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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It would be nice to get a polite Thanks but no Thanks when you try to make contact, especially when you meet the requirements of the recipient, just no reply of any sorts can be cruel, I would prefer a rejection to nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be nice to get a polite Thanks but no Thanks when you try to make contact, especially when you meet the requirements of the recipient, just no reply of any sorts can be cruel, I would prefer a rejection to nothing"

You need to understand that normally when you start off you so reply. However, after the 50th message it gets a bit tedious. I had a profiles couple once so know first hand. Do not take it personally just move on to the next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You sometimes get far too many messages to reply to everyone. Have you tried writing more about yourself on your profile? Most people will check your profile before deciding whether to respond.

If it doesn't tell me much about them i would move on and delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you'd feel better with an inbox full of rejections? Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do reply to all messages as manners cost nothing even if only a polite not for me sorry good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So men are just as bad as women then for not replying to messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How does a 'no thanks' reply to every message make a difference? The outcome is still the same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be nice to get a polite Thanks but no Thanks when you try to make contact, especially when you meet the requirements of the recipient, just no reply of any sorts can be cruel, I would prefer a rejection to nothing"

It's annoying,but you just have to deal with it,and move on...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You seem to be doing really well on here after five months.

Just don't take a no reply personally.

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

It helps if people read the profile

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By *CoastFunMan
over a year ago

Southampron


"It would be nice to get a polite Thanks but no Thanks when you try to make contact, especially when you meet the requirements of the recipient, just no reply of any sorts can be cruel, I would prefer a rejection to nothing"

No reply is rejection and you don't like that so I don't see how a no thanks message would be any different?

Last few messages I've sent out have simply been deleted. Ho hum, back to browsing no point dwelling on it one iota

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How does a 'no thanks' reply to every message make a difference? The outcome is still the same!"

We reply to messages from people that have read our profile, anyone that hasn't read it dont get replied to. You can't expect people to reply to every message that's sent, also people are turned off saying no thanks coz a lot of times when ya do that you get a nasty ass reply...ain't nobody got time for daaaat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv done the polite ty for messages but not what im looking for take care have fun. And had awful abuse back, so im afraid im amongst those ones that unless something really shines out, i dont reply. Guilty as charged, the few spoil it but its just not worth the grief. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try to reply if we have received a message from someone who has read our profile. But all to often our inbox gets full of desperate and disrespectful people. Means we spend too long pressing delete h x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies folks, all points taken on board and understood, thank you again

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I reply to all my messages, it's a pain, especially when 80% haven't even bothered to read the profile.

OP do you include a face pic or a cock pic with your first message?

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