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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It seems to me that on this site lately,just guys trying to get a quick shag,thought this site was for swinging doesn't seem it lately...

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I remembers when all this were fields.

*creak, groan, where's my walking stick?*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to someone else on another thread swinging is about meet,fuck and go. I wish you lot would make up your minds

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lots of other sites for quick fucks if that's what your into...this is a swinging site for people to have mutual fun together adding a little spice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what you mean swinging is about a cofe at nandos and a chat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is about sex but not the be all and end all. Many of my friends I chat to here I won't meet-distance is a bitch. But naughty flirty chat is great.

A few people have joined here after I have met them from other sites as they enjoyed my relaxed manner and never assuming chatting meant sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems to me that on this site lately,just guys trying to get a quick shag,thought this site was for swinging doesn't seem it lately... "

Dont do quick..Not if am wanting to cum..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems to me that on this site lately,just guys trying to get a quick shag,thought this site was for swinging doesn't seem it lately... "
I agree actually. Get lots of messages from (mainly younger) guys who seem to think that this will be a good way of getting an "easy shag" completely different to swinging in my opinion xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they need to set up fabshag?

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By *riskygazMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Well I would think the main purpose of a swingers site is to meet up and not have to beat about the bush, and just cut to the chase and say do you fancy a shag, I find it quite funny when I read some threads of women saying they find it offensive, it's a bloody sex site how can you be offended when a guy asks you if you want to have sex,

ok yes you can have a bit off chit chat that's fair enough, if you want someone to chat to about the weather and shopping, well why don't you just stick to Facebook.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I would think the main purpose of a swingers site is to meet up and not have to beat about the bush, and just cut to the chase and say do you fancy a shag, I find it quite funny when I read some threads of women saying they find it offensive, it's a bloody sex site how can you be offended when a guy asks you if you want to have sex,

ok yes you can have a bit off chit chat that's fair enough, if you want someone to chat to about the weather and shopping, well why don't you just stick to Facebook."
Dont really agree. I dont see it as a sex site, its a swinging site. More about attitude than anything else in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely this site is what the logged in user wants it to be. There are no rules about how people should meet and what they get up to when they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely this site is what the logged in user wants it to be. There are no rules about how people should meet and what they get up to when they do. "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely this site is what the logged in user wants it to be. There are no rules about how people should meet and what they get up to when they do. "

x 42

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see this site as a sex site, but with more included in that if you want it.

Part of the problem is anyone can join up for whatever reason they want to. Some couples are into cuckolding and only want fuck and go, some need a connection or want regular meets when other want one offs. These people can message anyone who hasn't blocked them.

I think the filters on here and the messaging system are the best, other sites don't have anything as good as them and i just spend half my time blocking men on there and not much time to chat with anyone i'm interested in.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Surely this site is what the logged in user wants it to be. There are no rules about how people should meet and what they get up to when they do. "

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very true....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if people want a quickie between themselves thats fine as long as all parties concerned are happy - we have a quickie often - the one after tea before we go out is quite popular

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It seems to me that on this site lately,just guys trying to get a quick shag,thought this site was for swinging doesn't seem it lately... I agree actually. Get lots of messages from (mainly younger) guys who seem to think that this will be a good way of getting an "easy shag" completely different to swinging in my opinion xx"

This was what I was trying to get across its a swinger site not a site for someone to get an easy shag,totally agree with you. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems to me that on this site lately,just guys trying to get a quick shag,thought this site was for swinging doesn't seem it lately... "
hey theirs always going to be that element suppose the summer played its part I always feel Fournier when suns shining x

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

We have a quickie most mornings starts the day of well but we don,t meet others for quickies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aint in2 quick shags i lv to tease and build up the fun and tbh it takes me ten minutes just to take my bra off hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't think of anything worse than a 'quick shag'

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's probably a good idea to use the site just how you want and to meet people who have the same attitude to you. I've done a fuck and go, a blow and go, a social, a social then sex, a long sex session, just chat on here - a wide variety of uses. It's how YOU use the site that matters, not how other people use the site.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"It seems to me that on this site lately,just guys trying to get a quick shag,thought this site was for swinging doesn't seem it lately... "

We find it rich that people new to swinging deem it right to tell others what swinging is or is not.

We have been swinging for at least 35 years and have always the quick shag aspect of it.

In fact back in the 60s & 70s it was almost always shag and seldom see again meets.

Swinging encompasses many forms from couple playing with couples through threesomes & gangbangs to individuals playing with other individuals.

It is about sex for some it is also about friendships and lifestyle.

We suggest enjoy what you want to enjoy and leave the others to enjoy their choices

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Am I the only one to wonder at such criticism from people who are doggers ?

I mean, talk about the quintessential quick shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one to wonder at such criticism from people who are doggers ?

I mean, talk about the quintessential quick shag "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It seems to me that on this site lately,just guys trying to get a quick shag,thought this site was for swinging doesn't seem it lately...

We find it rich that people new to swinging deem it right to tell others what swinging is or is not.

We have been swinging for at least 35 years and have always the quick shag aspect of it.

In fact back in the 60s & 70s it was almost always shag and seldom see again meets.

Swinging encompasses many forms from couple playing with couples through threesomes & gangbangs to individuals playing with other individuals.

It is about sex for some it is also about friendships and lifestyle.

We suggest enjoy what you want to enjoy and leave the others to enjoy their choices"
we have been swinging for a number of years as well so really not new to this at least 20 plus years. All I'm saying seems to be alot of young guys coming on here just to get a quick shag...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems to me that on this site lately,just guys trying to get a quick shag,thought this site was for swinging doesn't seem it lately... "

YOUR JOKING RIGHT? This isn't one of them dirty sex sites is it? OMG!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't think of anything worse than a 'quick shag' "
me too I like hours and time and time again until I get it right x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It seems to me that on this site lately,just guys trying to get a quick shag,thought this site was for swinging doesn't seem it lately...

We find it rich that people new to swinging deem it right to tell others what swinging is or is not.

We have been swinging for at least 35 years and have always the quick shag aspect of it.

In fact back in the 60s & 70s it was almost always shag and seldom see again meets.

Swinging encompasses many forms from couple playing with couples through threesomes & gangbangs to individuals playing with other individuals.

It is about sex for some it is also about friendships and lifestyle.

We suggest enjoy what you want to enjoy and leave the others to enjoy their choices we have been swinging for a number of years as well so really not new to this at least 20 plus years. All I'm saying seems to be alot of young guys coming on here just to get a quick shag... "

Try not to meet them might be the solution.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Am I the only one to wonder at such criticism from people who are doggers ?

I mean, talk about the quintessential quick shag "
we set meets up don't go out to pick up guys...we just enjoy sex outdoors...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems to me that on this site lately,just guys trying to get a quick shag,thought this site was for swinging doesn't seem it lately... I agree actually. Get lots of messages from (mainly younger) guys who seem to think that this will be a good way of getting an "easy shag" completely different to swinging in my opinion xx

This was what I was trying to get across its a swinger site not a site for someone to get an easy shag,totally agree with you. Xx"

I like them because they make it clear all they want is a quick shag so they are easy to avoid if you don't want that. They won't chat for ages and waste your time. See it as a positive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of other sites for quick fucks if that's what your into...this is a swinging site for people to have mutual fun together adding a little spice..."

Not that I meet alone now but if I was that is all I would want. And Did so for Many years. No names, and as little prior interaction as possible.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Am I the only one to wonder at such criticism from people who are doggers ?

I mean, talk about the quintessential quick shag we set meets up don't go out to pick up guys...we just enjoy sex outdoors..."

I've never been dogging or having sex outside - does the sex last for hours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems to me that on this site lately,just guys trying to get a quick shag,thought this site was for swinging doesn't seem it lately... I agree actually. Get lots of messages from (mainly younger) guys who seem to think that this will be a good way of getting an "easy shag" completely different to swinging in my opinion xx

This was what I was trying to get across its a swinger site not a site for someone to get an easy shag,totally agree with you. Xx

I like them because they make it clear all they want is a quick shag so they are easy to avoid if you don't want that. They won't chat for ages and waste your time. See it as a positive. "
hey scarlet fancy a quickie xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It seems to me that on this site lately,just guys trying to get a quick shag,thought this site was for swinging doesn't seem it lately... I agree actually. Get lots of messages from (mainly younger) guys who seem to think that this will be a good way of getting an "easy shag" completely different to swinging in my opinion xx

This was what I was trying to get across its a swinger site not a site for someone to get an easy shag,totally agree with you. Xx

I like them because they make it clear all they want is a quick shag so they are easy to avoid if you don't want that. They won't chat for ages and waste your time. See it as a positive. hey scarlet fancy a quickie xx "
did you both enjoy it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I remembers when all this were fields.

*creak, groan, where's my walking stick?*"

Brilliant!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one to wonder at such criticism from people who are doggers ?

I mean, talk about the quintessential quick shag we set meets up don't go out to pick up guys...we just enjoy sex outdoors..."

Hey thats fair enough just know that most people will presume thats the case.

I think the site is what you make of it, there are plenty here for a quick shag and if thats what they want great it works for them. Just block and move on.

Theres plenty here who prefer more of a connection/ session/ regularity. Sometimes its frustrating but if you feel like that just take a deep breath and ignore the inbox for a while. Good luck xx

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"Am I the only one to wonder at such criticism from people who are doggers ?

I mean, talk about the quintessential quick shag we set meets up don't go out to pick up guys...we just enjoy sex outdoors..."

I get that. ...but your last veris is from a guy you didn't meet til you went dogging.

So no social an just a shag.

I am not judging but you can hardly criticise guys wanting what you appear to readily offer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The bottom line is sex , however you wanna look at it , quick shag , talk for ages on the phone , have a beer first , etc , at the end of the day we are all here to get sex at the end of it all.

If it was Facebook , then it's a different ball game , this site is what it is , you find people who wanna have sex with after .....

I don't think anyone who befriends me on here or in a club is really interested in my sick dog , or my young brother in China , they are more interested in me and what I will do to them in bed.

I would not befriend someone on here just for laughs .If you see my friend request , it's , in effect , a request for a shag , whether quick or latter on, but a shag in the end result and if I see your wink or friend request I will start thinking about what I will do to you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Am I the only one to wonder at such criticism from people who are doggers ?

I mean, talk about the quintessential quick shag we set meets up don't go out to pick up guys...we just enjoy sex outdoors...

I get that. ...but your last veris is from a guy you didn't meet til you went dogging.

So no social an just a shag.

I am not judging but you can hardly criticise guys wanting what you appear to readily offer."

We were chatting for a while said he always liked the thought of outdoors we met we chatted we played. X

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

So a quick shag. Please understand that there is nothing wrong with that.

If you are complaining of guys expecting instant meets, then I understand more clearly.

But that is a small distinction as some here have last minute meets as well.

All part of the big wide world of Fab fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems to me that on this site lately,just guys trying to get a quick shag,thought this site was for swinging doesn't seem it lately... "

the site can be whatever people want it to be & meeting up for sex is one element.

as a different viewpoint do you not think that maybe some people having stumbled across this site looking for sex, see profile pictures of a spread pussy / arses out etc eric & think Yep I'd like some of that.

it's not a judgement on your profile just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*eric

Wtf!!

*etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I remembers when all this were fields.

*creak, groan, where's my walking stick?*"

This comment still makes me laugh when i come back to this topic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*eric

Wtf!!

*etc etc

"

eric, oh dear eric, typo of the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems to me that on this site lately,just guys trying to get a quick shag,thought this site was for swinging doesn't seem it lately...

the site can be whatever people want it to be & meeting up for sex is one element.

as a different viewpoint do you not think that maybe some people having stumbled across this site looking for sex, see profile pictures of a spread pussy / arses out etc eric & think Yep I'd like some of that.

it's not a judgement on your profile just a thought.

"
hi classy valid point it always strikes me as funny when the many people who love to bring up serious topics like politics and debate them have pics of their cocks pussies ,breasts and bums on display of course our bums are on display in the name of competition fortunately classylaydees example is the better of the two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems to me that on this site lately,just guys trying to get a quick shag,thought this site was for swinging doesn't seem it lately...

the site can be whatever people want it to be & meeting up for sex is one element.

as a different viewpoint do you not think that maybe some people having stumbled across this site looking for sex, see profile pictures of a spread pussy / arses out etc eric & think Yep I'd like some of that.

it's not a judgement on your profile just a thought.

"

I think people on here are sometimes much too harsh to newbies. They come on here looking for sex. They see explicit photo's and profiles describing sex acts. Yet people get miffed when people mail asking for sex.

People need to take a step back sometimes and have a think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems to me that on this site lately,just guys trying to get a quick shag,thought this site was for swinging doesn't seem it lately...

the site can be whatever people want it to be & meeting up for sex is one element.

as a different viewpoint do you not think that maybe some people having stumbled across this site looking for sex, see profile pictures of a spread pussy / arses out etc eric & think Yep I'd like some of that.

it's not a judgement on your profile just a thought.

I think people on here are sometimes much too harsh to newbies. They come on here looking for sex. They see explicit photo's and profiles describing sex acts. Yet people get miffed when people mail asking for sex.

People need to take a step back sometimes and have a think.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems to me that on this site lately,just guys trying to get a quick shag,thought this site was for swinging doesn't seem it lately...

the site can be whatever people want it to be & meeting up for sex is one element.

as a different viewpoint do you not think that maybe some people having stumbled across this site looking for sex, see profile pictures of a spread pussy / arses out etc eric & think Yep I'd like some of that.

it's not a judgement on your profile just a thought.

I think people on here are sometimes much too harsh to newbies. They come on here looking for sex. They see explicit photo's and profiles describing sex acts. Yet people get miffed when people mail asking for sex.

People need to take a step back sometimes and have a think.

"
I agree scarlet can I shag you in them boots x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It seems to me that on this site lately,just guys trying to get a quick shag,thought this site was for swinging doesn't seem it lately...

the site can be whatever people want it to be & meeting up for sex is one element.

as a different viewpoint do you not think that maybe some people having stumbled across this site looking for sex, see profile pictures of a spread pussy / arses out etc eric & think Yep I'd like some of that.

it's not a judgement on your profile just a thought.

I think people on here are sometimes much too harsh to newbies. They come on here looking for sex. They see explicit photo's and profiles describing sex acts. Yet people get miffed when people mail asking for sex.

People need to take a step back sometimes and have a think.

I agree scarlet can I shag you in them boots x "

I think they will suit you

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