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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't you just love those who reply after you've sent a polite no thanks, you get "your loss" sent back to you.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

It makes them feel good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It makes them feel good "

It honestly doesn't bother me that much. I guess if people want to say it to make them feel better, hearing it is the least I can do after turning them down.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your loss "

plenty more fab in the sea. Ahhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats our personal favourite!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your loss "

No it was definitely your loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never get it, I just block after politely declining someone, save all the crap!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never get it, I just block after politely declining someone, save all the crap!"

I'll do that in future

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Lol, that and "shame". Not for me it isn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol, that and "shame". Not for me it isn't "

Haha, yes, that's up there with the best of them!!

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or the You'll never find someone like me again" laugh block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its bitter and immature and shows a certain lack of self confidence but if it makes them feel better then great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Along with 'I didn't want to fuck you anyway'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It bothers you enough to make a thread about it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Along with 'I didn't want to fuck you anyway' "

Oh and don't forget 'wot are you a lezza or sumfing?'

Ps OP your a single male.....I thought it was against the rules for you desperate darlings to turn anything down...Ur all so gagging for it!! Hehe

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Never had a reply saying that, they're usually along the lines of 'thanks for your message and Happy Fabbing'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't you just love those who reply after you've sent a polite no thanks, you get "your loss" sent back to you. "

All who write "your loss"

Should be made to go unlos.

(copyright HappyGit inc. - - crap verse for all occasions)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After being on here over a year I was feeling a little left out but had my very 1st one last week.....

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

'If you change your mind' always makes me laugh. No means no in my book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had but I've got a big cock. Oh well why didn't you say, I instantly want to meet you now!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Along with 'I didn't want to fuck you anyway'

Oh and don't forget 'wot are you a lezza or sumfing?'

Ps OP your a single male.....I thought it was against the rules for you desperate darlings to turn anything down...Ur all so gagging for it!! Hehe "

Not this single guy, not enough alcohol in the world

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

Our one off favourite was an 18 year old who asked 'have you seen my penis?' I fell off the chair laughing at that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol, that and "shame". Not for me it isn't "

ahhh i say that some times, guess i should stop then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our one off favourite was an 18 year old who asked 'have you seen my penis?' I fell off the chair laughing at that one "

I wonder if he ever found it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't you just love those who reply after you've sent a polite no thanks, you get "your loss" sent back to you. "

Yes just shows there anger and the fact it's most definitely there's lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Our one off favourite was an 18 year old who asked 'have you seen my penis?' I fell off the chair laughing at that one

I wonder if he ever found it? "

Pmsl

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I got told that I was a cheeky bastard once....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our one off favourite was an 18 year old who asked 'have you seen my penis?' I fell off the chair laughing at that one

I wonder if he ever found it?

Pmsl "

like all men. he has no control over his penis, but to lose one is careless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before I blocked after politely declining, one guy said to me "well, you've missed out on a massive cock" yes I said, it seems I have!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never had a reply saying that, they're usually along the lines of 'thanks for your message and Happy Fabbing'"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never had a reply saying that, they're usually along the lines of 'thanks for your message and Happy Fabbing'"

Same here. Makes me wonder what on earth other people say to get rude responses.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never had a reply saying that, they're usually along the lines of 'thanks for your message and Happy Fabbing'

Same here. Makes me wonder what on earth other people say to get rude responses. "

As I said, my reply was "no thanks" nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never had a reply saying that, they're usually along the lines of 'thanks for your message and Happy Fabbing'

Same here. Makes me wonder what on earth other people say to get rude responses.

As I said, my reply was "no thanks" nothing more."

And as I replied, it's "your loss"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My standard reply was along the lines of; thanks for taking the time to message me but you're not what I'm looking for on here at present, take care and happy swinging. The majority of replies where respectful but I did get some abuse. People who think abuse is acceptable will do it regardless of how you say it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel a bit miffed!!

Not been told this yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it's there loss , I'm fooking great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel a bit miffed!!

Not been told this yet "

Your loss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it's there loss , I'm fooking great "

Shame

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You've only just come back and your already breaking women's hearts

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You've only just come back and your already breaking women's hearts "

Couldn't resist

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

[Removed by poster at 31/08/15 21:10:04]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How does one lose something that you never had?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My standard reply was along the lines of; thanks for taking the time to message me but you're not what I'm looking for on here at present, take care and happy swinging. The majority of replies where respectful but I did get some abuse. People who think abuse is acceptable will do it regardless of how you say it."

Very true, fair point. Report them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very difficult to answer the OPs question as I don't get any introductory messages hitting my inbox that give me an opportunity to ever say no lol!

But if ever I do in the future (well a boys gotta dream, right?) and they're not for me then I would hope I would reply in the way that I would like to replied to, civil and respectful. If I get a 'your loss' from that then so be it I won't be losing any sleep over it

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

The thing is, we men actually DO have time to enter into pointless discussion via message, so if this did happen, i'd quite happily go back and forth until they got bored.

In the past I've had snotty messages about forum posts (hard to believe, I'm sure) where someone says something, then blocks me to prevent a reply. That's always amusing - so desperate to have the last word!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol, that and "shame". Not for me it isn't "

God, why even bother messaging someone and saying that? Just more crap to delete for me.

Anyway OP, i don't even reply to say no thanks, i wait for the ' ??? ' message then block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Along with 'I didn't want to fuck you anyway'

Oh and don't forget 'wot are you a lezza or sumfing?'

Ps OP your a single male.....I thought it was against the rules for you desperate darlings to turn anything down...Ur all so gagging for it!! Hehe

Not this single guy, not enough alcohol in the world "

You was married in another post

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It is my loss! Meeting someone where it would be uncomfortable, tedious and awkward, as the inevitable rejection occurs in person. Thank goodness I lose that.

If they need to do something to regain their power or self esteem, let them. But a block saves you the trouble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your loss

now off for a toss.

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