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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just curious as to how many research the verifications as well as the profile to find what suits them?? I have to admit some profiles have looked amazing then I have read a verification and had seconds thoughts. I'm just wondering if it is me or is this quite a common practice.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I just read the verifications to see if they are real and have a sense of humour. What one person finds "gorgeous" or a "tongue to die for" may not be the same for me.

I prefer to chatter away to them for a while and then arrange a meet and find out for myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's important to see the type they have previously met as certain ppl are blacklisted for various reasons so if they have met them then would steer clear !

Also if they met someone called bbdirtycumfilledwhore for example probably would not want to meet them afterwards...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I always do a bit of 'research' on potential meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am more interested in the verifications they leave for other people, and to an extent who those people are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at who verifies people out of curiosity and to see which circles they mix in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always do. And i'll search them online too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we do have a good nosy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never decide who to meet based on previous meets that just odd behaviour to me

If I chat to somebody and like them I will meet, I'm not meeting their previous meets so I don't need to like them

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Yes it's important to see the type they have previously met as certain ppl are blacklisted for various reasons so if they have met them then would steer clear !

Also if they met someone called bbdirtycumfilledwhore for example probably would not want to meet them afterwards... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I do. I also chat for a while to try and get a sense of them. I have to be careful with being a single female as well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always do. And i'll search them online too."

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Never used to but I did one guy as he just felt wrong, good job as well 4 verri all in the same rushed bad English style.

Close call so I would advise to check.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I check their pictures are authentic and that's about it.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I get to know enough about them to feel comfortable meeting in my own home.

In all the years I've been swinging there's only been three women that I'd refuse to meet anyone they met and that's because I'd met the women personally and they where filthy dirty scutters that where a disgrace to women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always do. And i'll search them online too. "

Ok can understand with you been a lady and you have to make sure your not meeting a fred West.

We once had a couple who went way beyond with searching...he was apparently with special spy forces and we should be more carefull Freaked us out for a while lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just read the verifications to see if they are real and have a sense of humour. What one person finds "gorgeous" or a "tongue to die for" may not be the same for me.

I prefer to chatter away to them for a while and then arrange a meet and find out for myself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I suppose i do too much checking really, But I do find it amazing how some people will do absolutely anyone and without protection, Don't want it turning into a bb discussion, But in a way I am so glad for the verifications so I can stay way from the high risk ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always do. And i'll search them online too.

Ok can understand with you been a lady and you have to make sure your not meeting a fred West.

We once had a couple who went way beyond with searching...he was apparently with special spy forces and we should be more carefull Freaked us out for a while lol

"

Yeah i'm talking about some common sense facebook/google image/google search not like MI5 or anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just read the verifications to see if they are real and have a sense of humour. What one person finds "gorgeous" or a "tongue to die for" may not be the same for me.

I prefer to chatter away to them for a while and then arrange a meet and find out for myself.

"

I was chatting to them as well anyway, but because of the above i stopped giving verifications any thought. Had one guy have loads of veris saying he was gorgeous, he turned up and i didn't think he was.

No point in looking up their meets, loads of people lie on their profile. I know this coz i have fucked most of the site by now...

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I would never decide who to meet based on previous meets that just odd behaviour to me

If I chat to somebody and like them I will meet, I'm not meeting their previous meets so I don't need to like them "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a spreadsheet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always do. And i'll search them online too."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a look at the veri trail to see what they've been upto, I'm a nosy mare..

If I liked them initially then I would have to be unsure about something else and not just a veri to not meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a spreadsheet. "

I actually do have a spreadsheet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious as to how many research the verifications as well as the profile to find what suits them?? I have to admit some profiles have looked amazing then I have read a verification and had seconds thoughts. I'm just wondering if it is me or is this quite a common practice."

Always..good veris help a lot,if they've met women that look like models then I wouldn't entertain meeting them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We read a couple but not many of the veris, as a fab meet for someone could be crap for the next person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always check. Not just the verifications on their profile, but also the ones that they've written for others. I have a look at their profile, their photos as well as those of the people who they've met. For me, this just goes a little further to give me an idea about the person.

But generally, first read of a profile is normally a really good indication of what the person is all about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You really can't go by a lot mentioned above.

For example

• Iv met guys with rubbish profiles and have been really nice guys and a good fuck too.

• seen the veri's they have written others (which some are poor) and again been a good fuck.

• seen the veri's people have written for them, met them and wouldn't agree with most of what the veri's had said.

• seen photos of the them and they are not like the photo I had seen.

I go by instinct now.

Granted I wouldn't meet someone if they had some veri's by women I know are shameful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a spreadsheet.

I actually do have a spreadsheet "

WAINS

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By *aramelMINXWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

After reading profiles I do read verifications n yea I do go.by them

.. the kinda of woman a guy fucks says a lot...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You really can't go by a lot mentioned above.

For example

• Iv met guys with rubbish profiles and have been really nice guys and a good fuck too.

• seen the veri's they have written others (which some are poor) and again been a good fuck.

• seen the veri's people have written for them, met them and wouldn't agree with most of what the veri's had said.

• seen photos of the them and they are not like the photo I had seen.

I go by instinct now.

Granted I wouldn't meet someone if they had some veri's by women I know are shameful

"

Which women are shameful? In what way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes - sometimes just go on gut feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Errm what is this meet thing your talking about ??

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Read their profile, veris they've written and received, all help make a judgment about whether we meet. Instinct counts for a lot

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Errm what is this meet thing your talking about ??

"
made me smile

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I have a spreadsheet. "

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I read the profile, check the veri's and the ones they left, if it's not millions.

I check who they hang out with and if they are people I'm not keen on I avoid.

But it's mostly chatting and gut instinct.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"After reading profiles I do read verifications n yea I do go.by them

.. the kinda of woman a guy fucks says a lot... "

Bearing in mind that I have started receiving joke veris because the people I meet have a sense of humour (and we don't need veris), don't believe all you read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never decide who to meet based on previous meets that just odd behaviour to me

If I chat to somebody and like them I will meet, I'm not meeting their previous meets so I don't need to like them "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never decide who to meet based on previous meets that just odd behaviour to me

If I chat to somebody and like them I will meet, I'm not meeting their previous meets so I don't need to like them

I agree "

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By *4STYWoman
over a year ago

Luanda/Angola

The only thing I wanna know is, dies he lick...

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I'd be more interest in the green arrow on here (for what they say) than their veri's, being someone else's opinion.

Although sometimes I do need to be advised whether a potential meet should be treated with respect or not. In those situations, verifications are an absolute Godsend...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funnily enough have been chatting to a guy today and thought he was really nice and then all 3 of his veris mentioned bb and creampies and it put me right off. I'm always safe and wouldnt risk it with those that i knew werent. Even with protection. X

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I'd be more interest in the green arrow on here (for what they say) than their veri's, being someone else's opinion.

Although sometimes I do need to be advised whether a potential meet should be treated with respect or not. In those situations, verifications are an absolute Godsend..."

Also whether or not you should let them pass you by. Invaluable advice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People talk about verifications but if I see someone having been verified by or being a friend of someone who says they do it bareback , then it's a turnoff .

Someone with 70 verifications doesn't do it for me as well for some reason

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon


"I always do. And i'll search them online too."

This.

And I don't know why some people are giving the comment a I thinks it's important to know as much as possible about those I let into my home and body.

People lie, but they don't get away with it with me.. everyone leaves a digital paper trail. Just call me Sherlock

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"And I don't know why some people are giving the comment a I thinks it's important to know as much as possible about those I let into my home and body.

People lie, but they don't get away with it with me.. everyone leaves a digital paper trail. Just call me Sherlock"

I'm speculating, but I think most people on here would hope that there wasn't enough information available to you on here to enable you to find them elsewhere on the internet.

Hence the at it being a possibility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You really can't go by a lot mentioned above.

For example

• Iv met guys with rubbish profiles and have been really nice guys and a good fuck too.

• seen the veri's they have written others (which some are poor) and again been a good fuck.

• seen the veri's people have written for them, met them and wouldn't agree with most of what the veri's had said.

• seen photos of the them and they are not like the photo I had seen.

I go by instinct now.

Granted I wouldn't meet someone if they had some veri's by women I know are shameful

Which women are shameful? In what way?"

Perhaps she means women who keep the lights on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll have a proper gander at the whole profile (a few times!) of anyone I meet.

Interests list, the full blurb they've written up, the veris, their pics .. everything!

To get clues etc to what they like, do's and dont's etc. but it can be daunting if you find their previous meets have been hung Adonises or sexual athletes lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We rarely look at people's verifications in fact most of our meets are at a club and we see the profiles after, never really take much notice of profiles and veris apart from one thing, safe sex mentioned somewhere on there profile, we guess we have the luxury of physically meeting lots of people rather than making a decision based on a profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I care about is that they look like their pictures.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Sure, I look at all the information available when trying to decide if I want to meet someone or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always do. And i'll search them online too."

O.O

*quickly deletes everything *

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By *sexDanMan
over a year ago

Romford


"Yes it's important to see the type they have previously met as certain ppl are blacklisted for various reasons so if they have met them then would steer clear !

Also if they met someone called bbdirtycumfilledwhore for example probably would not want to meet them afterwards... "

Agree with that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And I don't know why some people are giving the comment a I thinks it's important to know as much as possible about those I let into my home and body.

People lie, but they don't get away with it with me.. everyone leaves a digital paper trail. Just call me Sherlock

I'm speculating, but I think most people on here would hope that there wasn't enough information available to you on here to enable you to find them elsewhere on the internet.

Hence the at it being a possibility."

Ha! You would amazed at how many fiancees and husbands i've found purely from the info on their profiles. I'm not prepared to go into exactly what i do but i'm just a normal woman with basic computer skills. I've found most guys facebooks before i've even met them in person. My personal safety is first on my list of concerns and i won't compromise it.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"My personal safety is first on my list of concerns and i won't compromise it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I reverse image searched a few pics from a couple interested in me. I was sceptical because they were a cracking looking couple. Turns out the photos were stolen from a random website. Wonder what would have happened if I had gone over...

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon


"And I don't know why some people are giving the comment a I thinks it's important to know as much as possible about those I let into my home and body.

People lie, but they don't get away with it with me.. everyone leaves a digital paper trail. Just call me Sherlock

I'm speculating, but I think most people on here would hope that there wasn't enough information available to you on here to enable you to find them elsewhere on the internet.

Hence the at it being a possibility.

Ha! You would amazed at how many fiancees and husbands i've found purely from the info on their profiles. I'm not prepared to go into exactly what i do but i'm just a normal woman with basic computer skills. I've found most guys facebooks before i've even met them in person. My personal safety is first on my list of concerns and i won't compromise it. "

Snap!

But also if it's gotten to the stage of preparing to meet someone I'm going to require more personal information from them than they have on their profile here, and I only need their name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, I reverse image searched a few pics from a couple interested in me. I was sceptical because they were a cracking looking couple. Turns out the photos were stolen from a random website. Wonder what would have happened if I had gone over..."

That works both ways though, there's tumblr/Instagram/ blogs that copy all the pics from the top fabbed pics lists on here.

All my pics have been nicked and are on a few porn blogs and on xhamster etc.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

You would be daft not to do a bit of research on potential meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy reading verification reports showing how fab folk operate when meeting others for seduction pleasure.

And a pre amble chat is a great way to find out what they want when I visit them. How they want to use my body hands for their pervy pleasures.

It is a pity other contact sites do not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy reading verification reports showing how fab folk operate when meeting others for seduction pleasure.

And a pre amble chat is a great way to find out what they want when I visit them. How they want to use my body hands for their pervy pleasures.

It is a pity other contact sites do not

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

What one stranger has to say about another stranger means diddly squat to me, however, if they've met someone who only indulges in bareback gang bangs then they'd not be for me.

I also check them online. So far one potential meets details appeared on the list of bnp supporters, four claimed to be single but weren't as one was pictured with his wife being presented with a trophy for winning a pro am golf tournament, another attending an award ceremony with his wife and two on Facebook with their wives.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Yes it's important to see the type they have previously met as certain ppl are blacklisted for various reasons so if they have met them then would steer clear !

Also if they met someone called bbdirtycumfilledwhore for example probably would not want to meet them afterwards... "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I always do. And i'll search them online too."

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I always do. And i'll search them online too.

Ok can understand with you been a lady and you have to make sure your not meeting a fred West.

We once had a couple who went way beyond with searching...he was apparently with special spy forces and we should be more carefull Freaked us out for a while lol

Yeah i'm talking about some common sense facebook/google image/google search not like MI5 or anything. "

Same here: dodged a few bullets. Also ask "innocuous" questions over a social. Found out over lunch the straight guy had had an intense two years relationship with a man and another had a house in Nigeria looked after by a prostitute he and his business partner had threesomes with.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I always do. And i'll search them online too.

This.

And I don't know why some people are giving the comment a I thinks it's important to know as much as possible about those I let into my home and body.

People lie, but they don't get away with it with me.. everyone leaves a digital paper trail. Just call me Sherlock"

Couldn't agree more, especially as I lived with my daughters at the time.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"And I don't know why some people are giving the comment a I thinks it's important to know as much as possible about those I let into my home and body.

People lie, but they don't get away with it with me.. everyone leaves a digital paper trail. Just call me Sherlock

I'm speculating, but I think most people on here would hope that there wasn't enough information available to you on here to enable you to find them elsewhere on the internet.

Hence the at it being a possibility."

Oh you would be surprised!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"And I don't know why some people are giving the comment a I thinks it's important to know as much as possible about those I let into my home and body.

People lie, but they don't get away with it with me.. everyone leaves a digital paper trail. Just call me Sherlock

I'm speculating, but I think most people on here would hope that there wasn't enough information available to you on here to enable you to find them elsewhere on the internet.

Hence the at it being a possibility.

Ha! You would amazed at how many fiancees and husbands i've found purely from the info on their profiles. I'm not prepared to go into exactly what i do but i'm just a normal woman with basic computer skills. I've found most guys facebooks before i've even met them in person. My personal safety is first on my list of concerns and i won't compromise it. "

So this!

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