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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Do you like getting random messages even if your not attracted the lady?

I'm going to send out lots of random messages today, hopefully make a few smile.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you like getting random messages even if your not attracted the lady?

I'm going to send out lots of random messages today, hopefully make a few smile."

Me, me - pick me. Pretty pleeeeeeease!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always a pleasure to be fabbed or messaged

I enjoy flirting, even if we both know it's not going to go anywhere, and besides some of my best friendships have arisen that way

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Do you like getting random messages even if your not attracted the lady?

I'm going to send out lots of random messages today, hopefully make a few smile.

Me, me - pick me. Pretty pleeeeeeease!"
but I'm sure you wouldn't want to receive messages from someone who makes silly generalizations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll take a smile on a Friday

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

When I get sent random messages, usually off the back of a forum post, they tend to come in 3's which can be a little frustrating because I'm not an octopus and can't type that quickly. Then my head goes into meltdown and I spontaneously combust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes its great...but tends to fade away very quickly after a message or two.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Depends on how mindless it is.

The really stupid ones make me push back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely get messages so they always appear random

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure you'll make many happy with a random message. I should think a lot of guys on here rarely get any messages other than replies. Chats usually start with guys or couples sending an initial message, how few Ladies NEED to message someone first?

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

You mean you can actually get messages on here....Wow

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I'm sure you'll make many happy with a random message. I should think a lot of guys on here rarely get any messages other than replies. Chats usually start with guys or couples sending an initial message, how few Ladies NEED to message someone first?"
well so far I've had 100% message me back so all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

count me in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure you'll make many happy with a random message. I should think a lot of guys on here rarely get any messages other than replies. Chats usually start with guys or couples sending an initial message, how few Ladies NEED to message someone first?well so far I've had 100% message me back so all good"

Exactly. For an SG the norm is - Read (No reply) or Deleted (Again no reply) Even if not interested it might help to be told what was wrong. I was told yesterday my profile lacked 'interest' so I've tried a re-write. Also my pic was not a turn on. Trouble there is what DO ladies or couples WANT to see?

So as you see, messages from a woman is a very different thing to ones from a man...

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By *CoastFunMan
over a year ago

Southampron


"I'm sure you'll make many happy with a random message. I should think a lot of guys on here rarely get any messages other than replies. Chats usually start with guys or couples sending an initial message, how few Ladies NEED to message someone first?well so far I've had 100% message me back so all good

Exactly. For an SG the norm is - Read (No reply) or Deleted (Again no reply) Even if not interested it might help to be told what was wrong. I was told yesterday my profile lacked 'interest' so I've tried a re-write. Also my pic was not a turn on. Trouble there is what DO ladies or couples WANT to see?

So as you see, messages from a woman is a very different thing to ones from a man..."

You're never going to have a profile that'll appeal to every female and couple on here. Their preferences will all vary wildly. My profile isn't the greatest, I'm just not that great when it comes to creative wording it would appear. Don't get stuck in the rut of trying to please all, it'll simply never happen. Just be yourself and you should eventually meet someone you click with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always nice to receive a message, from anyone who is friendly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I don't mind getting random mail, I generally get mail from some of the 'brain droppings' I leave in the forums. As I have no agenda to get laid, there's never pressure to steer conversations toward getting my hands in anyone's pants.

Replies usually guaranteed, unless the message is wanting something odd, like a lift to Tesco or to shit on my coffee table.

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By *uteguy06Man
over a year ago

Swindon

I love getting random messages but think I might of only ever had 1, I replied to her she replied again and then I messaged again and she never replied again after lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you like getting random messages even if your not attracted the lady?

I'm going to send out lots of random messages today, hopefully make a few smile."
I would luv to get random messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few replied to em then get blocked lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can send me a message if you like, that will be the first for about 3 weeks, the last one I had was from a guy who wanted to lift my shirt. grrrr i'm str8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nice to receive random messages if they're pleasant, gives a bit of 'feel good factor' especially if they're complimentary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can send me a message if you like, that will be the first for about 3 weeks, the last one I had was from a guy who wanted to lift my shirt. grrrr i'm str8 "
Or don't send me a message as I am over 60

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"You can send me a message if you like, that will be the first for about 3 weeks, the last one I had was from a guy who wanted to lift my shirt. grrrr i'm str8 Or don't send me a message as I am over 60 "
sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always nice getting messages, you won't know if you're attracted to them until you've spoken anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on; slip something in my inbox

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I love random messages, I reply to all.

C...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well I never expected that!

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