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By *8dd OP   Couple
over a year ago

xxxxx

Why do people take photos when there places look like a tip surely you can tidy up first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

says a lot about them we think

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"says a lot about them we think "

It's probably because they assume that it's only men perving over the photos... and everyone knows that a man won't see anything but the naked bodies..

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people take photos when there places look like a tip surely you can tidy up first"
exactly and smile xx

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

Thought this was going to be a fetish thread wanting to see pics of people actually tidying up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I said the same thing last night when we were browsing! Hand in hand with pictures of them next to a toilet!

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By *bbandflowCouple
over a year ago

South Devon


"I said the same thing last night when we were browsing! Hand in hand with pictures of them next to a toilet! "

Or even more delightful, actually sat on a toilet!

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

I agree with a mess in the background of photos. Not a good look an it puts me of meeting them tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, I dunno! Bit of mess can look good in a pic....

If you have a woman in French Maid's uniform bending down to pick it up ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mess and toilets how can it even be sexy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been known to ditch someone after I've seen piles of dirty washing in the background.

Granted so people go through messy relationship splits but so they have totally lose their standards just dos they live on their own.

Guys have told me there are women like this too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will make sure our house looks like a show home before any future pics are taken, lest we be judged as unclean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will make sure our house looks like a show home before any future pics are taken, lest we be judged as unclean "
Get that grass cut in your Avatar too, its way too long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will make sure our house looks like a show home before any future pics are taken, lest we be judged as unclean Get that grass cut in your Avatar too, its way too long "

I suppose you want me to change the water in our lake as well?

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Will make sure our house looks like a show home before any future pics are taken, lest we be judged as unclean "

Are all your offending pics in 'private' because I see none on public display?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will make sure our house looks like a show home before any future pics are taken, lest we be judged as unclean Get that grass cut in your Avatar too, its way too long

I suppose you want me to change the water in our lake as well? "
Well at least a few drops of water conditioner wouldn't go a miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will make sure our house looks like a show home before any future pics are taken, lest we be judged as unclean

Are all your offending pics in 'private' because I see none on public display?"

Not at all, I was merely attempting to make a point that not all people with an untidy background are smelly, unhygienic two headed troglodytes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will make sure our house looks like a show home before any future pics are taken, lest we be judged as unclean "

Yes, mock, because why on earth would someone wish to make a good impression? Why would someone want to make a picture look nicer? And why would anyone trying to look for sex partners care if their hygiene standards were questioned?

All completely unnecessary

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Will make sure our house looks like a show home before any future pics are taken, lest we be judged as unclean

Are all your offending pics in 'private' because I see none on public display?

Not at all, I was merely attempting to make a point that not all people with an untidy background are smelly, unhygienic two headed troglodytes. "

See Thing Two's statement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will make sure our house looks like a show home before any future pics are taken, lest we be judged as unclean

Yes, mock, because why on earth would someone wish to make a good impression? Why would someone want to make a picture look nicer? And why would anyone trying to look for sex partners care if their hygiene standards were questioned?

All completely unnecessary "

I don't think it is mocking people. Just because someone might have a messy background on photos it's no reason to pre judge, I'm sure you wouldn't like people to judge you as pushy because you have a single guy profile? (Not saying you are)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Man and woman are having some fun,things are hotting up,one says,let's take some photos,the other says,let's tidy up first.

Moment gone.passion dwindles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesnt take long to make sure its tidy. And why the pics with the cock over the toilet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never understood the cock over the toilet pics,or straight men with pics of their bum cheeks pulled wide apart.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Never understood the cock over the toilet pics,or straight men with pics of their bum cheeks pulled wide apart."

Peggees showing peggers where to peg.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will make sure our house looks like a show home before any future pics are taken, lest we be judged as unclean

Yes, mock, because why on earth would someone wish to make a good impression? Why would someone want to make a picture look nicer? And why would anyone trying to look for sex partners care if their hygiene standards were questioned?

All completely unnecessary

I don't think it is mocking people. Just because someone might have a messy background on photos it's no reason to pre judge, I'm sure you wouldn't like people to judge you as pushy because you have a single guy profile? (Not saying you are)"

Again, so you don't think it's worth making an effort to make yourself and your pics look better, more appealing? You don't think it's worth making little changes to put yourself in a better light?

But if you think I'm wrong and you genuinely think they weren't mocking or being facetious, let me address their serious and genuine three-headed troglodyte concerns: to my knowledge an untidy house in a photo wouldn't give the impression that the person in the photos had three heads (having three heads would be the primary giveaway here). And as for them being a prehistoric cave dweller; the fact that it's an untidy *house* shows this not to be a valid concern.

Certain messages and posts may sometimes suggest a prehistoric understanding of language and grammar, so I would look at that in thr first instance when trying to alleviate concerns regarding a person being a troglodyte with one or more heads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesnt take long to make sure its tidy. And why the pics with the cock over the toilet? "

Strongly suspect they take their pictures in the toilet as they're married and the Mrs doesn't know!

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By *ildt123Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

I get the point and agree, but, it's a bit of a leap to suggest that a bit of house clutter or laundry implies someone is unhygienic as someone above said.

It does imply a lack of care and thought tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will make sure our house looks like a show home before any future pics are taken, lest we be judged as unclean Get that grass cut in your Avatar too, its way too long

I suppose you want me to change the water in our lake as well? "

When you've finished I have a bush that needs trimming......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats the first thing i do is check out the background... lol maybe am just being nosey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

**Runs and checks photos** phew very little back ground showing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will make sure our house looks like a show home before any future pics are taken, lest we be judged as unclean Get that grass cut in your Avatar too, its way too long

I suppose you want me to change the water in our lake as well?

When you've finished I have a bush that needs trimming...... "

I'm no good at topiary, I usually just lop it off and shape

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Why do people take photos when there places look like a tip surely you can tidy up first"

Some people are totally unaware. I recall a couple starting a thread complaining about their lack of meets as no one replied to their messages.

It was pointed out to them that sitting in an environment that Stig of the dump would envy with the remnants of their dinner on dirty plates on their lap was not an enticing image!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Why do people take photos when there places look like a tip surely you can tidy up first"

maybe it is after tidying, who knows how bad it was before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"says a lot about them we think

It's probably because they assume that it's only men perving over the photos... and everyone knows that a man won't see anything but the naked bodies..

Cal"

Can't agree with you Cal MESS would be the first thing I would notice and would turn me off completely Sorry to disagree but I would have no interest in a profile or pics surrounded by mess ugg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with a mess in the background of photos. Not a good look an it puts me of meeting them tbh "

Job done then! Not you personally just a general comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on what you call mess. Example me and other half have just moved in together so boxes everywhere.

A few discarded clothes might not be mess but someone trying on clothes. I understand it the place looks like a contender for how clean is your house or in the case of toilet had a floater in it.

Sometime I feel that there is far to much judging a book by its cover going on with this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesnt take long to make sure its tidy. And why the pics with the cock over the toilet?

Strongly suspect they take their pictures in the toilet as they're married and the Mrs doesn't know! "

I have a couple of pics in my bathroom. I'm married, just lock the door, same with bedroom, door is locked

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