FabSwingers.com forum: Taking one for the team?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I often read on here how people won't ever lower their standards and will only ever sleep with people they fancy (and quite right too!) but have you, or would you, ever 'take one for the team' to keep your partner happy as a one-off?

Eg if your hubby or wife was really into someone you were meeting but you were just a bit 'meh' about their other half, would you still go through with it to please them (ie putting their enjoyment above your own?)

Now I'm expecting the stock answer to be 'never, we both need to find an attraction' or 'my partner wouldn't expect me to sleep with someone I didn't fancy' but I'm wondering if, and under what circumstances, sometimes you'll relax those rules (perhaps unknowingly to your partner) to ensure your loved one had a good time?

No particular reason for asking, just being nosey

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

good god no.....

would you if you were part of a couple OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i could get my hubby into this yes i would. Its about his pleasure as much as mine...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"good god no.....

would you if you were part of a couple OP?"

Possibly, if she really really wanted it. In theory at least, never found myself in that position so it's hard to say about reality.

But only as a one off (if it became recurring then yes, I'd have a problem I think) and only if the other party wasn't too rank!

I kind of think of it like playing 'wing man' for a mate when you'll chat up the plain friend of the hot girl he's trying to pull ....

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I had a couples profile with a fuck buddy and he was way less fussy than me. We weren't that successful with it cause I wouldn't fuck someone I couldn't kiss. Bleurgh!

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

We both have, because unless you rent an essort it's almost impossible to both get what you want xx

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Part of the fun is to see my partner havea good time and vice versa -so it is a genuine "No, we would not" from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance! This is fun for both not just one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done in the past. I wouldn't do it again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha!! I have back in my younger days! we used to refer to them as cock blockers. And a good wingman always makes sure his buddy lands safely. I was a good wingman. Mother Goose had nothing on me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, we wouldn't. The issue for us is that the experience is as much about the other couple as it is about us. If one of us isn't into a person in the other couple, it wouldn't be very enjoyable for them either.

Having said that, its not like we will both only be with idyllic human beings. We aren't perfect and neither is anyone else. We are having sex with them, not getting married.

-Courtney

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I did.

At a club with a lady - we were together for the night (shared hotel room afterwards), but weren't a couple as such.

After a bit of chat with another couple in the jacuzzi, she gave the M a BJ, while the F watched and said very little.

When we later bumped into them again, we were invited to go and play with them, although I think all 4 of us knew which 2 were actually interested....

Anyway, we all went through with it, and it didn't really go particularly well for anybody, so that was a useful lesson.

The lady in question was suitably attractive, she had just been too disengaged from any of the conversation for me to feel any spark of interest in her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course we have !

It's about the pleasure for each other as much as our own , so if my wife wants me to try something I will if it's what she wants to see . Regardless of whether I fancy it or not . And vice versa on plenty of occasions .

Now let me say something here , despite it not being a scenario that may be high on the list of desires as an individual - seeing each other enjoying watching , and getting so turned on ,makes it equally as horny as doing something one may choose as a personal favourite .

I guess until you've done it it's hard to explain , but when you are a couple you want to make the experience wonderful for all parties , and sometimes this works really well

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Not keen on the phrase, taking one for the team. However, yes, we both have on a couple of occasions back when we were still finding our feet.

I've no doubt that we have been on the receiving end of it too on occasions.

We've learnt what works for us and what doesn't. It's something that we wouldn't do again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We often talk/joke about taking one for the team, but never do! ...ohhh apart from, ohhh and that time and and oops...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We often talk/joke about taking one for the team, but never do! ...ohhh apart from, ohhh and that time and and oops...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all for the replies so far, surprised it's about a 50/50 mix, I assumed it would be skewed heavily in the 'never!' camp!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course we have !

I guess until you've done it it's hard to explain , but when you are a couple you want to make the experience wonderful for all parties , and sometimes this works really well

This for us too x although I will not normally allow mr to as unless he is really into the lady I get less from everything x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never if it costs us a meet so be it. For us is not a numbers game so it's no biggie any way. Besides that's what parties are for as they allow these sort of connections to be made sometimes.

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By *icolehertsCouple
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Finding partners that you both find equally attractive can be difficult so occasionally you have to compromise like you have to in most walks of life.

As long as there is a level of attraction we generally find we can make a night of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have the once. Our first couple we met on my couoles profile. Would I do it again? Hell no. The trouble is I am far more fussy than what he is. After I did it I could have kicked myself, as I would never have met the guy from my single profile.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

many, many people say they won't ever, not as many actually don't..

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I have slept with people I didn't fancy it was called vodka goggles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have slept with people I didn't fancy it was called vodka goggles

Mine were beer goggles but Iv mislaid them

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

in clubs their seams to be a lot of hot women with ugly guys.

I do have sympathy when I sit back and think I've done alright here

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By *urvyemmaWoman
over a year ago

wigan/bolton

Yes..In a club..hot woman, awful man...lots of pleading looks from my man and sniggers and discrete thumps from me whispering 'you fucking owe me for this one!'

It all adds to the fun and laughs afterwards

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I often read on here how people won't ever lower their standards and will only ever sleep with people they fancy (and quite right too!) but have you, or would you, ever 'take one for the team' to keep your partner happy as a one-off?

No particular reason for asking, just being nosey

No I wouldn't ask Mr N to do that and I wouldn't ask it of myself. I would feel bad about myself if I had sex with someone I didn't fancy and I think it would be patronising and disrespectful to the person I had sex with.

I know this is no strings and all but I have to look at myself in the mirror in the mornings and that's a tough job without an extra burden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would do it, its all about having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not in a couple, but I have in the past had sex to be 'polite'. Never again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (husband) sort of would but I would never ask or let my wife do it.

We have different standards. She is actually more physically stimulated than me so for her to shag someone she didn't fancy would be quite unpleasant.

Personally I enjoy the mental experience of exploring a new person (as long as I like their personality). Obviously I prefer it when they are attractive but yeah I'd lower my standards if my wife was really into the guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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I know this is no strings and all but I have to look at myself in the mirror in the mornings and that's a tough job without an extra burden

I feel your pain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would and have took one for the team

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"...

I know this is no strings and all but I have to look at myself in the mirror in the mornings and that's a tough job without an extra burden

I feel your pain.

I sometimes catch a glimpse and think "who let that old woman in my bathroom?"

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I (husband) sort of would but I would never ask or let my wife do it.

We have different standards. She is actually more physically stimulated than me so for her to shag someone she didn't fancy would be quite unpleasant.

Lord! I hope nobody ever lowered their standards because their wife really fancied Mr N

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"...

I know this is no strings and all but I have to look at myself in the mirror in the mornings and that's a tough job without an extra burden

I feel your pain.

I sometimes catch a glimpse and think "who let that old woman in my bathroom?"

Your posts do make me chuckle.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"...

I know this is no strings and all but I have to look at myself in the mirror in the mornings and that's a tough job without an extra burden

I feel your pain.

I sometimes catch a glimpse and think "who let that old woman in my bathroom?"

Your posts do make me chuckle.

Good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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I know this is no strings and all but I have to look at myself in the mirror in the mornings and that's a tough job without an extra burden

I feel your pain.

I sometimes catch a glimpse and think "who let that old woman in my bathroom?"

Your posts do make me chuckle.

Good

If I ever change my username I want to be GingerPensioner.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"...

I know this is no strings and all but I have to look at myself in the mirror in the mornings and that's a tough job without an extra burden

I feel your pain.

I sometimes catch a glimpse and think "who let that old woman in my bathroom?"

Your posts do make me chuckle.

Good

If I ever change my username I want to be GingerPensioner.

it is copyrighted but I will allow the use of it on license.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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I know this is no strings and all but I have to look at myself in the mirror in the mornings and that's a tough job without an extra burden

I feel your pain.

I sometimes catch a glimpse and think "who let that old woman in my bathroom?"

Your posts do make me chuckle.

Good

If I ever change my username I want to be GingerPensioner.

it is copyrighted but I will allow the use of it on license.

I shall start saving up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if I wished to have any success in such situations, I would have to start my own range of beer and vodka goggles and supply them free charge, as no one is willing to take a hit for the team without their assistance

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

We once met someone who looked like an ex and although he was a decent guy with a wicked sense of humour I just couldn't get past it enough to enjoy myself. It wasn't an awful experience but we now avoid anyone that looks like someone we wouldn't wanna get naked with

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By *ery curious maleMan
over a year ago

Bishop Auckland

I have once at a swingers hotel in Blackpool although it did have a happy ending.

My FB got chatting to this couple while I was getting drinks. I came back over and there was a very presentable guy and his quite plain partner who was dressed in what can only be described as a sack!

After a while I could tell my partner was keen to play with him but if I'm absolutely honest I would have happily just stayed in the bar. However being a gentleman and taking one for the team we all went into the room. My partner and the guy were straight onto the bed as I started to take my clothes off with my back towards the lady. When I turned around she was standing naked in front of me and what a body she had been hiding under the sack. To top this she was also a very passionate and tactile lover so all in all we were very happy to have a repeat performance on the next night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flipping it the other way around, would you expect your partner to fuck someone they didn't like or fancy just so you could fuck someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never one for the team! We have been swinging for 18 years and only found one almost suitable man. Some people may say we are too choosy but we are just looking for the right chemistry.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Flipping it the other way around, would you expect your partner to fuck someone they didn't like or fancy just so you could fuck someone? "

Indeed and taking it one step further how would you feel if you were the one they were taking one for the team for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I (husband) sort of would but I would never ask or let my wife do it.

We have different standards. She is actually more physically stimulated than me so for her to shag someone she didn't fancy would be quite unpleasant.

Lord! I hope nobody ever lowered their standards because their wife really fancied Mr N

Physical standards, if they had an attitude or bad hygiene it's a no no with a full stop! And there are limits too. But to be honest variety is the spice of life.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

I guess until you've done it it's hard to explain , but when you are a couple you want to make the experience wonderful for all parties , and sometimes this works really well

Since we've met single men, I guess you'd think it's a given that we'd be a yes, but actually when you love someone, it is incredibly erotic seeing them enjoying themself, so I wouldn't see it as 'taking one for the team' even then.

Besides, the other woman could always busy herself with Mrs ddc.

Or wear a blindfold

Mr ddc

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I (husband) sort of would but I would never ask or let my wife do it.

We have different standards. She is actually more physically stimulated than me so for her to shag someone she didn't fancy would be quite unpleasant.

Lord! I hope nobody ever lowered their standards because their wife really fancied Mr N

Physical standards, if they had an attitude or bad hygiene it's a no no with a full stop! And there are limits too. But to be honest variety is the spice of life. "

I'm thinking back now in case any of the guys we met seemed a bit reluctant .....there was this one whose wife dragged him in kicking and screaming but she said he had a fetish for having sex with women with paper bags over their head

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Indeed and taking it one step further how would you feel if you were the one they were taking one for the team for

I don't understand the use of the term 'if' in that sentence. In our case I think you mean 'when'

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By *ythenshawefredMan
over a year ago

stockport

Think there's a how much element to the taking one for the team bit

Might meet somebody who is quite/reasonably attractive but doesn't light your fire for some reason (we have all had those people in our lives) but that's very different to somebody you really don't think has anything in the plus column

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Indeed and taking it one step further how would you feel if you were the one they were taking one for the team for

I don't understand the use of the term 'if' in that sentence. In our case I think you mean 'when'

You don't really think that.....do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I (husband) sort of would but I would never ask or let my wife do it.

We have different standards. She is actually more physically stimulated than me so for her to shag someone she didn't fancy would be quite unpleasant.

Lord! I hope nobody ever lowered their standards because their wife really fancied Mr N

Physical standards, if they had an attitude or bad hygiene it's a no no with a full stop! And there are limits too. But to be honest variety is the spice of life.

I'm just saying its not all about looks. By most accounts, Anne Boleyn wasn't all that but it didn't stop Henry going nuts for her.

If you've ever had a woman eye fuck you then you'll know what I mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flipping it the other way around, would you expect your partner to fuck someone they didn't like or fancy just so you could fuck someone? "

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Indeed and taking it one step further how would you feel if you were the one they were taking one for the team for

I don't understand the use of the term 'if' in that sentence. In our case I think you mean 'when'

You don't really think that.....do you? "

Well, there was that one time with a very keen chap, and much insistent sleeve pulling and frowning from his other half

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I (husband) sort of would but I would never ask or let my wife do it.

We have different standards. She is actually more physically stimulated than me so for her to shag someone she didn't fancy would be quite unpleasant.

Lord! I hope nobody ever lowered their standards because their wife really fancied Mr N

Physical standards, if they had an attitude or bad hygiene it's a no no with a full stop! And there are limits too. But to be honest variety is the spice of life.

I'm just saying its not all about looks. By most accounts, Anne Boleyn wasn't all that but it didn't stop Henry going nuts for her.

If you've ever had a woman eye fuck you then you'll know what I mean.

I know I'm just larking about.

Anne Boleyn held out on Henry and he wasn't used to that, clever girl until her head and neck parted ways.

What's an eye fuck? I don't really have sexual contact with women as I'm straight

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Indeed and taking it one step further how would you feel if you were the one they were taking one for the team for

I don't understand the use of the term 'if' in that sentence. In our case I think you mean 'when'

You don't really think that.....do you?

Well, there was that one time with a very keen chap, and much insistent sleeve pulling and frowning from his other half

like me and the poor screaming paper bag man

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Our first meet i took one for the team - strangely enough even though i never fancied him we had great sex & i would definitely do him again... Sadly she wasnt as exciting as my other half thought she would be. Funny how that worked out ay...

Coming from a different angle i have refused meet requests from people i thought too attractive. Maybe i think someone on their side is taking one for the team?

Mrs _d40

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

You don't really think that.....do you?

Well, there was that one time with a very keen chap, and much insistent sleeve pulling and frowning from his other half

like me and the poor screaming paper bag man

We're all sorted now though, Mrs ddc bought me a mask and cape in Venice so now when we swing I just look like Tom Cruise in that film.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You don't really think that.....do you?

Well, there was that one time with a very keen chap, and much insistent sleeve pulling and frowning from his other half

like me and the poor screaming paper bag man

We're all sorted now though, Mrs ddc bought me a mask and cape in Venice so now when we swing I just look like Tom Cruise in that film.

And lovely you look in it I'm sure. Although it brings to mind Juan Sheet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I (husband) sort of would but I would never ask or let my wife do it.

We have different standards. She is actually more physically stimulated than me so for her to shag someone she didn't fancy would be quite unpleasant.

Lord! I hope nobody ever lowered their standards because their wife really fancied Mr N

Physical standards, if they had an attitude or bad hygiene it's a no no with a full stop! And there are limits too. But to be honest variety is the spice of life.

I'm just saying its not all about looks. By most accounts, Anne Boleyn wasn't all that but it didn't stop Henry going nuts for her.

If you've ever had a woman eye fuck you then you'll know what I mean.

I know I'm just larking about.

Anne Boleyn held out on Henry and he wasn't used to that, clever girl until her head and neck parted ways.

What's an eye fuck? I don't really have sexual contact with women as I'm straight

When she looks at you with THOSE eyes and you stop noticing the rest of her

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I (husband) sort of would but I would never ask or let my wife do it.

We have different standards. She is actually more physically stimulated than me so for her to shag someone she didn't fancy would be quite unpleasant.

Lord! I hope nobody ever lowered their standards because their wife really fancied Mr N

Physical standards, if they had an attitude or bad hygiene it's a no no with a full stop! And there are limits too. But to be honest variety is the spice of life.

I'm just saying its not all about looks. By most accounts, Anne Boleyn wasn't all that but it didn't stop Henry going nuts for her.

If you've ever had a woman eye fuck you then you'll know what I mean.

I know I'm just larking about.

Anne Boleyn held out on Henry and he wasn't used to that, clever girl until her head and neck parted ways.

What's an eye fuck? I don't really have sexual contact with women as I'm straight

When she looks at you with THOSE eyes and you stop noticing the rest of her"

Oh right thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flipping it the other way around, would you expect your partner to fuck someone they didn't like or fancy just so you could fuck someone?

Indeed and taking it one step further how would you feel if you were the one they were taking one for the team for

It wouldn't bother me in the slightest.

As someone once said on here (can't remember who so I can't credit them sorry but I love the quote) ..

They are the one that is shagging a minger. I'm shagging a hottie.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Flipping it the other way around, would you expect your partner to fuck someone they didn't like or fancy just so you could fuck someone?

Indeed and taking it one step further how would you feel if you were the one they were taking one for the team for

It wouldn't bother me in the slightest.

As someone once said on here (can't remember who so I can't credit them sorry but I love the quote) ..

They are the one that is shagging a minger. I'm shagging a hottie.

true

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Only take 1? He should take more than that.

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By *urvyemmaWoman
over a year ago

wigan/bolton

"Flipping it the other way around, would you expect your partner to fuck someone they didn't like or fancy just so you could fuck someone?

Indeed and taking it one step further how would you feel if you were the one they were taking one for the team for

It wouldn't bother me in the slightest.

As someone once said on here (can't remember who so I can't credit them sorry but I love the quote) ..

They are the one that is shagging a minger. I'm shagging a hottie.

Last sentence. .absolutely brilliant! ! Love it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have slept with people I didn't fancy it was called vodka goggles

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I think I saw you with them on Sunday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slightly turning the question round, I have had sex with someone I normally wouldn't have in a threesome situation because I was attracted to the other person. Not sure what the description for that would be

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

When I first started out I did. The ex always chose the couples we met. His choices were made on the basis of the female half of the couple, surprise surprise.

I wouldn't now.

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

if you think this has never happened to you

your the ugly one

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"if you think this has never happened to you

your the ugly one

I am fairly certain that some people met me with the ex and felt they were taking one for the team in order to please their female other half.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not in a couple, but I have in the past had sex to be 'polite'. Never again

Me too, it was a shockingly bad experience not to be repeated!

And when I was my fwb I think we only ever found one couple we could both agree on...

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