FabSwingers.com forum: Won't meet you because...

By *4STY OP Woman
over a year ago

Luanda/Angola

Did you ever not met someone because it reminded or they look like someone you know. Like a relative, good friend...

I have this guy that keeps insisting in contacting me he looks so much like my ex partner

Which we have a bad relation now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting guts with the smae names as my kids ... creeps me out bigtime :/

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By *he Milf ClubCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Had a social with a guy once

He wanted to meet again. I said no you look like my dad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meeting guts with the smae names as my kids ... creeps me out bigtime :/"

Thats prob the best ass pic on here miss spankable...just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Transference is a real thing. Emotions and feelings are evoked when we recognise traits in someone else that remind us of another. It's natural. And unfortunately when those feelings are of a negative nature it can be very difficult to challenge.

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By *estsideukMan
over a year ago

Hatfield area

I've had it as an excuse twice now. One was incredibly apologetic. - a real shame but almost funny in the end.

I wonder if types attract then...? Nah. I'm a bloke - my type is narrowed down to "women"

(joke)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meeting guts with the smae names as my kids ... creeps me out bigtime :/"

I won't meet anyone with the same name as my late wife, mum or sisters. It's just never sat right with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would meet them as its NSA, so wouldn't matter lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meeting guts with the smae names as my kids ... creeps me out bigtime :/

I won't meet anyone with the same name as my late wife, mum or sisters. It's just never sat right with me

Hope they don't have popular names

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Meeting guts with the smae names as my kids ... creeps me out bigtime :/"
same for me oddly, thankfully most with his name are to young anyway

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By *smCouple
over a year ago

Liskeard

I can't meet anyone with the same name as my late husband. It hurts to much and feels weird..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!!!

Omg a fair few guys on here look like my uncle Jimmy haha. Some look like my brother. One reminded me of my cousin (female) he didn't look girly but had very similar eyes. I've noticed some guys look similar to some of my meets as well, can be a bit confusing at first.

Suppose when you have a family as big as mine it's gonna happen.

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By *etanreadyCouple
over a year ago

dover

we had a couple that wouldn`t meet us as my partner looked like her brother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on here but on POF. My ex of 9+ years was a petite Asian woman. Now I don't wanna message anybody who fits that description. Because I wouldn't want the woman to eventually find out and think I have 'a type'.

...saying that I do have a date with a petite Asian woman tomorrow...but she messaged me first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't meet anyone who reminds me of my old chum Ivor Titchycock ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a regular forum poster who looks the spitting image of a member of my immediate family in his avatar. I thought it was him the first ! Had to look twice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i couldnt meet anybody that looked like my family members lol oooh that would feel weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meeting guts with the smae names as my kids ... creeps me out bigtime :/

I won't meet anyone with the same name as my late wife, mum or sisters. It's just never sat right with me

Hope they don't have popular names

Two of them do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had this at chams this weekend... Mr suggested playing with a couple and I said no...As he isn't for me, and when asked why I had to say he looked like my step brother x

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By *huramMan
over a year ago

London

"I would meet them as its NSA, so wouldn't matter lol."

I could not care less if a woman has the same look or name or perfume or height or age or star sign or job or shoe size or dress size etc etc etc as my exes or family members.

I'm here to get laid.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

"I can't meet anyone with the same name as my late husband. It hurts to much and feels weird..

Was about to post similar.. was chatting to a guy for a couple of weeks, we got to arrange a meet, and he gave me his name and number - same name as hubby. I just couldn't go through with it, I was instantly in tears

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Yes!

I can't meet anyone with the same name as my son (deceased). I had a social with someone, he was nice but I couldn't take it any further as his mouth looked like my father's. I also met someone who looked like an uncle, by marriage, that I always found to be an obnoxious and arrogant idiot.

I did meet someone a few years ago where I would have taken it further but I reminded him of one of his cousins and he couldn't take it further. We just call each other Cuz in messages to this day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't meet anyone that resembled any member of my family or looked like a close friend. I'd find that way too weird!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a women socially on here with the same laugh as my mum....wasn't the greatest experience.

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

There is a guy who attends the greedy girl afternoon I go to who looks quite like my dad. I've turned down play, and am now a little worried if I am in a public room and catch sight of him watching....that would be weird too

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By *tretchygirl and tintinWoman
over a year ago

Dartford

I turned someone down who told me I looked like his sister

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By *4STY OP Woman
over a year ago

Luanda/Angola

I also got a message from a guy that look my eldest son. It's so weird. Names also feel weird. Problem my eldest son's name is very common on fab seems like a lot live to use his name as fake name on here. Bad start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I turned someone down who told me I looked like his sister

Same here, and that i was cute. Not sure what he was after tbh.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not on here but years ago on a dating site chat was going really well but exchanged pics and he looked exactly like my uncle! Just couldn't do it.

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