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"((((Hug))))) *kick kick kick. Better? " Slightly x | |||
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"Everyone feels like that sometimes, and if they don't they're lying. So get a grip. (That was a kick up the arse, btw, I'm usually much more sympathetic.)" I'm trying I'm trying x | |||
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"Sometimes I look at who many miles I have in my car before I need to refill and think if I just drive ..... " Yeah I've done that in many occasions! | |||
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"Every day,but I don't do it or dwell on it. I keep myself busy and don't take anything people say to me to heart. I'm lucky I have a lot of people who love me in my life. " That's a nice positive answer x | |||
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"most of you on here know me as a gobby fucker! And probably hate seeing me pop up on threads! But today I've been really reflecting on life and what's been going on in my world of recent times and it's got me really down! Obviously I'm not going to go into details as to why but.... Do you ever have one of those days were you feel like shite and all you want to do is run away and not be found???? Sorry to be the poster of a dreary thread but I need a fucking big hug, or a kick up the arse (you will prob favour that more) X" hehe "livefortoday" hey this place gives you highs and lows I didn't have a good start to the day but its turned out ok | |||
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"Yep I have had one of those weekends mate so I know exactly what you mean. " Shite isn't it fella | |||
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"most of you on here know me as a gobby fucker! And probably hate seeing me pop up on threads! But today I've been really reflecting on life and what's been going on in my world of recent times and it's got me really down! Obviously I'm not going to go into details as to why but.... Do you ever have one of those days were you feel like shite and all you want to do is run away and not be found???? Sorry to be the poster of a dreary thread but I need a fucking big hug, or a kick up the arse (you will prob favour that more) Xhehe "livefortoday" hey this place gives you highs and lows I didn't have a good start to the day but its turned out ok " I know I'm not living up to my name of late! Sometimes shit just gets a bit on top | |||
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"Yep I have had one of those weekends mate so I know exactly what you mean. Shite isn't it fella " Tis mate but you need to live up to your fab name | |||
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"Yep most days for me are like that at the moment. It's an effort to get it of bed " I know that feeling, not great is it | |||
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"Yep I have had one of those weekends mate so I know exactly what you mean. Shite isn't it fella Tis mate but you need to live up to your fab name " I know mate I'm trying but fuck me it's not easy at the minute | |||
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"Every day,but I don't do it or dwell on it. I keep myself busy and don't take anything people say to me to heart. I'm lucky I have a lot of people who love me in my life. That's a nice positive answer x" I have been in a terrible place mentally and physically in the past;I couldn't have gotten much lower. To get me through I told myself it can only get better and looked back at how I felt a couple of months earlier. I always tell myself I'll feel better later,it will pass,and concentrate on something else. Soon be Christmas! | |||
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"Try and find something to put it in perspective for you. Sometimes I feel a bit down but as soon as I remember it really isn't that bad, I get over it. If I dwell, I tend to remain in a low mood." I get what you're saying but when your that down its bloody tough isn't it x | |||
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"Yep I have had one of those weekends mate so I know exactly what you mean. Shite isn't it fella " the thing about fab is it can make you feel shit one day , Then something happens to make you smile again | |||
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"Every day,but I don't do it or dwell on it. I keep myself busy and don't take anything people say to me to heart. I'm lucky I have a lot of people who love me in my life. That's a nice positive answer x I have been in a terrible place mentally and physically in the past;I couldn't have gotten much lower. To get me through I told myself it can only get better and looked back at how I felt a couple of months earlier. I always tell myself I'll feel better later,it will pass,and concentrate on something else. Soon be Christmas! " Yeah I keep telling myself that.. Got to keep fighting eh x | |||
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"Everyone has bad days. If I'm having one I put some of my favourite music on, make a coffee, call my sister and think about all the lovely people I have in my life " I've started listening to a lot of music to try and help x | |||
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"Yep I have had one of those weekends mate so I know exactly what you mean. Shite isn't it fella the thing about fab is it can make you feel shit one day , Then something happens to make you smile again " I think it's a good distraction Fab, but as someone said to me recently it's also an avoidance! | |||
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"Big hugs to you all. I have a lot of days like that and past few years have been felt a bad deal in life as peopl on here know. Most days are a struggle for me. But my out look is there are people a lot worse off in life than me. " Big hug to you too x | |||
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"Try and find something to put it in perspective for you. Sometimes I feel a bit down but as soon as I remember it really isn't that bad, I get over it. If I dwell, I tend to remain in a low mood. I get what you're saying but when your that down its bloody tough isn't it x" It is, but it's not impossible. | |||
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"Man up Princess! We all have shit days... sometimes it can't be helped and sometimes no amount of sympathy helps. You're allowed to wallow in it every now and again. The only control you have over some stuff is how you deal with it. Hope you feel better soon. " Thank you and good points made x | |||
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"Yep I have had one of those weekends mate so I know exactly what you mean. Shite isn't it fella the thing about fab is it can make you feel shit one day , Then something happens to make you smile again I think it's a good distraction Fab, but as someone said to me recently it's also an avoidance! " yep I agree mate but sometimes you get a message that cheers you up and makes yer feel good about yerself again | |||
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"Some days you're up ! Some days you're down ! It's life really ... If the good outweighs the bad then you're doing ok ! Onwards and upwards my man " What if the bad outweigh the good though? | |||
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"Yep I have had one of those weekends mate so I know exactly what you mean. Shite isn't it fella the thing about fab is it can make you feel shit one day , Then something happens to make you smile again I think it's a good distraction Fab, but as someone said to me recently it's also an avoidance! yep I agree mate but sometimes you get a message that cheers you up and makes yer feel good about yerself again " Yeah I know mate, sorry just feeling sorry for myself | |||
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" I get these days, after a fantastic fun night. Just get right on downer, but not sure why. The fun is almost like a drug I think. Mad stuff. " I really like this post, I totally know what you are saying | |||
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"Yep I have had one of those weekends mate so I know exactly what you mean. Shite isn't it fella the thing about fab is it can make you feel shit one day , Then something happens to make you smile again I think it's a good distraction Fab, but as someone said to me recently it's also an avoidance! yep I agree mate but sometimes you get a message that cheers you up and makes yer feel good about yerself again Yeah I know mate, sorry just feeling sorry for myself " I have too mate all weekend lol sad pair we are | |||
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"Some days you're up ! Some days you're down ! It's life really ... If the good outweighs the bad then you're doing ok ! Onwards and upwards my man What if the bad outweigh the good though? " Address it and make changes to put that right ! Surround yourself with good people and cut loose anyone that brings negativity ! Continue to move on and be happy ! It's a cheesy saying but !! You are only here once ! Enjoy | |||
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"I give hugs to those who are all round nice people not those who are nasty to people on the forums and then look for sympathy hugs when it suits them so I'm out. You reap what you sow." I don't want anything of you, so kindly stop commenting on this post thanks | |||
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"Op .. I agree. A date that didn't happen, leg fell of the glasses I wear on non contact lens days.. Wasted today And bloody work tmoro. Need a rocket to motivate me" Sending a big hug to you sweetie xx | |||
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"Some days you're up ! Some days you're down ! It's life really ... If the good outweighs the bad then you're doing ok ! Onwards and upwards my man What if the bad outweigh the good though? Address it and make changes to put that right ! Surround yourself with good people and cut loose anyone that brings negativity ! Continue to move on and be happy ! It's a cheesy saying but !! You are only here once ! Enjoy " Yeah I know mate and that last sentence hits home | |||
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"Yep I have had one of those weekends mate so I know exactly what you mean. Shite isn't it fella the thing about fab is it can make you feel shit one day , Then something happens to make you smile again I think it's a good distraction Fab, but as someone said to me recently it's also an avoidance! yep I agree mate but sometimes you get a message that cheers you up and makes yer feel good about yerself again Yeah I know mate, sorry just feeling sorry for myself I have too mate all weekend lol sad pair we are " Sometimes is guys have it tough too , man hug coming your way | |||
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"It happens to us all, chin up mate! When I'm really feeling sorry for myself, I watch this guy https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8jhcxOhIMAQ" Nice one mate | |||
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"Happens to us all af times....." Hits you like a steam train | |||
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"Some days you're up ! Some days you're down ! It's life really ... If the good outweighs the bad then you're doing ok ! Onwards and upwards my man What if the bad outweigh the good though? Address it and make changes to put that right ! Surround yourself with good people and cut loose anyone that brings negativity ! Continue to move on and be happy ! It's a cheesy saying but !! You are only here once ! Enjoy Yeah I know mate and that last sentence hits home " Chin up Brother ! Get a good nights sleep and this mad mad world will seem a much better place in the morning | |||
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"3 & 1/2 years ago my world was turned upside suddenly. 7 weeks later I was at my rock bottom & ready to give up. With lots of love, help & a fantastic GP I've turned my life round. I'm not that person anymore, am happier than I've been in over 4 years & am being the mum my boys deserve. I still have bad days, we all do, but I have kept certain text messages & post it notes in my work desk so read them to remind myself just how far I've come. " hugssss | |||
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"I give hugs to those who are all round nice people not those who are nasty to people on the forums and then look for sympathy hugs when it suits them so I'm out. You reap what you sow. I don't want anything of you, so kindly stop commenting on this post thanks " Public forum so I'll post what I like. Thanks anyway. | |||
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"It happens to us all, chin up mate! When I'm really feeling sorry for myself, I watch this guy https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8jhcxOhIMAQ Nice one mate " | |||
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" I get these days, after a fantastic fun night. Just get right on downer, but not sure why. The fun is almost like a drug I think. Mad stuff. I really like this post, I totally know what you are saying " I'm on one today, after a fun night, last night. It lasts a couple of days, then I'm back to normal looking forward to the next fun. Onwards and upwards op. | |||
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"Yep I have had one of those weekends mate so I know exactly what you mean. Shite isn't it fella the thing about fab is it can make you feel shit one day , Then something happens to make you smile again I think it's a good distraction Fab, but as someone said to me recently it's also an avoidance! yep I agree mate but sometimes you get a message that cheers you up and makes yer feel good about yerself again Yeah I know mate, sorry just feeling sorry for myself I have too mate all weekend lol sad pair we are Sometimes is guys have it tough too , man hug coming your way " cheers mate but we both seem to be semi naked so best just shake hands | |||
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" I get these days, after a fantastic fun night. Just get right on downer, but not sure why. The fun is almost like a drug I think. Mad stuff. I really like this post, I totally know what you are saying I'm on one today, after a fun night, last night. It lasts a couple of days, then I'm back to normal looking forward to the next fun. Onwards and upwards op. " It's nothing to do with fab etc it's away from the fun on here, fuck me sorry I'm dragging everyone down | |||
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"Yep I have had one of those weekends mate so I know exactly what you mean. Shite isn't it fella the thing about fab is it can make you feel shit one day , Then something happens to make you smile again I think it's a good distraction Fab, but as someone said to me recently it's also an avoidance! yep I agree mate but sometimes you get a message that cheers you up and makes yer feel good about yerself again Yeah I know mate, sorry just feeling sorry for myself I have too mate all weekend lol sad pair we are Sometimes is guys have it tough too , man hug coming your way cheers mate but we both seem to be semi naked so best just shake hands " I'll just text you a hug to avoid any awkwardness | |||
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"Suck it up buttercup! Sorry not being harsh but life is shit at times, and if your the crux for someone else it is even harder. Or you may be taking it from both sides as I have done in the past and you need to realise we can't take every bodies elses shit on, sometimes we just break, but if your strong enough? You will pull through! " You know when it just seems to get worse and worse and you can't see any light at the end of a tunnel? That's how I'm feeling , but thank you for your reply x | |||
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"Suck it up buttercup! Sorry not being harsh but life is shit at times, and if your the crux for someone else it is even harder. Or you may be taking it from both sides as I have done in the past and you need to realise we can't take every bodies elses shit on, sometimes we just break, but if your strong enough? You will pull through! " 'sucking it up' and 'being strong' are usually counterproductive, in my experience. | |||
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"Suck it up buttercup! Sorry not being harsh but life is shit at times, and if your the crux for someone else it is even harder. Or you may be taking it from both sides as I have done in the past and you need to realise we can't take every bodies elses shit on, sometimes we just break, but if your strong enough? You will pull through! 'sucking it up' and 'being strong' are usually counterproductive, in my experience." What if though .. Your being as strong as possible but the weight is pushing you further and further down | |||
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"Shall we just have a ..... Sunday forum group hug ? Clothes are optional. " I'll just cry | |||
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"Definitely!! Sometimes when I don't even expect it! No amount of 'pick yourself up's' help me but a big cuddle from Clarence and coming on here for a distraction!! If all else fails I run....and run and run!! Headphones on and pretend nobody else is around xx Big big snuggles OP mwah xxxx " Thank you hunny, some really caring people on here, I'm trying to take everyone's advice xx | |||
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"Shall we just have a ..... Sunday forum group hug ? Clothes are optional. I'll just cry " Box of tissues also available. | |||
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"Suck it up buttercup! Sorry not being harsh but life is shit at times, and if your the crux for someone else it is even harder. Or you may be taking it from both sides as I have done in the past and you need to realise we can't take every bodies elses shit on, sometimes we just break, but if your strong enough? You will pull through! 'sucking it up' and 'being strong' are usually counterproductive, in my experience. What if though .. Your being as strong as possible but the weight is pushing you further and further down " Exactly.x | |||
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"Yeah is shit sometimes....sometimes ya just have to suck it up and get on with it and other times its no harm to wallow for a bit...get up the next day and keep going!!!" That's all I can keep doing | |||
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"Yes yesterday i cried over nothing and hit my husbamd on the arse with an emtpy milk bottle for beung a know it all little shit I went for a picnic with the girls we had a moan and ate crap and i fwlt back to normal. Big hugs OP xx" I'm glad you felt better xx | |||
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"most of you on here know me as a gobby fucker! And probably hate seeing me pop up on threads! But today I've been really reflecting on life and what's been going on in my world of recent times and it's got me really down! Obviously I'm not going to go into details as to why but.... Do you ever have one of those days were you feel like shite and all you want to do is run away and not be found???? Sorry to be the poster of a dreary thread but I need a fucking big hug, or a kick up the arse (you will prob favour that more) X" Big hugs fella. Been there more than once. It sucks. But hugs make life easier to get a grip on. If you wanna unload, drop me a PM dude. Mistermistermac | |||
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"Yes yesterday i cried over nothing and hit my husbamd on the arse with an emtpy milk bottle for beung a know it all little shit I went for a picnic with the girls we had a moan and ate crap and i fwlt back to normal. Big hugs OP xx I'm glad you felt better xx" I have to say the sex probably helped the most hope your back to your normal self soon xx | |||
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"most of you on here know me as a gobby fucker! And probably hate seeing me pop up on threads! But today I've been really reflecting on life and what's been going on in my world of recent times and it's got me really down! Obviously I'm not going to go into details as to why but.... Do you ever have one of those days were you feel like shite and all you want to do is run away and not be found???? Sorry to be the poster of a dreary thread but I need a fucking big hug, or a kick up the arse (you will prob favour that more) X Big hugs fella. Been there more than once. It sucks. But hugs make life easier to get a grip on. If you wanna unload, drop me a PM dude. Mistermistermac" Cheers mate that's really good of you | |||
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"Yes yesterday i cried over nothing and hit my husbamd on the arse with an emtpy milk bottle for beung a know it all little shit I went for a picnic with the girls we had a moan and ate crap and i fwlt back to normal. Big hugs OP xx I'm glad you felt better xx I have to say the sex probably helped the most hope your back to your normal self soon xx" Me too ... Me too!! | |||
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"Think of them poor boat people that only have the clothes on their backs and some don't even make it to safe land . You've got lots going for you mate so don't dwell on your shit day make tomorrow a better one " Yeah I know mate, but sometimes it doesn't matter what people tell you does it, shit I'm sorry everyone for being like this, you're all great people apart from the 1 person who wanted to kick me whilst I'm down | |||
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"Sometimes you have to have a little down to realise the good stuff ... I had days when instead of seeng how much fuel I had, I wondered if I could just drive into a wall..... Somedays it just enough to put one foot in front of the other, ((((hugs))))" That's heavy but fuck me I can relate to that! As scary as it sounds! | |||
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"most of you on here know me as a gobby fucker! And probably hate seeing me pop up on threads! But today I've been really reflecting on life and what's been going on in my world of recent times and it's got me really down! Obviously I'm not going to go into details as to why but.... Do you ever have one of those days were you feel like shite and all you want to do is run away and not be found???? Sorry to be the poster of a dreary thread but I need a fucking big hug, or a kick up the arse (you will prob favour that more) X Big hugs fella. Been there more than once. It sucks. But hugs make life easier to get a grip on. If you wanna unload, drop me a PM dude. Mistermistermac Cheers mate that's really good of you " No worries. I'm happy to help where I can | |||
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"Think of them poor boat people that only have the clothes on their backs and some don't even make it to safe land . You've got lots going for you mate so don't dwell on your shit day make tomorrow a better one Yeah I know mate, but sometimes it doesn't matter what people tell you does it, shit I'm sorry everyone for being like this, you're all great people apart from the 1 person who wanted to kick me whilst I'm down " Don't ever be sorry! Sometimes we experience unspeakable pain. It just happens and it doesn't mean you're not strong, or being self pitying, or wallowing. It means you're human. Big big hugs. You're perfect as you are.xxx | |||
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"Think of them poor boat people that only have the clothes on their backs and some don't even make it to safe land . You've got lots going for you mate so don't dwell on your shit day make tomorrow a better one " And answers like this, although well intentioned, really do not help. | |||
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"Think of them poor boat people that only have the clothes on their backs and some don't even make it to safe land . You've got lots going for you mate so don't dwell on your shit day make tomorrow a better one Yeah I know mate, but sometimes it doesn't matter what people tell you does it, shit I'm sorry everyone for being like this, you're all great people apart from the 1 person who wanted to kick me whilst I'm down Don't ever be sorry! Sometimes we experience unspeakable pain. It just happens and it doesn't mean you're not strong, or being self pitying, or wallowing. It means you're human. Big big hugs. You're perfect as you are.xxx" Thank you babe! You get it don't you, thanks for being understanding these last few weeks it means a lot. The pain is unbearable and sometimes it is hard to continue xx | |||
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"Yep I have had one of those weekends mate so I know exactly what you mean. Shite isn't it fella the thing about fab is it can make you feel shit one day , Then something happens to make you smile again I think it's a good distraction Fab, but as someone said to me recently it's also an avoidance! yep I agree mate but sometimes you get a message that cheers you up and makes yer feel good about yerself again Yeah I know mate, sorry just feeling sorry for myself I have too mate all weekend lol sad pair we are Sometimes is guys have it tough too , man hug coming your way cheers mate but we both seem to be semi naked so best just shake hands " Stop it the pair of you, I'm getting moist at the thought of the two of you in the same room needing comforting hahaha........ | |||
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"Yep I have had one of those weekends mate so I know exactly what you mean. Shite isn't it fella the thing about fab is it can make you feel shit one day , Then something happens to make you smile again I think it's a good distraction Fab, but as someone said to me recently it's also an avoidance! yep I agree mate but sometimes you get a message that cheers you up and makes yer feel good about yerself again Yeah I know mate, sorry just feeling sorry for myself I have too mate all weekend lol sad pair we are Sometimes is guys have it tough too , man hug coming your way cheers mate but we both seem to be semi naked so best just shake hands Stop it the pair of you, I'm getting moist at the thought of the two of you in the same room needing comforting hahaha........ " However would I manage it...... | |||
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"Suck it up buttercup! Sorry not being harsh but life is shit at times, and if your the crux for someone else it is even harder. Or you may be taking it from both sides as I have done in the past and you need to realise we can't take every bodies elses shit on, sometimes we just break, but if your strong enough? You will pull through! 'sucking it up' and 'being strong' are usually counterproductive, in my experience. What if though .. Your being as strong as possible but the weight is pushing you further and further down " Is it not possible for you to address why you're feeling like this,I hope you feel a little better after a nights sleep | |||
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"Yep I have had one of those weekends mate so I know exactly what you mean. Shite isn't it fella the thing about fab is it can make you feel shit one day , Then something happens to make you smile again I think it's a good distraction Fab, but as someone said to me recently it's also an avoidance! yep I agree mate but sometimes you get a message that cheers you up and makes yer feel good about yerself again Yeah I know mate, sorry just feeling sorry for myself I have too mate all weekend lol sad pair we are Sometimes is guys have it tough too , man hug coming your way cheers mate but we both seem to be semi naked so best just shake hands Stop it the pair of you, I'm getting moist at the thought of the two of you in the same room needing comforting hahaha........ " Least 1 person in here is happy then | |||
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"Yep I have had one of those weekends mate so I know exactly what you mean. Shite isn't it fella the thing about fab is it can make you feel shit one day , Then something happens to make you smile again I think it's a good distraction Fab, but as someone said to me recently it's also an avoidance! yep I agree mate but sometimes you get a message that cheers you up and makes yer feel good about yerself again Yeah I know mate, sorry just feeling sorry for myself I have too mate all weekend lol sad pair we are Sometimes is guys have it tough too , man hug coming your way cheers mate but we both seem to be semi naked so best just shake hands Stop it the pair of you, I'm getting moist at the thought of the two of you in the same room needing comforting hahaha........ " see mate. There's a silver lining | |||
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"Think of them poor boat people that only have the clothes on their backs and some don't even make it to safe land . You've got lots going for you mate so don't dwell on your shit day make tomorrow a better one Yeah I know mate, but sometimes it doesn't matter what people tell you does it, shit I'm sorry everyone for being like this, you're all great people apart from the 1 person who wanted to kick me whilst I'm down Don't ever be sorry! Sometimes we experience unspeakable pain. It just happens and it doesn't mean you're not strong, or being self pitying, or wallowing. It means you're human. Big big hugs. You're perfect as you are.xxx Thank you babe! You get it don't you, thanks for being understanding these last few weeks it means a lot. The pain is unbearable and sometimes it is hard to continue xx" hey mate, if you wanna vent feel free to pm me i'll be happy to offer some friendly advice in a contextual form | |||
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"Suck it up buttercup! Sorry not being harsh but life is shit at times, and if your the crux for someone else it is even harder. Or you may be taking it from both sides as I have done in the past and you need to realise we can't take every bodies elses shit on, sometimes we just break, but if your strong enough? You will pull through! 'sucking it up' and 'being strong' are usually counterproductive, in my experience. What if though .. Your being as strong as possible but the weight is pushing you further and further down Is it not possible for you to address why you're feeling like this,I hope you feel a little better after a nights sleep " It can't just be addressed I honestly wish there was a simple answer, thank you though x | |||
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"Think of them poor boat people that only have the clothes on their backs and some don't even make it to safe land . You've got lots going for you mate so don't dwell on your shit day make tomorrow a better one Yeah I know mate, but sometimes it doesn't matter what people tell you does it, shit I'm sorry everyone for being like this, you're all great people apart from the 1 person who wanted to kick me whilst I'm down Don't ever be sorry! Sometimes we experience unspeakable pain. It just happens and it doesn't mean you're not strong, or being self pitying, or wallowing. It means you're human. Big big hugs. You're perfect as you are.xxx Thank you babe! You get it don't you, thanks for being understanding these last few weeks it means a lot. The pain is unbearable and sometimes it is hard to continue xx hey mate, if you wanna vent feel free to pm me i'll be happy to offer some friendly advice in a contextual form " Cheers mate means a lot | |||
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"Op I suffer with depression and on tablets for it I know it's not easy buddy but there is only you that can pull yourself out of it . Big man hugs fella keep going " Thank you I'll keep fighting | |||
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"Op I suffer with depression and on tablets for it I know it's not easy buddy but there is only you that can pull yourself out of it . Big man hugs fella keep going Thank you I'll keep fighting " Be sure you do | |||
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"Yes often but then I look family and friends and wouldn't do anything to upset any of them. Sending you big squeezes and hugs x Keep your chin up kid x Red " And what if you can count your family and friends on one hand in total. | |||
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"Yes often but then I look family and friends and wouldn't do anything to upset any of them. Sending you big squeezes and hugs x Keep your chin up kid x Red And what if you can count your family and friends on one hand in total. " And sometimes no one can help | |||
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"youve got a roof over ya head probably a house or flat probably a car probably a bank account with money in it probably you eat everyday probably reasonably fit n healthy probably got friends and family... probably got a doctors and dentist you can go to if your sick... sorry what did you say is wrong with you ? theres people and kids living in tents at the minute , people living on the streets......there having a bad day , not you. the only problem you have youve created yourself... dont create problems in the first place and you wont have any init thats a kick up the arse " Is this for real? So I've created what's getting me down??? Wow that's just such an amazing helpful reply, thank you for that | |||
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"youve got a roof over ya head probably a house or flat probably a car probably a bank account with money in it probably you eat everyday probably reasonably fit n healthy probably got friends and family... probably got a doctors and dentist you can go to if your sick... sorry what did you say is wrong with you ? theres people and kids living in tents at the minute , people living on the streets......there having a bad day , not you. the only problem you have youve created yourself... dont create problems in the first place and you wont have any init thats a kick up the arse If you had ever experienced the utter hell and despair that is depression then you wouldn't say such things." Unbelievable what he wrote! | |||
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"Think of them poor boat people that only have the clothes on their backs and some don't even make it to safe land . You've got lots going for you mate so don't dwell on your shit day make tomorrow a better one Yeah I know mate, but sometimes it doesn't matter what people tell you does it, shit I'm sorry everyone for being like this, you're all great people apart from the 1 person who wanted to kick me whilst I'm down " You are happy to put the boot in when it suits you so why expect any sympathy back? | |||
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"youve got a roof over ya head probably a house or flat probably a car probably a bank account with money in it probably you eat everyday probably reasonably fit n healthy probably got friends and family... probably got a doctors and dentist you can go to if your sick... sorry what did you say is wrong with you ? theres people and kids living in tents at the minute , people living on the streets......there having a bad day , not you. the only problem you have youve created yourself... dont create problems in the first place and you wont have any init thats a kick up the arse Is this for real? So I've created what's getting me down??? Wow that's just such an amazing helpful reply, thank you for that i agree with him somewhat... everything has an upside and a downside... which perception of the situation you see is your choice... some people aren't able to find the opposite side leaving them feeling down. I like to show there is more to a situation than just negativity." Sometimes people's problems aren't as simple as a the material things mentioned, I would honestly rather be in the street penny less then be suffering the way I am | |||
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"My world has been a big pile of shit since I had an accident in May. Haven't been able to work since and now struggling to find work now I'm feeling abit better. I need a miracle to sort everything out or even a job would be great " Fingers crossed for you xx | |||
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"Think of them poor boat people that only have the clothes on their backs and some don't even make it to safe land . You've got lots going for you mate so don't dwell on your shit day make tomorrow a better one Yeah I know mate, but sometimes it doesn't matter what people tell you does it, shit I'm sorry everyone for being like this, you're all great people apart from the 1 person who wanted to kick me whilst I'm down You are happy to put the boot in when it suits you so why expect any sympathy back?" Like I've said please don't talk to me or comment on my posts ... Thank you | |||
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"youve got a roof over ya head probably a house or flat probably a car probably a bank account with money in it probably you eat everyday probably reasonably fit n healthy probably got friends and family... probably got a doctors and dentist you can go to if your sick... sorry what did you say is wrong with you ? theres people and kids living in tents at the minute , people living on the streets......there having a bad day , not you. the only problem you have youve created yourself... dont create problems in the first place and you wont have any init thats a kick up the arse Is this for real? So I've created what's getting me down??? Wow that's just such an amazing helpful reply, thank you for that i agree with him somewhat... everything has an upside and a downside... which perception of the situation you see is your choice... some people aren't able to find the opposite side leaving them feeling down. I like to show there is more to a situation than just negativity. Sometimes people's problems aren't as simple as a the material things mentioned, I would honestly rather be in the street penny less then be suffering the way I am" actually they are peoples perceptions and the expectations they feel from society r whomever else is what complicates it. and that is one's own fault. | |||
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"youve got a roof over ya head probably a house or flat probably a car probably a bank account with money in it probably you eat everyday probably reasonably fit n healthy probably got friends and family... probably got a doctors and dentist you can go to if your sick... sorry what did you say is wrong with you ? theres people and kids living in tents at the minute , people living on the streets......there having a bad day , not you. the only problem you have youve created yourself... dont create problems in the first place and you wont have any init thats a kick up the arse Is this for real? So I've created what's getting me down??? Wow that's just such an amazing helpful reply, thank you for that i agree with him somewhat... everything has an upside and a downside... which perception of the situation you see is your choice... some people aren't able to find the opposite side leaving them feeling down. I like to show there is more to a situation than just negativity. Bollocks! Sorry to be rude, but some things that happen to us are so unspeakably horrific, that we're left longing for oblivion rather than continuing life in complete anguish." People will never understand unfortunately unless they are in a similar place | |||
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"My world has been a big pile of shit since I had an accident in May. Haven't been able to work since and now struggling to find work now I'm feeling abit better. I need a miracle to sort everything out or even a job would be great Fingers crossed for you xx" Thanks | |||
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"youve got a roof over ya head probably a house or flat probably a car probably a bank account with money in it probably you eat everyday probably reasonably fit n healthy probably got friends and family... probably got a doctors and dentist you can go to if your sick... sorry what did you say is wrong with you ? theres people and kids living in tents at the minute , people living on the streets......there having a bad day , not you. the only problem you have youve created yourself... dont create problems in the first place and you wont have any init thats a kick up the arse Is this for real? So I've created what's getting me down??? Wow that's just such an amazing helpful reply, thank you for that i agree with him somewhat... everything has an upside and a downside... which perception of the situation you see is your choice... some people aren't able to find the opposite side leaving them feeling down. I like to show there is more to a situation than just negativity. Bollocks! Sorry to be rude, but some things that happen to us are so unspeakably horrific, that we're left longing for oblivion rather than continuing life in complete anguish." i can find positive in any negative just because you dont want to believe it...doesnt mean it's bollocks. | |||
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"Think of them poor boat people that only have the clothes on their backs and some don't even make it to safe land . You've got lots going for you mate so don't dwell on your shit day make tomorrow a better one Yeah I know mate, but sometimes it doesn't matter what people tell you does it, shit I'm sorry everyone for being like this, you're all great people apart from the 1 person who wanted to kick me whilst I'm down You are happy to put the boot in when it suits you so why expect any sympathy back? Like I've said please don't talk to me or comment on my posts ... Thank you " And as I've said its a public forum. So suck it up buttercup. You've been nasty to others on the forums so I have no sympathy for you on here. | |||
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"take a deep breath and identify a moment in your life when you've felt the exact opposite, of what you are feeling now..everyone's answer of whats opposite will be different, so there's no wrong answer...remember and relive that experience, as fully as you can.. when you emerge, see the two opposites have as much weight and value, as each other., and then drop them both..a way of balancing out emotional conflict..hugs xx" Thank you that's a lovely reply x | |||
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"Think of them poor boat people that only have the clothes on their backs and some don't even make it to safe land . You've got lots going for you mate so don't dwell on your shit day make tomorrow a better one Yeah I know mate, but sometimes it doesn't matter what people tell you does it, shit I'm sorry everyone for being like this, you're all great people apart from the 1 person who wanted to kick me whilst I'm down You are happy to put the boot in when it suits you so why expect any sympathy back? Like I've said please don't talk to me or comment on my posts ... Thank you And as I've said its a public forum. So suck it up buttercup. You've been nasty to others on the forums so I have no sympathy for you on here. " Hang on I'll just go and find a mod... Oh hang on that's your job! Anyway I'm not replying to you anymore I'm just going to ignore your dribble .. Bye | |||
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"youve got a roof over ya head probably a house or flat probably a car probably a bank account with money in it probably you eat everyday probably reasonably fit n healthy probably got friends and family... probably got a doctors and dentist you can go to if your sick... sorry what did you say is wrong with you ? theres people and kids living in tents at the minute , people living on the streets......there having a bad day , not you. the only problem you have youve created yourself... dont create problems in the first place and you wont have any init thats a kick up the arse Is this for real? So I've created what's getting me down??? Wow that's just such an amazing helpful reply, thank you for that i agree with him somewhat... everything has an upside and a downside... which perception of the situation you see is your choice... some people aren't able to find the opposite side leaving them feeling down. I like to show there is more to a situation than just negativity. You have no idea. If only it were as simple as thinking positively. " No you're right not a clue!! | |||
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"Think of them poor boat people that only have the clothes on their backs and some don't even make it to safe land . You've got lots going for you mate so don't dwell on your shit day make tomorrow a better one Yeah I know mate, but sometimes it doesn't matter what people tell you does it, shit I'm sorry everyone for being like this, you're all great people apart from the 1 person who wanted to kick me whilst I'm down You are happy to put the boot in when it suits you so why expect any sympathy back? Like I've said please don't talk to me or comment on my posts ... Thank you And as I've said its a public forum. So suck it up buttercup. You've been nasty to others on the forums so I have no sympathy for you on here. " There's really no need for this. | |||
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"most of you on here know me as a gobby fucker! And probably hate seeing me pop up on threads! But today I've been really reflecting on life and what's been going on in my world of recent times and it's got me really down! Obviously I'm not going to go into details as to why but.... Do you ever have one of those days were you feel like shite and all you want to do is run away and not be found???? Sorry to be the poster of a dreary thread but I need a fucking big hug, or a kick up the arse (you will prob favour that more) X" A lot of the time I feel like I should just run away. Bx | |||
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"most of you on here know me as a gobby fucker! And probably hate seeing me pop up on threads! But today I've been really reflecting on life and what's been going on in my world of recent times and it's got me really down! Obviously I'm not going to go into details as to why but.... Do you ever have one of those days were you feel like shite and all you want to do is run away and not be found???? Sorry to be the poster of a dreary thread but I need a fucking big hug, or a kick up the arse (you will prob favour that more) X A lot of the time I feel like I should just run away. Bx" Me too! Seems the obvious answer doesn't it | |||
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"youve got a roof over ya head probably a house or flat probably a car probably a bank account with money in it probably you eat everyday probably reasonably fit n healthy probably got friends and family... probably got a doctors and dentist you can go to if your sick... sorry what did you say is wrong with you ? theres people and kids living in tents at the minute , people living on the streets......there having a bad day , not you. the only problem you have youve created yourself... dont create problems in the first place and you wont have any init thats a kick up the arse Is this for real? So I've created what's getting me down??? Wow that's just such an amazing helpful reply, thank you for that i agree with him somewhat... everything has an upside and a downside... which perception of the situation you see is your choice... some people aren't able to find the opposite side leaving them feeling down. I like to show there is more to a situation than just negativity. You have no idea. If only it were as simple as thinking positively. it is lol... thinking positively is a choice...you can choose at any given moment. why people don't choose it i have no idea." oh wait yeah... victim mentality... gives you an excuse/reason not to do your best.. or to fail | |||
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"most of you on here know me as a gobby fucker! And probably hate seeing me pop up on threads! But today I've been really reflecting on life and what's been going on in my world of recent times and it's got me really down! Obviously I'm not going to go into details as to why but.... Do you ever have one of those days were you feel like shite and all you want to do is run away and not be found???? Sorry to be the poster of a dreary thread but I need a fucking big hug, or a kick up the arse (you will prob favour that more) X A lot of the time I feel like I should just run away. Bx Me too! Seems the obvious answer doesn't it " Believe me I've been so close so many times. Only thing that stops me is my cat. Stupid isn't it? | |||
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"most of you on here know me as a gobby fucker! And probably hate seeing me pop up on threads! But today I've been really reflecting on life and what's been going on in my world of recent times and it's got me really down! Obviously I'm not going to go into details as to why but.... Do you ever have one of those days were you feel like shite and all you want to do is run away and not be found???? Sorry to be the poster of a dreary thread but I need a fucking big hug, or a kick up the arse (you will prob favour that more) X A lot of the time I feel like I should just run away. Bx Me too! Seems the obvious answer doesn't it Believe me I've been so close so many times. Only thing that stops me is my cat. Stupid isn't it?" It's not stupid if that's your reason x | |||
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"(((Big Hug))).....for every bad thought you have try and counteract that down feeling with a happy thought....something that makes you smile inside and lightens the heavy burden xxxx I'm trying that , so bloody much x Chin up honey....the dark clouds do pass....Promise x" I hope so I really do xx | |||
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"youve got a roof over ya head probably a house or flat probably a car probably a bank account with money in it probably you eat everyday probably reasonably fit n healthy probably got friends and family... probably got a doctors and dentist you can go to if your sick... sorry what did you say is wrong with you ? theres people and kids living in tents at the minute , people living on the streets......there having a bad day , not you. the only problem you have youve created yourself... dont create problems in the first place and you wont have any init thats a kick up the arse Is this for real? So I've created what's getting me down??? Wow that's just such an amazing helpful reply, thank you for that i agree with him somewhat... everything has an upside and a downside... which perception of the situation you see is your choice... some people aren't able to find the opposite side leaving them feeling down. I like to show there is more to a situation than just negativity. You have no idea. If only it were as simple as thinking positively. it is lol... thinking positively is a choice...you can choose at any given moment. why people don't choose it i have no idea." Have you ever been through something traumatic in your life? LOL! | |||
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"often - i have a friend who tells me off for navel gazing as she calls it - dwelling on whats passed - usually something comes along and reminds me that others are worse off - i still think i might just sell up and run away at some point It doesn't matter if people tell you "others are worse off" it doesn't help x" no but if you see it for yourself it does | |||
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"often - i have a friend who tells me off for navel gazing as she calls it - dwelling on whats passed - usually something comes along and reminds me that others are worse off - i still think i might just sell up and run away at some point It doesn't matter if people tell you "others are worse off" it doesn't help x no but if you see it for yourself it does " I can't see it though | |||
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"youve got a roof over ya head probably a house or flat probably a car probably a bank account with money in it probably you eat everyday probably reasonably fit n healthy probably got friends and family... probably got a doctors and dentist you can go to if your sick... sorry what did you say is wrong with you ? theres people and kids living in tents at the minute , people living on the streets......there having a bad day , not you. the only problem you have youve created yourself... dont create problems in the first place and you wont have any init thats a kick up the arse Is this for real? So I've created what's getting me down??? Wow that's just such an amazing helpful reply, thank you for that i agree with him somewhat... everything has an upside and a downside... which perception of the situation you see is your choice... some people aren't able to find the opposite side leaving them feeling down. I like to show there is more to a situation than just negativity. You have no idea. If only it were as simple as thinking positively. it is lol... thinking positively is a choice...you can choose at any given moment. why people don't choose it i have no idea." I'm afraid it isn't a choice for everyone at all times. Like I said,you don't have a clue. No disrespect meant to you. | |||
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"youve got a roof over ya head probably a house or flat probably a car probably a bank account with money in it probably you eat everyday probably reasonably fit n healthy probably got friends and family... probably got a doctors and dentist you can go to if your sick... sorry what did you say is wrong with you ? theres people and kids living in tents at the minute , people living on the streets......there having a bad day , not you. the only problem you have youve created yourself... dont create problems in the first place and you wont have any init thats a kick up the arse Is this for real? So I've created what's getting me down??? Wow that's just such an amazing helpful reply, thank you for that i agree with him somewhat... everything has an upside and a downside... which perception of the situation you see is your choice... some people aren't able to find the opposite side leaving them feeling down. I like to show there is more to a situation than just negativity. You have no idea. If only it were as simple as thinking positively. it is lol... thinking positively is a choice...you can choose at any given moment. why people don't choose it i have no idea. Have you ever been through something traumatic in your life? LOL!" of course lol love how people automatically assume i haven't i''ve just dealt with it. | |||
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"often - i have a friend who tells me off for navel gazing as she calls it - dwelling on whats passed - usually something comes along and reminds me that others are worse off - i still think i might just sell up and run away at some point It doesn't matter if people tell you "others are worse off" it doesn't help x no but if you see it for yourself it does I can't see it though " take a walk - look at others - watch people and listen to them - always there believe me - in my job i see it daily but even taking that away i see it - open yourself up | |||
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"youve got a roof over ya head probably a house or flat probably a car probably a bank account with money in it probably you eat everyday probably reasonably fit n healthy probably got friends and family... probably got a doctors and dentist you can go to if your sick... sorry what did you say is wrong with you ? theres people and kids living in tents at the minute , people living on the streets......there having a bad day , not you. the only problem you have youve created yourself... dont create problems in the first place and you wont have any init thats a kick up the arse Is this for real? So I've created what's getting me down??? Wow that's just such an amazing helpful reply, thank you for that i agree with him somewhat... everything has an upside and a downside... which perception of the situation you see is your choice... some people aren't able to find the opposite side leaving them feeling down. I like to show there is more to a situation than just negativity. You have no idea. If only it were as simple as thinking positively. it is lol... thinking positively is a choice...you can choose at any given moment. why people don't choose it i have no idea. I'm afraid it isn't a choice for everyone at all times. Like I said,you don't have a clue. No disrespect meant to you." nice assumptions enjoy your day. | |||
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"youve got a roof over ya head probably a house or flat probably a car probably a bank account with money in it probably you eat everyday probably reasonably fit n healthy probably got friends and family... probably got a doctors and dentist you can go to if your sick... sorry what did you say is wrong with you ? theres people and kids living in tents at the minute , people living on the streets......there having a bad day , not you. the only problem you have youve created yourself... dont create problems in the first place and you wont have any init thats a kick up the arse Is this for real? So I've created what's getting me down??? Wow that's just such an amazing helpful reply, thank you for that i agree with him somewhat... everything has an upside and a downside... which perception of the situation you see is your choice... some people aren't able to find the opposite side leaving them feeling down. I like to show there is more to a situation than just negativity. You have no idea. If only it were as simple as thinking positively. it is lol... thinking positively is a choice...you can choose at any given moment. why people don't choose it i have no idea. Have you ever been through something traumatic in your life? LOL! of course lol love how people automatically assume i haven't i''ve just dealt with it. I merely asked you a question,I never presume anything. Well done you on being strong,a little sympathy for other people will show some maturity and compassion,maybe..." if you read up i offered OP a chat in pm's if he wanted one. | |||
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"Think of them poor boat people that only have the clothes on their backs and some don't even make it to safe land . You've got lots going for you mate so don't dwell on your shit day make tomorrow a better one Yeah I know mate, but sometimes it doesn't matter what people tell you does it, shit I'm sorry everyone for being like this, you're all great people apart from the 1 person who wanted to kick me whilst I'm down You are happy to put the boot in when it suits you so why expect any sympathy back? Like I've said please don't talk to me or comment on my posts ... Thank you And as I've said its a public forum. So suck it up buttercup. You've been nasty to others on the forums so I have no sympathy for you on here. " Ignore each other please | |||
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"Try massaging your prostate, that will make you feel better. " Haha, I think you should do it for him | |||
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"youve got a roof over ya head probably a house or flat probably a car probably a bank account with money in it probably you eat everyday probably reasonably fit n healthy probably got friends and family... probably got a doctors and dentist you can go to if your sick... sorry what did you say is wrong with you ? theres people and kids living in tents at the minute , people living on the streets......there having a bad day , not you. the only problem you have youve created yourself... dont create problems in the first place and you wont have any init thats a kick up the arse Is this for real? So I've created what's getting me down??? Wow that's just such an amazing helpful reply, thank you for that i agree with him somewhat... everything has an upside and a downside... which perception of the situation you see is your choice... some people aren't able to find the opposite side leaving them feeling down. I like to show there is more to a situation than just negativity. You have no idea. If only it were as simple as thinking positively. it is lol... thinking positively is a choice...you can choose at any given moment. why people don't choose it i have no idea. I'm afraid it isn't a choice for everyone at all times. Like I said,you don't have a clue. No disrespect meant to you. nice assumptions enjoy your day." I'm not assuming. | |||
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"youve got a roof over ya head probably a house or flat probably a car probably a bank account with money in it probably you eat everyday probably reasonably fit n healthy probably got friends and family... probably got a doctors and dentist you can go to if your sick... sorry what did you say is wrong with you ? theres people and kids living in tents at the minute , people living on the streets......there having a bad day , not you. the only problem you have youve created yourself... dont create problems in the first place and you wont have any init thats a kick up the arse Is this for real? So I've created what's getting me down??? Wow that's just such an amazing helpful reply, thank you for that i agree with him somewhat... everything has an upside and a downside... which perception of the situation you see is your choice... some people aren't able to find the opposite side leaving them feeling down. I like to show there is more to a situation than just negativity. You have no idea. If only it were as simple as thinking positively. it is lol... thinking positively is a choice...you can choose at any given moment. why people don't choose it i have no idea. Have you ever been through something traumatic in your life? LOL! of course lol love how people automatically assume i haven't i''ve just dealt with it. I merely asked you a question,I never presume anything. Well done you on being strong,a little sympathy for other people will show some maturity and compassion,maybe... if you read up i offered OP a chat in pm's if he wanted one." You still have no idea. You're one of those people who thinks because you have done something everyone else is able to. It doesn't work like that. I'll go and have my nice day now. | |||
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"Try massaging your prostate, that will make you feel better. " On a serious note is it just one of those crappy days or is it deeper than that? Obviously you don't have to say but I get crappy days, mainly cos I want a boyfriend to come round asda with me or to the cinema or just watching films and smooching on the sofa. I pass the time when I'm feeling a bit low by coming on here or reading, listening to music or listening to supercar startups accelerations and downshifts on YouTube and pretend I'm driving the car. If it's something getting you down it's always good to talk about it, no one really knows you on here and that can help sometimes. | |||
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"youve got a roof over ya head probably a house or flat probably a car probably a bank account with money in it probably you eat everyday probably reasonably fit n healthy probably got friends and family... probably got a doctors and dentist you can go to if your sick... sorry what did you say is wrong with you ? theres people and kids living in tents at the minute , people living on the streets......there having a bad day , not you. the only problem you have youve created yourself... dont create problems in the first place and you wont have any init thats a kick up the arse Is this for real? So I've created what's getting me down??? Wow that's just such an amazing helpful reply, thank you for that i agree with him somewhat... everything has an upside and a downside... which perception of the situation you see is your choice... some people aren't able to find the opposite side leaving them feeling down. I like to show there is more to a situation than just negativity. You have no idea. If only it were as simple as thinking positively. it is lol... thinking positively is a choice...you can choose at any given moment. why people don't choose it i have no idea. Have you ever been through something traumatic in your life? LOL! of course lol love how people automatically assume i haven't i''ve just dealt with it. I merely asked you a question,I never presume anything. Well done you on being strong,a little sympathy for other people will show some maturity and compassion,maybe... if you read up i offered OP a chat in pm's if he wanted one. You still have no idea. You're one of those people who thinks because you have done something everyone else is able to. It doesn't work like that. I'll go and have my nice day now." what makes us different? we are both human both have the ability to make choices. Funny thing is as i was discussing in pm's... this guy is low and depressed and askign for basicaly attention (hugs and whatever else)... by giving it to him you are promoting him being down and depressed in order to get attention. Alternatively i offer a way that has helped me and others many times in the past. love how that makes me the bad guy | |||
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"Try massaging your prostate, that will make you feel better. On a serious note is it just one of those crappy days or is it deeper than that? Obviously you don't have to say but I get crappy days, mainly cos I want a boyfriend to come round asda with me or to the cinema or just watching films and smooching on the sofa. I pass the time when I'm feeling a bit low by coming on here or reading, listening to music or listening to supercar startups accelerations and downshifts on YouTube and pretend I'm driving the car. If it's something getting you down it's always good to talk about it, no one really knows you on here and that can help sometimes. " It's not just a crappy day, as in nothing's gone right for me, it's way deeper and like you said no one knows me on here but it's too personal to put on here, I wish it was that easy, I truly do, just getting through everyday is difficult I wish someone could Magic the pain away x | |||
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"youve got a roof over ya head probably a house or flat probably a car probably a bank account with money in it probably you eat everyday probably reasonably fit n healthy probably got friends and family... probably got a doctors and dentist you can go to if your sick... sorry what did you say is wrong with you ? theres people and kids living in tents at the minute , people living on the streets......there having a bad day , not you. the only problem you have youve created yourself... dont create problems in the first place and you wont have any init thats a kick up the arse Is this for real? So I've created what's getting me down??? Wow that's just such an amazing helpful reply, thank you for that i agree with him somewhat... everything has an upside and a downside... which perception of the situation you see is your choice... some people aren't able to find the opposite side leaving them feeling down. I like to show there is more to a situation than just negativity. You have no idea. If only it were as simple as thinking positively. it is lol... thinking positively is a choice...you can choose at any given moment. why people don't choose it i have no idea. Have you ever been through something traumatic in your life? LOL! of course lol love how people automatically assume i haven't i''ve just dealt with it. I merely asked you a question,I never presume anything. Well done you on being strong,a little sympathy for other people will show some maturity and compassion,maybe... if you read up i offered OP a chat in pm's if he wanted one. You still have no idea. You're one of those people who thinks because you have done something everyone else is able to. It doesn't work like that. I'll go and have my nice day now. what makes us different? we are both human both have the ability to make choices. Funny thing is as i was discussing in pm's... this guy is low and depressed and askign for basicaly attention (hugs and whatever else)... by giving it to him you are promoting him being down and depressed in order to get attention. Alternatively i offer a way that has helped me and others many times in the past. love how that makes me the bad guy " Woah can I just point out I'm not wanting "attention" in that way I was just asking if others have these bad days! I don't like attention just for the record | |||
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"youve got a roof over ya head probably a house or flat probably a car probably a bank account with money in it probably you eat everyday probably reasonably fit n healthy probably got friends and family... probably got a doctors and dentist you can go to if your sick... sorry what did you say is wrong with you ? theres people and kids living in tents at the minute , people living on the streets......there having a bad day , not you. the only problem you have youve created yourself... dont create problems in the first place and you wont have any init thats a kick up the arse Is this for real? So I've created what's getting me down??? Wow that's just such an amazing helpful reply, thank you for that i agree with him somewhat... everything has an upside and a downside... which perception of the situation you see is your choice... some people aren't able to find the opposite side leaving them feeling down. I like to show there is more to a situation than just negativity. You have no idea. If only it were as simple as thinking positively. it is lol... thinking positively is a choice...you can choose at any given moment. why people don't choose it i have no idea. Have you ever been through something traumatic in your life? LOL! of course lol love how people automatically assume i haven't i''ve just dealt with it. I merely asked you a question,I never presume anything. Well done you on being strong,a little sympathy for other people will show some maturity and compassion,maybe... if you read up i offered OP a chat in pm's if he wanted one. You still have no idea. You're one of those people who thinks because you have done something everyone else is able to. It doesn't work like that. I'll go and have my nice day now. what makes us different? we are both human both have the ability to make choices. Funny thing is as i was discussing in pm's... this guy is low and depressed and askign for basicaly attention (hugs and whatever else)... by giving it to him you are promoting him being down and depressed in order to get attention. Alternatively i offer a way that has helped me and others many times in the past. love how that makes me the bad guy Woah can I just point out I'm not wanting "attention" in that way I was just asking if others have these bad days! I don't like attention just for the record ''Sorry to be the poster of a dreary thread but I need a fucking big hug, or a kick up the arse (you will prob favour that more)''" If that's wanting "attention" fair enough | |||
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"youve got a roof over ya head probably a house or flat probably a car probably a bank account with money in it probably you eat everyday probably reasonably fit n healthy probably got friends and family... probably got a doctors and dentist you can go to if your sick... sorry what did you say is wrong with you ? theres people and kids living in tents at the minute , people living on the streets......there having a bad day , not you. the only problem you have youve created yourself... dont create problems in the first place and you wont have any init thats a kick up the arse Is this for real? So I've created what's getting me down??? Wow that's just such an amazing helpful reply, thank you for that i agree with him somewhat... everything has an upside and a downside... which perception of the situation you see is your choice... some people aren't able to find the opposite side leaving them feeling down. I like to show there is more to a situation than just negativity. You have no idea. If only it were as simple as thinking positively. it is lol... thinking positively is a choice...you can choose at any given moment. why people don't choose it i have no idea. Have you ever been through something traumatic in your life? LOL! of course lol love how people automatically assume i haven't i''ve just dealt with it. I merely asked you a question,I never presume anything. Well done you on being strong,a little sympathy for other people will show some maturity and compassion,maybe... if you read up i offered OP a chat in pm's if he wanted one. You still have no idea. You're one of those people who thinks because you have done something everyone else is able to. It doesn't work like that. I'll go and have my nice day now. what makes us different? we are both human both have the ability to make choices. Funny thing is as i was discussing in pm's... this guy is low and depressed and askign for basicaly attention (hugs and whatever else)... by giving it to him you are promoting him being down and depressed in order to get attention. Alternatively i offer a way that has helped me and others many times in the past. love how that makes me the bad guy Woah can I just point out I'm not wanting "attention" in that way I was just asking if others have these bad days! I don't like attention just for the record ''Sorry to be the poster of a dreary thread but I need a fucking big hug, or a kick up the arse (you will prob favour that more)'' If that's wanting "attention" fair enough " by opening the thread you expect people to read it which in some ways is asking for attention ... not being rude OP but that is the basis of it people want attention nothing wrong with that... i just wish that the attention you got was founded on you being happy and jovial rather than sad and depressed | |||
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"Think of them poor boat people that only have the clothes on their backs and some don't even make it to safe land . You've got lots going for you mate so don't dwell on your shit day make tomorrow a better one Yeah I know mate, but sometimes it doesn't matter what people tell you does it, shit I'm sorry everyone for being like this, you're all great people apart from the 1 person who wanted to kick me whilst I'm down You are happy to put the boot in when it suits you so why expect any sympathy back? Like I've said please don't talk to me or comment on my posts ... Thank you And as I've said its a public forum. So suck it up buttercup. You've been nasty to others on the forums so I have no sympathy for you on here. " no need.. your just making yourself appear spiteful, if the OP has in your opinion been 'nasty' just how do you think you come across in taking pleasure in someone having a shit day..? | |||
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"Think of them poor boat people that only have the clothes on their backs and some don't even make it to safe land . You've got lots going for you mate so don't dwell on your shit day make tomorrow a better one Yeah I know mate, but sometimes it doesn't matter what people tell you does it, shit I'm sorry everyone for being like this, you're all great people apart from the 1 person who wanted to kick me whilst I'm down You are happy to put the boot in when it suits you so why expect any sympathy back? Like I've said please don't talk to me or comment on my posts ... Thank you And as I've said its a public forum. So suck it up buttercup. You've been nasty to others on the forums so I have no sympathy for you on here. no need.. your just making yourself appear spiteful, if the OP has in your opinion been 'nasty' just how do you think you come across in taking pleasure in someone having a shit day..? " Thank you x | |||
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"They happen for me and usually if I'm missing out on stuff that's good for me, such as rest, sleep, good nutrition, exercise and support. I'm quite good with my own company and instinct usually lets me know what I need to do. If I make time and focus then I can 'rehabilitate' myself. The worst thing I could do is to ignore and deprive myself of what I need. Hope op gets to nourish and support his needs." Thank you | |||
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"Hmm. ....Mr far life my only have slapped you on the back of the neck now and again. How old are you what 22 just starting out. When it's got you on the ropes and just delivers punch after punch you may think differently about your comments here!" Yeah he hasn't even begun to get these beatings yet x | |||
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"Hmm. ....Mr far life my only have slapped you on the back of the neck now and again. How old are you what 22 just starting out. When it's got you on the ropes and just delivers punch after punch you may think differently about your comments here!" hmm so because im 22, that means i have had an uneventful life? interesting assumption. | |||
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