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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do some people seem to think they are above people, fine if you have certain standards or things you look for. Some people's egos seem to be getting the better of them. What a shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you be more specific?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have an ego, I'm awesome enough without one...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some people seem to think they are above people, fine if you have certain standards or things you look for. Some people's egos seem to be getting the better of them. What a shame "

Why don't you tell us why you feel your above these people?

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By *angtidy42Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

Iv got new work boots and they feel to big for me until they are broken in.

In any thing else I treat people how I'd like to be treated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit confused.....

Do you mean like being above handling rejection with dignity?

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Is it ego or someone having standards or preferences? You don't say enough to know which is the case but some who are turned down accuse others of thinking they're better than others but can just be they have preferences and you're not it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well you start chatting to someone and then they decide to simply to simply delete messages instead of replying with a simple no thanks. And I'm far from thinking I'm above anyone. Unless they're shorter than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't wear boots,,strappy 6" high heels,,yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon, and it's an educated guess here, but I reckon you've chatted someone up in a message, put loads of effort in and they've just deleted it. And you're thinking that in reality you actually wouldn't look twice at said individual because you think you're too good for them. Just a guess.

In my reality I don't really care. I'm just passing time before I see the docs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well you start chatting to someone and then they decide to simply to simply delete messages instead of replying with a simple no thanks. And I'm far from thinking I'm above anyone. Unless they're shorter than me "

Consider a deleted message as a no thanks - you'll stress less and live longer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm perfectly comfortable with rejection, as you can't be for everyone. Also a blanket statement for everyone messaging saying they are wasters or idiots seems a bit harsh. Keep sniping people it's pretty funny

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Well you start chatting to someone and then they decide to simply to simply delete messages instead of replying with a simple no thanks. And I'm far from thinking I'm above anyone. Unless they're shorter than me "

It just means they are no longer interested.

Don't dwell on it... doesn't make them bad people. It's not rude, it's just how things work. Move on to the next person who tickles your fancy and send them a message. If you're sending one liners then you probably need to address your writing style. You'll tickle someone's fancy eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well you start chatting to someone and then they decide to simply to simply delete messages instead of replying with a simple no thanks. And I'm far from thinking I'm above anyone. Unless they're shorter than me "

their not interested, so stop whinging like a baby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv got new work boots and they feel to big for me until they are broken in.

In any thing else I treat people how I'd like to be treated. "

I always like to get my boots a little snug and let them stretch.

Plus that way when you put an extra thick pair of socks on for a long ride or work shift the compression effect does wonders for any aches from being stuck in one position

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

That could simply mean they're overwhelmed by messages, your message warranted no response or they had no interest and a no reply can be taken as a no thanks. You need to appreciate how many messages ladies and couples get on here. If I replied no thanks to everyone I wouldn't have time to work! It's not personal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well you start chatting to someone and then they decide to simply to simply delete messages instead of replying with a simple no thanks. "

Maybe they were worried you'd react badly and throw a tantrum. ...maybe even a public one.

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket


"Well you start chatting to someone and then they decide to simply to simply delete messages instead of replying with a simple no thanks. And I'm far from thinking I'm above anyone. Unless they're shorter than me "

Maybe they have read something in your messages that puts them off and feel deletion is quicker than saying 'no thanks'...... don't worry about it and get used to it, it's a female driven site and they wear the boots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm perfectly comfortable with rejection, as you can't be for everyone. Also a blanket statement for everyone messaging saying they are wasters or idiots seems a bit harsh. Keep sniping people it's pretty funny "

We don't know the content of your message, nor do you know if the 'blanket statement' was solely directed at you.

Chill out, ignore it and move on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well you start chatting to someone and then they decide to simply to simply delete messages instead of replying with a simple no thanks.

Maybe they were worried you'd react badly and throw a tantrum. ...maybe even a public one.

Really? I mean, who would do that!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a bit confused.....

Do you mean like being above handling rejection with dignity? "

I think soxy nailed it :p

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Obviously put them off with the utter bullocks I was talking. Ha. I best go back in my hole. How dare I send polite messages lol ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well you start chatting to someone and then they decide to simply to simply delete messages instead of replying with a simple no thanks. And I'm far from thinking I'm above anyone. Unless they're shorter than me "

That's not thinking you're above or better than someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some people seem to think they are above people, fine if you have certain standards or things you look for. Some people's egos seem to be getting the better of them. What a shame "
I felt that said it all ,some have very inconsiderate egos and really bad attitudes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guardian readers and vegans, can't stand them! Oh and those people who say "oh, i don't watch television, i prefer to read". Usually vote liberal as well. Go and do your charity work else where please!

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Obviously put them off with the utter bullocks I was talking. Ha. I best go back in my hole. How dare I send polite messages lol ?? "

Even if someone sends me a polite message if it holds zero interest for me I'd delete it too! Man up and accept a no reply as a no thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There could be any number of reasons why someone deletes without replying. I've just read a thread where someone was sent a picture of someone he works with, so he immediately blocked and deleted.

So...be afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well you start chatting to someone and then they decide to simply to simply delete messages instead of replying with a simple no thanks. And I'm far from thinking I'm above anyone. Unless they're shorter than me "

That's just women exercising their right not to answer junk male

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair enough, nice balanced argument I've created. No need to man up I'm afraid. I just wanted to air my _iew and see what people thought

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Well you start chatting to someone and then they decide to simply to simply delete messages instead of replying with a simple no thanks. And I'm far from thinking I'm above anyone. Unless they're shorter than me "

I've just been told by a male, it would've been better to have ignored and deleted his message than to have replied with a polite 'no thankyou' .... Sometimes you just can't win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us women love these topics, most of us are wanking right now coz of it.

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Well you start chatting to someone and then they decide to simply to simply delete messages instead of replying with a simple no thanks. And I'm far from thinking I'm above anyone. Unless they're shorter than me

That's just women exercising their right not to answer junk male "

Chuckling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well you start chatting to someone and then they decide to simply to simply delete messages instead of replying with a simple no thanks. And I'm far from thinking I'm above anyone. Unless they're shorter than me

I've just been told by a male, it would've been better to have ignored and deleted his message than to have replied with a polite 'no thankyou' .... Sometimes you just can't win "

To be fair after the polite no thank you you did go on to detail, down to the specific back hairs, what put you off him :p

*checks back stubble*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I don't get that, ha. I try and reply to everyone. Much easier if you're a man than a woman as I understand you all get bombarded. I just feel once you've exchanged several messages it's the courteous thing to do

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Well you start chatting to someone and then they decide to simply to simply delete messages instead of replying with a simple no thanks. And I'm far from thinking I'm above anyone. Unless they're shorter than me

I've just been told by a male, it would've been better to have ignored and deleted his message than to have replied with a polite 'no thankyou' .... Sometimes you just can't win

To be fair after the polite no thank you you did go on to detail, down to the specific back hairs, what put you off him :p

*checks back stubble*"

Didn't get the chance to say anything after the no thankyou he blocked me

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Well I don't get that, ha. I try and reply to everyone. Much easier if you're a man than a woman as I understand you all get bombarded. I just feel once you've exchanged several messages it's the courteous thing to do "

Maybe you said something that put them off and as sometimes you can get abuse they felt it easier to block?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People getting to big for their boots? On here?

I'm not having it most people on here are so laid back, very approachable and not full of shit in any way

Mr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sounds like experiences with the vast majority may have caused that then, I would have replied with a simple no problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha that's the best reply, and made me laugh. Gold star

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well you start chatting to someone and then they decide to simply to simply delete messages instead of replying with a simple no thanks. And I'm far from thinking I'm above anyone. Unless they're shorter than me "

Maybe you've said something they didn't like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at it this way,do you want to have sex with a person who can't be arsed to reply to a message? They'll be lazy and boring and expect you to do all the work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I blame other men for the egotistical individuals on this site . If men stop acting like desperate , pathetic dogs then things would be different!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well you start chatting to someone and then they decide to simply to simply delete messages instead of replying with a simple no thanks. And I'm far from thinking I'm above anyone. Unless they're shorter than me

Maybe you've said something they didn't like?"

Like how you doing on this fine day. Typical sex mad man!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm perfectly comfortable with rejection

"

You clearly aren't though are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I blame other men for the egotistical individuals on this site . If men stop acting like desperate , pathetic dogs then things would be different!!!"

I doubt it but it's a nice thought

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I had thought about that so it's probably worked out better, I still think once your chatting you should send a message to say not interested or no thanks. You wouldn't just walk away mid conversation in public, unless someone was going on like an absolute loon

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well you start chatting to someone and then they decide to simply to simply delete messages instead of replying with a simple no thanks. And I'm far from thinking I'm above anyone. Unless they're shorter than me

Maybe you've said something they didn't like?"

Quite possibly but I'll never know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had thought about that so it's probably worked out better, I still think once your chatting you should send a message to say not interested or no thanks. You wouldn't just walk away mid conversation in public, unless someone was going on like an absolute loon "

Loons tend not to know when they're being loons though...

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

I think people can only "seem to think they are above people" if you let them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well you start chatting to someone and then they decide to simply to simply delete messages instead of replying with a simple no thanks. And I'm far from thinking I'm above anyone. Unless they're shorter than me

Maybe you've said something they didn't like?

Quite possibly but I'll never know lol "

I think this very thread shows what may have put them off

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm not longer interested in this topic.

Just being polite and letting you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well you start chatting to someone and then they decide to simply to simply delete messages instead of replying with a simple no thanks. And I'm far from thinking I'm above anyone. Unless they're shorter than me

Maybe you've said something they didn't like?

Like how you doing on this fine day. Typical sex mad man!! "

Exactly lol such a perverted thing to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well you start chatting to someone and then they decide to simply to simply delete messages instead of replying with a simple no thanks. And I'm far from thinking I'm above anyone. Unless they're shorter than me

Maybe you've said something they didn't like?

Quite possibly but I'll never know lol "

Keep messaging them till they tell you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not longer interested in this topic.

Just being polite and letting you know. "

Awesome, ha, it's boring me now too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to add that my boots are a size 14 if anyone is interested...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I blame other men for the egotistical individuals on this site . If men stop acting like desperate , pathetic dogs then things would be different!!!

I doubt it but it's a nice thought "

Single men are not the worst people on here, as much as the "genuine" single guys want to make out for their own ends, couples are the pushiest, more aggressive when turned down, highly lacking in conversation, hopefully the rest of the country isn't like that, I found it quite laid back in general when I lived in the north west but now I'm up here in Scotland there is a lot of crap, mostly from couples containing a guy who if it wasn't for the wife would be on here getting nothing.

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had thought about that so it's probably worked out better, I still think once your chatting you should send a message to say not interested or no thanks. You wouldn't just walk away mid conversation in public, unless someone was going on like an absolute loon "

Ignoring the fact that the same social rules and etiquettes simply don't apply on line as in real life and it is naive to even think they would are you honestly saying that if a random person started talking to you in public you'd feel obliged to engage with them even if you had no interest in what they were saying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well you start chatting to someone and then they decide to simply to simply delete messages instead of replying with a simple no thanks. And I'm far from thinking I'm above anyone. Unless they're shorter than me

Maybe you've said something they didn't like?

Quite possibly but I'll never know lol

Keep messaging them till they tell you "

Excellent tactic. If it takes more than 3 messages throwing a little abuse in there really helps elicit a response too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm perfectly comfortable with rejection, as you can't be for everyone. Also a blanket statement for everyone messaging saying they are wasters or idiots seems a bit harsh. Keep sniping people it's pretty funny "

I notice that you say they delete messageS, does that mean you sent several messages that went unanswered?

I ask as when we had our couples profile we had a couple we were messaging started on the Wednesday, nice message, we replied Wednesday night, Thursday we got 3 messages, all answered quite quickly as we were both home, Friday I went out for the weekend L got 5 messages she read them and replied. She was out all day Saturday, and went out in the evening too read 4 messages that were sent while she was out but didn't reply as she was getting ready plus they were trying to pin down a date which needed both of us to be home to arrange, by the time I got home on Sunday there was 23 messages, towards the end getting a bit ranty about us not replying, we just used delete and block. Pity really from the profile we would have enjoyed meeting them, but some seem to think nothing else happens in life outside fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well you start chatting to someone and then they decide to simply to simply delete messages instead of replying with a simple no thanks. And I'm far from thinking I'm above anyone. Unless they're shorter than me

Maybe you've said something they didn't like?

Quite possibly but I'll never know lol

Keep messaging them till they tell you

Excellent tactic. If it takes more than 3 messages throwing a little abuse in there really helps elicit a response too. "

Yeah that makes perfect sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I don't get that, ha. I try and reply to everyone. Much easier if you're a man than a woman as I understand you all get bombarded. I just feel once you've exchanged several messages it's the courteous thing to do "

I agree with you. Unfortunately some people can't be adult but would you really want to meet them?

Chin up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm perfectly comfortable with rejection, as you can't be for everyone. Also a blanket statement for everyone messaging saying they are wasters or idiots seems a bit harsh. Keep sniping people it's pretty funny

I notice that you say they delete messageS, does that mean you sent several messages that went unanswered?

I ask as when we had our couples profile we had a couple we were messaging started on the Wednesday, nice message, we replied Wednesday night, Thursday we got 3 messages, all answered quite quickly as we were both home, Friday I went out for the weekend L got 5 messages she read them and replied. She was out all day Saturday, and went out in the evening too read 4 messages that were sent while she was out but didn't reply as she was getting ready plus they were trying to pin down a date which needed both of us to be home to arrange, by the time I got home on Sunday there was 23 messages, towards the end getting a bit ranty about us not replying, we just used delete and block. Pity really from the profile we would have enjoyed meeting them, but some seem to think nothing else happens in life outside fab."

Only sent two, one yesterday which could well have been part of a bulk delete and another today, which admittedly may have been the same but I'm not sending another as it will look like I'm a bit unhinged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Today, I have to go and buy new boots. I quite literally have got too big for them. They've either shrunk or my feet are bigger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep reading the title as too big for their boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to add that my boots are a size 14 if anyone is interested... "

Isn't it sad how small the choice is once you go over size 12 size 13 / 14 here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

their not interested, so stop whinging like a baby"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had thought about that so it's probably worked out better, I still think once your chatting you should send a message to say not interested or no thanks. You wouldn't just walk away mid conversation in public, unless someone was going on like an absolute loon

Ignoring the fact that the same social rules and etiquettes simply don't apply on line as in real life and it is naive to even think they would are you honestly saying that if a random person started talking to you in public you'd feel obliged to engage with them even if you had no interest in what they were saying?"

Why don't the same rules apply online? He said he'd been chatting to someone so it's not like walking up to a total stranger and them immediately walking off.

If someone spoke to you in the street would you just totally ignore them? Or politely say "sorry in a rush can't chat..."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

their not interested, so stop whinging like a baby

"

So you're saying I'm completely in the wrong ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

their not interested, so stop whinging like a baby

So you're saying I'm completely in the wrong ha "

you have a cock, obviously you are 200% in the wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to add that my boots are a size 14 if anyone is interested...

Isn't it sad how small the choice is once you go over size 12 size 13 / 14 here "

It's tragic, you just can't buy style in those sizes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People getting to big for their boots? On here?

I'm not having it most people on here are so laid back, very approachable and not full of shit in any way

Mr"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well you start chatting to someone and then they decide to simply to simply delete messages instead of replying with a simple no thanks. And I'm far from thinking I'm above anyone. Unless they're shorter than me

Maybe you've said something they didn't like?

Quite possibly but I'll never know lol

Keep messaging them till they tell you

Excellent tactic. If it takes more than 3 messages throwing a little abuse in there really helps elicit a response too.

Yeah that makes perfect sense "

Then tell them it's their loss anyway..job done x

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"I blame other men for the egotistical individuals on this site . If men stop acting like desperate , pathetic dogs then things would be different!!!"

best response ever..... *stands and applauds*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to add that my boots are a size 14 if anyone is interested...

Isn't it sad how small the choice is once you go over size 12 size 13 / 14 here "

People just don't like us well endowed guys...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I blame other men for the egotistical individuals on this site . If men stop acting like desperate , pathetic dogs then things would be different!!!

best response ever..... *stands and applauds* "

He's spot on

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By *lways horny247Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Us women love these topics, most of us are wanking right now coz of it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody is entitled to a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well you start chatting to someone and then they decide to simply to simply delete messages instead of replying with a simple no thanks. And I'm far from thinking I'm above anyone. Unless they're shorter than me

their not interested, so stop whinging like a baby"

A tranny with attitude lol. Go go go ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because the site is saturated with men. Thats why women can pick and mix lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nobody is entitled to a reply."
true, but I think once you're chatting and you haven't said anything to really warrant a no reply seems a bit rude that's all, initial messages get deleted all the time which is fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to reply to every mail.....it doesn't take long!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody is entitled to a reply. true, but I think once you're chatting and you haven't said anything to really warrant a no reply seems a bit rude that's all, initial messages get deleted all the time which is fine "

What makes you think that you didn't say anything that warranted the other person's actions?

It could have been the most innocuous comment that put them off. We only have your side of the story to go on.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Because the site is saturated with men. Thats why women can pick and mix lol."

yes its saturated with mens bottoms..heaven nice tush shag.x

what was the post about again?..i got distracted...

oh yes ego...poor me is also a version of ego

its still self importance....

back to perving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody is entitled to a reply. true, but I think once you're chatting and you haven't said anything to really warrant a no reply seems a bit rude that's all, initial messages get deleted all the time which is fine

What makes you think that you didn't say anything that warranted the other person's actions?

It could have been the most innocuous comment that put them off. We only have your side of the story to go on."

Maybe it was the status :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because the site is saturated with men. Thats why women can pick and mix lol."

' Pic n mix' your haribo obsessed !

;) ha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody is entitled to a reply. true, but I think once you're chatting and you haven't said anything to really warrant a no reply seems a bit rude that's all, initial messages get deleted all the time which is fine

What makes you think that you didn't say anything that warranted the other person's actions?

It could have been the most innocuous comment that put them off. We only have your side of the story to go on.

Maybe it was the status :p"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well you start chatting to someone and then they decide to simply to simply delete messages instead of replying with a simple no thanks. And I'm far from thinking I'm above anyone. Unless they're shorter than me "

At only 5"7 I'm definitely below you, ha!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nobody is entitled to a reply. true, but I think once you're chatting and you haven't said anything to really warrant a no reply seems a bit rude that's all, initial messages get deleted all the time which is fine

What makes you think that you didn't say anything that warranted the other person's actions?

It could have been the most innocuous comment that put them off. We only have your side of the story to go on."

It could have been, and a simple response would clarify that

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Nobody is entitled to a reply. true, but I think once you're chatting and you haven't said anything to really warrant a no reply seems a bit rude that's all, initial messages get deleted all the time which is fine

What makes you think that you didn't say anything that warranted the other person's actions?

It could have been the most innocuous comment that put them off. We only have your side of the story to go on.

It could have been, and a simple response would clarify that "

Why would they bother though? They don't know you, they don't owe you anything, they're not going to meet you so why would they care what you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well you start chatting to someone and then they decide to simply to simply delete messages instead of replying with a simple no thanks. And I'm far from thinking I'm above anyone. Unless they're shorter than me

I've just been told by a male, it would've been better to have ignored and deleted his message than to have replied with a polite 'no thankyou' .... Sometimes you just can't win "

There's simply no pleasing some people. Failure to reply is perceived as arrogance, a reply with a polite rejection is perceived as arrogance or, even worse, being selective! Noooo!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I'm perfectly comfortable with rejection, as you can't be for everyone. Also a blanket statement for everyone messaging saying they are wasters or idiots seems a bit harsh. Keep sniping people it's pretty funny "

the last sentence is really what its about then..?

post a none specific generalisation about others with nothing to support it and when other's comment its 'sniping'..

hey ho..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nobody is entitled to a reply. true, but I think once you're chatting and you haven't said anything to really warrant a no reply seems a bit rude that's all, initial messages get deleted all the time which is fine

What makes you think that you didn't say anything that warranted the other person's actions?

It could have been the most innocuous comment that put them off. We only have your side of the story to go on.

It could have been, and a simple response would clarify that

Why would they bother though? They don't know you, they don't owe you anything, they're not going to meet you so why would they care what you think?

"

Ha, because their attitude is poor obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because the site is saturated with men. Thats why women can pick and mix lol.

yes its saturated with mens bottoms..heaven nice tush shag.x

what was the post about again?..i got distracted...

oh yes ego...poor me is also a version of ego

its still self importance....

back to perving "
ty and yes thought I should show my bum as well lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No-one can make you feel inferior without your consent...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because the site is saturated with men. Thats why women can pick and mix lol.

' Pic n mix' your haribo obsessed !

;) ha!"
lol yes I am there. I like them haribos too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno about you lot but my head is spinning and feeling pickled.

Not only has our beloved shag changed his avatar. There's also revelations around that he 'got some' in the mists recent past.

Shag, you've changed man. Man hugs

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Nobody is entitled to a reply. true, but I think once you're chatting and you haven't said anything to really warrant a no reply seems a bit rude that's all, initial messages get deleted all the time which is fine

What makes you think that you didn't say anything that warranted the other person's actions?

It could have been the most innocuous comment that put them off. We only have your side of the story to go on.

It could have been, and a simple response would clarify that

Why would they bother though? They don't know you, they don't owe you anything, they're not going to meet you so why would they care what you think?

Ha, because their attitude is poor obviously "

Obviously!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had thought about that so it's probably worked out better, I still think once your chatting you should send a message to say not interested or no thanks. You wouldn't just walk away mid conversation in public, unless someone was going on like an absolute loon

Ignoring the fact that the same social rules and etiquettes simply don't apply on line as in real life and it is naive to even think they would are you honestly saying that if a random person started talking to you in public you'd feel obliged to engage with them even if you had no interest in what they were saying?"

I do. Am I in the minority or a bit mad myself. I'm often the one instigating conversations with random people. I get bored on buses and at bus stops,I had 45 bus journeys last week,I have to do something to pass the time. No one ever blanks me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm perfectly comfortable with rejection, as you can't be for everyone. Also a blanket statement for everyone messaging saying they are wasters or idiots seems a bit harsh. Keep sniping people it's pretty funny

the last sentence is really what its about then..?

post a none specific generalisation about others with nothing to support it and when other's comment its 'sniping'..

hey ho.. "

It's the tone of some people's responses that come across as snipey. I can see it and I'm not even concentrating today. It's like they're saying how very dare you expect people to be civil on a sex site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

their not interested, so stop whinging like a baby

So you're saying I'm completely in the wrong ha "

I'm saying show some dignity,move on,forget about it.starting a thread about the incident isn't going to make it any more favourable.

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"I'm perfectly comfortable with rejection, as you can't be for everyone. Also a blanket statement for everyone messaging saying they are wasters or idiots seems a bit harsh. Keep sniping people it's pretty funny

the last sentence is really what its about then..?

post a none specific generalisation about others with nothing to support it and when other's comment its 'sniping'..

hey ho..

It's the tone of some people's responses that come across as snipey. I can see it and I'm not even concentrating today. It's like they're saying how very dare you expect people to be civil on a sex site. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the women who block and delete with no reply didn't get any messages they would be on the forums moaning about the men of the site being time wasters or something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok OP. You started the topic badly by slagging off someone despite not knowing why they did something other than it meant you weren't gonna get laid. I get that's frustrating and your looking for how to avoid it the next time and probably regret calling them up themselves.

Maybe they were a fake profile?

Maybe they were fantasists who don't care to meet anyone?

Maybe you said something to put them off?

Maybe they just found a better offer?

Maybe...

Maybe..

Maybe.

We don't know why, we're just guessing but them's some of the reasons. Doesn't matter why they did it because everyone on here has individual reasons for anything they do, i'm guessing you just wanted to vent.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Would post in here, if the thread wasn't below her interest threshold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would post in here, if the thread wasn't below her interest threshold "

You thought it said too big for your boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the women who block and delete with no reply didn't get any messages they would be on the forums moaning about the men of the site being time wasters or something."

Flashing their tits to get attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the women who block and delete with no reply didn't get any messages they would be on the forums moaning about the men of the site being time wasters or something."

I would love to see that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they just lost interest for no particular reason and felt it easier to delete/not reply rather than try and explain why.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I'm perfectly comfortable with rejection, as you can't be for everyone. Also a blanket statement for everyone messaging saying they are wasters or idiots seems a bit harsh. Keep sniping people it's pretty funny

the last sentence is really what its about then..?

post a none specific generalisation about others with nothing to support it and when other's comment its 'sniping'..

hey ho..

It's the tone of some people's responses that come across as snipey. I can see it and I'm not even concentrating today. It's like they're saying how very dare you expect people to be civil on a sex site. "

or maybe they are just being frank as they've seen it before..?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I just can't help myself.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would post in here, if the thread wasn't below her interest threshold

You thought it said too big for your boobs"

There is nothing in this life too big for Tina's boobs

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