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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What do you prefer, ladies with long flowing locks or the girls with quirky short hairstyles.
I have naturally curly hair and for years I didnt like it. I had it cut short, very short and spiky in fact and whilst I liked it, it was funky and great for clubbing, a very different look etc, and I had various colours put through it etc, it did make me less feminine.
I decided to let my hair grow because of an experience at the office Christmas party in my previous job, when a partner of the company (a very butch lesbian) came onto me and when I turned her down, she said that she was sure I was a lesbian because of "my look".
I was pretty mortified (this was before swinging and I'd never had or wanted any bi experiences). Anyway I decided to grow my hair to look more "womanly" and I must admit I do look much more feminine than I did, but I will always love the short spiky punky look, miss it at times.
Since my hair has grown, and ive let it do its own thing and curl, my long blond curly hair does seem to attract people. I always have people touching it in clubs, as if they havent seen curly hair before, (I had a girl ask me where I had my spiral perm from once, cos she wanted that 80s look - cheeky bugger lol) and with the majority of women having poker straight hair, my curls do get me noticed.
You do have to be careful though. If you are a bigger girl, its hard to find a short hairstyle that suits, a very short, sharp, spiky punky look, is better on slim faced girls, as you can end up looking butch. I find longer fringes on short hair sexy, especially if you have dark expressive eyes, very sexy indeed.
Too long hair on an older person looks wrong too. Im in my early 40s so I keep my hair just past shoulder length, with it being curly it bounces up and looks shorter anyway.
So has a particular hairstyle made you more popular with the opposite (or same) sex?   |
