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Changing yourself

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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It's often said that a person should only change themself if they want to, not for anyone else.

It's a fair comment. Changing for yourself is much more likely to be successful than trying to change for someone else.

But what about changing in order to get something you want. Is that changing for yourself or for someone else?

Would you change to get something you want? Have you? Did it work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats not changing for someone else unless it's a person you want.

That's changing for you...

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Yes; I rebuilt/deprogrammed myself in my early 20s.

I'm a lot happier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, that's why I started to do bodybuilding when I was 18, a life long journey

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By *iverview1Couple
over a year ago

gourock

just changed my panties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would be changing for yourself.

And no, I haven't, because I'm perfect

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I changed a bit when I was younger for a guy...never again. I'm me take me or leave me. I'm unique

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

depends on what they want is if your going to change yourself

many a person slims down to get into that dress that they want so much but they have to change a little to get it

ive only changed myself because I wanted to do as the reason behind the change, was becoming as a couple

would I change something to get what I want, no

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

If you are changing to get something you want then it's for you. Just be realistic about what you can and can't change and why you really want to make the change.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"If you are changing to get something you want then it's for you. Just be realistic about what you can and can't change and why you really want to make the change.

"

The last time I said how I did it/what was instrumental, I was banned from the forums for 24hrs.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'll be changing for Leeds First Friday on Friday night, the first Friday of the month for a night out in Leeds. My first night out up there on a Friday this month.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I'll be changing for Leeds First Friday on Friday night, the first Friday of the month for a night out in Leeds. My first night out up there on a Friday this month. "

Will you be changing into a Friar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently in the process of change. I originally started two years ago, then I got into a relationship. Now I'm trying again. Its kinda been a snakes and ladders run in terms of climbing up and falling back into bad habits

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