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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is one post I never thought I'd make.

Please could admin contact me in relation to a huge violation matter.

One of my pet hates is fake verifications..

I have been a true swinger for many years and been to most clubs around the country as swell as private parties and private meets. more than the admin for sure.

I have been on this site for many years too and even pay ahead for my gold membership that is currently running until 11/1/17...

I met someone on here over the past few days that I have know off of fabs for a long time and suggested they join..

on them joining I gave them a very well deserved and legitimate verification remembering that fake veries are hated by myself..

I have a message from fab saying I fake veried someone and they took away my over 100 very well deserved verifications and my circular green tick... no questions no way of replying as that link wont allow an instant reply.. nothing.. just told guilty and that's that... all my club and private meet verifications striped for no reason at all..

this is a massive violation of my rights as a legitimate and well respected member and known swinging within the scene.

I have complained and heard nothing.. its a disgrace and an embarrassment to fab swingers.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

See.

The problem remains, no matter how right you may be you can't win a fight with admin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear.. You can still contact administration via a link at the bottom of this page.

Hope you get it sorted soon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WOW didn't actually release they could do that. Hope you get it sorted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks you all

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By *hybloke67Man
over a year ago

ROMFORD

[Removed by poster at 15/09/15 15:24:14]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you get it sorted soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope it gets sorted for you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope you get it sorted.

I didn't realise they can do that without hearing both sides of the story

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By *hybloke67Man
over a year ago

ROMFORD

I think this is totally unfair.

I have met driveshaft personally by bumping into him at different clubs. A very genuine guy and would never verify a fake profile.

Admin needs to sort this out because he is one of the very best single guys out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope you get it sorted.

I didn't realise they can do that without hearing both sides of the story "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hope you get it sorted.

I didn't realise they can do that without hearing both sides of the story "

They should be thanking me for introducing a sexy female to the site not slamming me with guilty verdicts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think this is totally unfair.

I have met driveshaft personally by bumping into him at different clubs. A very genuine guy and would never verify a fake profile.

Admin needs to sort this out because he is one of the very best single guys out there.

"

So verify him again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disgusting. What with fab and its many rules, and the fact that the site owners are getting advertising sponsorship from multi national companies, and all of the revenue they generate from site supporter passes they must be absolutely creaming it in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is one post I never thought I'd make.

Please could admin contact me in relation to a huge violation matter.

One of my pet hates is fake verifications..

I have been a true swinger for many years and been to most clubs around the country as swell as private parties and private meets. more than the admin for sure.

I have been on this site for many years too and even pay ahead for my gold membership that is currently running until 11/1/17...

I met someone on here over the past few days that I have know off of fabs for a long time and suggested they join..

on them joining I gave them a very well deserved and legitimate verification remembering that fake veries are hated by myself..

I have a message from fab saying I fake veried someone and they took away my over 100 very well deserved verifications and my circular green tick... no questions no way of replying as that link wont allow an instant reply.. nothing.. just told guilty and that's that... all my club and private meet verifications striped for no reason at all..

this is a massive violation of my rights as a legitimate and well respected member and known swinging within the scene.

I have complained and heard nothing.. its a disgrace and an embarrassment to fab swingers."

their is no recourse when they do this you are wasting your time complaining ,they won't reverse decision

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is one post I never thought I'd make.

Please could admin contact me in relation to a huge violation matter.

One of my pet hates is fake verifications..

I have been a true swinger for many years and been to most clubs around the country as swell as private parties and private meets. more than the admin for sure.

I have been on this site for many years too and even pay ahead for my gold membership that is currently running until 11/1/17...

I met someone on here over the past few days that I have know off of fabs for a long time and suggested they join..

on them joining I gave them a very well deserved and legitimate verification remembering that fake veries are hated by myself..

I have a message from fab saying I fake veried someone and they took away my over 100 very well deserved verifications and my circular green tick... no questions no way of replying as that link wont allow an instant reply.. nothing.. just told guilty and that's that... all my club and private meet verifications striped for no reason at all..

this is a massive violation of my rights as a legitimate and well respected member and known swinging within the scene.

I have complained and heard nothing.. its a disgrace and an embarrassment to fab swingers.their is no recourse when they do this you are wasting your time complaining ,they won't reverse decision "

I met a girl I been playing with for years.. told her to join this site.. recommended and she likes her play.. verified her then slammed GUILTY.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why you shouldn't veri friends, but yeah not good what happened there, maibe they can give back your veris somehow, good luck.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've never heard of this before, usually they suspend your account until its sorted not remove verifications. Sounds really weird, especially if they didn't contact you beforehand.

Hopefully its a misunderstanding and they can give you your verifications back when it's sorted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Disgusting. What with fab and its many rules, and the fact that the site owners are getting advertising sponsorship from multi national companies, and all of the revenue they generate from site supporter passes they must be absolutely creaming it in."

I don't think that's true about the multi national companies. Site fees a very low compared to similar sites so can't see how they are 'creaming' it.

Hope they sort it for you OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think that this even comes under your consumer rights. You paid for a product that simply isnt doing what it is meant to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope you get it sorted.

I didn't realise they can do that without hearing both sides of the story

They should be thanking me for introducing a sexy female to the site not slamming me with guilty verdicts."

The only way they can say it is fake if you both shared the same IP when verifying her account?

I'll know not to suggest this site to friends if that's how it ends

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's why you shouldn't veri friends, but yeah not good what happened there, maibe they can give back your veris somehow, good luck. "

It makes no odds who it is... its a genuine profile for which is still running and has he verification still..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I hope you get it sorted.

I didn't realise they can do that without hearing both sides of the story

They should be thanking me for introducing a sexy female to the site not slamming me with guilty verdicts.

The only way they can say it is fake if you both shared the same IP when verifying her account?

I'll know not to suggest this site to friends if that's how it ends "

if you do that the verifications just don't show up.

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

you haven't verified a sexbot have you dude?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hope you get it sorted.

I didn't realise they can do that without hearing both sides of the story

They should be thanking me for introducing a sexy female to the site not slamming me with guilty verdicts.

The only way they can say it is fake if you both shared the same IP when verifying her account?

I'll know not to suggest this site to friends if that's how it ends "

never shared ip addresses..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would think that this even comes under your consumer rights. You paid for a product that simply isnt doing what it is meant to do. "

I find this a bit funny. Would you go and make an official complaint against a sex site?

But I do hope you get this sorted OP. They should at least hear both sides.

-Courtney

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I hope you get it sorted.

I didn't realise they can do that without hearing both sides of the story

They should be thanking me for introducing a sexy female to the site not slamming me with guilty verdicts.

The only way they can say it is fake if you both shared the same IP when verifying her account?

I'll know not to suggest this site to friends if that's how it ends "

it is a it concerning, I don't want my verifications removing for introducing someome

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Someone has obviously reported you, but none of it makes sense if they thought she was fake they would of removed her profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did someone contact them then re this veri, how would their attention been drawn to it otherwise...?!

Seems a bit odd to me.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 15/09/15 15:43:05]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely some of the people you've met would be happy to verify you again?

I know it probably feels pretty unjust but it's hardly the end of the world.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I've known of a similar situation where someone verified another user after a genuine meet and then that other user had a dodgy veri from a third party. Admin treated everyone who had verified that user as tainted by association and they were stripped of their veris too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 15/09/15 15:43:05]"

Without wishing to take sides......

My instinct would be to shrug it off and carry-on enjoying my primary reason for being on the site....

I know I'm genuine and that's all that really matters to me,,,,,I don't place value in merit badges or providing past references ......

I certainly wouldn't feel forced to leave....and I fail to see what leaving would achieve,,,,

But anyway OP I hope things sort out and you stay aboard.......

Yikes my spelling...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did someone contact them then re this veri, how would their attention been drawn to it otherwise...?!

Seems a bit odd to me....."

no idea but absolutely fuming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry to hear the ops story, but we have stopped contacting admin about anything because anything very rarely gets done, as long as the money is coming in fab lets so many things go by, a decent site but would be even better if the people running it actually paid attention to whats going on

mr & mrs

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon


"That's why you shouldn't veri friends, but yeah not good what happened there, maibe they can give back your veris somehow, good luck.

It makes no odds who it is... its a genuine profile for which is still running and has he verification still.. "

You're saying the verification that fab claim is fake is still on the site?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I hope you get it sorted.

I didn't realise they can do that without hearing both sides of the story

They should be thanking me for introducing a sexy female to the site not slamming me with guilty verdicts.

The only way they can say it is fake if you both shared the same IP when verifying her account?

I'll know not to suggest this site to friends if that's how it ends it is a it concerning, I don't want my verifications removing for introducing someome"

Neither would I, I hope you at least get an explanation rather than the blanket ignore as that is the norm, when you disagree with anything/decisions made

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's why you shouldn't veri friends, but yeah not good what happened there, maibe they can give back your veris somehow, good luck.

It makes no odds who it is... its a genuine profile for which is still running and has he verification still..

You're saying the verification that fab claim is fake is still on the site?"

yes for sure...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's why you shouldn't veri friends, but yeah not good what happened there, maibe they can give back your veris somehow, good luck.

It makes no odds who it is... its a genuine profile for which is still running and has he verification still..

You're saying the verification that fab claim is fake is still on the site?

yes for sure... "

if you carry on high lighting it they will ban this profile to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope admin don't close this thread yet.

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Disgusting. What with fab and its many rules, and the fact that the site owners are getting advertising sponsorship from multi national companies, and all of the revenue they generate from site supporter passes they must be absolutely creaming it in."

If you don't like it leave - no one has ever been forced to stay on here nor to pay for the privilege of being here. its not life or death ffs its a fun swing site!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Disgusting. What with fab and its many rules, and the fact that the site owners are getting advertising sponsorship from multi national companies, and all of the revenue they generate from site supporter passes they must be absolutely creaming it in.

If you don't like it leave - no one has ever been forced to stay on here nor to pay for the privilege of being here. its not life or death ffs its a fun swing site!!

"

....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hope admin don't close this thread yet.

"

if they did it shows their guilt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely if you're that popular you could just message everyone you've met and they'll re-verify you and you can carry on as you were.

Seems odd that admin would remove your verifications rather than the one they apparently claim is false.

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon


"That's why you shouldn't veri friends, but yeah not good what happened there, maibe they can give back your veris somehow, good luck.

It makes no odds who it is... its a genuine profile for which is still running and has he verification still..

You're saying the verification that fab claim is fake is still on the site?

yes for sure... "

Has the person you verified contacted fab and offered to prove they are genuine? Or been photo verified?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I hope admin don't close this thread yet.

if they did it shows their guilt"

threads ii nn general about administration do get closed, but if what your saying is true then it could affect us all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's why you shouldn't veri friends, but yeah not good what happened there, maibe they can give back your veris somehow, good luck.

It makes no odds who it is... its a genuine profile for which is still running and has he verification still..

You're saying the verification that fab claim is fake is still on the site?

yes for sure...

Has the person you verified contacted fab and offered to prove they are genuine? Or been photo verified?"

they joined this morning.. I have rang them and they will get photo done later this evening..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you get it sorted mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely if you're that popular you could just message everyone you've met and they'll re-verify you and you can carry on as you were.

Seems odd that admin would remove your verifications rather than the one they apparently claim is false. "

I can only say what they did... why is beyond me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's why you shouldn't veri friends, but yeah not good what happened there, maibe they can give back your veris somehow, good luck.

It makes no odds who it is... its a genuine profile for which is still running and has he verification still..

You're saying the verification that fab claim is fake is still on the site?

yes for sure...

Has the person you verified contacted fab and offered to prove they are genuine? Or been photo verified?

they joined this morning.. I have rang them and they will get photo done later this evening..

"

Ate you sure this is the reason why your veris have been removed? Have admin told you that?

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"[Removed by poster at 15/09/15 15:43:05]

Without wishing to take sides......

My instinct would be to shrug it off and carry-on enjoying my primary reason for being on the site....

I know I'm genuine and that's all that really matters to me,,,,,I don't place value in merit badges or providing past references ......

I certainly wouldn't feel forced to leave....and I fail to see what leaving would achieve,,,,

*)"

Chin up OP. People who have met you know youre genuine.

.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"That's why you shouldn't veri friends, but yeah not good what happened there, maibe they can give back your veris somehow, good luck.

It makes no odds who it is... its a genuine profile for which is still running and has he verification still..

You're saying the verification that fab claim is fake is still on the site?

yes for sure...

Has the person you verified contacted fab and offered to prove they are genuine? Or been photo verified?

they joined this morning.. I have rang them and they will get photo done later this evening..

"

this gets odder so how long after you verified them did your verifications get removed?

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon


"I hope admin don't close this thread yet.

if they did it shows their guiltthreads ii nn general about administration do get closed, but if what your saying is true then it could affect us all"

Exactly this is relevant to all that use the site.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Surely if you're that popular you could just message everyone you've met and they'll re-verify you and you can carry on as you were.

Seems odd that admin would remove your verifications rather than the one they apparently claim is false. "

this..

slagging them off when they may have made a mistake yet to be rectified is not going to end well..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's why you shouldn't veri friends, but yeah not good what happened there, maibe they can give back your veris somehow, good luck.

It makes no odds who it is... its a genuine profile for which is still running and has he verification still..

You're saying the verification that fab claim is fake is still on the site?

yes for sure...

Has the person you verified contacted fab and offered to prove they are genuine? Or been photo verified?

they joined this morning.. I have rang them and they will get photo done later this evening..

Ate you sure this is the reason why your veris have been removed? Have admin told you that?"

yes In an inbox message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still don't understand why you're being "Forced to leave"?

I know it isn't right, and obviously an admin error of some sort, but surely it can be resolved without histrionics?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's why you shouldn't veri friends, but yeah not good what happened there, maibe they can give back your veris somehow, good luck.

It makes no odds who it is... its a genuine profile for which is still running and has he verification still..

You're saying the verification that fab claim is fake is still on the site?

yes for sure...

Has the person you verified contacted fab and offered to prove they are genuine? Or been photo verified?

they joined this morning.. I have rang them and they will get photo done later this evening..

this gets odder so how long after you verified them did your verifications get removed?"

maybe an hour.. I was off for a few hours

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By *hybloke67Man
over a year ago

ROMFORD

If you meet someone and play you leave a play verification.

If you meet them socially you leave a social one.

But this now makes you think about leaving one at all now...!!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"That's why you shouldn't veri friends, but yeah not good what happened there, maibe they can give back your veris somehow, good luck.

It makes no odds who it is... its a genuine profile for which is still running and has he verification still..

You're saying the verification that fab claim is fake is still on the site?

yes for sure...

Has the person you verified contacted fab and offered to prove they are genuine? Or been photo verified?

they joined this morning.. I have rang them and they will get photo done later this evening..

this gets odder so how long after you verified them did your verifications get removed?

maybe an hour.. I was off for a few hours"

are you sure noone has hacked your account

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

It's a very well run site but sometimes the lack of transparency lets it down and for a customer centric fee paying mode, these things should be looked at.

but overall, I am sure they will put right any wrong doing. They have resolved for me in the past and very fairly.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

model*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was merely stating that the attitude of the site owners in some ways totally stinks, thats all.

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport

really driveshaft? just like that they revoked everything and erased it all the fab history you had?

yikes that is pretty harsh man, kind of makes me happy all I have is a photo verification now....

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"That's why you shouldn't veri friends, but yeah not good what happened there, maibe they can give back your veris somehow, good luck.

It makes no odds who it is... its a genuine profile for which is still running and has he verification still..

You're saying the verification that fab claim is fake is still on the site?

yes for sure...

Has the person you verified contacted fab and offered to prove they are genuine? Or been photo verified?

they joined this morning.. I have rang them and they will get photo done later this evening..

this gets odder so how long after you verified them did your verifications get removed?

maybe an hour.. I was off for a few hoursare you sure noone has hacked your account"

I can't see how this would have removed the green tick though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whats even more crazy is that all the veris I left over the years to others are still on their profiles..

wow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's why you shouldn't veri friends, but yeah not good what happened there, maibe they can give back your veris somehow, good luck.

It makes no odds who it is... its a genuine profile for which is still running and has he verification still..

You're saying the verification that fab claim is fake is still on the site?

yes for sure...

Has the person you verified contacted fab and offered to prove they are genuine? Or been photo verified?

they joined this morning.. I have rang them and they will get photo done later this evening..

this gets odder so how long after you verified them did your verifications get removed?

maybe an hour.. I was off for a few hoursare you sure noone has hacked your account

I can't see how this would have removed the green tick though. "

I suppose they could do anything. they seem to know when people are guilty as they are that clever so it seems

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"That's why you shouldn't veri friends, but yeah not good what happened there, maibe they can give back your veris somehow, good luck.

It makes no odds who it is... its a genuine profile for which is still running and has he verification still..

You're saying the verification that fab claim is fake is still on the site?

yes for sure...

Has the person you verified contacted fab and offered to prove they are genuine? Or been photo verified?

they joined this morning.. I have rang them and they will get photo done later this evening..

this gets odder so how long after you verified them did your verifications get removed?

maybe an hour.. I was off for a few hoursare you sure noone has hacked your account

I can't see how this would have removed the green tick though.

I suppose they could do anything. they seem to know when people are guilty as they are that clever so it seems"

well as bizzare as it all seems I'm sure it will get sorted and you will get your tick and verifications back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would delete your last post

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it's inappropriate to detail their message to you for all to see.

they wouldn't display yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's inappropriate to detail their message to you for all to see.

they wouldn't display yours"

This,,,,,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"it's inappropriate to detail their message to you for all to see.

they wouldn't display yours"

maybe not but they would happily violate my paid membership

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"it's inappropriate to detail their message to you for all to see.

they wouldn't display yours

This,,,,, "

?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your tick and veris are back now it seems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just looked at your profile, it has a green tick and a lot of verifications (didn't count them) so I guess you should ask the mods to remove this thread now...

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"it's inappropriate to detail their message to you for all to see.

they wouldn't display yours

maybe not but they would happily violate my paid membership"

that is between you and them to deal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

perfect...

moderator please remove this post.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

happy days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can clearly see all the veris and green tick ??? Welcome back op

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you staying now

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

To quote shag you just needed patience glad its sorted though

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Look the bright side though. You haven't been sent to the naughty step and you still have loads of veris on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To quote shag you just needed patience glad its sorted though

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All's well, that ends well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's inappropriate to detail their message to you for all to see.

they wouldn't display yours

This,,,,,

?"

What started as relatively understandable over-reaction seems to be spiralling into a display of unattractive petulance.....

People have been supportive of your situation but in doing so they are being drawn into your personal quarrel .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So throwing the toys out does work occasionally

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By *hybloke67Man
over a year ago

ROMFORD

Well done Admin. There mistake now sorted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for all the kind comments regarding this situation..

ass you can see now I wasn't just a guy looking for free veries..

what is shown is what I had shown so all good.. the others are hid away as I chose that at the time.. but all back..

NOTE to admin.. I appreciate whoever rectified this and im sure there was a massive mistake here.. thank you for fixing this issue and please rectify my bad name on your records to be that of one of the genuine swingers here..

many thanks and have a fun filled day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"it's inappropriate to detail their message to you for all to see.

they wouldn't display yours

This,,,,,

?

What started as relatively understandable over-reaction seems to be spiralling into a display of unattractive petulance.....

People have been supportive of your situation but in doing so they are being drawn into your personal quarrel .....

"

your making no sense.. not a good look.. but my situation is sorted and all the good folk are on my xmas list

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

looks like all your veries are there to me anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is one post I never thought I'd make.

Please could admin contact me in relation to a huge violation matter.

One of my pet hates is fake verifications..

I have been a true swinger for many years and been to most clubs around the country as swell as private parties and private meets. more than the admin for sure.

I have been on this site for many years too and even pay ahead for my gold membership that is currently running until 11/1/17...

I met someone on here over the past few days that I have know off of fabs for a long time and suggested they join..

on them joining I gave them a very well deserved and legitimate verification remembering that fake veries are hated by myself..

I have a message from fab saying I fake veried someone and they took away my over 100 very well deserved verifications and my circular green tick... no questions no way of replying as that link wont allow an instant reply.. nothing.. just told guilty and that's that... all my club and private meet verifications striped for no reason at all..

this is a massive violation of my rights as a legitimate and well respected member and known swinging within the scene.

I have complained and heard nothing.. its a disgrace and an embarrassment to fab swingers.their is no recourse when they do this you are wasting your time complaining ,they won't reverse decision

I met a girl I been playing with for years.. told her to join this site.. recommended and she likes her play.. verified her then slammed GUILTY."

Did you help her set up her profile?

Did you verify her from the same PC her profile was set up on?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"looks like all your veries are there to me anyway

"

they must have got the complaint and rectified

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is one post I never thought I'd make.

Please could admin contact me in relation to a huge violation matter.

One of my pet hates is fake verifications..

I have been a true swinger for many years and been to most clubs around the country as swell as private parties and private meets. more than the admin for sure.

I have been on this site for many years too and even pay ahead for my gold membership that is currently running until 11/1/17...

I met someone on here over the past few days that I have know off of fabs for a long time and suggested they join..

on them joining I gave them a very well deserved and legitimate verification remembering that fake veries are hated by myself..

I have a message from fab saying I fake veried someone and they took away my over 100 very well deserved verifications and my circular green tick... no questions no way of replying as that link wont allow an instant reply.. nothing.. just told guilty and that's that... all my club and private meet verifications striped for no reason at all..

this is a massive violation of my rights as a legitimate and well respected member and known swinging within the scene.

I have complained and heard nothing.. its a disgrace and an embarrassment to fab swingers.their is no recourse when they do this you are wasting your time complaining ,they won't reverse decision

I met a girl I been playing with for years.. told her to join this site.. recommended and she likes her play.. verified her then slammed GUILTY.

Did you help her set up her profile?

Did you verify her from the same PC her profile was set up on?"

nope none.. we are 30 miles apart..

but all sorted.. they seem to have had the complaint and rectified accourdingly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look the bright side though. You haven't been sent to the naughty step and you still have loads of veris on your profile "

Win win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alls well that ends well then

I just though if you helped her set her profile up then swapped user on same PC then verified her it could look like you have numerous accounts and verifying yourself

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Hooray well done admin.. I must say tho OP Paying so far ahead is quite risky.. I know its not a huge amount but you have no clue if the company will be here in two years..

People were duped a few years back By the Old AWC. then it just closed one day with no warning. I think its not wise or worth it to pay that far ahead.. Unless of course you get Platinum membership of course

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"thanks for all the kind comments regarding this situation..

ass you can see now I wasn't just a guy looking for free veries..

what is shown is what I had shown so all good.. the others are hid away as I chose that at the time.. but all back..

NOTE to admin.. I appreciate whoever rectified this and im sure there was a massive mistake here.. thank you for fixing this issue and please rectify my bad name on your records to be that of one of the genuine swingers here..

many thanks and have a fun filled day "

congratulations on you're reinstatement and getting the verifications back...

the truth shall set you freeeeee

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hooray well done admin.. I must say tho OP Paying so far ahead is quite risky.. I know its not a huge amount but you have no clue if the company will be here in two years..

People were duped a few years back By the Old AWC. then it just closed one day with no warning. I think its not wise or worth it to pay that far ahead.. Unless of course you get Platinum membership of course

"

if you would like to inbox me I can explain the membership thing

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

why can't you tell us all ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"why can't you tell us all ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why can't you tell us all ?"

Cause he's trying to get in her box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy it's sorted now

Now give us all a shag so you can be inundated with new verifications

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

And yet I've found admin to be very helpful at times. More often than not.

OP: all is well! Stress is over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience when admin make a mistake they own up and make it up to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Free lifetime membership

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

Admin do remove verifications if they consider them fake, if they let people give fake veri's and not do anything about it then there would be people saying that isn't right either.

However....if you think a mistake has been made, use the CONTACT button to ask Admin to re_iew and they will put it right if it is a mistake. You have to be patient though

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