FabSwingers.com forum: Blank Profiles

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There has been a rapid increase in the number of people joining Fab locally and that's fantastic. But on viewing a lot of these profiles, they contain little or no information. Is it really that much effort to write a bit about yourself or post a picture or 2?

I know people complain that some users don't read profiles, and therefore they question whether it's worth writing one.

Do any of you forumites ever message someone with a blank profile?

Personally I prefer for my mind to have a bit of stimulation before I consider messaging someone, I like people that make an effort.

Some of these blanks are getting verified too, so it's obviously working for them.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Personally I like well written informative profiles so I can get the gist of whether we will have a few things in common. I wouldn't message a blank profile as I'd have nothing to go on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont think ours is over informative but many say they like it - and when we meet say we are lovely - must be doing something right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just skip past profiles that are no interest to me....

When I receive messages from members with uninformative profiles, I simply reply to them with a polite no thanks....

Plenty profiles on that site that match my preference so no point worrying about those which don't....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just skip past profiles that are no interest to me....

When I receive messages from members with uninformative profiles, I simply reply to them with a polite no thanks....

Plenty profiles on that site that match my preference so no point worrying about those which don't....

I just skip over them. If they message, it's 50/50 on whether I'll even reply.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my pictures say far more than words ever could

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"my pictures say far more than words ever could

A picture is worth one thousand words....apparently

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm generally not interested in profiles with no blurb. I tend to reply with a no thanks. If someone comes back with a 'why not?' then it very much depends on what mood I'm in or whether I have time/can be bothered responding with helpful hints or tips.

I did it this morning. I'll let you know later if it made a blind but of difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my pictures say far more than words ever could

A picture is worth one thousand words....apparently

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am a millionaire ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm generally not interested in profiles with no blurb. I tend to reply with a no thanks. If someone comes back with a 'why not?' then it very much depends on what mood I'm in or whether I have time/can be bothered responding with helpful hints or tips.

I did it this morning. I'll let you know later if it made a blind but of difference.

You must be like some kind of saint lol

The odds are stacked against single guys as it is, why on Earth do some insist on being blankers?! Daft lads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did it this morning. I'll let you know later if it made a blind but of difference.

You must be like some kind of saint lol

The odds are stacked against single guys as it is, why on Earth do some insist on being blankers?! Daft lads."

Because they don't know that, think they'll come on here and be knee deep in women within a few hours? Maybe they just want to perv pics or the forum?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Personally I like well written informative profiles so I can get the gist of whether we will have a few things in common. I wouldn't message a blank profile as I'd have nothing to go on"

This

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I did it this morning. I'll let you know later if it made a blind but of difference.

You must be like some kind of saint lol

The odds are stacked against single guys as it is, why on Earth do some insist on being blankers?! Daft lads."

Nah... at home sick with too much time on my hands.

I guess I just think it's nice to be nice when I can be bothered. Not all newbies are eejits, some of them just have no idea how this place works. If they come in here with stupid questions they don't always go away with good advice. If you give someone decent advice and they don't take it then it's clear they're an eejit.

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

our profile says everythjng you need to know, if you can read the signs xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I did it this morning. I'll let you know later if it made a blind but of difference.

You must be like some kind of saint lol

The odds are stacked against single guys as it is, why on Earth do some insist on being blankers?! Daft lads.

Because they don't know that, think they'll come on here and be knee deep in women within a few hours? Maybe they just want to perv pics or the forum?"

I did wonder whether it was to look on the forum but then a fair few of them got verified. Also wondered whether they were wives looking for cheating husbands. Also considered they could be single guys trying to verify themselves..... or any of the above

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I can't actually remember when I wrote a proper profile, it wasn't straight away.

I needed time to construct it.

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

"I can't actually remember when I wrote a proper profile, it wasn't straight away.

I needed time to construct it.

And when we did spend time contructing it no one read it lol xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I can't actually remember when I wrote a proper profile, it wasn't straight away.

I needed time to construct it.

And when we did spend time contructing it no one read it lol xx"
I would say 80% of the messages I get have read my profile, so it works for me

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

"I can't actually remember when I wrote a proper profile, it wasn't straight away.

I needed time to construct it.

And when we did spend time contructing it no one read it lol xxI would say 80% of the messages I get have read my profile, so it works for me"

What gender usually messages you may I ask? J xx

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Maybe it suits their needs.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I can't actually remember when I wrote a proper profile, it wasn't straight away.

I needed time to construct it.

And when we did spend time contructing it no one read it lol xxI would say 80% of the messages I get have read my profile, so it works for me

What gender usually messages you may I ask? J xx"
mostly males, then TV's, then couples, and if I get messages from women its generally just to compliment me on something.

Obviously I do get the ones that don't read it but the ones that do far out way them.

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

"I can't actually remember when I wrote a proper profile, it wasn't straight away.

I needed time to construct it.

And when we did spend time contructing it no one read it lol xxI would say 80% of the messages I get have read my profile, so it works for me

What gender usually messages you may I ask? J xxmostly males, then TV's, then couples, and if I get messages from women its generally just to compliment me on something.

Obviously I do get the ones that don't read it but the ones that do far out way them.

Interesting, thank you xx

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Maybe it suits their needs. "

That is also a very good point. I never dish out advice unless they ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe it suits their needs. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess like everything else on here it is down to each person or couple to decide what they put in their profile, etc.

We probably wouldn't message anyone or reply to anyone with a blank profile or generally one with no pictures or verifications but at the same time our profile isn't overly descriptive and we have a limited number of public pics so maybe that's a bit hypocritical?

The exception would probably be if we've met someone at a social or chatted quite a bit on the forums or in the chat rooms which kind of overrides the profile. We often look at profiles when in chat or on the forum though to get a bit of an idea who people are and what they are about.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People behind the blank profiles always make for the best meets.

It's like sitting on Santa's knee and getting what you needed for Christmas - you win everytime.

No need to ask much, or see pics. Dead fit as they're used to making minimum efforts in real life. You can wear a paper bag, as you may not make their grade.

It's Fab lotto. Treat yourself.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"People behind the blank profiles always make for the best meets.

It's like sitting on Santa's knee and getting what you needed for Christmas - you win everytime.

No need to ask much, or see pics. Dead fit as they're used to making minimum efforts in real life. You can wear a paper bag, as you may not make their grade.

It's Fab lotto. Treat yourself."

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

At least the blank and clueless have a lot of well matched profiles to shag with. Pity they don't only contact each other.

Their interactions would be priceless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe it suits their needs. "

Exactly this.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Not much on a limited profile to spark my interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Sometimes less is more

I don't want to read war and peace

I want a quick idea of what sort of personality they have and a couple of pictures

Some people can say a lot in just a few sentences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they say " No blacks , No Asians " at the top

And insert " any funny word in your message, to show you have read the profile " at the end. The profile is fine with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will contribute to this thread later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know mines short but I'm not looking to attract no one. What I find a little stupid is the profiles that have like one line written but then they fill up the page with disclaimers and legal notices, it's like mate c'mon of all the pictures in all the lands I think yours are safe butt.

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

Also hate it if they have checked all the interests options, another pass for us xx

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