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By *rs Tooty OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

spent an hour on the phone with my ex husband who was physically and mentally abusive. True to form he made me feel like shit.

It's left me feeling pissed off and unworthy.

Any advice?

Other than to whack him in the face with a frying pan?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try and ignore - i have one of those and the frying pan seems like the best option

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

My advice is try to forget what he said sod the housework and have the day doing what you want to do and remember ur a womble xx

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By *rs Tooty OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Thank you ladies. I think a vodka night is in order tomorrow!

Shopping for a very large frying pan is on the agenda tomorrow!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"spent an hour on the phone with my ex husband who was physically and mentally abusive. True to form he made me feel like shit.

It's left me feeling pissed off and unworthy.

Any advice?

Other than to whack him in the face with a frying pan? "
can I ask why you spent an hour on the phone ? An hour is a long time to talk to someone you don't like x

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By *irralman4Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Block his calls and enjoy yourself on Fab. I'm sure you will feel very worthy before long x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I split up with someone abusive not long back. This blog makes me feel better and help me understand my feelings, it might help you?

https://psychopathyawareness.wordpress.com/

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

I wouldn't spend on hour on the phone with someone you know is going to make you feel bad about yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do something that you enjoy which also engages your brain, that should take your mind your troubles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't feel like shit, you are better than him. He's an ex for a reason and probably wishes he was back in your life more than he is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he makes you feel so bad don't talk to the man.An hour on the phone to someone who is abusive seems rather along time.If you have to communicate with him short N sweet and then put the phone down so he doesn't get the chance to make you feel like you do.

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By *rs Tooty OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I stayed on the phone trying to get him to understand that having not had our daughter for an overnight once in 15 years to expect her to stay at his new girlfriend of 4 weeks is unacceptable.

Trying to have a civilised chat about why he should know her best friends name or subjects at school.

Explaining that owing £18,00 csa to his daughter is unacceptable.

All the usual stuff when a dad walks away from their kid.

Everything was my fault. The fact that it rains.. My fault. The fact alcohol gives him a hangover.. My fault.

He seems totally oblivious to anything being his fault. Despite doing all I can including forfeiting relations for my kids.. According to him.. I'm a shit parent.

So extra large frying pan, bottle of vodka and a search for a womble suit is on the cards.

He is ladies and gentlemen a first class w*nker!!

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By *rs Tooty OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Thank you angel, I shall have a look at that!


"I split up with someone abusive not long back. This blog makes me feel better and help me understand my feelings, it might help you?

https://psychopathyawareness.wordpress.com/"

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