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By *onkeyandBones OP   Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Why send a friend request without messaging first? If you are interested then surely a message is better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women do it all the time they are notorious for it on here. Rather than a polite hello I have 1p women a day just friend requesting for private pictures or message rude rude sexual messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 women*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are nosy about friends only photos, I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women do it all the time they are notorious for it on here. Rather than a polite hello I have 1p women a day just friend requesting for private pictures or message rude rude sexual messages."

Ive never had friend request off a female however get around 50 a day from men, none of them making effort to message, and i bet a lot of women and couples would agree. Id be interested to see how many men claim to get friend requests from these notorious women you mention

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By *onkeyandBones OP   Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Everyone is as bad though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand them either. We get them from men mostly, but also couples.

And we don't have any photos in our friends gallery, so it makes no sense

-Courtney

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By *onkeyandBones OP   Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Oh we have, but then again they are normally unverified profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be sneaky and wait till there off line and accept it have a gander at there pics then cancel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And also, now if someone sends me a random request I block them. If they can't respect me enough to read my profile properly then the odds are that they won't respect me in an intimate situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women do it all the time they are notorious for it on here. Rather than a polite hello I have 1p women a day just friend requesting for private pictures or message rude rude sexual messages.

Ive never had friend request off a female however get around 50 a day from men, none of them making effort to message, and i bet a lot of women and couples would agree. Id be interested to see how many men claim to get friend requests from these notorious women you mention"

Honestly you don't understand, at least 5 female friend requests per day and the ones not friend requesting usually message with fiddle me and go or bang me hard.. no hello at all.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I usually send a message back saying, How can we possibly be friends if we've never spoken? Most I never hear another word from, but have and still do chat to some of those who have responded positively

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually send a message back saying, How can we possibly be friends if we've never spoken? Most I never hear another word from, but have and still do chat to some of those who have responded positively "

Just block a d delete bud if women want to be vulgar they ain't worth your time. I've blocked loads for not taking the time to construct a message or random requests!

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By *onkeyandBones OP   Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We are the same! We've have 5 requests for same couple and no message! They are now blocked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I add them, just to block them when they moan about me not talking to them...it's fun.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Be sneaky and wait till there off line and accept it have a gander at there pics then cancel "

i do this whenever i get a random request

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women do it all the time they are notorious for it on here. Rather than a polite hello I have 1p women a day just friend requesting for private pictures or message rude rude sexual messages.

Ive never had friend request off a female however get around 50 a day from men, none of them making effort to message, and i bet a lot of women and couples would agree. Id be interested to see how many men claim to get friend requests from these notorious women you mention

Honestly you don't understand, at least 5 female friend requests per day and the ones not friend requesting usually message with fiddle me and go or bang me hard.. no hello at all."

Sounds more like what a man would write, you sure they not fake females lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't send requests without asking first and then only after chatting. The ones we receive some we wait till their offline to have a nosy then delete but mainly leave them sitting there. Once every couple of months do a batch delete so they can't send another as had some as soon as you delete resend.

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By *onkeyandBones OP   Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I think you are right about them being fake females! The majority of them are from men then couples then the odd women!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you are right about them being fake females! The majority of them are from men then couples then the odd women! "

Trust me they are all genuine females, the site has a shed load of females on here that don't contribute on forums. They hurrendous with the requests and messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo fakes. Just blokes after pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get it all the time from single males, when I met couples, they were no different and in fact one couple requested 7 times over one weekend so I left it hanging as that way they can't request again. Every now and again, I have a cull and mass delete the lot

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By *hechairman18Man
over a year ago

Salford Quays , Manchester


"Be sneaky and wait till there off line and accept it have a gander at there pics then cancel "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as said before people just want to perv your friends only pics,,

though they must find it slightly annoying when they see mine,

as there all of my cat wearing a selection of silly hats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cor, the bare faced cheek of it!! I think its a bit pointless and somewhat rude but I just delete them. I only add people I've met and will probably meet again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making pics friends only is completely understandable

But! Surely that must mean unsolicited friends requests are part and parcel of the territory,

Not saying people shouldn't have friends only pics by any means, and people should have read profile first fully agreed

But if there are friend only pics, then an understanding of the users the site has must mean there should be some acceptance of uninvited friend requests

An "It is what it is" situation

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

I have them from all three groups of people .... just block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have them from all three groups of people .... just block them."

Yeah she blocked me

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