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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do people add you as a friend even though they have never spoken to you before,I think its really rude and stated so on my profile too xxx

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Why do people add you as a friend even though they have never spoken to you before,I think its really rude and stated so on my profile too xxx"

Because you have a nice botty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and WHY do shadows always want to be friends with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because you are the goddess Aphrodite, you should consider those friend requests as prayers from meer mortals begging your favours. I've got a leaky downpipe, can you fix it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people add you as a friend even though they have never spoken to you before,I think its really rude and stated so on my profile too xxx"

find it more wierd than rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because there nutters

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Happens to everyone,maybe some people accept them and enjoy collecting random friends requests

I just click the button and they're all gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wait till they are offline and accept their friends request...........then perv over their private pics before deleting them

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

when you find it hard to make friends.you just accept whats going.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

press delete and don't waste a minute of your life worrying about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wait till they are offline and accept their friends request...........then perv over their private pics before deleting them "

perv n save even, if you are feeling really devilish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive done that a few times now, not to perv over the pics, but to see the face pics and if not my type delete, and if they are leave them on and send a message

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just think it's bad manners not asking, I do message them and ask them why they say cause we want to see your pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that's what they want

these folk ... our pics

they wank over them

to get their kicks

and yours you know, especially nice

they may well ask you more than twice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do wat i do if i dont know

them..delete its easy

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"I just think it's bad manners not asking, I do message them and ask them why they say cause we want to see your pics"

Do you really have time to do that?

and you've just answered your own question

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know I've answered my own

question lol

No I don't have time to message all but the friend requests I will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had someone send me a friend request and have i except it block me a week later.

understand that one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just think it's bad manners not asking, I do message them and ask them why they say cause we want to see your pics"

Huh?!! Do you really have the time to do that?!! . Gosh, I just delete. Sadly, my life won't be long enough to waste on nonsense!

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"I just think it's bad manners not asking, I do message them and ask them why they say cause we want to see your pics

Huh?!! Do you really have the time to do that?!! . Gosh, I just delete. Sadly, my life won't be long enough to waste on nonsense! "

Exactly my thinking Sassy.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It would be wouldn't it jane???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I do have time it's only about 4 requests a day and if I want to message them and ask then why they added me and how rude it was then that's my buisness it shows people do not read my profile as I state anyone adding me will be blocked

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"It would be wouldn't it jane??? "

?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wots a friends request thingy then?? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol, here here i agree. before i put pictures on i got messages because how great you look, wtf. i hate that too.xx.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Why do people add you as a friend even though they have never spoken to you before,I think its really rude and stated so on my profile too xxx"
And you expect people to have read your profile????

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

If I get a friends request that doesn't warrant an approval I simple delete the request....job done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can never find the time to reply to all the genuine messages without starting conversations with folk I don't know.

I don't consider it rude though, it's a facility that's been given and it's not an abuse to use it....I actually don't give it a thought...if someone asks me to be friends, I tend to accept their invite only..if I notice a few strangers in the box i'll just delete them whilst i'm in there...that's the extent of it.

to consider it rude would then open the question "is it rude for you to delete them"?! always 2 sides to an argument

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A profile is there to be read, I read the ones the more detailed the better, least if someone says no married men, bareback only etc etc you know where you stand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol, here here i agree. before i put pictures on i got messages because how great you look, wtf. i hate that too.xx."

...i'll be your friend...can we buy rabbits, george?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wait till they are offline and accept their friends request...........then perv over their private pics before deleting them "

thats really naughty

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"wait till they are offline and accept their friends request...........then perv over their private pics before deleting them

thats really naughty "

But equally fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never even check our friends requests except if we'd specifically asked someone to join. At the same time, we bulk delete all the others and never give a second thought to it

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Why do people add you as a friend even though they have never spoken to you before,I think its really rude and stated so on my profile too xxx"

cos there is no law against it maybe???

like others, just delete and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still get them even I have said in my profile I do not accept friends invites out of the blue.

So I delete them without sending a reply.

No big deal, really.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Three clicks of a mouse and whoosh, gone.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

As the two sexy ladies say above me...delete n move on, i get lots everyday, i love my delete button

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By *arlot ScarlettWoman
over a year ago

Bolton


"Why do people add you as a friend even though they have never spoken to you before,I think its really rude and stated so on my profile too xxx"

You don't need to accept them - I just delete and voila - it's gone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wait till they are offline and accept their friends request...........then perv over their private pics before deleting them

thats really naughty "

i like your style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or one could amass until there are a few to delete, and hit the block delete button!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or one could amass until there are a few to delete, and hit the block delete button! "

youve done that before havnt you.

slap bum for you

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