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By *aramelMINX OP   Woman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I was 33 3 weeks ago

Not married

Single

No kids

And found my first teeny weeny white hair. .. pulled it out

Should I be stressing

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Absolutely not! You're in your prime! Enjoy every second.

Dye the grey hairs or shave em off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no enjoy your life!!!

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By *aramelMINX OP   Woman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Grey hair.... please I would cry if it was plural lol

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Absolutely not! You're in your prime! Enjoy every second.

Dye the grey hairs or shave em off! "

Depending on where they are of course... I'm not suggesting you shave your head and dye your pubes purple.

(Don't pull them out if they're on your head, they'll grow back bolt upright and like pubes made of wire!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was 33 3 weeks ago

Not married

Single

No kids

And found my first teeny weeny white hair. .. pulled it out

Should I be stressing "

I was 35 in June

Not married

Single

No kids and no chance of them

Not found any grey hairs yet

I'm most definitely stressing

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No. Enjoy your youth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was 33 3 weeks ago

Not married

Single

No kids

And found my first teeny weeny white hair. .. pulled it out

Should I be stressing "

Hell no. Stress ages a person more than anything else. Just chill and enjoy the ride beautiful woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started going grey at 21.

Few more years and I'm gonna be distinctly salt and pepper on top

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No where near mid life. Look at the positives, amazing clevage!

sex gets better and when needed find a damn good hair colour - no stress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not a grey hair, its just glitter escaping because you are so fabulous daarling!

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By *aramelMINX OP   Woman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"I was 33 3 weeks ago

Not married

Single

No kids

And found my first teeny weeny white hair. .. pulled it out

Should I be stressing

I was 35 in June

Not married

Single

No kids and no chance of them

Not found any grey hairs yet

I'm most definitely stressing "

I'm thinking that it's gunna be hard for me to get pregnant... but I'm giving myself till 35 then dunno what l happen after that

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By *aramelMINX OP   Woman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Its not a grey hair, its just glitter escaping because you are so fabulous daarling!"

That's soooooo true....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was 33 3 weeks ago

Not married

Single

No kids

And found my first teeny weeny white hair. .. pulled it out

Should I be stressing

I was 35 in June

Not married

Single

No kids and no chance of them

Not found any grey hairs yet

I'm most definitely stressing

I'm thinking that it's gunna be hard for me to get pregnant... but I'm giving myself till 35 then dunno what l happen after that"

Is it possible to freeze eggs?

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By *aramelMINX OP   Woman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"I was 33 3 weeks ago

Not married

Single

No kids

And found my first teeny weeny white hair. .. pulled it out

Should I be stressing

Hell no. Stress ages a person more than anything else. Just chill and enjoy the ride beautiful woman"

Now that is a good reply ...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I don't thin 33 is mid life unless your planning on being dead by 66.

Enjoy your youth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was 33 3 weeks ago

Not married

Single

No kids

And found my first teeny weeny white hair. .. pulled it out

Should I be stressing

I was 35 in June

Not married

Single

No kids and no chance of them

Not found any grey hairs yet

I'm most definitely stressing

I'm thinking that it's gunna be hard for me to get pregnant... but I'm giving myself till 35 then dunno what l happen after that"

I wish I had kids earlier but wasn't in a stable relationship and I'm sooooooo glad I didn't have them with my x. But I got ill and I'm now missing organs so it won't happen for me. I know people who have had babies later in life though. One was 45 when she had her first baby

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By *aramelMINX OP   Woman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"I was 33 3 weeks ago

Not married

Single

No kids

And found my first teeny weeny white hair. .. pulled it out

Should I be stressing

I was 35 in June

Not married

Single

No kids and no chance of them

Not found any grey hairs yet

I'm most definitely stressing

I'm thinking that it's gunna be hard for me to get pregnant... but I'm giving myself till 35 then dunno what l happen after that

I wish I had kids earlier but wasn't in a stable relationship and I'm sooooooo glad I didn't have them with my x. But I got ill and I'm now missing organs so it won't happen for me. I know people who have had babies later in life though. One was 45 when she had her first baby "

Lady do you think people judge

They must think there must be sumat wrong with sumone who has been single a long time

Ppl always say I can't believe your single etc... they must think I'm psycho or high maintenance or something

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got stressed the other day when I found a grey pubic hair

It was in a kebab

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By *aramelMINX OP   Woman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"I got stressed the other day when I found a grey pubic hair

It was in a kebab"

Blergh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was 33 3 weeks ago

Not married

Single

No kids

And found my first teeny weeny white hair. .. pulled it out

Should I be stressing

I was 35 in June

Not married

Single

No kids and no chance of them

Not found any grey hairs yet

I'm most definitely stressing

I'm thinking that it's gunna be hard for me to get pregnant... but I'm giving myself till 35 then dunno what l happen after that

Is it possible to freeze eggs?"

It's not all that successful depending on age unless you get a surrogate

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I got stressed the other day when I found a grey pubic hair

It was in a kebab"

Yuk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was 33 3 weeks ago

Not married

Single

No kids

And found my first teeny weeny white hair. .. pulled it out

Should I be stressing

I was 35 in June

Not married

Single

No kids and no chance of them

Not found any grey hairs yet

I'm most definitely stressing

I'm thinking that it's gunna be hard for me to get pregnant... but I'm giving myself till 35 then dunno what l happen after that

I wish I had kids earlier but wasn't in a stable relationship and I'm sooooooo glad I didn't have them with my x. But I got ill and I'm now missing organs so it won't happen for me. I know people who have had babies later in life though. One was 45 when she had her first baby

Lady do you think people judge

They must think there must be sumat wrong with sumone who has been single a long time

Ppl always say I can't believe your single etc... they must think I'm psycho or high maintenance or something

Lol"

My friends do as most of them are all married or with someone. Lost count of the times I have gone out with them and they try to set me up with a random. I have been single since April 2013 which for me is a long time but I just haven't met the right one to settle with. I wouldn't say I'm high maintenance my FWB might say otherwise though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got stressed the other day when I found a grey pubic hair

It was in a kebab

Yuk "

What?.........

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I had mine at age 34 lol so I got another tattoo, I'm lucky I didn't want kids as maybe I would have been panicking as well or had them with the wrong person.

Just embrace your life as it is and what is in front of you will not go by you as the saying goes x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I got stressed the other day when I found a grey pubic hair

It was in a kebab

Yuk

What?......... "

I said "yuk" in response to your comment about finding a public hair in a kebab. It means 'that's not nice'.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I got stressed the other day when I found a grey pubic hair

It was in a kebab

Yuk

What?.........

I said "yuk" in response to your comment about finding a public hair in a kebab. It means 'that's not nice'. "

Deliberate!!!!!!!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Blimey, I'm old, single, no kids, some grey and a very long, bad relationship behind me.

I'm not stressing There is lot to be said for living in the moment. The future will happen whether you worry or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mid life ?

FFS ! You're supposed to be in your late 40's for that !

Oh shit !! I'm buying a motorbike in two years time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mid life ?

FFS ! You're supposed to be in your late 40's for that !

Oh shit !! I'm buying a motorbike in two years time "

39 is midlife for men in the UK :p

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

44 with a 28 year old son. My twinklies started appearing when my mother passed 3.5 years ago and I took responsibility for my dad!!!!!!! Parents !!!! Nightmare

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"I was 33 3 weeks ago

Not married

Single

No kids

And found my first teeny weeny white hair. .. pulled it out

Should I be stressing "
. It is your life and you decide how you wish to spend it ..You have nothing to worry about if you are happy..

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"I was 33 3 weeks ago

Not married

Single

No kids

And found my first teeny weeny white hair. .. pulled it out

Should I be stressing "
. I don't think that you quite qualify for being in mid life yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a midlife crisis of my own when I hit 30, I had been married 10 years got 3 kids and I went mental for a year, drinking, affairs (not proud of btw) so I kinda get what your saying as being on the other side of the coin but like I said before; enjoy your life. I split with my ex almost a year ago and enjoying my life again!!

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field


"I was 33 3 weeks ago

Not married

Single

No kids

And found my first teeny weeny white hair. .. pulled it out

Should I be stressing "

Stressing?

You should be giggling like an idiot that you managed to escape- my friends who I used to go clubbing with had to go home at 7pm to put the sprog to bed- they maybe get a night out each month and never have any spare cash- the foreign holidays are no more, the motorbike has gone, all night drinking and debauchery is in the past.......they do get to wake up about 5am and watch Pepper Pig on loop though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

33? You're still a mere pup! No need to be stressing yet!

I'm 43, almost 44, getting the odd grey eyebrow hair, ear hair and nose hair bushing out everywhere, and last year joined fab looking for no strings sex! Definite mid life crisis meltdown!

Haven't yet bought myself a Sports Convertible or find myself at the local 20 something's disco (even that word makes me sound old!) but it's the next logical step!

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

Mid life crisis at 33?!!!! F*ck me, I turn 59 next Saturday and still feel (in my mind) 33!! Body tells me different though of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mid life ?

FFS ! You're supposed to be in your late 40's for that !

Oh shit !! I'm buying a motorbike in two years time "

Oh bugger I've already got the motorbike more grey hair than a badger but I don't care as me and H are having lots of fun.

Life is to short to stress just embrace it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been going grey since I was 18. You're doing just fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be stressing for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've read a lot recently that suggests the stuff about female fertility plunging so much after 35 is based on old statistics and flawed studies and actually the decline is not as steep as it has been made out to be. Yes there's a decline, but it's not like falling off a cliff.

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

if you've made it to 33 without kids, carry on, not everyone has to have one, we already have 3 billon too many xx

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

My old work manager 36 full on grey hair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My old work manager 36 full on grey hair. "

My little brother is 25 with full on grey hair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was 33 3 weeks ago

Not married

Single

No kids

And found my first teeny weeny white hair. .. pulled it out

Should I be stressing

I was 35 in June

Not married

Single

No kids and no chance of them

Not found any grey hairs yet

I'm most definitely stressing

I'm thinking that it's gunna be hard for me to get pregnant... but I'm giving myself till 35 then dunno what l happen after that"

I got pregnant for the first time very quickly at 37.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've read a lot recently that suggests the stuff about female fertility plunging so much after 35 is based on old statistics and flawed studies and actually the decline is not as steep as it has been made out to be. Yes there's a decline, but it's not like falling off a cliff.

"

This.

I bought into it, and thought there wasn't much chance of getting pregnant in my late 30s. It took about two months.

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

I turned 30 last week.

Never been in a proper relationship.

Never going to have children of my own. Yes, ok, through choice but the thought of actually being pregnant and giving birth makes me feel ill.

I have more and more white hairs sneaking through.

Still sorting my life out, I feel like it hasn't actually started yet but it's flying by really fast

Not much we can do about it so just enjoy what you can while you can

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By *ark074Man
over a year ago

nottingham


"I was 33 3 weeks ago

Not married

Single

No kids

And found my first teeny weeny white hair. .. pulled it out

Should I be stressing

Stressing?

You should be giggling like an idiot that you managed to escape- my friends who I used to go clubbing with had to go home at 7pm to put the sprog to bed- they maybe get a night out each month and never have any spare cash- the foreign holidays are no more, the motorbike has gone, all night drinking and debauchery is in the past.......they do get to wake up about 5am and watch Pepper Pig on loop though "

Watching Peppa Pig on loop soothes my troubled soul.

Bit odd on my own though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was 33 3 weeks ago

Not married

Single

No kids

And found my first teeny weeny white hair. .. pulled it out

Should I be stressing "
33 single and no kids here too life gets good now honey don't stress over a hair it will give you more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've read a lot recently that suggests the stuff about female fertility plunging so much after 35 is based on old statistics and flawed studies and actually the decline is not as steep as it has been made out to be. Yes there's a decline, but it's not like falling off a cliff.

This.

I bought into it, and thought there wasn't much chance of getting pregnant in my late 30s. It took about two months. "

It also seemed to suggest a lot of the women who did have trouble conceiving after 35 would have had trouble at whatever age they'd tried. Made me feel a bit better, in a 'what will be will be' sort of way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've read a lot recently that suggests the stuff about female fertility plunging so much after 35 is based on old statistics and flawed studies and actually the decline is not as steep as it has been made out to be. Yes there's a decline, but it's not like falling off a cliff.

This.

I bought into it, and thought there wasn't much chance of getting pregnant in my late 30s. It took about two months.

It also seemed to suggest a lot of the women who did have trouble conceiving after 35 would have had trouble at whatever age they'd tried. Made me feel a bit better, in a 'what will be will be' sort of way."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Grey hair.... please I would cry if it was plural lol"

I heard for every one grey hair you pull out its replaced by 1000

Best start crying xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've read a lot recently that suggests the stuff about female fertility plunging so much after 35 is based on old statistics and flawed studies and actually the decline is not as steep as it has been made out to be. Yes there's a decline, but it's not like falling off a cliff.

This.

I bought into it, and thought there wasn't much chance of getting pregnant in my late 30s. It took about two months.

It also seemed to suggest a lot of the women who did have trouble conceiving after 35 would have had trouble at whatever age they'd tried. Made me feel a bit better, in a 'what will be will be' sort of way."

I think there is a lot to be said for this.

I fell pregnant 1st time we tired at the age of 32. Assumed no 2 would be along a few years after but it wasn't to be.

Gave up trying around the age of 36 and fell pregnant at the age of 39 which was a major shock to the system after being told my chances were very small.

What will be will be......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and re the grey hairs, my dad went grey at 23 & passed those delightful genes onto me. I did have a mild freak out when I found my 1st grey pube, now I wax the little fookers away!

Make the most of being in your 30's, it's the prime of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was 33 3 weeks ago

Not married

Single

No kids

And found my first teeny weeny white hair. .. pulled it out

Should I be stressing "

Oh dear oh dear oh dear... I've gotta say the prognosis sounds bleak. I mean... just looking at your big booby avatar... I mean really looking closely at it... for quite a while... I'd say you should definitely be stressing out big time.

There's only one thing for it... I shall have to come over and give you the male version of a full body naked nuru massage

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