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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How's it going, is this site hard work or what man!! I'm a nice guy but this site makes me think otherwise!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How's it going, is this site hard work or what man!! I'm a nice guy but this site makes me think otherwise!! "

What? You don't think you're nice anymore?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site makes you doubt if you are a nice guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The number of men far outweigh the number of available women/couples. It's a numbers game. Oh and you need patience

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

You have only been here 2 weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome! Shag will be along shortly to tell you that you need patience lol!

2 weeks is no time at all on here and many single guys take months to get their first meet, but keep at it, I'm sure you'll do fine!

Good luck and happy Fabbing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome! Shag will be along shortly to tell you that you need patience lol!

2 weeks is no time at all on here and many single guys take months to get their first meet, but keep at it, I'm sure you'll do fine!

Good luck and happy Fabbing! "
i beat him to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome! Shag will be along shortly to tell you that you need patience lol!

2 weeks is no time at all on here and many single guys take months to get their first meet, but keep at it, I'm sure you'll do fine!

Good luck and happy Fabbing! i beat him to it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick around in the forums for a bit, we're all nice here (mostly)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to Fab & the forums OP xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stick around in the forums for a bit, we're all nice here (mostly) "

Even when we're not being nice it's just because we think we're funny...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The site makes you doubt if you are a nice guy?"

Yep it does sometimes

You wonder if your approach is working;

How people might perceive you;

Whether you're ever going to get a meet;

Even your sanity

The important thing is to take a step back, slap yourself around the face (physically or metaphorically) and tell yourself that you're OK

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Stick around in the forums for a bit, we're all nice here (mostly) "

Maybe that's the problem? We're so nice that OP has realised that he's comparatively not as nice as us?

Sorry, OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stick around in the forums for a bit, we're all nice here (mostly)

Maybe that's the problem? We're so nice that OP has realised that he's comparatively not as nice as us?

Sorry, OP "

Nah, there are plenty of non-nice people on the forums too. Look, here I am!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The site makes you doubt if you are a nice guy?

Yep it does sometimes

You wonder if your approach is working;

How people might perceive you;

Whether you're ever going to get a meet;

Even your sanity

The important thing is to take a step back, slap yourself around the face (physically or metaphorically) and tell yourself that you're OK "

Or in scouse..... Giv yer 'ead a wobble....

Hard work for everyone, even after being here for years

Fatbird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stick around in the forums for a bit, we're all nice here (mostly)

Maybe that's the problem? We're so nice that OP has realised that he's comparatively not as nice as us?

Sorry, OP

Nah, there are plenty of non-nice people on the forums too. Look, here I am! "

OP, stick to threads Ruby contributes to and you'll feel wholesome and affable for the rest of your life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stick around in the forums for a bit, we're all nice here (mostly)

Maybe that's the problem? We're so nice that OP has realised that he's comparatively not as nice as us?

Sorry, OP

Nah, there are plenty of non-nice people on the forums too. Look, here I am! "

Your nice Ruby you just say it like you see it. Alot of us respect that. With every post i see from you the more you sound like my real life friend also called ruby...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stick around in the forums for a bit, we're all nice here (mostly)

Maybe that's the problem? We're so nice that OP has realised that he's comparatively not as nice as us?

Sorry, OP

Nah, there are plenty of non-nice people on the forums too. Look, here I am!

Your nice Ruby you just say it like you see it. Alot of us respect that. With every post i see from you the more you sound like my real life friend also called ruby..."

Shhhh man you're spoiling my image! I got called 'sensible' the other day as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stick around in the forums for a bit, we're all nice here (mostly)

Maybe that's the problem? We're so nice that OP has realised that he's comparatively not as nice as us?

Sorry, OP

Nah, there are plenty of non-nice people on the forums too. Look, here I am!

OP, stick to threads Ruby contributes to and you'll feel wholesome and affable for the rest of your life "

It's a public service I'm providing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stick around in the forums for a bit, we're all nice here (mostly)

Maybe that's the problem? We're so nice that OP has realised that he's comparatively not as nice as us?

Sorry, OP

Nah, there are plenty of non-nice people on the forums too. Look, here I am!

Your nice Ruby you just say it like you see it. Alot of us respect that. With every post i see from you the more you sound like my real life friend also called ruby...

Shhhh man you're spoiling my image! I got called 'sensible' the other day as well "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe it's a good thing that it makes you feel slightly more down to earth than in real life.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm nice most of the time.

Welcome!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Don't let a web site alter your opinion of yourself. If things here affect your self-esteem leave, it isn't compulsory and nobody should do something that makes them feel bad if they don't want to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't let a web site alter your opinion of yourself. If things here affect your self-esteem leave, it isn't compulsory and nobody should do something that makes them feel bad if they don't want to."

Don't get me wrong I'm not letting this site effect my self esteem, it's just hard work and it makes you wander why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site is geared towards women as the huge male ratio is here, patience is they key lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The site is geared towards women as the huge male ratio is here, patience is they key lol."
you wouldn't need to be patient if you lived a bit closer shag

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The site is geared towards women as the huge male ratio is here, patience is they key lol. you wouldn't need to be patient if you lived a bit closer shag "

You'd be up for meeting me yeah!? What makes you say that!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome! Shag will be along shortly to tell you that you need patience lol!

2 weeks is no time at all on here and many single guys take months to get their first meet, but keep at it, I'm sure you'll do fine!

Good luck and happy Fabbing! i beat him to it "

Maybe you've just invented a new sport; beat shag to the "you need patience" quote.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking of setting up a site called 'instantshag.com'

All you have to do is set up a profile, upload a photo, and the fanny throws itself at you

I'm going to be the next dotcom billionaire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The site is geared towards women as the huge male ratio is here, patience is they key lol. you wouldn't need to be patient if you lived a bit closer shag

You'd be up for meeting me yeah!? What makes you say that!? "
No I wouldn't, I said it as that's what I think you meant like its hard to find someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The site is geared towards women as the huge male ratio is here, patience is they key lol. you wouldn't need to be patient if you lived a bit closer shag "
That right. I wouldn't. I need to relocate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The site makes you doubt if you are a nice guy?"

PMSL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How's it going, is this site hard work or what man!! I'm a nice guy but this site makes me think otherwise!!

What? You don't think you're nice anymore? "
yes he said that he's lost all confidence in his niceness ,hey just hang on in their are nice people here don't expect any women to message you first though

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"How's it going, is this site hard work or what man!! I'm a nice guy but this site makes me think otherwise!! "

You need charisma, Steve.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"You have only been here 2 weeks."

Patience! Been here since the big bang. F@@k all so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Approach it with a sense of humour ....

If you can't have a giggle what can you have?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its good on here were all fruitcakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Approach it with a sense of humour ....

If you can't have a giggle what can you have?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"You have only been here 2 weeks.

Patience! Been here since the big bang. F@@k all so far."
men need to make an effort though.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"You have only been here 2 weeks.

Patience! Been here since the big bang. F@@k all so far."

Not even from the 90+ year old women?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Approach it with a sense of humour ....

If you can't have a giggle what can you have?"
you can say that again.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"You have only been here 2 weeks.

Patience! Been here since the big bang. F@@k all so far.

Not even from the 90+ year old women?

"

Never do anything over 70. Cant afford points on my licence

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Welcome to Fab & the forums OP xxx"

Thanks, only just found out what OP meant!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to Fab & the forums OP xxx

Thanks, only just found out what OP meant!! "

You're doing well then, that took me about 3 months

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"You have only been here 2 weeks.

Patience! Been here since the big bang. F@@k all so far.

Not even from the 90+ year old women?

Never do anything over 70. Cant afford points on my licence

] "

Best change your profile criteria then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stick around in the forums for a bit, we're all nice here (mostly)

Maybe that's the problem? We're so nice that OP has realised that he's comparatively not as nice as us?

Sorry, OP

Nah, there are plenty of non-nice people on the forums too. Look, here I am!

Your nice Ruby you just say it like you see it. Alot of us respect that. With every post i see from you the more you sound like my real life friend also called ruby...

Shhhh man you're spoiling my image! I got called 'sensible' the other day as well "

Miaow!

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark


"How's it going, is this site hard work or what man!! I'm a nice guy but this site makes me think otherwise!! "

Truthfully no, its not hard work, it not work at all, in fact its fun and exciting and I enjoy it immensely, and the day ita not fun I'm outta here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stick around in the forums for a bit, we're all nice here (mostly)

Maybe that's the problem? We're so nice that OP has realised that he's comparatively not as nice as us?

Sorry, OP

Nah, there are plenty of non-nice people on the forums too. Look, here I am!

Your nice Ruby you just say it like you see it. Alot of us respect that. With every post i see from you the more you sound like my real life friend also called ruby...

Shhhh man you're spoiling my image! I got called 'sensible' the other day as well

Miaow!"

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