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"Not a great deal, I'm going to chameleons tonight, got a pack of bud £5, £6 each way in a taxi, in the summer I have been know to walk there so only get taxi home, free entry so will cost me £17 tonight £11 if I walk there, I'm waiting to see if the rain holds or not before I decide " Walk via my house lol | |||
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"Not a great deal, I'm going to chameleons tonight, got a pack of bud £5, £6 each way in a taxi, in the summer I have been know to walk there so only get taxi home, free entry so will cost me £17 tonight £11 if I walk there, I'm waiting to see if the rain holds or not before I decide " | |||
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"Women (myself probably £15) as my local club is free for single women. Single men have to take a small mortgage out " Yep single guys do seem to get the rough end of it, and you do get some good genuine guys | |||
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"Over £100 train, taxi, accommodation, new outfit, drink.. " Now you've mentioned outfits you've taken the thread to a whole new level | |||
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"Women (myself probably £15) as my local club is free for single women. Single men have to take a small mortgage out Yep single guys do seem to get the rough end of it, and you do get some good genuine guys " You do I have met some really lovely guys at clubs and a few that I just wanted to kick them in the balls but that statement goes for single women and couples also. | |||
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"Over £100 train, taxi, accommodation, new outfit, drink.. Now you've mentioned outfits you've taken the thread to a whole new level " if I went often I wouldn't buy a new outfit each time, but it does make me laugh when a local guy moans he's paid £30 entrance and I've paid nothing, yet the £30 is the entire cost of his night and mind is far more | |||
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"Not a great deal, I'm going to chameleons tonight, got a pack of bud £5, £6 each way in a taxi, in the summer I have been know to walk there so only get taxi home, free entry so will cost me £17 tonight £11 if I walk there, I'm waiting to see if the rain holds or not before I decide Walk via my house lol " Get lost that's well out my way I go through moxley I'll see you there | |||
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"Not a great deal, I'm going to chameleons tonight, got a pack of bud £5, £6 each way in a taxi, in the summer I have been know to walk there so only get taxi home, free entry so will cost me £17 tonight £11 if I walk there, I'm waiting to see if the rain holds or not before I decide Walk via my house lol Get lost that's well out my way I go through moxley I'll see you there " Well that answered my last PM lol | |||
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"Not a great deal, I'm going to chameleons tonight, got a pack of bud £5, £6 each way in a taxi, in the summer I have been know to walk there so only get taxi home, free entry so will cost me £17 tonight £11 if I walk there, I'm waiting to see if the rain holds or not before I decide Walk via my house lol Get lost that's well out my way I go through moxley I'll see you there Well that answered my last PM lol " Haha I read that after I posted I feel bad now, I feel obligated to pop over | |||
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"Not a great deal, I'm going to chameleons tonight, got a pack of bud £5, £6 each way in a taxi, in the summer I have been know to walk there so only get taxi home, free entry so will cost me £17 tonight £11 if I walk there, I'm waiting to see if the rain holds or not before I decide Walk via my house lol Get lost that's well out my way I go through moxley I'll see you there Well that answered my last PM lol Haha I read that after I posted I feel bad now, I feel obligated to pop over " Lol no it's ok moxley will miss you | |||
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"I don't do it the club at Heathrow adfabs wants £75 for me just to get in without travel expenses drinks and hotel just wouldn't consider it at those prices and no guarantee of anything xx" Think we would have ventured out to other clubs but with membership fees and entrance fees and not knowing if we'd ever go again we stick to the devil we know. Wow £75 just to get in....... | |||
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"I don't do it the club at Heathrow adfabs wants £75 for me just to get in without travel expenses drinks and hotel just wouldn't consider it at those prices and no guarantee of anything xx" There is a brothel close-by and they almost guarantee sex for £75. Have you triied that, instead? | |||
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"£15 including petrol and entrance fee " You are cheap date; I'll take you out | |||
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"We usually spend somewhere in the region of £110 but that's including Accommodation, Petrol, Drinks, Admission, Which we think is decent and we do travel out a bit. How much do you guys spend as it can get very expensive and especially for single guys...." Probably similar for us too depending on where we stay. I spent 140 in the pub last night having a meal and drinks and no sex... So looks clubs look like a bargain to me. D | |||
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"Either free entry or £10, depending on the club £9.99 for a nice bottle of wine which I allways buy in advance when on offer Gasoline between £5 - £20, depending how far and traffic £4.99 condoms, which are not all used; sometimes, none are used! £9.99 for the pizza on my way back home; ESSENTIAL " Oh yes! How could we forget, bagels, samosas and salt beef sandwich for Mr on the way home from the 24 hour bagelery in Hackney | |||
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"If i go to OP4F on a Sunday its £25 in,£1 for a locker,4 quid for a bottler of cider.So a cheap night out really." Don't forget to leave a £1 tip for the lovely ladies behind the bar there; xxx | |||
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"In the comments a lot say they pay for condoms is that a preference or that the club don't provide? Every club we ever been to its standard to have them in the play area." I use latex free and prefer to have my own on hand. | |||
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"In the comments a lot say they pay for condoms is that a preference or that the club don't provide? Every club we ever been to its standard to have them in the play area." OP4F sells a load of them for £1. I think one can purchase these at a low cost at AbFab too (don't rely on it as I don't know for certain; just that once this guy did not have condoms with him and when I told him that I don't want sex without, he returned 10 mins later with a few) I just prefer the ones which I have purchased myself. These hardly get used as, invariably, the guy pulls out his own citing that mine must be standard size and he needs XXL | |||
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"Not a great deal, I'm going to chameleons tonight, got a pack of bud £5, £6 each way in a taxi, in the summer I have been know to walk there so only get taxi home, free entry so will cost me £17 tonight £11 if I walk there, I'm waiting to see if the rain holds or not before I decide Walk via my house lol Get lost that's well out my way I go through moxley I'll see you there Well that answered my last PM lol Haha I read that after I posted I feel bad now, I feel obligated to pop over Lol no it's ok moxley will miss you " If anyone passing the Aldi in Moxley just realised I'm out of coffee.... | |||
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"£30 entry £10 diesel £10/20 drinks" £50/60 to 'maybe' get a shag? I don't think so. | |||
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"£30 entry £10 diesel £10/20 drinks £50/60 to 'maybe' get a shag? I don't think so. " the deisel and drink money your gonna spend anywhere. 30 quids not a lot its 20 odd for the pics and no fuckers made a decent film in ten years | |||
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"£30 entry £10 diesel £10/20 drinks £50/60 to 'maybe' get a shag? I don't think so. " I think the idea that it's to 'maybe get a shag' is what makes people react like it's outrageous. It's a night out with like minded people. It may or may not lead to a shag but if you go in expecting to get one because you handed over your cash you're limiting your night before you've even begun. I get really annoyed when I read club reviews that say, No one was playing. Well, if that's what you want and expect get it started! Last weekend I went to a club party with some friends. I saw a couple of them last night and the reflection on what made the previous weekend's club party good was that we danced a lot! | |||
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"£30 entry £10 diesel £10/20 drinks £50/60 to 'maybe' get a shag? I don't think so. " I dont see it as paying to get a shag as do many others, theres been times ive gone and socialised and made friends for future meets and also picked up veris too Its about the bigger picture of profile building and making good friends for me | |||
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"£30 entry £10 diesel £10/20 drinks £50/60 to 'maybe' get a shag? I don't think so. " Yes only, but don't you realise it's a 'cheap night out'?? Who knew so many single guys went out and drank cognac and champers all night, bought drinks for the whole crowd in every boozer they went in, tip all the bar staff, neck a few oysters then fly home in the hired-for-da-night Lear jet? | |||
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"I don't do it the club at Heathrow adfabs wants £75 for me just to get in without travel expenses drinks and hotel just wouldn't consider it at those prices and no guarantee of anything xx Think we would have ventured out to other clubs but with membership fees and entrance fees and not knowing if we'd ever go again we stick to the devil we know. Wow £75 just to get in......." yes its almost like paying for sex and am told a lot of out of shape older people go because they can afford it and its only way they can get sex cheaper to go to weight watchers surely I personally don't have a problem with the larger woman well some of them | |||
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"The cost for a night out is cheaper than going to a nightclub, yes we pay more for entry, but it is worth every penny spent. For my nights out I spend approx £50 that includes entry fee, fuel and drinks there. Reasonable fee considering the fun I have when I'm there. " Which nightclubs are you going? No nightclub near me is anywhere near the cost of the nearest swingers club too me. | |||
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"I only go to Chams, Darlston and only go to the BBW nights as a guest from here so I don`t have to include cost of a single guy`s membership (haven`t been lucky enough to get a membership as yet ) My costs are :- £80 for diesel (Lead-footing it in an older Land Rover Discovery from Dorset) £30-£45 for the hotel room depending on how quickly I`ve booked and if I`ve had breakfast £33 entrance (£34 if I pay with a card) £? Alkyhole (if I bring any!) £? soft drinks Condoms Food/drink on the way up I could go much more locally but Chams is my No.1 choice of club so it makes it worthwhile for me. " Couldn't you use some red diesel in that Landrover? Just trying save you some money | |||
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"Compare like for like. A lot of people saying it's an expensive night out drinking in city centre for example. It seems most people going to clubs dont drink. So they are saving money right there. If I went out with my mates and didn't drink it would be a real cheap night. Cost of entry to the club is the only differing factor full stop. You can stay over or not if you go to a club or have a night out. Ladies you might get a new outfit if you go to a club or on a night out. There are travel costs to consider for a club or a night out. You can have a good time with like minded people if you go to a club or have a night out. Nightclubs charge an entry fee a lot lower than swingers clubs. I dont know of any that charge membership fees. Certainly not the 50 quid and upwards I hear about swinger venues. Im not saying to anyone don't go. Im just pointing out that this is the reason a lot won't go. Yeah I've heard the argument about budgeting and thats fair enough. I Budget for gigs, nights out etc. It just simply doesn't make sense financially to a lot of people. To others it's nothing. We're all different." I'm going out tonight, on a like for life comparison (without the sex, obviously). I am expecting to spend about £60 tonight. | |||
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"Compare like for like. A lot of people saying it's an expensive night out drinking in city centre for example. It seems most people going to clubs dont drink. So they are saving money right there. If I went out with my mates and didn't drink it would be a real cheap night. Cost of entry to the club is the only differing factor full stop. You can stay over or not if you go to a club or have a night out. Ladies you might get a new outfit if you go to a club or on a night out. There are travel costs to consider for a club or a night out. You can have a good time with like minded people if you go to a club or have a night out. Nightclubs charge an entry fee a lot lower than swingers clubs. I dont know of any that charge membership fees. Certainly not the 50 quid and upwards I hear about swinger venues. Im not saying to anyone don't go. Im just pointing out that this is the reason a lot won't go. Yeah I've heard the argument about budgeting and thats fair enough. I Budget for gigs, nights out etc. It just simply doesn't make sense financially to a lot of people. To others it's nothing. We're all different. I'm going out tonight, on a like for life comparison (without the sex, obviously). I am expecting to spend about £60 tonight. " Bet your not paying 30-50 quid to get in anywhere though lol. | |||
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"Compare like for like. A lot of people saying it's an expensive night out drinking in city centre for example. It seems most people going to clubs dont drink. So they are saving money right there. If I went out with my mates and didn't drink it would be a real cheap night. Cost of entry to the club is the only differing factor full stop. You can stay over or not if you go to a club or have a night out. Ladies you might get a new outfit if you go to a club or on a night out. There are travel costs to consider for a club or a night out. You can have a good time with like minded people if you go to a club or have a night out. Nightclubs charge an entry fee a lot lower than swingers clubs. I dont know of any that charge membership fees. Certainly not the 50 quid and upwards I hear about swinger venues. Im not saying to anyone don't go. Im just pointing out that this is the reason a lot won't go. Yeah I've heard the argument about budgeting and thats fair enough. I Budget for gigs, nights out etc. It just simply doesn't make sense financially to a lot of people. To others it's nothing. We're all different. I'm going out tonight, on a like for life comparison (without the sex, obviously). I am expecting to spend about £60 tonight. Bet your not paying 30-50 quid to get in anywhere though lol." clubs sell booze, thats the point. swingers clubs dont sell ewt. get a girl off fab an it'll only cost ya 20 quid | |||
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"Compare like for like. A lot of people saying it's an expensive night out drinking in city centre for example. It seems most people going to clubs dont drink. So they are saving money right there. If I went out with my mates and didn't drink it would be a real cheap night. Cost of entry to the club is the only differing factor full stop. You can stay over or not if you go to a club or have a night out. Ladies you might get a new outfit if you go to a club or on a night out. There are travel costs to consider for a club or a night out. You can have a good time with like minded people if you go to a club or have a night out. Nightclubs charge an entry fee a lot lower than swingers clubs. I dont know of any that charge membership fees. Certainly not the 50 quid and upwards I hear about swinger venues. Im not saying to anyone don't go. Im just pointing out that this is the reason a lot won't go. Yeah I've heard the argument about budgeting and thats fair enough. I Budget for gigs, nights out etc. It just simply doesn't make sense financially to a lot of people. To others it's nothing. We're all different. I'm going out tonight, on a like for life comparison (without the sex, obviously). I am expecting to spend about £60 tonight. Bet your not paying 30-50 quid to get in anywhere though lol. clubs sell booze, thats the point. swingers clubs dont sell ewt. get a girl off fab an it'll only cost ya 20 quid " Some swingers clubs are fully licensed and do sell booze. I'd have to drink a fair bit of self taken booze to recoup the cost of the entrance fee still in a take your own place. I'll look into that actually. Might swing my decision. Pun intended. | |||
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" Couldn't you use some red diesel in that Landrover? Just trying save you some money " Of course I couldn`t use "cherry"!!! | |||
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"The cost for a night out is cheaper than going to a nightclub, yes we pay more for entry, but it is worth every penny spent. For my nights out I spend approx £50 that includes entry fee, fuel and drinks there. Reasonable fee considering the fun I have when I'm there. Which nightclubs are you going? No nightclub near me is anywhere near the cost of the nearest swingers club too me." For a decent night out in london,I can spend far more than £50 | |||
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"Compare like for like. A lot of people saying it's an expensive night out drinking in city centre for example. It seems most people going to clubs dont drink. So they are saving money right there. If I went out with my mates and didn't drink it would be a real cheap night. Cost of entry to the club is the only differing factor full stop. You can stay over or not if you go to a club or have a night out. Ladies you might get a new outfit if you go to a club or on a night out. There are travel costs to consider for a club or a night out. You can have a good time with like minded people if you go to a club or have a night out. Nightclubs charge an entry fee a lot lower than swingers clubs. I dont know of any that charge membership fees. Certainly not the 50 quid and upwards I hear about swinger venues. Im not saying to anyone don't go. Im just pointing out that this is the reason a lot won't go. Yeah I've heard the argument about budgeting and thats fair enough. I Budget for gigs, nights out etc. It just simply doesn't make sense financially to a lot of people. To others it's nothing. We're all different. I'm going out tonight, on a like for life comparison (without the sex, obviously). I am expecting to spend about £60 tonight. Bet your not paying 30-50 quid to get in anywhere though lol." No, I didn't have to pay to get in as it was an arranged party in a bar but I have paid to get into 'ordinary' nightclubs. Standard drinks (not cocktails or Champagne etc.) were around £8 each so that was £50 just for my small group of friends last night. | |||
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"£30 entry £10 diesel £10/20 drinks £50/60 to 'maybe' get a shag? I don't think so. Yes only, but don't you realise it's a 'cheap night out'?? Who knew so many single guys went out and drank cognac and champers all night, bought drinks for the whole crowd in every boozer they went in, tip all the bar staff, neck a few oysters then fly home in the hired-for-da-night Lear jet? " | |||
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