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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

How do you use yours, is it purely to correspond with perspective meets, chat to people socially as well.

I have a few guys who Ive been "chatting" to for years, meeting has never been discussed, I know very little about them, but they will message me a few times a week if not everyday just to say good morning and how am I, then off they go on their merry way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of everything for us. Banter, small talk, or shameless flirtery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A bit of everything for us. Banter, small talk, or shameless flirtery "

^ ^ this. Except I'm crap at the shameless flirtery bit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you use yours, is it purely to correspond with perspective meets, chat to people socially as well.

I have a few guys who Ive been "chatting" to for years, meeting has never been discussed, I know very little about them, but they will message me a few times a week if not everyday just to say good morning and how am I, then off they go on their merry way.

"

I keep messages from who I'm currently speaking too. Sometimes have a block delete session.

I like it when I good morning messages

It's nice people keep messaging without always wanting to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A bit of everything for us. Banter, small talk, or shameless flirtery

^ ^ this. Except I'm crap at the shameless flirtery bit! "

Me too

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Bit of everything really, would be nice to be able to group messages as it does get messy occasionally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use mine to get back in contact with people I knew from a previous profile. I also like to find out more about clubs and events that I can explore. There is some shameless flirting occurring with one or two friends

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I use it for a bit of everything, just didn't notice just how many messages I got wishing me a good morning,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ornamental. I blow the cobwebs off it every so often, but there's rarely anything in there these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an inbox? Wow! Who knew?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One reason , and one reason only - to arrange meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My inbox is never ending at present there are 307 messages waiting to be read God help the ones at the end of the list poor buggers....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The primary use is to arrange to have sex. I chat to forum users now and again but not ongoing,everyday conversations; I don't even chat to my mum like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you use yours, is it purely to correspond with perspective meets, chat to people socially as well.

I have a few guys who Ive been "chatting" to for years, meeting has never been discussed, I know very little about them, but they will message me a few times a week if not everyday just to say good morning and how am I, then off they go on their merry way.

"

It's the quietest place on earth...

1 message a month and that was BEFORE we hid our profile.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

A bit of everything but it's mostly the others who seem to want to use it for sexual purposes primarily.

It's lovely to hear from friends - mostly that I've not met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really use it for meets. I mostly use my inbox to chat from via the forum here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you use yours, is it purely to correspond with perspective meets, chat to people socially as well.

I have a few guys who Ive been "chatting" to for years, meeting has never been discussed, I know very little about them, but they will message me a few times a week if not everyday just to say good morning and how am I, then off they go on their merry way.

"
hehe what guys you fancy ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine very much seems to go in cycles. I don't get lots of random messages. I have those that I chat to now and then and some that I chat to daily for a while. Most of my meet arranging happens on whatsapp.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you mean you can receive messages? Not just send them? omg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is a mess...

I know i talk to way too many people on here, don't delete often enough, blocklist sometimes releases people off it, and all this makes it a mess lol.

Got a few guys i wanna reply to as well but daren't in case i can't cope.

I like to use it for chatting to people i'll never meet, people i might meet, people i will meet. All of them are fun and interesting to talk to and get my sense of humour and are interested in my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use mine to get back in contact with people I knew from a previous profile. I also like to find out more about clubs and events that I can explore. There is some shameless flirting occurring with one or two friends "

I wish someone would flirt with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you use yours, is it purely to correspond with perspective meets, chat to people socially as well.

I have a few guys who Ive been "chatting" to for years, meeting has never been discussed, I know very little about them, but they will message me a few times a week if not everyday just to say good morning and how am I, then off they go on their merry way.

"

Same x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours is used for everything, really. It is a complete mess at the moment, though. I'm thinking of doing a mass delete and then starting over with a more organized inbox/private notes system.

I guess I'll see how much time I have on my hands one night

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you use yours, is it purely to correspond with perspective meets, chat to people socially as well.

I have a few guys who Ive been "chatting" to for years, meeting has never been discussed, I know very little about them, but they will message me a few times a week if not everyday just to say good morning and how am I, then off they go on their merry way.

"

Mostly for chat with potential meets. But chat socially as well as you know .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually not all of them are that interested in my life lol, was just thinking about the guys i talk to regular. Some are only interested when they want something.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

For prospective meets. Few friends but can get clunky in there.

Deleted my entire inbox by accident last night. Actually feels quite refreshing to have a clear out

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

I'm still trying to figure out how to use mine.

It seems to be used mainly to converse about life, the world, desires, aspiration and the like. I try to be as alluring as I can but that usually goes pear shaped when I'm asked something unexpected and then I just blurt out all kinds of things about myself and my thoughts on the world and the nature of humanity that I hadn't meant to say... and then it all goes quiet again.

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria


"I'm still trying to figure out how to use mine.

It seems to be used mainly to converse about life, the world, desires, aspiration and the like. I try to be as alluring as I can but that usually goes pear shaped when I'm asked something unexpected and then I just blurt out all kinds of things about myself and my thoughts on the world and the nature of humanity that I hadn't meant to say... and then it all goes quiet again.

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Except for one, who keeps me nearly sane.

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