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does anyone actually read profiles?????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have had 4 friend requests to all by people we have never spoken to... I'm sure it states on our profile let's chat before becoming friends.... some of our pics are private so it stops the fakes jst waking over them or stealing um xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they do.

I have i don't do dirty chat on mine and i got asked if i'd like to do something different for a change and have dirty chat with him.

So yeah they read it, some people do not care.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes they do.

I have i don't do dirty chat on mine and i got asked if i'd like to do something different for a change and have dirty chat with him.

So yeah they read it, some people do not care."

It pisses me off xx I'd never dream of adding people or even chatting to um until I've read their profile at least twice to make sure I not missed anything x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

It may as well be written in Swahili for all it's worth to some people that's for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw, don't let them get to you. Just block them.

if they don't respect you then it's fine to just dismiss them and carry on enjoying your time on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It may as well be written in Swahili for all it's worth to some people that's for sure "

Your telling me lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Aw, don't let them get to you. Just block them.

if they don't respect you then it's fine to just dismiss them and carry on enjoying your time on here. "

I just send a sarcastic message lol n they soon disappear xx it's just piss anoring that they can't take time to read or take notice xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aw, don't let them get to you. Just block them.

if they don't respect you then it's fine to just dismiss them and carry on enjoying your time on here.

I just send a sarcastic message lol n they soon disappear xx it's just piss anoring that they can't take time to read or take notice xx"

haha. so long as you don't let them spoil it for you.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I read profiles - it's what they're there for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had someone want my number, omg dire. It's on my profile i don't give it out lol.

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By *otgymfitanymoreCouple
over a year ago

pontefract

We read profiles.... Often twice, wish folks would do the same!

Don't mind the "hey how are" messages as not everyone is good as opening messages.

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Some do not, saves so much time so I make a point of asking now if they have read the said fine print and I always read profiles

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I do.

Lots either don't or ignore what doesn't suit them.

"I know you don't/aren't ... but ..."

*BLOCK*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been having a nice chat with someone and they just had to spoil it all with mentioning they need a wank, more than once now...

Honestly, i will be able to fill this topic up with more shit like this.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"does anyone actually read profiles?????"

Yes, but in our defence, sometimes once us men have looked at the pictures all the blood leaves our brains and goes elsewhere, and all we can remember is "Phwoar"

(And possibly "I wonder if it's too early to wake Mrs ddc up yet....")

Mr ddc

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"

Honestly, i will be able to fill this topic up with more shit like this."

Givvus yer number n I'll make it up to you.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do some don't...ignore the ones that don't is my opinion...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Honestly, i will be able to fill this topic up with more shit like this.

Givvus yer number n I'll make it up to you.....

"

Tempted to block you, but you're fun so i won't.

Can't even be bothered to fill this topic, would be in here at least once an hour.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"

Tempted to block you, but you're fun so i won't. ."

You could at least have given me the first digit

(Sulking now)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't used to, but I do now and it actually helps when one reads and then write a personalised email message! Been lucky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It may as well be written in Swahili for all it's worth to some people that's for sure "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our experience so far is not many do, our profile states, we do not accept winks or friend invites, but we receive them daily, and last week after receiving one we sent a reply asking guy to read profile before sending friend invite and his reply was, F*** you its people like you time wasting who are up your own arses that don't meet and spoil this site, strange thing was we have several meets he had one, a bitter individual me thinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most do read them, but only take in the bits they like

I have had married guys message me saying how much they enjoyed my profile and asking to meet and I always ask them if they also enjoyed the bit where It says 'you must be single'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got to the second line and gave up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Tempted to block you, but you're fun so i won't. .

You could at least have given me the first digit

(Sulking now)

"

Fine, it's 0. But don't give it to anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most do read them, but only take in the bits they like

I have had married guys message me saying how much they enjoyed my profile and asking to meet and I always ask them if they also enjoyed the bit where It says 'you must be single'

"

I was polite on my profile regarding married men but gave up and changed the sentence to include the word cheaters

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"I think most do read them, but only take in the bits they like

I have had married guys message me saying how much they enjoyed my profile and asking to meet and I always ask them if they also enjoyed the bit where It says 'you must be single'

"

To be fair, it says 'you SHOULD be single' (and I'm sure there are times even Mrs ddc thinks 'I should be single'!)

Do I win a prize for reading it better than you did?

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"

Fine, it's 0. But don't give it to anyone else."

I always knew I could make you go 'Oh'!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I think most do read them, but only take in the bits they like

I have had married guys message me saying how much they enjoyed my profile and asking to meet and I always ask them if they also enjoyed the bit where It says 'you must be single'

"

I have loads of smokers that message me and say the same.

It only says twice on my profile - once in the summary of what I'm looking for and once in the text under 'deal breakers' - that I won't meet smokers.

Coincidentally, a fair proportion of them gave up a month or two ago. And yet, in two months time their profile will still say smoker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most do read them, but only take in the bits they like

I have had married guys message me saying how much they enjoyed my profile and asking to meet and I always ask them if they also enjoyed the bit where It says 'you must be single'

To be fair, it says 'you SHOULD be single' (and I'm sure there are times even Mrs ddc thinks 'I should be single'!)

Do I win a prize for reading it better than you did?

"

Interesting! I shall go change it now, to must be single

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

My profile says i don't accom... Yet 99% of the mail i get is... 'When are you free for me to come round' or 'why don't you pop the kettle on and invite me over '.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I think most do read them, but only take in the bits they like

I have had married guys message me saying how much they enjoyed my profile and asking to meet and I always ask them if they also enjoyed the bit where It says 'you must be single'

I was polite on my profile regarding married men but gave up and changed the sentence to include the word cheaters"

I use the word cheating because I will meet people playing with the knowledge and agreement of their partner, but not those cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Fine, it's 0. But don't give it to anyone else.

I always knew I could make you go 'Oh'!

"

It's a zero...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do but it seems most don't. I don't meet married/attached guys or smokers and only meet local guys who accommodate as I don't. This is all clear in the first few sentences of my profile but I often get messages from people I'm not looking for. A lot of time would be saved if people took the extra minute or so to read a profile. Then there are the ones that do read it but message anyway hoping you'd make an exception. Why of course, I didn't bother to write all that for nothing!!

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"

Fine, it's 0. But don't give it to anyone else.

I always knew I could make you go 'Oh'!

It's a zero... "

Buggar

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By *CoastFunMan
over a year ago

Southampron

Yes I read profiles and I don't send out messages to those whose preferences i don't meet, there is no point. Some profiles do come across quite militant and I understand why but those ones also put me on the back foot a little. I feel that person would just be trying to find something wrong with me regardless when a profile is like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have had 4 friend requests to all by people we have never spoken to... I'm sure it states on our profile let's chat before becoming friends.... some of our pics are private so it stops the fakes jst waking over them or stealing um xx"
Yes your profile is quite clear and I am sure lots of people fail to read and take in the information properly. Having read your profile "K" your pics are superb you have a lovely figure so I couldn't resist fabbing them mmmm you are a very sexy lady. David

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Fine, it's 0. But don't give it to anyone else.

I always knew I could make you go 'Oh'!

It's a zero...

Buggar

"

Oh yes.

There i'll let you have that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always read them.

Firstly because it gives me an idea as to what the the person expects or wants

And secondly to see if there's any common interests (and not just sexually).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont accept the requests, thats how easy it is lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope! Too busy wanking over ur pics!

Just seen ur pics....sorry what was the question??

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