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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I finally can't take single guys _iewing, winking, messaging me filth, so iv blocked single guys.

I didn't want to block single guys as sometimes chat about forum posts ect

Anyway my question is, if I block single guys does it mean they can't access my profile and _iew my pics? or does it just mean they can't message me?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

only stops them messaging and appearing on 'looked at you'

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

but if you have exchanged messages before, they still can I think

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"but if you have exchanged messages before, they still can I think"

That's a bit rubbish, you should be able to stop them looking at your pics?

I get the same nutters looking at my pics all the time!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Why does it bother you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but if you have exchanged messages before, they still can I think

That's a bit rubbish, you should be able to stop them looking at your pics?

I get the same nutters looking at my pics all the time!"

If it's the same people, block them individually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but if you have exchanged messages before, they still can I think

That's a bit rubbish, you should be able to stop them looking at your pics?

I get the same nutters looking at my pics all the time!"

But if you don't know they're looking, it can't bother you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"but if you have exchanged messages before, they still can I think

That's a bit rubbish, you should be able to stop them looking at your pics?

I get the same nutters looking at my pics all the time!

If it's the same people, block them individually. "

So basically I'm better off not blocking single guys so that I can see them stalking my pics so I can then block them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but if you have exchanged messages before, they still can I think

That's a bit rubbish, you should be able to stop them looking at your pics?

I get the same nutters looking at my pics all the time!

If it's the same people, block them individually.

So basically I'm better off not blocking single guys so that I can see them stalking my pics so I can then block them?

Depends on what you prefer. You've upload pictures to the Internet, you've already lost control of who sees them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"but if you have exchanged messages before, they still can I think

That's a bit rubbish, you should be able to stop them looking at your pics?

I get the same nutters looking at my pics all the time!

But if you don't know they're looking, it can't bother you."

I think I would rather know who is _iewing me so I can block them!

By blocking males all it does is stop them contacting me, but they can look at my pics without me knowing.

I think it would be better if when you block single males they couldn't _iew your pics, or maybe your pics look muffled.

Then I would probably feel more comfortable putting face pics on my profile.

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

Have just managed to _iew your profile so yes single guys can _iew your pick and profile

Think the only way to avoid people seeing your profile is to block them individually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but if you have exchanged messages before, they still can I think

That's a bit rubbish, you should be able to stop them looking at your pics?

I get the same nutters looking at my pics all the time!

But if you don't know they're looking, it can't bother you.

I think I would rather know who is _iewing me so I can block them!

By blocking males all it does is stop them contacting me, but they can look at my pics without me knowing.

I think it would be better if when you block single males they couldn't _iew your pics, or maybe your pics look muffled.

Then I would probably feel more comfortable putting face pics on my profile. "

You know men in the real world can see your face, too?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"but if you have exchanged messages before, they still can I think

That's a bit rubbish, you should be able to stop them looking at your pics?

I get the same nutters looking at my pics all the time!

But if you don't know they're looking, it can't bother you.

I think I would rather know who is _iewing me so I can block them!

By blocking males all it does is stop them contacting me, but they can look at my pics without me knowing.

I think it would be better if when you block single males they couldn't _iew your pics, or maybe your pics look muffled.

Then I would probably feel more comfortable putting face pics on my profile.

You know men in the real world can see your face, too?"

Explain?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have just managed to _iew your profile so yes single guys can _iew your pick and profile

Think the only way to avoid people seeing your profile is to block them individually"

Haha I think I just blocked you before I read your post, sorry lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It's a fact of internet life that if you put something out into cyberspace it becomes widely available. As yet there aren't any ways that I know of to make your pictures available to a chosen few unless you put them in friends only or don't put them on the net at all. You're faced with the choice therefore of publish and don't worry who sees or don't publish.

Out of interest why are you concerned?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but if you have exchanged messages before, they still can I think

That's a bit rubbish, you should be able to stop them looking at your pics?

I get the same nutters looking at my pics all the time!

But if you don't know they're looking, it can't bother you.

I think I would rather know who is _iewing me so I can block them!

By blocking males all it does is stop them contacting me, but they can look at my pics without me knowing.

I think it would be better if when you block single males they couldn't _iew your pics, or maybe your pics look muffled.

Then I would probably feel more comfortable putting face pics on my profile.

You know men in the real world can see your face, too?

Explain?

It's weird to be so upset about men possibly seeing your face on here, when dozens will see you everyday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you're overreacting tbh! Have them all as friends only if you've really that big a problem with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but if you have exchanged messages before, they still can I think

That's a bit rubbish, you should be able to stop them looking at your pics?

I get the same nutters looking at my pics all the time!

But if you don't know they're looking, it can't bother you.

I think I would rather know who is _iewing me so I can block them!

By blocking males all it does is stop them contacting me, but they can look at my pics without me knowing.

I think it would be better if when you block single males they couldn't _iew your pics, or maybe your pics look muffled.

Then I would probably feel more comfortable putting face pics on my profile. "

I think what I was getting at is that I don't know why you care who is looking. So if you don't know if men are looking or not, then you might not even think about it as much. Has it occurred to you that they don't know if you're bi or straight until they look at your profile?

Why would you be more comfortable putting face pics on if men could not see them? I'm sure couples and women are equally capable of being indiscreet or nasty.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's a fact of internet life that if you put something out into cyberspace it becomes widely available. As yet there aren't any ways that I know of to make your pictures available to a chosen few unless you put them in friends only or don't put them on the net at all. You're faced with the choice therefore of publish and don't worry who sees or don't publish.

Out of interest why are you concerned? "

Well it's just that I feel putting a face pic on my profile would be less risky if single guys couldn't see my pics. I don't like the idea of people recognising me without me being aware in public.

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

"but if you have exchanged messages before, they still can I think

That's a bit rubbish, you should be able to stop them looking at your pics?

I get the same nutters looking at my pics all the time!

If it's the same people, block them individually.

So basically I'm better off not blocking single guys so that I can see them stalking my pics so I can then block them?

When a guy looks at your pics its stalking, what is it when you look at ladies pics?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"but if you have exchanged messages before, they still can I think

That's a bit rubbish, you should be able to stop them looking at your pics?

I get the same nutters looking at my pics all the time!

But if you don't know they're looking, it can't bother you.

I think I would rather know who is _iewing me so I can block them!

By blocking males all it does is stop them contacting me, but they can look at my pics without me knowing.

I think it would be better if when you block single males they couldn't _iew your pics, or maybe your pics look muffled.

Then I would probably feel more comfortable putting face pics on my profile.

You know men in the real world can see your face, too?

Explain?

It's weird to be so upset about men possibly seeing your face on here, when dozens will see you everyday. "

His face isn't visible though.

If I had an arse like that I'd be happy for anyone and their dog look at it.

I'm curious as to why you're bothered OP... unless people are contacting you despite you stating you're straight then you can block them as you go but what harm is there in the boys looking?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"but if you have exchanged messages before, they still can I think

That's a bit rubbish, you should be able to stop them looking at your pics?

I get the same nutters looking at my pics all the time!

But if you don't know they're looking, it can't bother you.

I think I would rather know who is _iewing me so I can block them!

By blocking males all it does is stop them contacting me, but they can look at my pics without me knowing.

I think it would be better if when you block single males they couldn't _iew your pics, or maybe your pics look muffled.

Then I would probably feel more comfortable putting face pics on my profile.

You know men in the real world can see your face, too?

Explain?

It's weird to be so upset about men possibly seeing your face on here, when dozens will see you everyday. "

What a strange thing to say lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make your photos private might do the trick most females here know what a cock looks like tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but if you have exchanged messages before, they still can I think

That's a bit rubbish, you should be able to stop them looking at your pics?

I get the same nutters looking at my pics all the time!

But if you don't know they're looking, it can't bother you.

I think I would rather know who is _iewing me so I can block them!

By blocking males all it does is stop them contacting me, but they can look at my pics without me knowing.

I think it would be better if when you block single males they couldn't _iew your pics, or maybe your pics look muffled.

Then I would probably feel more comfortable putting face pics on my profile.

You know men in the real world can see your face, too?

Explain?

It's weird to be so upset about men possibly seeing your face on here, when dozens will see you everyday.

What a strange thing to say lol"

I don't think so, I doubt you shield your face from _iew when men look at you in reality - it's weird to do it here.

Anyway, you're ignoring the fact that they can rejoin as a single female and look at your pictures til their heart's content.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you're overreacting tbh! Have them all as friends only if you've really that big a problem with it."

How is asking a question overreacting?

I'm well in my rights to find out exactly how the site works before making a decision on what pics I post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe we should start a site called no pictures fab wingers

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

If a tree falls in the woods do I care?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Out of interest why are you concerned?

Well it's just that I feel putting a face pic on my profile would be less risky if single guys couldn't see my pics. I don't like the idea of people recognising me without me being aware in public. "

But women would be just as able to recognise you as single men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"but if you have exchanged messages before, they still can I think

That's a bit rubbish, you should be able to stop them looking at your pics?

I get the same nutters looking at my pics all the time!

But if you don't know they're looking, it can't bother you.

I think I would rather know who is _iewing me so I can block them!

By blocking males all it does is stop them contacting me, but they can look at my pics without me knowing.

I think it would be better if when you block single males they couldn't _iew your pics, or maybe your pics look muffled.

Then I would probably feel more comfortable putting face pics on my profile.

You know men in the real world can see your face, too?

Explain?

It's weird to be so upset about men possibly seeing your face on here, when dozens will see you everyday.

What a strange thing to say lol

I don't think so, I doubt you shield your face from _iew when men look at you in reality - it's weird to do it here.

Anyway, you're ignoring the fact that they can rejoin as a single female and look at your pictures til their heart's content. "

Firstly I'm not ignoring anything, I'm simply asking a question so I know how the site works.

There's a huge difference between showing your face in public and showing your face on a swinging site! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about the people who look at you in stealth mode???

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

To be honest my thoughts are.. the cock avatar attracts men more than women its rather like the bent over showing arse hole pics its for men not ladies..

Change your photos to appeal to ladies instead just a thought

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Out of interest why are you concerned?

Well it's just that I feel putting a face pic on my profile would be less risky if single guys couldn't see my pics. I don't like the idea of people recognising me without me being aware in public.

But women would be just as able to recognise you as single men. "

Hence why I said LESS risky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but if you have exchanged messages before, they still can I think

That's a bit rubbish, you should be able to stop them looking at your pics?

I get the same nutters looking at my pics all the time!

But if you don't know they're looking, it can't bother you.

I think I would rather know who is _iewing me so I can block them!

By blocking males all it does is stop them contacting me, but they can look at my pics without me knowing.

I think it would be better if when you block single males they couldn't _iew your pics, or maybe your pics look muffled.

Then I would probably feel more comfortable putting face pics on my profile.

You know men in the real world can see your face, too?

Explain?

It's weird to be so upset about men possibly seeing your face on here, when dozens will see you everyday.

What a strange thing to say lol

I don't think so, I doubt you shield your face from _iew when men look at you in reality - it's weird to do it here.

Anyway, you're ignoring the fact that they can rejoin as a single female and look at your pictures til their heart's content.

Firstly I'm not ignoring anything, I'm simply asking a question so I know how the site works.

There's a huge difference between showing your face in public and showing your face on a swinging site! Haha"

Well, you're only concerned about males upsetting you so I do think you're ignoring the fact that TV/TS, females, or couples can do the same.

The consequences are the same, you don't have to fuck them if they look here or offline. If you want to remain private, don't do upload any pictures. Pictures are constantly leaked from here anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What about the people who look at you in stealth mode???"

Haha I know!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

To answer your question as simply as possible (as others have):

1. You choose which pictures you want to post.

2. You can make your pictures public, where you can't control exactly who sees them.

3. You can make your pictures friends only, so only those you invite to see your pictures can see them.

4. You can make your pictures private, so you choose who to send them to.

5. You can block individuals and they cannot see your profile or your pictures.

6. You can set your filters to stop all single men from contacting you but they can still see your profile and your pictures (if these are public).

7. You will never know if the woman or couple contacting you is really a single man unless you arrange to speak to them/meet them.

8. You are overthinking this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"but if you have exchanged messages before, they still can I think

That's a bit rubbish, you should be able to stop them looking at your pics?

I get the same nutters looking at my pics all the time!

But if you don't know they're looking, it can't bother you.

I think I would rather know who is _iewing me so I can block them!

By blocking males all it does is stop them contacting me, but they can look at my pics without me knowing.

I think it would be better if when you block single males they couldn't _iew your pics, or maybe your pics look muffled.

Then I would probably feel more comfortable putting face pics on my profile.

You know men in the real world can see your face, too?

Explain?

It's weird to be so upset about men possibly seeing your face on here, when dozens will see you everyday.

What a strange thing to say lol

I don't think so, I doubt you shield your face from _iew when men look at you in reality - it's weird to do it here.

Anyway, you're ignoring the fact that they can rejoin as a single female and look at your pictures til their heart's content.

Firstly I'm not ignoring anything, I'm simply asking a question so I know how the site works.

There's a huge difference between showing your face in public and showing your face on a swinging site! Haha

Well, you're only concerned about males upsetting you so I do think you're ignoring the fact that TV/TS, females, or couples can do the same.

The consequences are the same, you don't have to fuck them if they look here or offline. If you want to remain private, don't do upload any pictures. Pictures are constantly leaked from here anyway. "

Sorry I thought TV/TS are men?

When did I say I want to be private? I love how people put words in your mouth!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I have some photos up and no one can recognise me from them, and I don't care who looks at them male or female or third, what I don't like though is men who look and look and look and don't message, so the third time I catch them looking and not contacting, I block them individually. Why? It just bugs me a bit. If the ladies look and look, then yippee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but if you have exchanged messages before, they still can I think

That's a bit rubbish, you should be able to stop them looking at your pics?

I get the same nutters looking at my pics all the time!

But if you don't know they're looking, it can't bother you.

I think I would rather know who is _iewing me so I can block them!

By blocking males all it does is stop them contacting me, but they can look at my pics without me knowing.

I think it would be better if when you block single males they couldn't _iew your pics, or maybe your pics look muffled.

Then I would probably feel more comfortable putting face pics on my profile.

You know men in the real world can see your face, too?

Explain?

It's weird to be so upset about men possibly seeing your face on here, when dozens will see you everyday.

What a strange thing to say lol

I don't think so, I doubt you shield your face from _iew when men look at you in reality - it's weird to do it here.

Anyway, you're ignoring the fact that they can rejoin as a single female and look at your pictures til their heart's content.

Firstly I'm not ignoring anything, I'm simply asking a question so I know how the site works.

There's a huge difference between showing your face in public and showing your face on a swinging site! Haha

Well, you're only concerned about males upsetting you so I do think you're ignoring the fact that TV/TS, females, or couples can do the same.

The consequences are the same, you don't have to fuck them if they look here or offline. If you want to remain private, don't do upload any pictures. Pictures are constantly leaked from here anyway.

Sorry I thought TV/TS are men?

When did I say I want to be private? I love how people put words in your mouth!

Wtf. How is you wanting to keep pictures from single men not wanting privacy?

And no, TV/TS are the gender they identify as.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

As for all those in stealth mode and who I miss - haha! It's the Internet and a swinging website.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To be honest my thoughts are.. the cock avatar attracts men more than women its rather like the bent over showing arse hole pics its for men not ladies..

Change your photos to appeal to ladies instead just a thought

The pics I have would be completely different if I felt comfortable putting face pics on here I wouldn't have any naked pics.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"To be honest my thoughts are.. the cock avatar attracts men more than women its rather like the bent over showing arse hole pics its for men not ladies..

Change your photos to appeal to ladies instead just a thought

The pics I have would be completely different if I felt comfortable putting face pics on here I wouldn't have any naked pics. "

So basically then you want to do what you want and the rest of the net needs to change to suit that? Or have I misunderstood?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"To be honest my thoughts are.. the cock avatar attracts men more than women its rather like the bent over showing arse hole pics its for men not ladies..

Change your photos to appeal to ladies instead just a thought

The pics I have would be completely different if I felt comfortable putting face pics on here I wouldn't have any naked pics. "

Just use the pictures you are happy to use. The rest of us will make our choices, guided in some cases by those pictures.

You do know that your avatar is visible to all those men* who read the forum without joining the site.

*Women, couples and other gender and relationship configurations are also available.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"but if you have exchanged messages before, they still can I think

That's a bit rubbish, you should be able to stop them looking at your pics?

I get the same nutters looking at my pics all the time!

But if you don't know they're looking, it can't bother you.

I think I would rather know who is _iewing me so I can block them!

By blocking males all it does is stop them contacting me, but they can look at my pics without me knowing.

I think it would be better if when you block single males they couldn't _iew your pics, or maybe your pics look muffled.

Then I would probably feel more comfortable putting face pics on my profile.

You know men in the real world can see your face, too?

Explain?

It's weird to be so upset about men possibly seeing your face on here, when dozens will see you everyday.

What a strange thing to say lol

I don't think so, I doubt you shield your face from _iew when men look at you in reality - it's weird to do it here.

Anyway, you're ignoring the fact that they can rejoin as a single female and look at your pictures til their heart's content.

Firstly I'm not ignoring anything, I'm simply asking a question so I know how the site works.

There's a huge difference between showing your face in public and showing your face on a swinging site! Haha

Well, you're only concerned about males upsetting you so I do think you're ignoring the fact that TV/TS, females, or couples can do the same.

The consequences are the same, you don't have to fuck them if they look here or offline. If you want to remain private, don't do upload any pictures. Pictures are constantly leaked from here anyway.

Sorry I thought TV/TS are men?

When did I say I want to be private? I love how people put words in your mouth!

Wtf. How is you wanting to keep pictures from single men not wanting privacy?

And no, TV/TS are the gender they identify as. "

Why people get worked up over a forum post? It amazes me lol

I just said I would feel more comfortable about posting face pics if single males couldn't see them, I didn't say I wanted privacy, I'm well aware it would leave couples and females free to look at my profile.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I don't really understand all round but I think I'm in stealth mode here too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To be honest my thoughts are.. the cock avatar attracts men more than women its rather like the bent over showing arse hole pics its for men not ladies..

Change your photos to appeal to ladies instead just a thought

The pics I have would be completely different if I felt comfortable putting face pics on here I wouldn't have any naked pics.

Just use the pictures you are happy to use. The rest of us will make our choices, guided in some cases by those pictures.

You do know that your avatar is visible to all those men* who read the forum without joining the site.

*Women, couples and other gender and relationship configurations are also available."

Well actually no I wasn't aware of that, I'm pretty sure the pics are muffled unless you join? I could be wrong?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

OP, the easiest and most pleasant fab experience is not to worry about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here mate just think its amusing tbh, lighten up if guys like looking at you then you must be doing something right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To be honest my thoughts are.. the cock avatar attracts men more than women its rather like the bent over showing arse hole pics its for men not ladies..

Change your photos to appeal to ladies instead just a thought

The pics I have would be completely different if I felt comfortable putting face pics on here I wouldn't have any naked pics.

So basically then you want to do what you want and the rest of the net needs to change to suit that? Or have I misunderstood?"

Haha your just putting words in my mouth. I never said that, you did!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am not sure what you sound most : intolerant or paranoid

Guys looking at your pics ain't gonna turn you gay or bi

Altho, as a result of such lurkings, you may occasionally talk with a lisp or mince when you walk

Other than that, you're good to go

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP, the easiest and most pleasant fab experience is not to worry about it. "

Lol I only asked a simple question about how the site works, I didn't intend on getting into a discussion about why and what I choose to do. That's up to me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"To be honest my thoughts are.. the cock avatar attracts men more than women its rather like the bent over showing arse hole pics its for men not ladies..

Change your photos to appeal to ladies instead just a thought

The pics I have would be completely different if I felt comfortable putting face pics on here I wouldn't have any naked pics.

So basically then you want to do what you want and the rest of the net needs to change to suit that? Or have I misunderstood?

Haha your just putting words in my mouth. I never said that, you did!"

To be frank I'm not sure what you are saying because you seem to be ignoring anyone who gives you good advice.

Ultimately it's your call but there is only one way to prevent single men from seeing your face on here.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

You won't catch the gay from people looking at you. Don't let it worry you.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Why are you less comfortable a man looking at your face?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Why does it matter if men look at you, as opposed to women? Are women less likely to recognise you in Asda?

What about the male halves of couples...can they look?

You come across as paranoid that allowing men to see your CURRENT pics (forget face for the minute) will affect you in some unspecified way.

And that's confusing us all, because logically, you are not affected by what I, or anyone else, looks at on the Internet. You are only potentially affected if we RESPOND to your pics, which you can control via the single male filter.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Why are you less comfortable a man looking at your face?"

I asked that too. No response so far.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To be honest my thoughts are.. the cock avatar attracts men more than women its rather like the bent over showing arse hole pics its for men not ladies..

Change your photos to appeal to ladies instead just a thought

The pics I have would be completely different if I felt comfortable putting face pics on here I wouldn't have any naked pics.

So basically then you want to do what you want and the rest of the net needs to change to suit that? Or have I misunderstood?

Haha your just putting words in my mouth. I never said that, you did!

To be frank I'm not sure what you are saying because you seem to be ignoring anyone who gives you good advice.

Ultimately it's your call but there is only one way to prevent single men from seeing your face on here. "

What advice was it that I ignored? maybe I missed it because the few grumpy people on the forum that just want a argument.

Also I don't remember asking for any advice?

I asked a very simple question about how the site works. How and why I decide to use the site is my business.

Chill out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, the easiest and most pleasant fab experience is not to worry about it.

Lol I only asked a simple question about how the site works, I didn't intend on getting into a discussion about why and what I choose to do. That's up to me.

Tbh it's a weird request and it's a forum. Not expecting people to ask you questions is silly, especially when what you're asking for can be construed as homophobic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP, the easiest and most pleasant fab experience is not to worry about it.

Lol I only asked a simple question about how the site works, I didn't intend on getting into a discussion about why and what I choose to do. That's up to me.

Tbh it's a weird request and it's a forum. Not expecting people to ask you questions is silly, especially when what you're asking for can be construed as homophobic. "

Hahaha so now I'm homophobic!