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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My dad was such a great guy.

He always made the time.

For me and little sister.

Life really was sublime.

He'd make us laugh and smile, and show us how to love.

The world, and people round us and everything above.

He really cared and listened to what we had ta say.

And that great man, he made us,some of what we are today.

But nature is a cruel bitch, and only takes the best.

And long ago it may have been, she took him down to rest.

Its over 30 years now dad,

And i still miss you everyday.

But still remember your great smile and what you had to say.

Today would have been your birthday and I still remember you.

As if it all was yesterday, to your memory I am true

So daddy if ya hear my voice, I have one thing to say.

To me you were the greatest, happy birthday xx

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Its been 36 years since my dad passed

I was 10 and my sister was 3

He died on the 12th of December

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The reason for this thread is to remember all the people who have lost loved ones around this time of year

Love to you all

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Craig xx

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Aawww that has given me shivers xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That was beautiful... sorry craig I lost a very close friend around this time...I think about him every day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i lost mine on december 23th 1970 i still remember that day so clearly i was 10 yrs old.

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By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

Very nice thoughts and words. Look after those we love most in case it the last xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both of my parents are gone. My mum was 40 and my dad 50 when they had me. They had always wanted a little girl and decided to have one last try and my mum, even though she would have been happy with a healthy baby boy to add to her brood of 2 other boys, she was holding out hope for a little girl. Luckily she got her wish (though she dressed me in satin and lace and ribbons all the time and its her fault im still into "princesses" at 43 lol).

I knew Id lose them earlier than most kids but they were wonderful parents. They did spoil me and kept me close and up to the time they died I was still visiting my parents 5 days out of 7 and talking on the phone probably twice a day.

My dad died first in hospital, me and mum were with him. My brothers got to the hospital too late. Dad died with me and mum holding his hands.

My mum died of a sudden heart attack 8 years ago, on holiday with me and my boys in a caravan in Mabelthorpe. It was sudden and whilst my 12 year old ran to the reception of the Haven holiday site to get help, my mum died in my arms. I miss them both every day but I am happy that I was with them when they left this world and my face was the last face both of them saw.

Right better go and wipe the tears from my face now and get on and post drivel like I usually do

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

my heart goes out to anyone that has lost someone close to them xxx

luckily i have got both of my parents and 3 out of 4 gradparents, my grandad died when i was still quite young and so was shielded from the grief etc by my family

Craig - your post was very moving, your dad was obviously a wonderful guy and it has made me realise just how lucky i am to still have mine around xxx

that said i am going to go see mine now as he has just got back from Ireland

big loves to you all xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massive Yorkshire hugs for anyone who's lost anyone x

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Both of my parents are gone. My mum was 40 and my dad 50 when they had me. They had always wanted a little girl and decided to have one last try and my mum, even though she would have been happy with a healthy baby boy to add to her brood of 2 other boys, she was holding out hope for a little girl. Luckily she got her wish (though she dressed me in satin and lace and ribbons all the time and its her fault im still into "princesses" at 43 lol).

I knew Id lose them earlier than most kids but they were wonderful parents. They did spoil me and kept me close and up to the time they died I was still visiting my parents 5 days out of 7 and talking on the phone probably twice a day.

My dad died first in hospital, me and mum were with him. My brothers got to the hospital too late. Dad died with me and mum holding his hands.

My mum died of a sudden heart attack 8 years ago, on holiday with me and my boys in a caravan in Mabelthorpe. It was sudden and whilst my 12 year old ran to the reception of the Haven holiday site to get help, my mum died in my arms. I miss them both every day but I am happy that I was with them when they left this world and my face was the last face both of them saw.

Right better go and wipe the tears from my face now and get on and post drivel like I usually do "
very touching

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By *erekduvallCouple
over a year ago

swansea

My Mam died 9 yrs ago its her birthday soon , ,

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Beautiful words. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My dad was such a great guy.

He always made the time.

For me and little sister.

Life really was sublime.

He'd make us laugh and smile, and show us how to love.

The world, and people round us and everything above.

He really cared and listened to what we had ta say.

And that great man, he made us,some of what we are today.

But nature is a cruel bitch, and only takes the best.

And long ago it may have been, she took him down to rest.

Its over 30 years now dad,

And i still miss you everyday.

But still remember your great smile and what you had to say.

Today would have been your birthday and I still remember you.

As if it all was yesterday, to your memory I am true

So daddy if ya hear my voice, I have one thing to say.

To me you were the greatest, happy birthday xx

.

.

Its been 36 years since my dad passed

I was 10 and my sister was 3

He died on the 12th of December

.

.

The reason for this thread is to remember all the people who have lost loved ones around this time of year

Love to you all

.

.

Craig xx"

Awww how lovely and it tugged the heartstrings here .

Im so gonna miss a few dear people this xmas.

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By *ex.IncCouple
over a year ago

Castleford

How sad soapy as thats my birthday. I lost 3 members of close family on xmas day 12 years ago. Christmas has never been the same since..i hate it

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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I lost my mum 9 years ago this November the 5th gone, I miss her everyday.

Last week I was in Germany and went to pick up a box of chocolates that she especially loved, thinking, oh these will be great for........... I just stood in the shop and cried

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"I lost my mum 9 years ago this November the 5th gone, I miss her everyday.

Last week I was in Germany and went to pick up a box of chocolates that she especially loved, thinking, oh these will be great for........... I just stood in the shop and cried "

I did that the other week , I bought a bag of chocolate caramels for my dad, it wasn't until I got them home that the reality bit me on the arse

But a lovely poem Soapy xx

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Thanks so much Soapy, lost my dad in 1972 when he was killed overseas serving his country. He would be celebrating his birthday on December 26th.

Lovely poem

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

very moving craig

with love to anyone who misses someone close to them xxx

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Craig , fabulous words as always

Hugs

Femmefatale xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely lovely poem Craig, I have read it quite a few times now - even though your dad wasnt with you as long as other kids father's, at least your short time with him was spent with lovely memories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such lovely words craig, was my moms anniversary last week, it's been 3 years and still doesn't get easier, but I believe she's always with me. I take comfort in that, but I miss her so much, not just my mom but my best friend.

God bless xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks Craig, have recently lost someone so still a bit raw, but loved the sentiments behind your poem xxxx

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By *imnher2Woman
over a year ago

watford

my dads 10th aniversary on the 8th dec.. i miss him more and more it never gets any easier.. thank you for sharing that poem.. brought a tear to my eye xx

have a great christmas every1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still have both my parents (mum & stepdad, real father is alive too but haven't seen him for 20 years).

My mum's mum was born on Xmas Day and she died on Boxing Day. She loved Christmas but always complained she only got one present from everybody. She'd loved to have her b/day in the Spring or Summer.

My other three grandparents went long ago, I hardly remember their faces, but it's my own mum I'll miss the most when she goes as we're very close. Let's hope that's not for a good long while yet.

Great poem Craig, it really touched me man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That made me cry. My best friend has an inoperable brain tumour and at the moment he is doing ok, but he is living on borrowed time. In March they gave him 9 to 12 months and he's back at the hospital for more scan results next week. Just goes to show you've got to make the most of people while you can 'cos you just don't know how long any of us have got on this earth. i'm treasuring every minute I spend with him and that's what we all should do with our loved ones.x

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

Awwwwww Craigy...I too miss my lovely dad, we lost him 15 years ago on December 18th. I don't think you ever get over the loss....you get on with your life, but the loss is always with you. It is a lovely poem xxmwahxxx

(p.s. Do you want to buy a navy tshirt? )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Awwwwww Craigy...I too miss my lovely dad, we lost him 15 years ago on December 18th. I don't think you ever get over the loss....you get on with your life, but the loss is always with you. It is a lovely poem xxmwahxxx

(p.s. Do you want to buy a navy tshirt? )

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Mmm was going ta ask if would bring that on Sunday xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My dad is still with us but tra lost her brother this year and my oldest friend died in may. our thoughts go out to anyone missing loved one's this xmas

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

Beautiful Post Craig,

I lost my sister to cancer 14 years ago next March, She was only 30

She left behind three very young children, which my Mum to this day has brought up, a hard job at the best of times, but had to be done.

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

that was so so beautiful. i lost my dad in march and he would have been 78 tomorrow 4 dec, miss him as well and will always be remembered and loved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds like a great guy

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

both my dad and my ex father in law were going through cancer treatments at the same time, my dad in Canada ex's dad here.I lost my dad after his 11 year battle with various cancers on March 15th 2007 and my father in law passed away this year on March 14th.Miss him so much around Christmas as the last time I saw him in the flesh was when I went home for Christmas 2005 when my son was only a few months old.got one of the best memories on that trip, a short video of my Dad singing a song to my son that he used to sing to us when we were little...getting choked up just thinking about it...

very touching poem craig xxxx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

23 years ago one of my closest friends was killed by a d*unk driver two weeks before christmas, she left a 4 year old and a 6 year old. Her funeral was day before christmas eve. Always tough at this time of year no matter how long ago.

Jay lost his mum on boxing day when he was 15 and still thinks about it now 52 years later

Big hugs to you craigxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't miss my dad as such, as I left home when I was 14, and saw my folks once every 2-3y when I was an adult.

However, I still miss my late partner dearly 2y after his sudden death due to a boating accident.

Onwards and upwards, as I know he would not want to see me being sad.

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love


"My dad was such a great guy.

He always made the time.

For me and little sister.

Life really was sublime.

He'd make us laugh and smile, and show us how to love.

The world, and people round us and everything above.

He really cared and listened to what we had ta say.

And that great man, he made us,some of what we are today.

But nature is a cruel bitch, and only takes the best.

And long ago it may have been, she took him down to rest.

Its over 30 years now dad,

And i still miss you everyday.

But still remember your great smile and what you had to say.

Today would have been your birthday and I still remember you.

As if it all was yesterday, to your memory I am true

So daddy if ya hear my voice, I have one thing to say.

To me you were the greatest, happy birthday xx

.

.

Its been 36 years since my dad passed

I was 10 and my sister was 3

He died on the 12th of December

.

.

The reason for this thread is to remember all the people who have lost loved ones around this time of year

Love to you all

.

.

Craig xx"

God looked around his garden

and found an empty space

Then looked down upon this earth

and saw you tired face

He put is arms around you

and lifted you to rest

God's garden must be beautiful

He only takes the best

I lost my mum on the 18th of December 1977 she was only 39 and i was 18 and i still miss her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

God looked around his garden

and found an empty space

Then looked down upon this earth

and saw you tired face

He put is arms around you

and lifted you to rest

God's garden must be beautiful

He only takes the best

I lost my mum on the 18th of December 1977 she was only 39 and i was 18 and i still miss her. "

Beautiful xx

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