened?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish we could record our PM subject, I could put on my Leslie Phillips voice and say " well helloooooo". That would work.

Yeah, I might well send that back to the smokin' hot one anyway

Not Leslie Phillips.

Nah, not my type! "

He is getting on a bit now,lol

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan
over a year ago

here


"I wish we could record our PM subject, I could put on my Leslie Phillips voice and say " well helloooooo". That would work.

Yeah, I might well send that back to the smokin' hot one anyway

Not Leslie Phillips.

Nah, not my type!

He is getting on a bit now,lol

"

Ding dong

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Reply to both nicely

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By *usterMan
over a year ago

worthing

aren't winks meant to represent the single 'hi' word?

just return a

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I wish we could record our PM subject, I could put on my Leslie Phillips voice and say " well helloooooo". That would work.

Yeah, I might well send that back to the smokin' hot one anyway

Not Leslie Phillips.

Nah, not my type!

He is getting on a bit now,lol

Ding dong"

Haha!

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By *usterMan
over a year ago

worthing


"aren't winks meant to represent the single 'hi' word?

just return a "

and I just got a wink! is it magic or telepathy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd answer the one that I found attractive from their profile/pics.

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