FabSwingers.com forum: Do you block people and why?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know its an old one but I'm new(ish)

I know I could look through previous threads but where's the fun in that?.....So...

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

because they're t***s and I can't punch them down my phone and to save them messaging me if im theyre not my type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who complain all the time in chat

People who annoy me

People who won't take no for an answer

Girls/couples I think are actually guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hardly ever block anybody

I have on the odd occasions but most of the people I have blocked are people I have met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We block anyone we don't wish to meet. Just makes sorting the wheat from the chaff so much easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I have no desire to talk to them ever again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do bloke people as some can be very nasty and talk down to u . Iv been bullyed most my life and I ain't take in it no more ! .

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I block every profile I'm not interested in and everyone not interested in me , except forumites xx

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By *uxomBloomsWoman
over a year ago

Near Tunbridge Wells

I only block if someone won't take no for an answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who are abusive or that make me do a Shirley valentine (talking to the wall)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had to block anyone here, however - my profile on fabguys is a different story!

Mostly liers, folk that don't read profiles correctly.

I certainly don't take offence if I'm blocked - I know I'm a nice guy.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I block people with whom I'm not compatible, to avoid me accidentally mailing them, and to remove them from any searches/browses that I do.

I'll talk to anyone on the forums, though - no issue there.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We've got about 80 profiles blocked for a variety of reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't block people just because I don't want to meet them that seems silly to me, if I look at a profile and they are not for me or i domt fit what they are looking for I simply don't mail them, can't see why you would block somebody just because you don't want to meet them

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I had a ten year empty block list until Thursday.

I can't decide whether I'm more pissed off at myself for rising to it or the person I blocked.

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Only if they're utterly ghastly or keep posting the same pictures over and over and over again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block people with whom I'm not compatible, to avoid me accidentally mailing them, and to remove them from any searches/browses that I do.

I'll talk to anyone on the forums, though - no issue there."

This ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those that won't take no for an answer

And when I get a repeated cut and paste message which is the same as the message they sent the last time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't block people just because I don't want to meet them that seems silly to me, if I look at a profile and they are not for me or i domt fit what they are looking for I simply don't mail them, can't see why you would block somebody just because you don't want to meet them "

if I had a good memory this would work for me. but I don't so I block so I don't appear to be a stalker.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"I had a ten year empty block list until Thursday.

I can't decide whether I'm more pissed off at myself for rising to it or the person I blocked.

Just checked in case it was me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a guy send me 20 messages in 10 minutes as I wasn't reading replying to him.

He's the only one I've blocked so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We block those who get abusive and those who don't seem to understand that we don't play apart and keep hounding. Honestly they make me angry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block. It's a power thing

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Idiots and abusive people get blocked...we were very tolerant at first but the patience wore a bit thin in the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a ten year empty block list until Thursday.

I can't decide whether I'm more pissed off at myself for rising to it or the person I blocked.

Just checked in case it was me

So did I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should "wench" get you blocked ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I block. It's a power thing

Go girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never block people first. But if I browse a profile and find they've randomly blocked me then I will 'counter-block' back. That way, if I can't _iew their profile, then I don't want them being able to unblock me when I'm not online and _iew mine!

Petty I know (and I'm sure if I've been blocked they have no interest in _iewing me again anyway!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just blocked someone we said No to politely, but then got asked if he could come to my house and for me to take photos of him in my garden WTF!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Should "wench" get you blocked ??"

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

No we don,t block many we both like to chat been swinging many years love to talk about things which you can not talk about to friends none of our friends know about this side of our life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never block abusive people I find it more fun to play with them

I've had it on a few occasions where I've had guys being abusive and by the time I've finished with them they have told me I have a good sence of humour and do I want to meet

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Yes, I block people regularly for various reasons. If I say no thanks and they message again in a couple of weeks, if they are crude in their initial message, if they are abusive. Etc etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We block if they won't take no for an answer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had a ten year empty block list until Thursday.

I can't decide whether I'm more pissed off at myself for rising to it or the person I blocked.

Just checked in case it was me

So did I

and me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should "wench" get you blocked ??"

Call me a wench and see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block anyone who messages me who I'm not interested in. That saves me being asked to explain myself and them messaging again. I always reply before blocking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me i never block anyone...live and let live..if they want to be nasty then thats there problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Should "wench" get you blocked ??

Call me a wench and see what happens

too scared.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I had a ten year empty block list until Thursday.

I can't decide whether I'm more pissed off at myself for rising to it or the person I blocked.

Just checked in case it was me

So did I

and me!

Stop it now! Numpties!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should "wench" get you blocked ??

Call me a wench and see what happens

too scared.

Me too.. Can I have a pre blocked warning if this goes tits up ?

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

"Me i never block anyone...live and let live..if they want to be nasty then thats there problem

not even tesco guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocked a few obviously over dramatic people, and people who post shocking stuff on the forums, but to be fair my block list is tiny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me i never block anyone...live and let live..if they want to be nasty then thats there problem

not even tesco guy?

Not even him...he entertain me haha

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By *lack Shoe Red SoulCouple
over a year ago

North Hampshire

We block people who stalk our profile if they are not our 'type' we also block people who post the same pictures over and over and over again..... Try a new bloody angle for gods sake...

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

Don't think I've ever blocked anyone yet. Don't think I've ever been annoyed enough to reach for the block button. What I do find childish and immature are those who send a nasty message and then block so you can't reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should "wench" get you blocked ??

Call me a wench and see what happens

I remember when I first moved to Tipton everybody round here says wench, its just what they call females, if somebody has a baby they ask if its a chap or a wench, now where I moved from to call somebody a wench is like calling them a slag so I wasnt impressed the first time I was called a wench, everybody thought I was mental as they has no idea why I was pissed off as its not ment nasty or rude at all round here, made a right tit of myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block trolls on the forums. Those that are just nasty for the sake of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people don't take no for an answer and can get pushy. Generally people are really nice though. Except for one person this morning who didn't like my 'thanks but no thanks' message, sent a really nasty message back and promptly blocked me!

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

"I had a ten year empty block list until Thursday.

I can't decide whether I'm more pissed off at myself for rising to it or the person I blocked.

Just checked in case it was me

So did I

and me!

Stop it now! Numpties!

Yeah, I did that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block trolls on the forums. Those that are just nasty for the sake of it.

Theres a huge difference between having fun and nasty

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I block loads of people.

Those who put their medical status out there.

Blokes pretending to be women/couples.

Timewasters.

Dreamers.

Dickheads.

Arrogant knobheads.

The forums are great for spotting them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block trolls on the forums. Those that are just nasty for the sake of it.

Theres a huge difference between having fun and nasty "

Yeah, I'm talking about the ones, including females, who put a comment on a thread being personally nasty to someone on the thread for absolutely no reason.

And seeing them do it in other threads too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block women who have said no to me. That way there is no chance of me accidentally bothering them again at a later date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block trolls on the forums. Those that are just nasty for the sake of it.

Theres a huge difference between having fun and nasty

Yeah, I'm talking about the ones, including females, who put a comment on a thread being personally nasty to someone on the thread for absolutely no reason.

And seeing them do it in other threads too."

Some people leave themselves wide open for it...and tbh im not sure if people care whether they get blocked or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't block anyone from what they have said on the forums. I don't see the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block people who don't take no for an answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't block anyone from what they have said on the forums. I don't see the point. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block people who don't take no for an answer"

And so you should..a no is a no in any walk of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block trolls on the forums. Those that are just nasty for the sake of it.

Theres a huge difference between having fun and nasty

Yeah, I'm talking about the ones, including females, who put a comment on a thread being personally nasty to someone on the thread for absolutely no reason.

And seeing them do it in other threads too.

Some people leave themselves wide open for it...and tbh im not sure if people care whether they get blocked or not "

Half the forum have me blocked

Wouldnt say it bothers me it does baffle me sometimes when I've never seen somebody before and when I go to look at their profile I'm blocked I do think ....I've never seen you or spoken to you WTF did I do to upset you

Can't say I loose any sleep over it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only block abusive or pests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block trolls on the forums. Those that are just nasty for the sake of it.

Theres a huge difference between having fun and nasty

Yeah, I'm talking about the ones, including females, who put a comment on a thread being personally nasty to someone on the thread for absolutely no reason.

And seeing them do it in other threads too.

Some people leave themselves wide open for it...and tbh im not sure if people care whether they get blocked or not

Half the forum have me blocked

Can't say I loose any sleep over it though "

obviously your opinions upset them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block trolls on the forums. Those that are just nasty for the sake of it.

Theres a huge difference between having fun and nasty

Yeah, I'm talking about the ones, including females, who put a comment on a thread being personally nasty to someone on the thread for absolutely no reason.

And seeing them do it in other threads too.

Some people leave themselves wide open for it...and tbh im not sure if people care whether they get blocked or not

Half the forum have me blocked

Can't say I loose any sleep over it though

obviously your opinions upset them lol "

Well yes but that's not hard on here is it let's be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't really block people. We only have a few people blocked, and its usually men who we turn down, but keep messaging asking how I (Courtney only) am, and what we did today, and how our weekend is....nonstop.

Otherwise, there hasn't been a need to block. I like, or don't care about, almost everyone on here.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and because I can

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"I don't block anyone from what they have said on the forums. I don't see the point. "

Everyone on the forum is entitled to their own opinion. If someone blocks from a forum comment I think it says more about them than it does about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block trolls on the forums. Those that are just nasty for the sake of it.

Theres a huge difference between having fun and nasty

Yeah, I'm talking about the ones, including females, who put a comment on a thread being personally nasty to someone on the thread for absolutely no reason.

And seeing them do it in other threads too.

Some people leave themselves wide open for it...and tbh im not sure if people care whether they get blocked or not

Half the forum have me blocked

Can't say I loose any sleep over it though

obviously your opinions upset them lol

Well yes but that's not hard on here is it let's be honest

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I block women who have said no to me. That way there is no chance of me accidentally bothering them again at a later date"

now id call that "considerate"

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Some because their input hasn't been favourable and others when it's clear we've nothing to continue together. It's a standard part of fab life.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Because I am organised and I have no interest in _iewing a vast number of profiles that I won't be messaging , I don't like clutter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block people I message and either get no reply, just delete or we decide were inot going to happen. Saves me seeing them on my news feed and messaging them again. I have a dreadful memory and don't want to be hassling folks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block people who are looking for bi men just so i dont msg them again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't been here long, but my block list is huge.

I block people for being pushy, crude on a first message, or if they keep messaging when I'm not interested.

I haven't really had anyone be abusive yet...perhaps because of this policy.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I block people who are nasty, not my sort, I've said no too.

People I have absolutley no interest in whatsoever, blocking is a site tool that takes less than 2 seconds to use.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"I block trolls on the forums. Those that are just nasty for the sake of it.

Can't see any point to this per se as it does not prevent one from seeing their posts , I like my pm channel to be available for a forumite to use if they wanted

I have been on chat sites where real trolls exist and there has been a need to block them out

I have not evidenced any forumite here who I feel it would benifit me to never listen to them again , I don't like censorship xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We block anyone we don't wish to meet. Just makes sorting the wheat from the chaff so much easier. "
same

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

we block load of people for loads of reasons and get blocked ourselves for load of reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very rarely. Doesn't seem much point as they can just start a new profile and contact me again via that if they wanted to.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Only those I've said "no" to who are unable to take no for an answer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Only those I've said "no" to who are unable to take no for an answer."

what do these repeat offenders say? plead/beg/grovel? never had one..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block trolls on the forums. Those that are just nasty for the sake of it.

Can't see any point to this per se as it does not prevent one from seeing their posts , I like my pm channel to be available for a forumite to use if they wanted

I have been on chat sites where real trolls exist and there has been a need to block them out

I have not evidenced any forumite here who I feel it would benifit me to never listen to them again , I don't like censorship xx"

That is true but I don't see why I should let them see my profile & use parts of it to be abusive to me in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely block people. Only those I consider to be seriously deranged or would be "Trolls" who tour the site trying to bring their own brand of misery to people they think are too happy

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Only those I've said "no" to who are unable to take no for an answer.

what do these repeat offenders say? plead/beg/grovel? never had one..

Usually "but I meet what you're asking for!"...true, as I only respond to those that do. However, I've got to fancy them and if I don't it's a no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block trolls on the forums. Those that are just nasty for the sake of it.

Can't see any point to this per se as it does not prevent one from seeing their posts , I like my pm channel to be available for a forumite to use if they wanted

I have been on chat sites where real trolls exist and there has been a need to block them out

I have not evidenced any forumite here who I feel it would benifit me to never listen to them again , I don't like censorship xx

That is true but I don't see why I should let them see my profile & use parts of it to be abusive to me in the forums."

then they would be banned if they did..wouldnt they ?

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"I block trolls on the forums. Those that are just nasty for the sake of it.

Can't see any point to this per se as it does not prevent one from seeing their posts , I like my pm channel to be available for a forumite to use if they wanted

I have been on chat sites where real trolls exist and there has been a need to block them out

I have not evidenced any forumite here who I feel it would benifit me to never listen to them again , I don't like censorship xx

That is true but I don't see why I should let them see my profile & use parts of it to be abusive to me in the forums."

Wouldn't they get a forum ban if they did that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block trolls on the forums. Those that are just nasty for the sake of it.

Can't see any point to this per se as it does not prevent one from seeing their posts , I like my pm channel to be available for a forumite to use if they wanted

I have been on chat sites where real trolls exist and there has been a need to block them out

I have not evidenced any forumite here who I feel it would benifit me to never listen to them again , I don't like censorship xx

That is true but I don't see why I should let them see my profile & use parts of it to be abusive to me in the forums.

Wouldn't they get a forum ban if they did that? "

My thoughts entirely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block trolls on the forums. Those that are just nasty for the sake of it.

Can't see any point to this per se as it does not prevent one from seeing their posts , I like my pm channel to be available for a forumite to use if they wanted

I have been on chat sites where real trolls exist and there has been a need to block them out

I have not evidenced any forumite here who I feel it would benifit me to never listen to them again , I don't like censorship xx

That is true but I don't see why I should let them see my profile & use parts of it to be abusive to me in the forums.

Wouldn't they get a forum ban if they did that? "

For a while.

And then they come back.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Usually people who condemn the behaviours of others, whilst displaying the very same ones they don't like. Zero self awareness is never forgivable

and classless silly old fools with body parts out.

apart from that, no one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually people who condemn the behaviours of others, whilst displaying the very same ones they don't like. Zero self awareness is never forgivable

and classless silly old fools with body parts out.

apart from that, no one

agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do. If I get a message from a guy who is the opposite to what I'm looking for, so either not reading my profile or ignoring it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's not a soul on our block list, nobody has pissed us off that badly.

A polite fuck off usually gives hints to those who pester us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's not a soul on our block list, nobody has pissed us off that badly.

A polite fuck off usually gives hints to those who pester us"

Now that sounds like a challenge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it funny that people voice opinions about forum users,often using that person's profile as ammo, and then block said person so they can't see their profile and return fire

Them's cowards in my book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block those that delete my mail so I don't accidentally message them again, oh and of course the guys that hide behind couples or women's profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's not a soul on our block list, nobody has pissed us off that badly.

A polite fuck off usually gives hints to those who pester us"

I don't like using expletives. To me the block button is a politer way of saying now fuck off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's not a soul on our block list, nobody has pissed us off that badly.

A polite fuck off usually gives hints to those who pester us

Now that sounds like a challenge

Your norkage will forgive all sins from you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A variety of reasons, none of which I can be arsed to explain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Allways block the ones that dont read the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's not a soul on our block list, nobody has pissed us off that badly.

A polite fuck off usually gives hints to those who pester us

I don't like using expletives. To me the block button is a politer way of saying now fuck off. "

Teehee you said fuck off

Yes, I'm that childish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's not a soul on our block list, nobody has pissed us off that badly.

A polite fuck off usually gives hints to those who pester us

Now that sounds like a challenge

Your norkage will forgive all sins from you

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By *errygTV/TS
over a year ago

denton

the hi x brigade, or hows u, meet now, prob not arsed to read profile

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Usually people who condemn the behaviours of others, whilst displaying the very same ones they don't like. Zero self awareness is never forgivable

and classless silly old fools with body parts out.

apart from that, no one

Oooh, get you!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Usually people who condemn the behaviours of others, whilst displaying the very same ones they don't like. Zero self awareness is never forgivable

and classless silly old fools with body parts out.

apart from that, no one

Oooh, get you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet ... they usually block me first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. When they are intimidating or creepy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People up their own arses & who think they're better than those with bits of their bodies on show.

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By *rKinkedKuntMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Just blocked a disgusting racist Nazi scum bag for essentially wishing people dead. Nice bloke on a fake cpls profile.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i've learnt to block..didn't like it at all at first, i still don't, that's why i have my filters on, but the occasional one from the early days slips through and i use it now.. i just don't let people in now, unless i want to chat and meet with them, because i haven't the time or patience to shift through hundreds of messages, and repeat messages, and the why haven't you contacted me back messages..it was getting me down..

if people meet me now at clubs, or, they engage with me in the forums a lot, then, they get an invite into fort knox...just the way its got to be, unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block people with whom I'm not compatible, to avoid me accidentally mailing them, and to remove them from any searches/browses that I do.

I'll talk to anyone on the forums, though - no issue there."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block people who's profile I don't match, saves me from contacting them. I think it's good practise. Also narrows down your comparability so increasing your success rate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont block people, I find it hard to take people that i've never met seriously so yes my block list is empty..,

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"People up their own arses & who think they're better than those with bits of their bodies on show."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've blocked a few people who have been antagonistic or insulting for no other reason than they are insecure.

But I'm generally open to chatting to anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know its an old one but I'm new(ish)

I know I could look through previous threads but where's the fun in that?.....So..."

No one on my block list.

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Wouldn't block for a forum post. Empty block list so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i blocked a man the orther day because he kept sending me tha same messege

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We block if there not our cup of tea so they can't message us again, if they clearly haven't read our profile then we block them, we have also blocked people who post on a thread saying they don't like fake boobs

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"if people meet me now at clubs, or, they engage with me in the forums a lot, then, they get an invite into fort knox."

haven't heard of it being called that before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on mood - sometimes just cos someone keeps and they have said we arent for them - ggrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I send a women a message and they delete it without a reply I block them. Just saves me messaging them again if they change there profile picture and I don't realise, old age there

. One that baffles me is how long you give a message unread before deleting it??. Speak to a few women on here that block lots of men mainly for been disrespectful and demanding meets same day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i've learnt to block..didn't like it at all at first, i still don't, that's why i have my filters on, but the occasional one from the early days slips through and i use it now.. i just don't let people in now, unless i want to chat and meet with them, because i haven't the time or patience to shift through hundreds of messages, and repeat messages, and the why haven't you contacted me back messages..it was getting me down..

if people meet me now at clubs, or, they engage with me in the forums a lot, then, they get an invite into fort knox...just the way its got to be, unfortunately

Are you saying you don't like people talking to you on the forums and so you block them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block those I don't wish to communicate with. It's no big deal....although I do find it amusing that people think it's being mean or a terrible thing to do.....it's a tool and I use it and I don't feel bad about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block those I don't wish to communicate with. It's no big deal....although I do find it amusing that people think it's being mean or a terrible thing to do.....it's a tool and I use it and I don't feel bad about it."

I very much agree.

Especially for women who get far more messages and interest

It's another great way to filter those your not interested in and leave time and energy for those you are.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"if people meet me now at clubs, or, they engage with me in the forums a lot, then, they get an invite into fort knox.

haven't heard of it being called that before.

haha naughty mind..i was talking about being through my filters and able to message me into my message inbox...hehe

but your right, theres no guarantees of getting into that box either..hehehe

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

I haven't had to block anyone..... Yet.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

if people meet me now at clubs, or, they engage with me in the forums a lot, then, they get an invite into fort knox...just the way its got to be, unfortunately

Are you saying you don't like people talking to you on the forums and so you block them?"

no, i dont and havent blocked anyone from the forums, in my recollection.

where did you get that idea from? x

im saying i have my filters on..if people engage with me on the forums, or at clubs, or wherever..then i would take the imitative and message them so they get through my filter system so the can message me privately (this is what i call 'fort knox'..my inbox on fab) xx

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

some people do really get wound up over the old block thing... it's funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it slso stops them appearing in the local updates news feed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block people who get abusive or won't take no for an answer, and people who send a string of messages with no response.

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