FabSwingers.com forum: Can singletons be swingers ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Following on from a post in another forum ....

Has the definition of swinging moved on from the 1970s and the idea of wife swapping ?

What does swinging mean to you?

Do Swingles have a place in swinging or should it just be couples?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grabs a chair and popcorn and waits for the fun to start.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Grabs a chair and popcorn and waits for the fun to start.

Sweet or savoury?

But what's your opinion ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a couple wants a threesome, they'll need a single man or woman.

Does that mean the couple are swingers but the single person isn't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Grabs a chair and popcorn and waits for the fun to start.

Sweet or savoury?

But what's your opinion ?"

Savoury please. Single and mingling here. I do not think it is helpful to put labels on people. This is a site for meeting others for sex and for friendship, in many cases. There are so many single people signed up here it can not be thought of as primarily a 'couples' site.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Following on from a post in another forum ....

Has the definition of swinging moved on from the 1970s and the idea of wife swapping ?

What does swinging mean to you?

Do Swingles have a place in swinging or should it just be couples?

Does it matter?

Surely the important factor is everyone gets what they want from the site (as long as its legal) without being critised by others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A single who only meets other singles is not swinging. A single who joins others for group sex and/or goes to parties is swinging.

I view myself as a swinger (after years on the scene I think that's fair enough) but what I'm doing now is not swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told I'm not a proper swinger because I'm single but the same people have no issue inviting me to join in with them so who knows, and more importantly, who cares!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the term "swinger" is a bit silly, really. I am not a swinger, I sexually liberated. We meet singles and couples, we play privately and as a group, etc.

I doubt think putting a restrictive title on it does anyone any favors.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the term "swinger" is a bit silly, really. I am not a swinger, I sexually liberated. We meet singles and couples, we play privately and as a group, etc.

I doubt think putting a restrictive title on it does anyone any favors.

-Courtney"

this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the term "swinger" is a bit silly, really. I am not a swinger, I sexually liberated. We meet singles and couples, we play privately and as a group, etc.

I doubt think putting a restrictive title on it does anyone any favors.

-Courtney"

Sorry for my awful typing today. I re-read that and cringed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A single who only meets other singles is not swinging. A single who joins others for group sex and/or goes to parties is swinging.

I view myself as a swinger (after years on the scene I think that's fair enough) but what I'm doing now is not swinging"

I'll agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the term "swinger" is a bit silly, really. I am not a swinger, I sexually liberated. We meet singles and couples, we play privately and as a group, etc.

I doubt think putting a restrictive title on it does anyone any favors.

-Courtney

Sorry for my awful typing today. I re-read that and cringed

I think you should be made to type out those misspelled words 100 times

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

People like to put labels on things and put them in nice neat compartments

I'm more of a messy, jumbly sort of person and labels are pretty meaningless

As long as we're all having fun, does it really matter how we go about it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the term "swinger" is a bit silly, really. I am not a swinger, I sexually liberated. We meet singles and couples, we play privately and as a group, etc.

I doubt think putting a restrictive title on it does anyone any favors.

-Courtney

Sorry for my awful typing today. I re-read that and cringed

I think you should be made to type out those misspelled words 100 times

That would be an interesting find on my work computer

I refuse to do it on my useless phone keyboard which causes all these problems to begin with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the term "swinger" is a bit silly, really. I am not a swinger, I sexually liberated. We meet singles and couples, we play privately and as a group, etc.

I doubt think putting a restrictive title on it does anyone any favors.

-Courtney

Sorry for my awful typing today. I re-read that and cringed

I think you should be made to type out those misspelled words 100 times

That would be an interesting find on my work computer

I refuse to do it on my useless phone keyboard which causes all these problems to begin with. "

Do you use English or American spellings at work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it depends what you consider to be swinging.

Is it wife swapping? in that case to be a swinger you need to have a wife (or be one)

Or is it some one who likes group sex.

It's clear that a lot of people here like group sex be they married or other wise

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"A single who only meets other singles is not swinging. A single who joins others for group sex and/or goes to parties is swinging."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the term "swinger" is a bit silly, really. I am not a swinger, I sexually liberated. We meet singles and couples, we play privately and as a group, etc.

I doubt think putting a restrictive title on it does anyone any favors.

-Courtney

Sorry for my awful typing today. I re-read that and cringed

I think you should be made to type out those misspelled words 100 times

That would be an interesting find on my work computer

I refuse to do it on my useless phone keyboard which causes all these problems to begin with.

Do you use English or American spellings at work?"

I use American English, but I work in a field that uses American spellings often anyway, so I don't look so stupid

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I am a wanker

who sometimes swings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Singles looking exclusively for singles are dating, not swinging. Not saying they shouldn't be allowed on here or anything, though they'd probably find more fun on a dating site aimed at their needs but up to them how they use this site really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A single who only meets other singles is not swinging. A single who joins others for group sex and/or goes to parties is swinging.

This

And other combinations.

I think a swinger is a person. A state of mind. It refers to the person.

The "couples only" definition died out many years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Singles looking exclusively for singles are dating, not swinging. Not saying they shouldn't be allowed on here or anything, though they'd probably find more fun on a dating site aimed at their needs but up to them how they use this site really."

Singles looking exclusively for singles to fuck only are not dating.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

And what about the people on those dating sites who are looking for dates not fucks?

I don't believe that singles meeting for sex as they do here are dating. Dating to me is goi g for dinner, cinema, days out, meeting your friends/family etc. there's a difference there too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is meeting up to fuck a date? If so then couples are also dating,unless they're not fucking. If they're not fucking and only meeting socially should they be on here too? I don't date anyone from here,I don't want a bf or a relationship. I don't even want a social before I fuck.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I don't really care if I'm officially a swinger or not to be honest. I use the site to find casual sex. The fab site created for singles never really took off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Following on from a post in another forum ....

Has the definition of swinging moved on from the 1970s and the idea of wife swapping ?

What does swinging mean to you?

Do Swingles have a place in swinging or should it just be couples?

It would totally suck if singles weren't part of the swinging lifestyle . We love meeting single guys so it's a big part of the fun as far as we are concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

erm? what if they don't go on an actual date and just get down and dirty? whats it called then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yay !

And I thought we were the only ones like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liberated sex?

Hooking up?

dating?

swinging?

Meets?

who cares as long as the sex is good...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A single who only meets other singles is not swinging. A single who joins others for group sex and/or goes to parties is swinging.

This

And other combinations.

I think a swinger is a person. A state of mind. It refers to the person.

The "couples only" definition died out many years ago."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yay !

And I thought we were the only ones like this

Obviously not if you are managing to meet people regularly for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yay !

And I thought we were the only ones like this

I'm pretty good at determining whether I'm going to enjoy a person from here,just by chatting and maybe a phone call. Apart from a couple of times the man drank a bit too much I've had a lot of good times. I don't like crowds,being watched or having sex in places that may not be as hygienic as I'd like. So I stick to one to one meets. I may venture to a house party in the future. I don't call myself anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can anybody, anywhere, see anything in the description of this site, or in the terms and conditions, or the rules and regulations, that defines being a Swinger in terms of being part of a couple?

I can't see it - so I guess that it's up to us all to define ourselves as we want, to just be honest about it, and to just have fun...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always get confused by this as I'm a swingle, but have found swinging has evolved there are many swingles in the party scene it shouldn't be confused with dating as that is not what I do

sometimes I go to a room for mmf, ffm and alot of the time a mf

not into group/gangbang thing but always go to parties to meet couples and swingles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care if couples don't think I should be on here. I'm not stopping them from doing what they want. My sex life and being here has no impact on them. The site isn't couples looking for couples for straight swap,it encourages everyone who wants to do everything legal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yay !

And I thought we were the only ones like this

Obviously not if you are managing to meet people regularly for sex

I meant on the forum - perhaps I should have been more specific .

I have said many times on here that the whole concept of social meets , getting to know people first , making friends is not why we swing .

This often is met with derision on the forums , but outside the forums we seem to be very popular

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

There are so many people on sites like these. Surely there's something for everyone regardless of how you choose to 'swing' and I'm pretty sure no-one should actually care what works for other people. What works for you is what's important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single. I meet couples with a fuck buddy, and if I were to meet them one I would also class that as swinging. Singles meeting other singles isn't swinging. In my opinion anyway. People see things different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the term 'swinger' or 'swinging' has been watered down over several years. It seems to mean something different to many people.

Can a single be a swinger? Of course! How would all the couples, of different combinations have their 3somes or gbs? There is a place for everyone, or should be. Swinging as you can see by reading the forums is very diverse.

I guess there could be an argument for singles that only meet other singles, I once saw a post from a guy who said he would never stick his cock in a pussy that had just been vacated by another cock. That to me, made him not a swinger. I also have my doubts when you read a profile that says they wish to be wined and dined. To me that is more dating. That's not to say I think the same of meeting for a social first. Who knows what a mad axeman, or woman looks like? A social can help in most cases. It could be argued that a single who only meets other singles is just promiscuous.

Personally I am happy to meet singles and couples and have done! I am after all very diverse!

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By *ethepeopleMan
over a year ago

Near you

So consensus so far is swinging is open to all ! Single = one person couple = two people

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

The term 'wife swapping' doesn't sit well with me. It suggests that the woman of the couple has no say in what happens and is simply her husbands chattel.

I'm not a fan of labels either, but if it wasn't called swinging, what would we call it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Technically they cant be swingers cos it is between couples that swap, its just recently been popular to add singles to 3 sums, but singles in general are not swingers, they are described as "casual sex".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Technically they cant be swingers cos it is between couples that swap, its just recently been popular to add singles to 3 sums, but singles in general are not swingers, they are described as "casual sex"."

hi I'm casual sex

want a harribo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi I'm casual sex

want a harribo?

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YEs I was going to say "casual sexer's" not sure if its a word lol and hi yes would like a cola bottle and you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that woman off blue Peter on here then Valerie wasn't it?.....she was a singleton x so if she is I guess singletons can be swingers x

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i fuck

you fuck

he/ she/ it fucks

we fuck

you (pl) fuck

they fuck

i cum

you cum

he/she /it cums

we cum

you (pl) cum

they cum

everyone is happy...

what else matters??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi I'm casual sex

want a harribo?

YEs I was going to say "casual sexer's" not sure if its a word lol and hi yes would like a cola bottle and you?

Couldn't resist I'm feeling playful. You can have them all I want the eggs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi I'm casual sex

want a harribo?

YEs I was going to say "casual sexer's" not sure if its a word lol and hi yes would like a cola bottle and you?

Couldn't resist I'm feeling playful. You can have them all I want the eggs

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Yes its good being playful and yeah I can munch them all up as well mmmmm x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging come in different forms, you can go to clubs or parties, you can just have house meets and swap partners or if you are single and got more than 1 sexual partner you are a swinger if you are a couple you are swingers, if I could choose being label as swinger I feel lot happier than being label gay, bi, straight etc

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