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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ever break your heart ??

. A very young patient today on my unit today poor little thing x

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Sometimes it does make the bottom lip wobble

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know what you mean and you have to keep it together x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing as heart breaking as that but I do find managing people issues take up a disproportionate time of my working day compared to pure 'work' and some of that can be challenging and, at times, upsetting

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yes ... tears are going to happen soon

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We all need a big hugs

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to hear that. It must be a complete gut wrench. I have lost some friends through work but that has been few and far between. And that pails into insignificance when compared to a child. Sending virtual hugs your way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My previous job did sometimes.

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

Yeah every payday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It used to every day, I had to change jobs x

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

Nah, never, it's only a job - I've had some shit jobs/bosses, just toughed it out whilst finding a suitable alternative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely so at times unfortunately.

A virtual cwtch for you OP. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever break your heart ??

. A very young patient today on my unit today poor little thing x"

I've kind of grown hard when people die and it doesn't affect me. What does break my heart is the state of the social care system and the absolute lack of effort by social services.

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )

Mine does occasionally,

some of the things I hear bring a lump in my throat.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Big hugs to all you carers out there xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes when I get paid.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Not really; it's just frustrating when I get things organised and my gaffer then decides to think for himself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not really; it's just frustrating when I get things organised and my gaffer then decides to think for himself

Been in that situation..you give them the problem and the solution and you see them go all thoughtful and go, I think we will take a different direction...

Face...palm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do 2 jobs.

1 constantly breaks my heart- but the day it doesn't im in the wrong job

The other brings happiness to people and celebrates life so it cheerse up after the down days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My job regularly reminds how cruel and how fragile life can be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, mines pretty chill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I couldn't do a job that would be likely to affect me in that way. I'm at the stage in my life where I go to work because I have to pay the bills so I'm taking the easiest and least stress free way to do that so that I can give my all to being wife and mum when I'm at home. I couldn't do that if work affected me emotionally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever break your heart ??

. A very young patient today on my unit today poor little thing x"

Yes it does

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By *anda and CatCouple
over a year ago

I (male half) am a tradesman and even in my line of work I see some upsetting things, mostly with elderly customers, loneliness, struggleing financially ect. It really gets me down at times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry to hear you had a bad day . I feel for some of my clients when they lose there horses or favourite pets its all so hart breaking

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By *ildt123Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Yes often

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Yes.

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By *ntirelyuptoyouCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Most days unfortunately. Have to constantly remember I'm there to support not help,

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

My job annoys the hell out of me, there is potential for a fatality but so far not experienced that yet.

Sorry to hear about your day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, as I don't deal with people. But, implementing the decisions made by the powers that be can be a bit depressing sometimes. I didn't get into what I do to take funding away from service budgets.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Usually my job causes me such frustration that it makes me cry. I come across some heartbreaking cases, but I don't deal with them directly, I deal with the people that cause the heartbreak.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Sometimes. Usually it's the things done to individuals, in a variety of ways.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

No, it frustrates the fuck out of me at times though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a young girl had a stroke infront of me. couldnt of been any older than 18

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

Only when I get a 5am start, so I'm getting up when I'm usually not long in bed

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