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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Frickin useless woman!!!! Grrrr

My 23yr old daughter is visiting my ex's family and fell out with her useless waste of space mother again!

Someone had a go at her mum when they were on a night out pointing out how little effort she's made over the past 22 years.

She tried blaming me. Big error. My daughter ripped into her then rang me in tears.

I've never said anything bad about her even though she left me when my daughter was 16 months old. She's never paid any maintenance, sent cards or bothered to see her.

Obviously a long complicated story which I shan't bore you all with.

Frickin useless woman!

There endeth my first and last rant.

You may block me now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Frickin useless woman!!!! Grrrr

My 23yr old daughter is visiting my ex's family and fell out with her useless waste of space mother again!

Someone had a go at her mum when they were on a night out pointing out how little effort she's made over the past 22 years.

She tried blaming me. Big error. My daughter ripped into her then rang me in tears.

I've never said anything bad about her even though she left me when my daughter was 16 months old. She's never paid any maintenance, sent cards or bothered to see her.

Obviously a long complicated story which I shan't bore you all with.

Frickin useless woman!

There endeth my first and last rant.

You may block me now "

No blocking here, just a hug and a cuppa.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Frickin useless woman!!!! Grrrr

My 23yr old daughter is visiting my ex's family and fell out with her useless waste of space mother again!

Someone had a go at her mum when they were on a night out pointing out how little effort she's made over the past 22 years.

She tried blaming me. Big error. My daughter ripped into her then rang me in tears.

I've never said anything bad about her even though she left me when my daughter was 16 months old. She's never paid any maintenance, sent cards or bothered to see her.

Obviously a long complicated story which I shan't bore you all with.

Frickin useless woman!

There endeth my first and last rant.

You may block me now "

Yeah, no blocking here either, sounds like you've raised an awesome daughter. Hugs x

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

It's good to vent. Better here than somewhere you'll regret

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She's tiny. She's beautiful. She's mega intelligent and I've taught her to stand up for herself and those who can't.

She's awesome.

I just pick shit mums.

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By *oom18Couple
over a year ago

Rotherham

To put a positive spin on it,your daughter obviously loves you loads.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To put a positive spin on it,your daughter obviously loves you loads. "

That's true. Apparently when her dipshit mother tried to say I'd kept her away she ripped into her. Her uncle and his wife did too

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By *hazkiandCouple
over a year ago

crawley

As i have told my ex husband in the past, i don't have to slag you off for the kids to know what a waste of space you are, you let them down enough on your own for them to know! It came back to bite him on the arse too!!!

If your daughter defended you in this way then you have obviously been a fantastic dad to her and i salute you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As i have told my ex husband in the past, i don't have to slag you off for the kids to know what a waste of space you are, you let them down enough on your own for them to know! It came back to bite him on the arse too!!!

If your daughter defended you in this way then you have obviously been a fantastic dad to her and i salute you "

And I you.

I've been so lucky to have had the chance to bring her up. So many dads don't get the opportunity.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Good for you for never slagging her mother off, I hate it when one parent does that no matter how shit the other is.

Looks like you've brought her up well xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As i have told my ex husband in the past, i don't have to slag you off for the kids to know what a waste of space you are, you let them down enough on your own for them to know! It came back to bite him on the arse too!!!

If your daughter defended you in this way then you have obviously been a fantastic dad to her and i salute you "

Well said.

P's would a blow job cheer u up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big hugs sounds like your daughter has her head screwed on.

xx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As i have told my ex husband in the past, i don't have to slag you off for the kids to know what a waste of space you are, you let them down enough on your own for them to know! It came back to bite him on the arse too!!!

If your daughter defended you in this way then you have obviously been a fantastic dad to her and i salute you

Well said.

P's would a blow job cheer u up? "

I'm beginning to feel like you're stalking me through the forums

Be quick; I've got to delete myself soon

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By *hazkiandCouple
over a year ago

crawley


"Good for you for never slagging her mother off, I hate it when one parent does that no matter how shit the other is.

Looks like you've brought her up well xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

P's would a blow job cheer u up?

I'm beginning to feel like you're stalking me through the forums

Be quick; I've got to delete myself soon "

Nah that was asking for a shag!

Blowjob was the swingers version of a hug lol

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

Sorry but what are you ranting about? Im frekin proud!!!

I get where you're coming from with ex's and kids but by the sounds of it your daughter knows who has raised her and you should be proud of her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

P's would a blow job cheer u up?

I'm beginning to feel like you're stalking me through the forums

Be quick; I've got to delete myself soon

Nah that was asking for a shag!

Blowjob was the swingers version of a hug lol "

I thought I'd worked it all out but apparently not

I've given a lot of swingers hugs these past couple of years. There must be lots of guys feeling all warm inside from the hugs I gave them

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

Take it you don't like her mother then

Good on you for looking after your daughter

Sorry no hug from me, will a handshake suffice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry but what are you ranting about? Im frekin proud!!!

I get where you're coming from with ex's and kids but by the sounds of it your daughter knows who has raised her and you should be proud of her "

I'm ranting because I've never slagged my ex off before. I've moaned a bit to my mother on occasion. I cried into my pillow a few nights at first but that passed.

I'm ranting because she's hurt my daughter. She made her cry.

She'll be home later tonight. Big hug will be waiting her. One of those all enveloping hugs where you disappear into your parental safe place and smell all those familiar smells and know nothing can touch you.

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk


"Sorry but what are you ranting about? Im frekin proud!!!

I get where you're coming from with ex's and kids but by the sounds of it your daughter knows who has raised her and you should be proud of her

I'm ranting because I've never slagged my ex off before. I've moaned a bit to my mother on occasion. I cried into my pillow a few nights at first but that passed.

I'm ranting because she's hurt my daughter. She made her cry.

She'll be home later tonight. Big hug will be waiting her. One of those all enveloping hugs where you disappear into your parental safe place and smell all those familiar smells and know nothing can touch you. "

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

My dad raised me.

Well done to all parents I say. Male or female.

To quote your post ....

"Someone had a go at her mum when they were on a night out pointing out how little effort she's made over the past 22 years"

Someone ?

Hope your daughter is safe and sound and soon back with you.

Discussions like the above should be kept for times put aside for it. A night out shouldn't be ruined by it.

As for the rellies 'having a go' their energy would have been better smoothing things over.

If your daughter wants to get to know her mum I hope there's a time when they can speak without anger.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The someone was another 'rellie'.

My daughter has been trying to get some kind of relationship for years.

When we split my ex saw her once a few months later and brought her home several days early.

I met up with her then boyfriend a few years later and he told me how she just wanted to go out drinking rather than seeing our child.

She dropped off the scene for seven years until my daughter asked me to track her down. Which I did. Her relationship with the rest of that side of her family is fairly good. It's just her mum who's too self centred.

She's had two more children since and by all accounts they are wild, disrespectful, rude products of a useless mother.

Like many single parents, I wish I'd found a better person to have children with. I eventually found my soul mate and between us we have brought up both hers and my two children. Yes; I picked a second dud who gave me my other daughter. She was abusive and I had a real fight to get my second daughter safe.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

X

You're daughter will make up her own mind about her mum I'm sure.

Glad you have someone to love and trust finally Rachael x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you. We've been together for about thirteen years. She's very special.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you. We've been together for about thirteen years. She's very special. "

It's nice to hear you've found that special someone sounds like you've had a very tough run, but hopefully the hardest is behind you. Much respect, and a swingers hug your way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like, as long as you are there for her, she'll be fine, you both have each other. x

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