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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi just wondering if there's some sort of rule of what happens after you meet someone for sex? Do you continue to talk to each other regularly or just when you want to next meet up?

New to swinging xx

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Hi just wondering if there's some sort of rule of what happens after you meet someone for sex? Do you continue to talk to each other regularly or just when you want to next meet up?

New to swinging xx "

Some do, some don't, some never talk again, some get married.

I guess you do what feels right for you.

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on how you view the person

Some are just fuck buddies, some are friends, and some you may never wish to meet again

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I bury mine under the patio

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Hi just wondering if there's some sort of rule of what happens after you meet someone for sex? Do you continue to talk to each other regularly or just when you want to next meet up?

New to swinging xx "

You make up your own rules.

Do what suits you and the people you meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bury mine under the patio "

Doing her bit to reduce the man to woman ratio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's up to you how sociable you want to be, just make it clear from the beginning. Some of my meets just want 'wham bam thank you mam'

whilst others like to hangout, coffee drinks etc...

Just be safe as you can

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe


"I bury mine under the patio

Doing her bit to reduce the man to woman ratio "

Every patio needs a body under it!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hi just wondering if there's some sort of rule of what happens after you meet someone for sex? Do you continue to talk to each other regularly or just when you want to next meet up?

New to swinging xx "

Decide between you and the person/people you meet but be aware the some will say what they think you want to hear. Don't take any of it seriously.

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

We've done both. Some we chat to regularly, some never seen or heard of again and some we/they text when more is required

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my regulars chat to me in between meets, i enjoy their meets best tbh.

Some only speak to me when they want sex, if they leave it months in between speaking and/or sex i tend to have gone off them and found someone else to replace them with anyway.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Most of my regulars chat to me in between meets, i enjoy their meets best tbh.

Some only speak to me when they want sex, if they leave it months in between speaking and/or sex i tend to have gone off them and found someone else to replace them with anyway."

Yup, I really don't understand why most men don't get this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think contact is important before and after meets. Sometimes not always sometime does pass without contact but that is never intentional just life getting in the way. Yeah I understand this is NSA fun but that should not exclude friendships. I discuss all sorts of things with my friends and I enjoy the banter we have too.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

usually it gets odd when messages get exchanged straight after a meet. Yes you have the regular ' good job ' , wicked meet ' , ' lets do it again ', but it can quickly develop into what are you doing this weekend, what are you up to and I just had a mind drama - kind of thing. Unless you are after that kind of relationship.. it is best just to keep it to a "let me know if you fancy it again sometime" message.

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands


"I bury mine under the patio

Doing her bit to reduce the man to woman ratio "

Must be one huge patio perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I eat mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I eat mine "

Only their heads though, I'm not that greedy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat them as you would a normal person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use mine for casseroles. Times are hard, cocks are hard for the duration and I need to eat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the heads up guys and gals xx new to this swinging thing so still finding my feet and working things out. Yep some do speak to you afterwards and some give you the good job or fab bj line and then don't want to talk till they want to meet next time. I guess I was hoping it'd be more of a social thing as well as sex. Maybe just not where I'm from lol x

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