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"Yes it's important to see the type they have previously met as certain ppl are blacklisted for various reasons so if they have met them then would steer clear ! Also if they met someone called bbdirtycumfilledwhore for example probably would not want to meet them afterwards... " | |||
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"I always do. And i'll search them online too. " Ok can understand with you been a lady and you have to make sure your not meeting a fred West. We once had a couple who went way beyond with searching...he was apparently with special spy forces and we should be more carefull Freaked us out for a while lol | |||
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"I just read the verifications to see if they are real and have a sense of humour. What one person finds "gorgeous" or a "tongue to die for" may not be the same for me. I prefer to chatter away to them for a while and then arrange a meet and find out for myself. " | |||
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"I always do. And i'll search them online too. Ok can understand with you been a lady and you have to make sure your not meeting a fred West. We once had a couple who went way beyond with searching...he was apparently with special spy forces and we should be more carefull Freaked us out for a while lol " Yeah i'm talking about some common sense facebook/google image/google search not like MI5 or anything. | |||
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"I just read the verifications to see if they are real and have a sense of humour. What one person finds "gorgeous" or a "tongue to die for" may not be the same for me. I prefer to chatter away to them for a while and then arrange a meet and find out for myself. " I was chatting to them as well anyway, but because of the above i stopped giving verifications any thought. Had one guy have loads of veris saying he was gorgeous, he turned up and i didn't think he was. No point in looking up their meets, loads of people lie on their profile. I know this coz i have fucked most of the site by now... | |||
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"I would never decide who to meet based on previous meets that just odd behaviour to me If I chat to somebody and like them I will meet, I'm not meeting their previous meets so I don't need to like them " | |||
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"I have a spreadsheet. " I actually do have a spreadsheet | |||
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"Just curious as to how many research the verifications as well as the profile to find what suits them?? I have to admit some profiles have looked amazing then I have read a verification and had seconds thoughts. I'm just wondering if it is me or is this quite a common practice." Always..good veris help a lot,if they've met women that look like models then I wouldn't entertain meeting them. | |||
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"I have a spreadsheet. I actually do have a spreadsheet " WAINS | |||
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"You really can't go by a lot mentioned above. For example • Iv met guys with rubbish profiles and have been really nice guys and a good fuck too. • seen the veri's they have written others (which some are poor) and again been a good fuck. • seen the veri's people have written for them, met them and wouldn't agree with most of what the veri's had said. • seen photos of the them and they are not like the photo I had seen. I go by instinct now. Granted I wouldn't meet someone if they had some veri's by women I know are shameful " Which women are shameful? In what way? | |||
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"Errm what is this meet thing your talking about ?? " made me smile | |||
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"I have a spreadsheet. " | |||
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"After reading profiles I do read verifications n yea I do go.by them .. the kinda of woman a guy fucks says a lot... " Bearing in mind that I have started receiving joke veris because the people I meet have a sense of humour (and we don't need veris), don't believe all you read. | |||
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"I would never decide who to meet based on previous meets that just odd behaviour to me If I chat to somebody and like them I will meet, I'm not meeting their previous meets so I don't need to like them " I agree | |||
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"I would never decide who to meet based on previous meets that just odd behaviour to me If I chat to somebody and like them I will meet, I'm not meeting their previous meets so I don't need to like them I agree " | |||
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"I'd be more interest in the green arrow on here (for what they say) than their veri's, being someone else's opinion. Although sometimes I do need to be advised whether a potential meet should be treated with respect or not. In those situations, verifications are an absolute Godsend..." Also whether or not you should let them pass you by. Invaluable advice... | |||
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"I always do. And i'll search them online too." This. And I don't know why some people are giving the comment a I thinks it's important to know as much as possible about those I let into my home and body. People lie, but they don't get away with it with me.. everyone leaves a digital paper trail. Just call me Sherlock | |||
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"And I don't know why some people are giving the comment a I thinks it's important to know as much as possible about those I let into my home and body. People lie, but they don't get away with it with me.. everyone leaves a digital paper trail. Just call me Sherlock" I'm speculating, but I think most people on here would hope that there wasn't enough information available to you on here to enable you to find them elsewhere on the internet. Hence the at it being a possibility. | |||
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"You really can't go by a lot mentioned above. For example • Iv met guys with rubbish profiles and have been really nice guys and a good fuck too. • seen the veri's they have written others (which some are poor) and again been a good fuck. • seen the veri's people have written for them, met them and wouldn't agree with most of what the veri's had said. • seen photos of the them and they are not like the photo I had seen. I go by instinct now. Granted I wouldn't meet someone if they had some veri's by women I know are shameful Which women are shameful? In what way?" Perhaps she means women who keep the lights on | |||
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"I always do. And i'll search them online too." O.O *quickly deletes everything * | |||
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"Yes it's important to see the type they have previously met as certain ppl are blacklisted for various reasons so if they have met them then would steer clear ! Also if they met someone called bbdirtycumfilledwhore for example probably would not want to meet them afterwards... " Agree with that! | |||
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"And I don't know why some people are giving the comment a I thinks it's important to know as much as possible about those I let into my home and body. People lie, but they don't get away with it with me.. everyone leaves a digital paper trail. Just call me Sherlock I'm speculating, but I think most people on here would hope that there wasn't enough information available to you on here to enable you to find them elsewhere on the internet. Hence the at it being a possibility." Ha! You would amazed at how many fiancees and husbands i've found purely from the info on their profiles. I'm not prepared to go into exactly what i do but i'm just a normal woman with basic computer skills. I've found most guys facebooks before i've even met them in person. My personal safety is first on my list of concerns and i won't compromise it. | |||
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"And I don't know why some people are giving the comment a I thinks it's important to know as much as possible about those I let into my home and body. People lie, but they don't get away with it with me.. everyone leaves a digital paper trail. Just call me Sherlock I'm speculating, but I think most people on here would hope that there wasn't enough information available to you on here to enable you to find them elsewhere on the internet. Hence the at it being a possibility. Ha! You would amazed at how many fiancees and husbands i've found purely from the info on their profiles. I'm not prepared to go into exactly what i do but i'm just a normal woman with basic computer skills. I've found most guys facebooks before i've even met them in person. My personal safety is first on my list of concerns and i won't compromise it. " Snap! But also if it's gotten to the stage of preparing to meet someone I'm going to require more personal information from them than they have on their profile here, and I only need their name. | |||
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"Yeah, I reverse image searched a few pics from a couple interested in me. I was sceptical because they were a cracking looking couple. Turns out the photos were stolen from a random website. Wonder what would have happened if I had gone over..." That works both ways though, there's tumblr/Instagram/ blogs that copy all the pics from the top fabbed pics lists on here. All my pics have been nicked and are on a few porn blogs and on xhamster etc. | |||
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"Yes it's important to see the type they have previously met as certain ppl are blacklisted for various reasons so if they have met them then would steer clear ! Also if they met someone called bbdirtycumfilledwhore for example probably would not want to meet them afterwards... " | |||
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"I always do. And i'll search them online too. Ok can understand with you been a lady and you have to make sure your not meeting a fred West. We once had a couple who went way beyond with searching...he was apparently with special spy forces and we should be more carefull Freaked us out for a while lol Yeah i'm talking about some common sense facebook/google image/google search not like MI5 or anything. " Same here: dodged a few bullets. Also ask "innocuous" questions over a social. Found out over lunch the straight guy had had an intense two years relationship with a man and another had a house in Nigeria looked after by a prostitute he and his business partner had threesomes with. | |||
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"I always do. And i'll search them online too. This. And I don't know why some people are giving the comment a I thinks it's important to know as much as possible about those I let into my home and body. People lie, but they don't get away with it with me.. everyone leaves a digital paper trail. Just call me Sherlock" Couldn't agree more, especially as I lived with my daughters at the time. | |||
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"And I don't know why some people are giving the comment a I thinks it's important to know as much as possible about those I let into my home and body. People lie, but they don't get away with it with me.. everyone leaves a digital paper trail. Just call me Sherlock I'm speculating, but I think most people on here would hope that there wasn't enough information available to you on here to enable you to find them elsewhere on the internet. Hence the at it being a possibility." Oh you would be surprised! | |||
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"And I don't know why some people are giving the comment a I thinks it's important to know as much as possible about those I let into my home and body. People lie, but they don't get away with it with me.. everyone leaves a digital paper trail. Just call me Sherlock I'm speculating, but I think most people on here would hope that there wasn't enough information available to you on here to enable you to find them elsewhere on the internet. Hence the at it being a possibility. Ha! You would amazed at how many fiancees and husbands i've found purely from the info on their profiles. I'm not prepared to go into exactly what i do but i'm just a normal woman with basic computer skills. I've found most guys facebooks before i've even met them in person. My personal safety is first on my list of concerns and i won't compromise it. " So this! | |||
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