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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm feeling really indecisive at the minute and wondered if anyone else ever gets like that about being on here?

I've had some amazing meets on here, and I'd say I have made a couple of good friends.

But I keep finding myself questioning what I'm doing on here? I know it's a bit of fun and I have a good laugh on here, the banter can be brilliant at times.

I'm wandering if it's time to hang up the swinging boots and say hello to the real world again!

I know you would all miss me so much if I went and your lives would be quieter

It can be a bit addictive on here but as a good friend said to me "fab is an avoidance" and I can totally get what that means!

Does Anyone else ever get like this on here?

Be interested to hear people's thoughts on this

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

take a break and see how you feel in a day/week/month

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Is this a serious question this time?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is this a serious question this time? "

Yeah, learnt my lesson about "joke posts"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm feeling really indecisive at the minute and wondered if anyone else ever gets like that about being on here?

I've had some amazing meets on here, and I'd say I have made a couple of good friends.

But I keep finding myself questioning what I'm doing on here? I know it's a bit of fun and I have a good laugh on here, the banter can be brilliant at times.

I'm wandering if it's time to hang up the swinging boots and say hello to the real world again!

I know you would all miss me so much if I went and your lives would be quieter

It can be a bit addictive on here but as a good friend said to me "fab is an avoidance" and I can totally get what that means!

Does Anyone else ever get like this on here?

Be interested to hear people's thoughts on this "

I know I use fab as a real world escape, I'd love a guy to come home too but having too much fun right now!!

It in doubt hide the profile for a bit and try the real world you might enjoy it!!

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By *aughtypair555Couple
over a year ago

north west

The "real world " should go alongside fabs. If you ever lost touch with the real world then yeah, you need a break x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm feeling really indecisive at the minute and wondered if anyone else ever gets like that about being on here?

I've had some amazing meets on here, and I'd say I have made a couple of good friends.

But I keep finding myself questioning what I'm doing on here? I know it's a bit of fun and I have a good laugh on here, the banter can be brilliant at times.

I'm wandering if it's time to hang up the swinging boots and say hello to the real world again!

I know you would all miss me so much if I went and your lives would be quieter

It can be a bit addictive on here but as a good friend said to me "fab is an avoidance" and I can totally get what that means!

Does Anyone else ever get like this on here?

Be interested to hear people's thoughts on this

I know I use fab as a real world escape, I'd love a guy to come home too but having too much fun right now!!

It in doubt hide the profile for a bit and try the real world you might enjoy it!!"

Yeah I was thinking of doing that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I go through this from time to time, feel a bit like it at the moment! I just take s break or hide my profile for a while and busy myself with other things

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The "real world " should go alongside fabs. If you ever lost touch with the real world then yeah, you need a break x"

My "real world" can't run alongside it? It has to be one or the other, I'm not going into why it is just the way it has to be for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm feeling really indecisive at the minute and wondered if anyone else ever gets like that about being on here?

I've had some amazing meets on here, and I'd say I have made a couple of good friends.

But I keep finding myself questioning what I'm doing on here? I know it's a bit of fun and I have a good laugh on here, the banter can be brilliant at times.

I'm wandering if it's time to hang up the swinging boots and say hello to the real world again!

I know you would all miss me so much if I went and your lives would be quieter

It can be a bit addictive on here but as a good friend said to me "fab is an avoidance" and I can totally get what that means!

Does Anyone else ever get like this on here?

Be interested to hear people's thoughts on this

I know I use fab as a real world escape, I'd love a guy to come home too but having too much fun right now!!

It in doubt hide the profile for a bit and try the real world you might enjoy it!!

Yeah I was thinking of doing that "

Hiding is better than deleting babe x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I go through this from time to time, feel a bit like it at the moment! I just take s break or hide my profile for a while and busy myself with other things "

Do you find yourself coming back on here quickly though? The temptation gets too much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't belong in the real world.....it's full of weirdo's .....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm feeling really indecisive at the minute and wondered if anyone else ever gets like that about being on here?

I've had some amazing meets on here, and I'd say I have made a couple of good friends.

But I keep finding myself questioning what I'm doing on here? I know it's a bit of fun and I have a good laugh on here, the banter can be brilliant at times.

I'm wandering if it's time to hang up the swinging boots and say hello to the real world again!

I know you would all miss me so much if I went and your lives would be quieter

It can be a bit addictive on here but as a good friend said to me "fab is an avoidance" and I can totally get what that means!

Does Anyone else ever get like this on here?

Be interested to hear people's thoughts on this

I know I use fab as a real world escape, I'd love a guy to come home too but having too much fun right now!!

It in doubt hide the profile for a bit and try the real world you might enjoy it!!

Yeah I was thinking of doing that

Hiding is better than deleting babe x"

A few people have said to not delete it, just to hide, I just think the nosey fucker in me will be too tempted to come back on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You definitely going to fight ISIS this time??

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By *aughtypair555Couple
over a year ago

north west


"The "real world " should go alongside fabs. If you ever lost touch with the real world then yeah, you need a break x

My "real world" can't run alongside it? It has to be one or the other, I'm not going into why it is just the way it has to be for me x"

I'd choose the "real world " but that's just me x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You definitely going to fight ISIS this time?? "

They didn't want me, I didn't have the correct gun training, apparently water pistols as a kid wouldn't cut it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The "real world " should go alongside fabs. If you ever lost touch with the real world then yeah, you need a break x

My "real world" can't run alongside it? It has to be one or the other, I'm not going into why it is just the way it has to be for me x

I'd choose the "real world " but that's just me x"

Yeah think that's most likely my choice, thanks for your input x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't belong in the real world.....it's full of weirdo's ..... "

Good point!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No, cause if I did I wouldnt be here, and this isn't instead of the real world its along side of it.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"The "real world " should go alongside fabs. If you ever lost touch with the real world then yeah, you need a break x

My "real world" can't run alongside it? It has to be one or the other, I'm not going into why it is just the way it has to be for me x"

that's the answer to your question right there, you have inner conflict, therefore you'll always be unsure about here or there, or, what you do here, o,r what you do in the real world..that is the crux of the problem, there's no inner peace, towards all of it inclusively..you've embedded yourself in a self inflicted duality, where nothing can align... just saying x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The "real world " should go alongside fabs. If you ever lost touch with the real world then yeah, you need a break x

My "real world" can't run alongside it? It has to be one or the other, I'm not going into why it is just the way it has to be for me x

that's the answer to your question right there, you have inner conflict, therefore you'll always be unsure about here or there, or, what you do here, o,r what you do in the real world..that is the crux of the problem, there's no inner peace, towards all of it inclusively..you've embedded yourself in a self inflicted duality, where nothing can align... just saying x"

I so wish I was clever enough to understand this reply!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I go through this from time to time, feel a bit like it at the moment! I just take s break or hide my profile for a while and busy myself with other things

Do you find yourself coming back on here quickly though? The temptation gets too much?"

I stayed off for 18 months at one point, as in I didn't meet but I hid my profile and just very occasionally popped on for a nose and to reply to any messages from friends, but other than that I totally lost interest in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep the real world may be more attractive to singles looking to meet singles, you get to select on looks, personality, 7 days worth of messaging in 30 seconds real chat, and if you don't pull you have still had a night out.

But for those looking for something less vanilla e.g. 3 or more people or a particular kink you can't bring up on a first date, Fab is there to help out!

Before I met L I never knew Fab existed, still most weekends there would be a different woman in my bed (I was a single dad at the time but my in-laws took the kids most weekends) sometimes the same one for a few nights, which allowed more adventurous play.

In our case the kink that is hard to bring up in conversation is L likes women as well, which means we are better off in clubs, or on Fab when we are looking. Life evolves and L is working away too often at the moment to make a couples profile appropriate and though I have no intention of meeting for sex without her it's nice to be in the forums and chat to open minded people, and whilst the topics are just as repetitive at times I would rather be here than in the local church group as I prefer the topics that repeat.

As for your case, I have no idea... only you know that, but why not try mixing it up a bit more and see which one is the most fun?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I go through this from time to time, feel a bit like it at the moment! I just take s break or hide my profile for a while and busy myself with other things

Do you find yourself coming back on here quickly though? The temptation gets too much?

I stayed off for 18 months at one point, as in I didn't meet but I hid my profile and just very occasionally popped on for a nose and to reply to any messages from friends, but other than that I totally lost interest in it. "

And now you're back is it just how it was prior to hiding the profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i couldn't have my fab life alongside real life, real life would win everytime. I wouldn't contemplate being on here. Guess it depends on your situation though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep the real world may be more attractive to singles looking to meet singles, you get to select on looks, personality, 7 days worth of messaging in 30 seconds real chat, and if you don't pull you have still had a night out.

But for those looking for something less vanilla e.g. 3 or more people or a particular kink you can't bring up on a first date, Fab is there to help out!

Before I met L I never knew Fab existed, still most weekends there would be a different woman in my bed (I was a single dad at the time but my in-laws took the kids most weekends) sometimes the same one for a few nights, which allowed more adventurous play.

In our case the kink that is hard to bring up in conversation is L likes women as well, which means we are better off in clubs, or on Fab when we are looking. Life evolves and L is working away too often at the moment to make a couples profile appropriate and though I have no intention of meeting for sex without her it's nice to be in the forums and chat to open minded people, and whilst the topics are just as repetitive at times I would rather be here than in the local church group as I prefer the topics that repeat.

As for your case, I have no idea... only you know that, but why not try mixing it up a bit more and see which one is the most fun?

"

Great reply thanks for your input

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If i couldn't have my fab life alongside real life, real life would win everytime. I wouldn't contemplate being on here. Guess it depends on your situation though. "

Yeah I see what you're saying x

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"The "real world " should go alongside fabs. If you ever lost touch with the real world then yeah, you need a break x

My "real world" can't run alongside it? It has to be one or the other, I'm not going into why it is just the way it has to be for me x"

Then the real world wins....this is just a bit of fun as you say...it doesn't pay the mortgage.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The "real world " should go alongside fabs. If you ever lost touch with the real world then yeah, you need a break x

My "real world" can't run alongside it? It has to be one or the other, I'm not going into why it is just the way it has to be for me x

Then the real world wins....this is just a bit of fun as you say...it doesn't pay the mortgage."

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

For me sure....I last went to a club before this weekend back in May......

By this weekend it had been a long time since I had experienced my kinks......

As it is not often that I meet people based just off fabs (unless I go to a club or a social) If I need a break I just don't go to any clubs or socials

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"The "real world " should go alongside fabs. If you ever lost touch with the real world then yeah, you need a break x

My "real world" can't run alongside it? It has to be one or the other, I'm not going into why it is just the way it has to be for me x

Then the real world wins....this is just a bit of fun as you say...it doesn't pay the mortgage.

"

....but do bare in mind that the swinging world is alive and well outside of fab....I was a swinger first and a fabber later.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The "real world " should go alongside fabs. If you ever lost touch with the real world then yeah, you need a break x

My "real world" can't run alongside it? It has to be one or the other, I'm not going into why it is just the way it has to be for me x

Then the real world wins....this is just a bit of fun as you say...it doesn't pay the mortgage.

....but do bare in mind that the swinging world is alive and well outside of fab....I was a swinger first and a fabber later."

Yeah I heard about it before this website

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"The "real world " should go alongside fabs. If you ever lost touch with the real world then yeah, you need a break x

My "real world" can't run alongside it? It has to be one or the other, I'm not going into why it is just the way it has to be for me x

that's the answer to your question right there, you have inner conflict, therefore you'll always be unsure about here or there, or, what you do here, o,r what you do in the real world..that is the crux of the problem, there's no inner peace, towards all of it inclusively..you've embedded yourself in a self inflicted duality, where nothing can align... just saying x

I so wish I was clever enough to understand this reply!! "

its not that difficult, you're clever enough to create conflict in your own head..me telling you its just as simple, to come into hermony, goes against what you want, to hear..

i just believe you like being, or, feigning this state, and perpetuating the enforced," i cant do anything to change my circumstances", as its a form of self importance..

if you actually had nothing right now, the choice would be easy, in this moment youd know exactly what you were doing with no mind chatter telling you otherwise..however i doubt very much you will take any notice of me, because you wont know what other style to post your posts in...just a perceptive observation.. much love x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The "real world " should go alongside fabs. If you ever lost touch with the real world then yeah, you need a break x

My "real world" can't run alongside it? It has to be one or the other, I'm not going into why it is just the way it has to be for me x

that's the answer to your question right there, you have inner conflict, therefore you'll always be unsure about here or there, or, what you do here, o,r what you do in the real world..that is the crux of the problem, there's no inner peace, towards all of it inclusively..you've embedded yourself in a self inflicted duality, where nothing can align... just saying x

I so wish I was clever enough to understand this reply!!

its not that difficult, you're clever enough to create conflict in your own head..me telling you its just as simple, to come into hermony, goes against what you want, to hear..

i just believe you like being, or, feigning this state, and perpetuating the enforced," i cant do anything to change my circumstances", as its a form of self importance..

if you actually had nothing right now, the choice would be easy, in this moment youd know exactly what you were doing with no mind chatter telling you otherwise..however i doubt very much you will take any notice of me, because you wont know what other style to post your posts in...just a perceptive observation.. much love x"

Sorry I fell asleep after your first sentence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair I only use fab when Im bored. Is better than candy crush.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be fair I only use fab when Im bored. Is better than candy crush. "

Ha ha good answer

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Unsure about the fleshpots of the internet?

*flicks cape, twirls moustache and looks for a virgin to tie to some train tracks*

Stirring again, OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unsure about the fleshpots of the internet?

*flicks cape, twirls moustache and looks for a virgin to tie to some train tracks*

Stirring again, OP?"

Nope

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I'm always unsure about Fab, but it does fulfill a purpose and I've ran out of other ideas, lol!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm always unsure about Fab, but it does fulfill a purpose and I've ran out of other ideas, lol! "

Fancy a game of Tennis?

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"The "real world " should go alongside fabs. If you ever lost touch with the real world then yeah, you need a break x

My "real world" can't run alongside it? It has to be one or the other, I'm not going into why it is just the way it has to be for me x

that's the answer to your question right there, you have inner conflict, therefore you'll always be unsure about here or there, or, what you do here, o,r what you do in the real world..that is the crux of the problem, there's no inner peace, towards all of it inclusively..you've embedded yourself in a self inflicted duality, where nothing can align... just saying x

I so wish I was clever enough to understand this reply!!

its not that difficult, you're clever enough to create conflict in your own head..me telling you its just as simple, to come into hermony, goes against what you want, to hear..

i just believe you like being, or, feigning this state, and perpetuating the enforced," i cant do anything to change my circumstances", as its a form of self importance..

if you actually had nothing right now, the choice would be easy, in this moment youd know exactly what you were doing with no mind chatter telling you otherwise..however i doubt very much you will take any notice of me, because you wont know what other style to post your posts in...just a perceptive observation.. much love x

Sorry I fell asleep after your first sentence "

exactly...point proven..thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes quite often

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I'm always unsure about Fab, but it does fulfill a purpose and I've ran out of other ideas, lol!

Fancy a game of Tennis? "

Are there ballboys??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm always unsure about Fab, but it does fulfill a purpose and I've ran out of other ideas, lol!

Fancy a game of Tennis?

Are there ballboys?? "

Of course!!!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"The "real world " should go alongside fabs. If you ever lost touch with the real world then yeah, you need a break x

My "real world" can't run alongside it? It has to be one or the other, I'm not going into why it is just the way it has to be for me x"
so are you saying you no longer live outside the internet?

Your whole life is based around the internet, I find that very hard to belie e

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I'm always unsure about Fab, but it does fulfill a purpose and I've ran out of other ideas, lol!

Fancy a game of Tennis?

Are there ballboys??

Of course!!!! "

Ah well, how could I resist!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm feeling really indecisive at the minute and wondered if anyone else ever gets like that about being on here?

I've had some amazing meets on here, and I'd say I have made a couple of good friends.

But I keep finding myself questioning what I'm doing on here? I know it's a bit of fun and I have a good laugh on here, the banter can be brilliant at times.

I'm wandering if it's time to hang up the swinging boots and say hello to the real world again!

I know you would all miss me so much if I went and your lives would be quieter

It can be a bit addictive on here but as a good friend said to me "fab is an avoidance" and I can totally get what that means!

Does Anyone else ever get like this on here?

Be interested to hear people's thoughts on this

I know I use fab as a real world escape, I'd love a guy to come home too but having too much fun right now!!

It in doubt hide the profile for a bit and try the real world you might enjoy it!!

Yeah I was thinking of doing that

Hiding is better than deleting babe x

A few people have said to not delete it, just to hide, I just think the nosey fucker in me will be too tempted to come back on x"
yeah but if you want to come back on you will just make a new profile up anyway so either way you go about it you have access when you want

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The "real world " should go alongside fabs. If you ever lost touch with the real world then yeah, you need a break x

My "real world" can't run alongside it? It has to be one or the other, I'm not going into why it is just the way it has to be for me x

that's the answer to your question right there, you have inner conflict, therefore you'll always be unsure about here or there, or, what you do here, o,r what you do in the real world..that is the crux of the problem, there's no inner peace, towards all of it inclusively..you've embedded yourself in a self inflicted duality, where nothing can align... just saying x

I so wish I was clever enough to understand this reply!!

its not that difficult, you're clever enough to create conflict in your own head..me telling you its just as simple, to come into hermony, goes against what you want, to hear..

i just believe you like being, or, feigning this state, and perpetuating the enforced," i cant do anything to change my circumstances", as its a form of self importance..

if you actually had nothing right now, the choice would be easy, in this moment youd know exactly what you were doing with no mind chatter telling you otherwise..however i doubt very much you will take any notice of me, because you wont know what other style to post your posts in...just a perceptive observation.. much love x

Sorry I fell asleep after your first sentence

exactly...point proven..thank you xx"

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I go into fab mode one minute then dating mode the next minute to be honest though I can't remember the last time I arranged a meet on here. The thrill has gone slightly but that's only because I have been on the scene 8 years I have just got a bit bored of it.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I go into fab mode one minute then dating mode the next minute to be honest though I can't remember the last time I arranged a meet on here. The thrill has gone slightly but that's only because I have been on the scene 8 years I have just got a bit bored of it. "
yes, but that's just hour love life, he's talking about his whole world

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I go into fab mode one minute then dating mode the next minute to be honest though I can't remember the last time I arranged a meet on here. The thrill has gone slightly but that's only because I have been on the scene 8 years I have just got a bit bored of it. "

8 years??? Bloody hell thats a long time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it gets to that stage we take a break, we are just back after a long break.

However we don't do many meets through fab, most are through clubs etc we mainly use fab to keep in touch with people we have met, for the forums and for event ads

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I go into fab mode one minute then dating mode the next minute to be honest though I can't remember the last time I arranged a meet on here. The thrill has gone slightly but that's only because I have been on the scene 8 years I have just got a bit bored of it. yes, but that's just hour love life, he's talking about his whole world"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When it gets to that stage we take a break, we are just back after a long break.

However we don't do many meets through fab, most are through clubs etc we mainly use fab to keep in touch with people we have met, for the forums and for event ads "

How long was the break?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I go into fab mode one minute then dating mode the next minute to be honest though I can't remember the last time I arranged a meet on here. The thrill has gone slightly but that's only because I have been on the scene 8 years I have just got a bit bored of it. yes, but that's just hour love life, he's talking about his whole world

"
so I'm assuming you don't go to work, you don't see your friends or go shopping or anything else to do with the real world

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

I find i go on the "noctural forum" more now and have a bit of banter with the regulars......

I don't meet as much now...i have someone regular......it has lost it's luster a bit.....xx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I go into fab mode one minute then dating mode the next minute to be honest though I can't remember the last time I arranged a meet on here. The thrill has gone slightly but that's only because I have been on the scene 8 years I have just got a bit bored of it. yes, but that's just hour love life, he's talking about his whole world

so I'm assuming you don't go to work, you don't see your friends or go shopping or anything else to do with the real world"

I do I get to see you next month

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I go into fab mode one minute then dating mode the next minute to be honest though I can't remember the last time I arranged a meet on here. The thrill has gone slightly but that's only because I have been on the scene 8 years I have just got a bit bored of it. yes, but that's just hour love life, he's talking about his whole world

so I'm assuming you don't go to work, you don't see your friends or go shopping or anything else to do with the real world"

Yeah of course I do, but I think at my age maybe I should be not messing about on here??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find i go on the "noctural forum" more now and have a bit of banter with the regulars......

I don't meet as much now...i have someone regular......it has lost it's luster a bit.....xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When it gets to that stage we take a break, we are just back after a long break.

However we don't do many meets through fab, most are through clubs etc we mainly use fab to keep in touch with people we have met, for the forums and for event ads

How long was the break? "

About 11 months, we nipped on maybe once or twice in that time

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"I go into fab mode one minute then dating mode the next minute to be honest though I can't remember the last time I arranged a meet on here. The thrill has gone slightly but that's only because I have been on the scene 8 years I have just got a bit bored of it. yes, but that's just hour love life, he's talking about his whole world

"

Maybe you want to start dating again and find women more for companionship more than just nsa sex? Give yourself a break from here for a bit hide your profile give dating a try and if its not what you want then come back? xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I go into fab mode one minute then dating mode the next minute to be honest though I can't remember the last time I arranged a meet on here. The thrill has gone slightly but that's only because I have been on the scene 8 years I have just got a bit bored of it. yes, but that's just hour love life, he's talking about his whole world

Maybe you want to start dating again and find women more for companionship more than just nsa sex? Give yourself a break from here for a bit hide your profile give dating a try and if its not what you want then come back? xxx"

Great response thank you

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"The "real world " should go alongside fabs. If you ever lost touch with the real world then yeah, you need a break x

My "real world" can't run alongside it? It has to be one or the other, I'm not going into why it is just the way it has to be for me xso are you saying you no longer live outside the internet?

Your whole life is based around the internet, I find that very hard to belie e"

There is no real world.

It's just a glitch in the matrix.

A

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"I go into fab mode one minute then dating mode the next minute to be honest though I can't remember the last time I arranged a meet on here. The thrill has gone slightly but that's only because I have been on the scene 8 years I have just got a bit bored of it. yes, but that's just hour love life, he's talking about his whole world

Maybe you want to start dating again and find women more for companionship more than just nsa sex? Give yourself a break from here for a bit hide your profile give dating a try and if its not what you want then come back? xxx

Great response thank you "

No problem starting to feel that way about it myself maybe it happens when you hit your mid thirties lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I go into fab mode one minute then dating mode the next minute to be honest though I can't remember the last time I arranged a meet on here. The thrill has gone slightly but that's only because I have been on the scene 8 years I have just got a bit bored of it. yes, but that's just hour love life, he's talking about his whole world

Maybe you want to start dating again and find women more for companionship more than just nsa sex? Give yourself a break from here for a bit hide your profile give dating a try and if its not what you want then come back? xxx

Great response thank you

No problem starting to feel that way about it myself maybe it happens when you hit your mid thirties lol."

Yeah I reckon so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You come across as someone who lacks confidence to be decisive or have fab alongside your real world, so to speak. I think that's probably the main contribution?

Take a break if you're bored? Or just have a think and be honest with yourself - is fab adding anything you want or need in your life? If it is, then is it good for you in the long term?

Sometimes it's just a bit too samey or routine, like anything else. I use it mainly as a social extension with fun thrown in a few times a year at best. Keeps interest alive then, for me - though I have a fun life away from here too.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"I go into fab mode one minute then dating mode the next minute to be honest though I can't remember the last time I arranged a meet on here. The thrill has gone slightly but that's only because I have been on the scene 8 years I have just got a bit bored of it. yes, but that's just hour love life, he's talking about his whole world

Maybe you want to start dating again and find women more for companionship more than just nsa sex? Give yourself a break from here for a bit hide your profile give dating a try and if its not what you want then come back? xxx

Great response thank you

No problem starting to feel that way about it myself maybe it happens when you hit your mid thirties lol.

Yeah I reckon so! "

Yeah its weird but i even find myself looking at couples with kids and thinking that would be nice! Like its my body is telling me time to settle down and raise a family lol!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I go into fab mode one minute then dating mode the next minute to be honest though I can't remember the last time I arranged a meet on here. The thrill has gone slightly but that's only because I have been on the scene 8 years I have just got a bit bored of it. yes, but that's just hour love life, he's talking about his whole world

Maybe you want to start dating again and find women more for companionship more than just nsa sex? Give yourself a break from here for a bit hide your profile give dating a try and if its not what you want then come back? xxx

Great response thank you

No problem starting to feel that way about it myself maybe it happens when you hit your mid thirties lol.

Yeah I reckon so!

Yeah its weird but i even find myself looking at couples with kids and thinking that would be nice! Like its my body is telling me time to settle down and raise a family lol!"

Steady on mate, next thing you will be telling me you are hanging around mothercare!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came off here and joined a dating site claiming it's full of genuine people looking for relationships. Hmm funny how many guys were only looking for sex despite having their profile say seeking a serious relationship. Better off on fab. Least everyone is upfront.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I came off here and joined a dating site claiming it's full of genuine people looking for relationships. Hmm funny how many guys were only looking for sex despite having their profile say seeking a serious relationship. Better off on fab. Least everyone is upfront. "

Guys are just slimey fuckers!!

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"I go into fab mode one minute then dating mode the next minute to be honest though I can't remember the last time I arranged a meet on here. The thrill has gone slightly but that's only because I have been on the scene 8 years I have just got a bit bored of it. yes, but that's just hour love life, he's talking about his whole world

Maybe you want to start dating again and find women more for companionship more than just nsa sex? Give yourself a break from here for a bit hide your profile give dating a try and if its not what you want then come back? xxx

Great response thank you

No problem starting to feel that way about it myself maybe it happens when you hit your mid thirties lol.

Yeah I reckon so!

Yeah its weird but i even find myself looking at couples with kids and thinking that would be nice! Like its my body is telling me time to settle down and raise a family lol!

Steady on mate, next thing you will be telling me you are hanging around mothercare!! "

Hasnt got to that stage yet thank god!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do this every now and again!

I find the first few days of not coming on is difficult but once I hit a week I'm really proud of myself lol!

I'd suggest hiding but if the temptation is too great then leave xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just use fab for the forum really, its comedy gold and lots of fun everyday

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I go into fab mode one minute then dating mode the next minute to be honest though I can't remember the last time I arranged a meet on here. The thrill has gone slightly but that's only because I have been on the scene 8 years I have just got a bit bored of it. yes, but that's just hour love life, he's talking about his whole world

Maybe you want to start dating again and find women more for companionship more than just nsa sex? Give yourself a break from here for a bit hide your profile give dating a try and if its not what you want then come back? xxx

Great response thank you

No problem starting to feel that way about it myself maybe it happens when you hit your mid thirties lol."

It hit me like a sledge hammer when I turned 35, single and no kids

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

If you go I'll be sad that I can't get to see your gorgeous body anymore.

But on a serious note, do what you feel is right.

I'm not really meeting anyone new at the moment, I only pop online to chat to friends or chat on the forums.

Whatever you choose to do all the best to you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We do this every now and again!

I find the first few days of not coming on is difficult but once I hit a week I'm really proud of myself lol!

I'd suggest hiding but if the temptation is too great then leave xx "

Sounds like you have a real addiction

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"I go into fab mode one minute then dating mode the next minute to be honest though I can't remember the last time I arranged a meet on here. The thrill has gone slightly but that's only because I have been on the scene 8 years I have just got a bit bored of it. yes, but that's just hour love life, he's talking about his whole world

Maybe you want to start dating again and find women more for companionship more than just nsa sex? Give yourself a break from here for a bit hide your profile give dating a try and if its not what you want then come back? xxx

Great response thank you

No problem starting to feel that way about it myself maybe it happens when you hit your mid thirties lol.

It hit me like a sledge hammer when I turned 35, single and no kids "

Glad to know its not just me then!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you go I'll be sad that I can't get to see your gorgeous body anymore.

But on a serious note, do what you feel is right.

I'm not really meeting anyone new at the moment, I only pop online to chat to friends or chat on the forums.

Whatever you choose to do all the best to you x "

Don't worry I'm going to do signed photos to all my loyal fans, you can pre order of you like??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just use fab for the forum really, its comedy gold and lots of fun everyday "

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln


"If you go I'll be sad that I can't get to see your gorgeous body anymore.

But on a serious note, do what you feel is right.

I'm not really meeting anyone new at the moment, I only pop online to chat to friends or chat on the forums.

Whatever you choose to do all the best to you x

Don't worry I'm going to do signed photos to all my loyal fans, you can pre order of you like?? "

Ooo sign me up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you go I'll be sad that I can't get to see your gorgeous body anymore.

But on a serious note, do what you feel is right.

I'm not really meeting anyone new at the moment, I only pop online to chat to friends or chat on the forums.

Whatever you choose to do all the best to you x

Don't worry I'm going to do signed photos to all my loyal fans, you can pre order of you like??

Ooo sign me up "

I'm doing personalised messages too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We do this every now and again!

I find the first few days of not coming on is difficult but once I hit a week I'm really proud of myself lol!

I'd suggest hiding but if the temptation is too great then leave xx

Sounds like you have a real addiction "

yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's healthy being on here and taking breaks.

Some people can get a bit burnt out, or find its taking over their vanilla world.

It can be addictive...especially fecking forum!!

I've just had a break (is 2 yrs still classed as a break?)

I hid my profile.

Now I'm back, feeling all perky and enjoying it all again.

In/out is good sometimes! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We gave up on the couple profile, different things worked for us. I use the site differently on this profile and it works great for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I go through this from time to time, feel a bit like it at the moment! I just take s break or hide my profile for a while and busy myself with other things

Do you find yourself coming back on here quickly though? The temptation gets too much?

I stayed off for 18 months at one point, as in I didn't meet but I hid my profile and just very occasionally popped on for a nose and to reply to any messages from friends, but other than that I totally lost interest in it.

And now you're back is it just how it was prior to hiding the profile? "

I've been back on for a year, to start with I was on here all the time but not so much now, but I have someone keeping me pretty satisfied so could be down to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you wear your heart on your sleve my friend..If your questioning your feeling an thoughts, take a break. At least then your feelings an thoughts will be much clearer.

Am in my 40's imagine what am thinking.. I dont take things serious anymore, seen and experienced enough seriousness to last a lifetime..

Keep smiling pal..

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