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By *issHottieBottie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent

When you get invited to parties/baby showers etc by family members that you aren't close to, don't speak to from one year to the next unless it's at one of these events and aren't bothered either way..

Do you..

1. Go even though you REALLY don't want to

2. Honestly say that you arent going coz you don't want to

3. Make up some excuse as to why you won't be there..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always 2 .

No problem at all in having to remember what excuse we concocted .

And time is too short to waste it doing anything we don't want to do

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By *CoastFunMan
over a year ago

Southampron

3. You already have a prior arrangement so apologies but I cannot make it.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

4. Tell them I won't be there as I have another party/event/other to go to. I seriously rarely have spare time. My family is getting to the point where we are sorting the date we are all available for our Christmas 2016 get together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go if I don't have a reasonable excuse to not go. To be honest, I rarely don't want to do stuff.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

2. I'm 54, don't see why I should do anything I don't want to or justify it.

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By *issHottieBottie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"Always 2 .

No problem at all in having to remember what excuse we concocted .

And time is too short to waste it doing anything we don't want to do "

See this is what I would want to do. And I wouldn't be offended at all if someone did the same to me. But I get called a misery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 - no messing, no hiding, everyone knows where they stand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to do 3....then I moved to the UK and now my answer is 2.

See OP, all you have to do is move far enough away that people don't even ask

-Courtney

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"When you get invited to parties/baby showers etc by family members that you aren't close to, don't speak to from one year to the next unless it's at one of these events and aren't bothered either way..

Do you..

1. Go even though you REALLY don't want to

2. Honestly say that you arent going coz you don't want to

3. Make up some excuse as to why you won't be there.."

I always get nagged at by my family because I often don't want to go to things like that. I'm usually already busy that day when asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone that knows me will know my answer will be number 2

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