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By *lwaysdiscreet OP   Man
over a year ago

Ashford Kent and Dartford

Had this a few time that people put up no pic along with your message to them.

Then you will not get a reply.

But then you send a picture and you still don't get a reply so it's not really fair at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They might not have liked what they saw in the pic and therefore it's pointless replying.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"They might not have liked what they saw in the pic and therefore it's pointless replying. "
Indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's their prerogative of course, only send if you're happy that you might not get one back.

I work on the assumption that I won't get a reply so any that do is a bonus. Of course as a site supporter you can remove any pics you've added to your mail if you want to

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

I wouldn't do it. I would look for the couples/ females who don't demand a pic first . There are lots of us about.

I can understand swopping pics after a mail between you both but why should they get to see a pic without even bothering to reply to it, even to say no.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Fab is not fair. If you keep that in mind, you won't be disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had this a few time that people put up no pic along with your message to them.

Then you will not get a reply.

But then you send a picture and you still don't get a reply so it's not really fair at all. "

And?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab is not fair. If you keep that in mind, you won't be disappointed."

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By *ony HardcockMan
over a year ago

Shepperton


"Fab is not fair. If you keep that in mind, you won't be disappointed."

True!

I do send my mug shot each time I message and 90% of the time I get a reply.

Even if one lady said they should of pushed you back in at birth lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't do it. I would look for the couples/ females who don't demand a pic first . There are lots of us about.

I can understand swopping pics after a mail between you both but why should they get to see a pic without even bothering to reply to it, even to say no."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But then you send a picture and you still don't get a reply so it's not really fair at all. "

Now that made me chuckle.....

I mean c'mon..... seriously man..... pffft......

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By *illywonka76Man
over a year ago

Glos/Wales/West Midlajds

My pictures up and I don't get a response either struggling to cope with the rejection

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"They might not have liked what they saw in the pic and therefore it's pointless replying. "

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By *uperGuy68Man
over a year ago

Southampton


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Even if one lady said they should of pushed you back in at birth lol"

That's harsh....ouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hardly reply to anyone without a pic, and ignore plenty who send one (even guys i fancy). They can see what i look like though as i've got a variety of pics on my page, i think it's ok to want to see them as well in case i don't fancy them.

I don't demand anything on my page, i let people be themselves so they don't know how to fit my 'requirements' and can't moan if i'm not interested.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's not about fair here.

It's about us all maximising our potential to achieve our objectives. Others and myself.

And understanding the site and context here. No one is owed anything, whether it's an equal exchange of pics, a reasoned explanation why you're not going to get sex or something for nothing.

No reply means you're not fortunate this time. Quit having delusions of deserving anything!

You can do your best to help you get more favourable results but there will never, ever be anything that you can expect in return for the efforts, writing or sending of pics to others. It's your investment into yourself.

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