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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering how many messages do people send out in a week to randoms? I mean people you have never spoke to in the past that you may fancy or find interesting.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2567 per day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Three or four at most

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

It varies. Never more than two or three in any given week, often none at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm actively looking to meet, maybe 2 or 3 a day. When I'm not, zero.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

About 2 a week.

My sifting process takes ages. Then I get blocked and deleted or the message remains unread.

I'm really a single bloke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually none. There was a time a few months back where I would actively send out messages, about 4-5 a week to couples and 2-3 to single men, but now we have people we meet so we don't really look for new people.

But we will meet someone new if they message us and we really really like them or if it's someone I like from the forums

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0.0

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have sent out 7 so far this week, writing one now but im stuck.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"I have sent out 7 so far this week, writing one now but im stuck.

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Then stop! If it doesn't come naturally, it'll read that way too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To new people? Mostly none these days. But when I'm actively looking and can be bothered I might send out 3 or 4 a week - not many as it takes time to write them and I mostly can't be arsed because most get ignored anyway! In my early days loads. Most got ignored!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Wasn't this pretty much asked on Thursday this week?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how many have joined in my area on that given week

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

So far this week 0.... Chances are it'll be 0 by the end of the weekend.

I go in phases where I look for new playmates I guess at that point 3 or 4 a week.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wasn't this pretty much asked on Thursday this week?"

I don't know I was at bingo Thursday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wasn't this pretty much asked on Thursday this week?"

It doesn't stop the 'how big is VWE' and 'are beards sexy' threads so can't see why this should be any different!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Friends - a fair few. Randoms not that many, really. I don't like to bug people.

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Very few, if any - once in a month, maybe, possibly less. It takes quite a lot for me to pluck up the courage to send an initial message that may not even be read and to which I probably won't receive any reply. So I do occasionally but they have to be someone special to trump my shyness.

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send random messages but not really to randomers. I receive mail from random people. The kind of mail where it's clear they've mailed everyone in a 200 mile radius and I'm their last resort.

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