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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me who hates the messages that go

Hi How r u

Want to meet

Tell me what you want

Tell me about yourself

Just gets on my tits lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They just go to the bin, no dramas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah must be a real nightmare getting a hi msg lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mine do too but I get so many lately I needed a rant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me who hates the messages that go

Hi How r u

Want to meet

Tell me what you want

Tell me about yourself

Just gets on my tits lol

"

if I have any time on my hands I sometimes reply, pointing out why a message such as that won't ever get them anywhere.....

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By *ohnioMan
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Is it just me who hates the messages that go

Hi How r u

Want to meet

Tell me what you want

Tell me about yourself

Just gets on my tits lol

"

What would your perfect opening message be ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah must be a real nightmare getting a hi msg lol."

Hi messages aren't too bad I guess just the other ones that are annoying

Don't get me wrong I'll reply to them but when they blatantly haven't read your profile it's annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah must be a real nightmare getting a hi msg lol."

I can understand it if inundated with them as I understand the ladies and couples are. But I'm with you Shag, always happy to get any coming my way (tumble rolls across my inbox lol)

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

I think their fine for a first message never get what all the fuss is about.

bit weird jumping in with war and peace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah must be a real nightmare getting a hi msg lol.

Hi messages aren't too bad I guess just the other ones that are annoying

Don't get me wrong I'll reply to them but when they blatantly haven't read your profile it's annoying "
Yes that's right, they can say like, hi I like your profile, fancy a chat or something.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it just me who hates the messages that go

Hi How r u

Want to meet

Tell me what you want

Tell me about yourself

Just gets on my tits lol

What would your perfect opening message be ?

"

Something original I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me who hates the messages that go

Hi How r u

Want to meet

Tell me what you want

Tell me about yourself

Just gets on my tits lol

"

I'm with you on that and, despite requesting that people don't send those messages to me in my profile, they still do. I just delete the now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah must be a real nightmare getting a hi msg lol.

I can understand it if inundated with them as I understand the ladies and couples are. But I'm with you Shag, always happy to get any coming my way (tumble rolls across my inbox lol)"
Yes and that's right. I don't mind getting few of them as well lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me who hates the messages that go

Hi How r u

Want to meet

Tell me what you want

Tell me about yourself

Just gets on my tits lol

"

We don't mind the want to meet one as long as there are pics with it and we find them attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine do too but I get so many lately I needed a rant

"
lol a good rant helps now and then the delete and block button works as well but hate those messages so much and no single guys needed seems to spur them on to message grrrrrree

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

a few of mine that i can remember to amuse you

hi, me and my mate share a house, wanna be our shared girlfriend...

i want you fuck my husband while hes down your way on business..im fine with it...

im gagging for a fuck, can we meet...

i cant accommodate, lets meet and do it in my car, i know a dead end road...

when i turned this offer down i got a..

know anyone where we can use their house?...when i said no..

it was...

i have a friend who wants to watch us fuck, want to go to his?

i couldnt let him go on... the block button was my friend...

of course ive left out the

"hi"

" i bet you want my cock"

"fancy a fuck"

"what you doing?"

"how you doing"

messages

some are pretty inventive these days,

sometimes i play along..i did with the 2 guys and shared girlfriend scenario..i asked that if there was 7 days in the week could i have another guy on the 7th day, how many times a day they would have sex with me..it was highly amusing for a while..i just block when i get bored, or, have to go to the loo...hehe

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By *ohnioMan
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Is it just me who hates the messages that go

Hi How r u

Want to meet

Tell me what you want

Tell me about yourself

Just gets on my tits lol

What would your perfect opening message be ?

Something original I guess "

Fair enough but there only so many ways you can be original saying "hey im me your you wanna chat and possibly hook up if we like each other"

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

Ours go...

They wink us

We wink back

They message "thanks for the wink"

We message back "our pleasure"

That's where it stops.......sigh....

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Ours go...

They wink us

We wink back

They message "thanks for the wink"

We message back "our pleasure"

That's where it stops.......sigh....

"

chuckles loudly..

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I think their fine for a first message never get what all the fuss is about.

bit weird jumping in with war and peace "

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

The cock in my pic seems to get more messages relating to him than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first message from a very good friend on here was "Tell me about you". If I'd deleted that message I would have missed out on getting to know and meet a wonderful person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah must be a real nightmare getting a hi msg lol."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me who hates the messages that go

Hi How r u

Want to meet

Tell me what you want

Tell me about yourself

Just gets on my tits lol

"

I think I quite fancy a message that says

'Just get on my tits'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first message from a very good friend on here was "Tell me about you". If I'd deleted that message I would have missed out on getting to know and meet a wonderful person. "

it can work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me who hates the messages that go

Hi How r u

Want to meet

Tell me what you want

Tell me about yourself

Just gets on my tits lol

I think I quite fancy a message that says

'Just get on my tits'

"

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a more serious note I tend to send winks but I know they can be liked or loathed in equal measure

The problem I have is that if I type War & Peace every time I send a message, my hands are going to fall off and then i'm of no use on the one occasion I do get a reply

Could use my nob I suppose

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By *CoastFunMan
over a year ago

Southampron


"Is it just me who hates the messages that go

Hi How r u

Want to meet

Tell me what you want

Tell me about yourself

Just gets on my tits lol

What would your perfect opening message be ?

Something original I guess "

And there lies the problem. Something original but you don't know what or can't give an example?

I'm sure many people miss out on getting to know some genuinely nice people due to their checklist type stance on what messages / profiles must contain. I'm not trying to change the way anyone is on here, I know some of you single ladies and couples do get bombarded with the one liners from us single males and that would get too much after a while so understand why you feel like you do.

Must admit writing that first message isn't the easiest as you're always wondering what the hell is the right thing to write. Luckily I'm not one to get uptight about messages being deleted etc, I won't be everyone's cuppa after all and getting a meet isn't the bee all and end all of life!

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By *ohnioMan
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Is it just me who hates the messages that go

Hi How r u

Want to meet

Tell me what you want

Tell me about yourself

Just gets on my tits lol

What would your perfect opening message be ?

Something original I guess

And there lies the problem. Something original but you don't know what or can't give an example?

I'm sure many people miss out on getting to know some genuinely nice people due to their checklist type stance on what messages / profiles must contain. I'm not trying to change the way anyone is on here, I know some of you single ladies and couples do get bombarded with the one liners from us single males and that would get too much after a while so understand why you feel like you do.

Must admit writing that first message isn't the easiest as you're always wondering what the hell is the right thing to write. Luckily I'm not one to get uptight about messages being deleted etc, I won't be everyone's cuppa after all and getting a meet isn't the bee all and end all of life!"

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I can forgive most things for a hot pic and half decent profile!

If the convo is like getting blood out of a stone though it wont go further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignoring the fancy a fuck,wanna suck my cock type messages,I'll look at the profile and decide if I want to chat to someone who says hi. If I find something interesting I'll say hi back.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"

Just gets on my tits lol

"

Not had that one yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me who hates the messages that go

Hi How r u

Want to meet

Tell me what you want

Tell me about yourself

Just gets on my tits lol

"
named all the messeges I send. I'm fucked lol

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Is it just me who hates the messages that go

Hi How r u

Want to meet

Tell me what you want

Tell me about yourself

Just gets on my tits lol

What would your perfect opening message be ?

Something original I guess

And there lies the problem. Something original but you don't know what or can't give an example?

I'm sure many people miss out on getting to know some genuinely nice people due to their checklist type stance on what messages / profiles must contain. I'm not trying to change the way anyone is on here, I know some of you single ladies and couples do get bombarded with the one liners from us single males and that would get too much after a while so understand why you feel like you do.

Must admit writing that first message isn't the easiest as you're always wondering what the hell is the right thing to write. Luckily I'm not one to get uptight about messages being deleted etc, I won't be everyone's cuppa after all and getting a meet isn't the bee all and end all of life!"

surely "

"ive read your profile and i especially like your interest in.....

if you are interested, please take a peek at my profile ( face pic included) because id love to chat to you sometime, and get to know a bit more about you"

isnt so very hard to compose..is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate the ones that say take a look at my profile and see if I'm what you are looking for with no photos and no writing on them!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 mins ago, I get this lol.

"My dick can touch the bottom of a pint glass and I can lick the crumbs out of a Pringles tin haha!"

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By *acLe0dMan
over a year ago

Preston

That first introductory message isn't always easy but I do try and use what's in their profile if I can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fancy a fuck" is my absolute favourite....

Or "are the kids in bed?"

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"5 mins ago, I get this lol.

"My dick can touch the bottom of a pint glass and I can lick the crumbs out of a Pringles tin haha!"

"

lololol

not sure if id find that attractive or not....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just had a really funny,weird one I wish I could share with someone

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By *ez247Man
over a year ago

rochdale

At lest you got somthing cumming across your box lol

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By *ez247Man
over a year ago

rochdale

Go on then post it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Something original I guess

........

surely "

"ive read your profile and i especially like your interest in.....

if you are interested, please take a peek at my profile ( face pic included) because id love to chat to you sometime, and get to know a bit more about you"

isnt so very hard to compose..is it?"

*copies and pastes into 100 messages*

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"

Something original I guess

........

surely "

"ive read your profile and i especially like your interest in.....

if you are interested, please take a peek at my profile ( face pic included) because id love to chat to you sometime, and get to know a bit more about you"

isnt so very hard to compose..is it?

*copies and pastes into 100 messages* "

let me know your success rate..not that you need any more success im sure xx mr snake energy charmer

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By *ez247Man
over a year ago

rochdale


"I hate the ones that say take a look at my profile and see if I'm what you are looking for with no photos and no writing on them!! "
look at mine then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Something original I guess

........

surely "

"ive read your profile and i especially like your interest in.....

if you are interested, please take a peek at my profile ( face pic included) because id love to chat to you sometime, and get to know a bit more about you"

isnt so very hard to compose..is it?

*copies and pastes into 100 messages*

let me know your success rate..not that you need any more success im sure xx mr snake energy charmer "

The only charming I do these days is the bees out of the trees....

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"5 mins ago, I get this lol.

"My dick can touch the bottom of a pint glass and I can lick the crumbs out of a Pringles tin haha!"

"

I'd definitely reply to this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me who hates the messages that go

Hi How r u

Want to meet

Tell me what you want

Tell me about yourself

Just gets on my tits lol

"
hi I personally like them they are polite and unobtrusive and just require a long interesting reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any message would do.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww bless poor women and couples they have such a hard life.

Block everyone and send your own messages. Sheesh.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"

Something original I guess

........

surely "

"ive read your profile and i especially like your interest in.....

if you are interested, please take a peek at my profile ( face pic included) because id love to chat to you sometime, and get to know a bit more about you"

isnt so very hard to compose..is it?

*copies and pastes into 100 messages* "

It is a very copy and pastetype message. So much for originality!

1st messages are a nightmare! I've had the privilege of seeing female friends of mine sifting through their messages here and learned a few things.

Sometimes they look at your pics. if they don't like what they see, delete. Sometimes they might read your profile. Read something they don't like, delete. Sometimes they'll read the message. They didn't like it, delete. It's that simple.

It's a combination of things or just one that will get you a reply. It can be quite simple: she didn't like you. Sadly, you just have to suck it up and move on.

However, in most cases I've seen, the women who complain don't message a lot themselves and tend to let guys come to them. if you know what you want, go out and look for it.

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By *ez247Man
over a year ago

rochdale


" a few of mine that i can remember to amuse you

hi, me and my mate share a house, wanna be our shared girlfriend...

i want you fuck my husband while hes down your way on business..im fine with it...

im gagging for a fuck, can we meet... right I do see you're point so what wood be good to start with ??;-)

i cant accommodate, lets meet and do it in my car, i know a dead end road...

when i turned this offer down i got a..

know anyone where we can use their house?...when i said no..

it was...

i have a friend who wants to watch us fuck, want to go to his?

i couldnt let him go on... the block button was my friend...

of course ive left out the

"hi"

" i bet you want my cock"

"fancy a fuck"

"what you doing?"

"how you doing"

messages

some are pretty inventive these days,

sometimes i play along..i did with the 2 guys and shared girlfriend scenario..i asked that if there was 7 days in the week could i have another guy on the 7th day, how many times a day they would have sex with me..it was highly amusing for a while..i just block when i get bored, or, have to go to the loo...hehe "

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

God it's years since I last sent out a preemptive message. When I move to my new flat, hopefully before Xmas, I'm going to conduct an experiment to see if I've lost any of the old charm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"5 mins ago, I get this lol.

"My dick can touch the bottom of a pint glass and I can lick the crumbs out of a Pringles tin haha!"

"
i'm so guna use this. Just got to change it to a half pint glass

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By *ez247Man
over a year ago

rochdale


"The cock in my pic seems to get more messages relating to him than me "
lol just seen your cock very funny I wish mine was that big

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By *ez247Man
over a year ago

rochdale

[Removed by poster at 01/09/15 17:03:19]

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

you be suprised how many men have taken up swedish massage and just want to practice. good job there'll be no funny busines.

rather they just said fancy a fuck instead if taking me for a c**t.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

Send longer messages and you sometimes get the reply "i didn't join here to read an essay!"

Sometimes can't win as a single guy, lol.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

It is interesting to see how many ladies now have something on their profile stating that they do not want to be asked how they are, what they did / are planning to do over the weekend and how they are finding the site.

For me the best messages are those that (can be short or long) refer to something in my profile, demonstrate a tad of original thought or are genuinely amusing.

I guess I am not on my own there

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"

Something original I guess

........

surely "

"ive read your profile and i especially like your interest in.....

if you are interested, please take a peek at my profile ( face pic included) because id love to chat to you sometime, and get to know a bit more about you"

isnt so very hard to compose..is it?

*copies and pastes into 100 messages*

It is a very copy and pastetype message. So much for originality!

1st messages are a nightmare! I've had the privilege of seeing female friends of mine sifting through their messages here and learned a few things.

Sometimes they look at your pics. if they don't like what they see, delete. Sometimes they might read your profile. Read something they don't like, delete. Sometimes they'll read the message. They didn't like it, delete. It's that simple.

It's a combination of things or just one that will get you a reply. It can be quite simple: she didn't like you. Sadly, you just have to suck it up and move on.

However, in most cases I've seen, the women who complain don't message a lot themselves and tend to let guys come to them. if you know what you want, go out and look for it. "

im not complaining i have all my filters on now,and i do message whom i want to, that way i dont hurt feelings..id rather they reject me....i seem to handle it better...thanks though for the insight

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I might read war and peace, if sent as a first message. No promises though.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Is it just me who hates the messages that go

Hi How r u

Want to meet

Tell me what you want

Tell me about yourself

Just gets on my tits lol

What would your perfect opening message be ?

Something original I guess

And there lies the problem. Something original but you don't know what or can't give an example?

I'm sure many people miss out on getting to know some genuinely nice people due to their checklist type stance on what messages / profiles must contain. I'm not trying to change the way anyone is on here, I know some of you single ladies and couples do get bombarded with the one liners from us single males and that would get too much after a while so understand why you feel like you do.

Must admit writing that first message isn't the easiest as you're always wondering what the hell is the right thing to write. Luckily I'm not one to get uptight about messages being deleted etc, I won't be everyone's cuppa after all and getting a meet isn't the bee all and end all of life!

surely "

"ive read your profile and i especially like your interest in.....

if you are interested, please take a peek at my profile ( face pic included) because id love to chat to you sometime, and get to know a bit more about you"

isnt so very hard to compose..is it?"

Obviously a copy and paste , is the response you will get

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"

Something original I guess

........

surely "

"ive read your profile and i especially like your interest in.....

if you are interested, please take a peek at my profile ( face pic included) because id love to chat to you sometime, and get to know a bit more about you"

isnt so very hard to compose..is it?

*copies and pastes into 100 messages*

It is a very copy and pastetype message. So much for originality!

1st messages are a nightmare! I've had the privilege of seeing female friends of mine sifting through their messages here and learned a few things.

Sometimes they look at your pics. if they don't like what they see, delete. Sometimes they might read your profile. Read something they don't like, delete. Sometimes they'll read the message. They didn't like it, delete. It's that simple.

It's a combination of things or just one that will get you a reply. It can be quite simple: she didn't like you. Sadly, you just have to suck it up and move on.

However, in most cases I've seen, the women who complain don't message a lot themselves and tend to let guys come to them. if you know what you want, go out and look for it.

im not complaining i have all my filters on now,and i do message whom i want to, that way i dont hurt feelings..id rather they reject me....i seem to handle it better...thanks though for the insight "

Don't thank me, thank my female friends!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send longer messages and you sometimes get the reply "i didn't join here to read an essay!"

Sometimes can't win as a single guy, lol. "

I can't see the problem with a quick "how are you?" It's testing the waters to see if there's a reply. No point reading a 3,000 word profile and spending time on a decent message to get it deleted with no response.

Thumbs up to the men out there. I empathise.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"Send longer messages and you sometimes get the reply "i didn't join here to read an essay!"

Sometimes can't win as a single guy, lol.

I can't see the problem with a quick "how are you?" It's testing the waters to see if there's a reply. No point reading a 3,000 word profile and spending time on a decent message to get it deleted with no response.

Thumbs up to the men out there. I empathise. "

It is what it is. Win some, lose some. A bit of patience and thick skin is all us guys need!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you send a picture in a message.

Most people want a dace pic which is fine but not sure how to attach one.

We are new on here and a bit slow in getting a profile picture sorted out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me who hates the messages that go

Hi How r u

Want to meet

Tell me what you want

Tell me about yourself

Just gets on my tits lol

"

I've never had one like that.

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By *CoastFunMan
over a year ago

Southampron

You can either upload pictures through fab and then attach them to messages or you can host them on a free image hosting site and insert the url into a message. I'd go with the former option, it's going to be easier for you in the long run.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you send a picture in a message.

Most people want a dace pic which is fine but not sure how to attach one.

We are new on here and a bit slow in getting a profile picture sorted out. "

Upload a pic to the site. It will ask if you want it to be public so everyone can see, friends only so only people on your friends list can see, or private so only you can see.

I can't upload from my phone so I do it on my laptop. Think there's also an email upload option.

Look under 'manage photos'. On my phone so can't just check but I think it's under Account on the mobile site or left hand menu list on the desktop site.

Bear in mind that anyone can have a profile on here. So if you don't want everyone knowing you are on here just keep your face pics private. When you've uploaded them there's an option in mail to attach a pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks will try that when we get a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me who hates the messages that go

Hi How r u

Want to meet

Tell me what you want

Tell me about yourself

Just gets on my tits lol

"
hey they are rather lovely tits to get on though

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Is it just me who hates the messages that go

Hi How r u

Want to meet

Tell me what you want

Tell me about yourself

Just gets on my tits lol

What would your perfect opening message be ?

Something original I guess

And there lies the problem. Something original but you don't know what or can't give an example?

I'm sure many people miss out on getting to know some genuinely nice people due to their checklist type stance on what messages / profiles must contain. I'm not trying to change the way anyone is on here, I know some of you single ladies and couples do get bombarded with the one liners from us single males and that would get too much after a while so understand why you feel like you do.

Must admit writing that first message isn't the easiest as you're always wondering what the hell is the right thing to write. Luckily I'm not one to get uptight about messages being deleted etc, I won't be everyone's cuppa after all and getting a meet isn't the bee all and end all of life!"

If she'd posted the original message how would that help..?? It s not going to work on another' as it's not for them.. it's unique and original to the individual who sent it and for the recipient.

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