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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you accommodate if you were married? I'm having not much luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing people don't want to come to your place for fear of a compromise with your partner.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm guessing people don't want to come to your place for fear of a compromise with your partner."

True but finding someone that can accommodate close by is really hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need patience lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You need patience lol"

You say that a lot lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately that will always be an obstacle for you? You either meet at hotels or find someone who can. You may find someone who comes to your place but I may be cautious as I imagine they maybe the more desperate sorts !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Unfortunately that will always be an obstacle for you? You either meet at hotels or find someone who can. You may find someone who comes to your place but I may be cautious as I imagine they maybe the more desperate sorts ! "

Yes I think ur right there

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

*sits quietly in his greenhouse*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Unfortunately that will always be an obstacle for you? You either meet at hotels or find someone who can. You may find someone who comes to your place but I may be cautious as I imagine they maybe the more desperate sorts ! "

Why should they be desperate? Anymore desperate than meeting a couple or another single female?

I would always suggest caution for any single female meeting at their home. I would always suggest meeting in a public place for a social first. Then hopefully make a judgment on that whether you invite them back. Whether you are single or married!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need a hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a married woman at her home before while her hubby was out. Can't imagine what would have happened if he'd come back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You need a hotel "

Yes true or a nice single man that can accom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep searching. You'll find a guy close by in time who can accomodate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need a hotel

Yes true or a nice single man that can accom "

Sadly I'm too far away

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Keep searching. You'll find a guy close by in time who can accomodate "

Thanks and I'm not desperate either so I will wait for the right one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a woman who had a bf ....he came back unexpected it was amusing to say the least hiding in another room till he left and a bit hard to continue where we left off as kept thinking what if he comes back again ....so hotels are better in my opinion x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need patience lol

You say that a lot lol"
Yes I do, its fun lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need patience lol

You say that a lot lol"

Haribos?? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just gona say this - if a guy wrote this thread he would slaughtered for not saying he was married, called a cheater, asked how his wife would feel. But a woman posting who doesn't mention anything about being married on her profile? Hmmmm can't have it both ways, slightly hypocritical.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You need a hotel

Yes true or a nice single man that can accom

Sadly I'm too far away"

I know ur profile made me smile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm just gona say this - if a guy wrote this thread he would slaughtered for not saying he was married, called a cheater, asked how his wife would feel. But a woman posting who doesn't mention anything about being married on her profile? Hmmmm can't have it both ways, slightly hypocritical."

Not really ur business is it we all have needs and most men on here lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just gona say this - if a guy wrote this thread he would slaughtered for not saying he was married, called a cheater, asked how his wife would feel. But a woman posting who doesn't mention anything about being married on her profile? Hmmmm can't have it both ways, slightly hypocritical.

Not really ur business is it we all have needs and most men on here lie "

Pot kettle black

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not much luck eh? To be brutally honest your profile is quite negative, demanding and also pushes guys away unless they are "good looking" and you fancy them based on a picture. It does not seem to be an accommodation issue to me.

Those that can accommodate may well find you a bit too choosy and will go for a lady with fewer apparent hurdles to clear. Sorry about that but i recommend you don't jump into risking being found out at home before you consider what you are offering.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

I struggle to accommodating single males and I'm not married live with parents again. Hang in there you'll find some I have had a few luckily. That or see if you can get to nearby clubs when you can.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I struggle to accommodating single males and I'm not married live with parents again. Hang in there you'll find some I have had a few luckily. That or see if you can get to nearby clubs when you can. "

Thanks nice comment didn't post to get abused at x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just gona say this - if a guy wrote this thread he would slaughtered for not saying he was married, called a cheater, asked how his wife would feel. But a woman posting who doesn't mention anything about being married on her profile? Hmmmm can't have it both ways, slightly hypocritical.

Not really ur business is it we all have needs and most men on here lie

Pot kettle black "

You're both right! It's none of anyone else's business what other users get up to and they don't know the full backstory or facts of any other users personal situation.

But yes, had this been a guy he'd have been hung, drawn and quartered by now!

Absolutely nothing against you OP (as I'm attached too) but very typical of the way this forum works!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just gona say this - if a guy wrote this thread he would slaughtered for not saying he was married, called a cheater, asked how his wife would feel. But a woman posting who doesn't mention anything about being married on her profile? Hmmmm can't have it both ways, slightly hypocritical.

Not really ur business is it we all have needs and most men on here lie

Pot kettle black

You're both right! It's none of anyone else's business what other users get up to and they don't know the full backstory or facts of any other users personal situation.

But yes, had this been a guy he'd have been hung, drawn and quartered by now!

Absolutely nothing against you OP (as I'm attached too) but very typical of the way this forum works! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm just gona say this - if a guy wrote this thread he would slaughtered for not saying he was married, called a cheater, asked how his wife would feel. But a woman posting who doesn't mention anything about being married on her profile? Hmmmm can't have it both ways, slightly hypocritical.

Not really ur business is it we all have needs and most men on here lie

Pot kettle black

You're both right! It's none of anyone else's business what other users get up to and they don't know the full backstory or facts of any other users personal situation.

But yes, had this been a guy he'd have been hung, drawn and quartered by now!

Absolutely nothing against you OP (as I'm attached too) but very typical of the way this forum works! "

Wish I never posted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need a hotel

Yes true or a nice single man that can accom

Sadly I'm too far away

I know ur profile made me smile "

I'm on my way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take it personally. Forums will never offer advice you wish and nothing else and those that pass judgements rarely reveal all aspects of their lives to be judged too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't take it personally. Forums will never offer advice you wish and nothing else and those that pass judgements rarely reveal all aspects of their lives to be judged too.

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Yes that's true but I never judge as we all have reasons x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

They shouldn't be critiquing your profile anyway it's against forum rules

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They shouldn't be critiquing your profile anyway it's against forum rules

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I didn't know that thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just gona say this - if a guy wrote this thread he would slaughtered for not saying he was married, called a cheater, asked how his wife would feel. But a woman posting who doesn't mention anything about being married on her profile? Hmmmm can't have it both ways, slightly hypocritical.

Not really ur business is it we all have needs and most men on here lie

Pot kettle black

You're both right! It's none of anyone else's business what other users get up to and they don't know the full backstory or facts of any other users personal situation.

But yes, had this been a guy he'd have been hung, drawn and quartered by now!

Absolutely nothing against you OP (as I'm attached too) but very typical of the way this forum works!

Wish I never posted "

You had a perfectly good question and every right to post it.

Don't worry about what others think / say. I don't think the guy above (like me when I was replying to you both) was having a dig at you, more likely a dig at those who usually jump immediately on the attached guys (I've had it loads of times myself) - as you rightly say, nobody else's business what you get up to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't take it personally. Forums will never offer advice you wish and nothing else and those that pass judgements rarely reveal all aspects of their lives to be judged too.

Yes that's true but I never judge as we all have reasons x"

We all judge to some extent but there's no need to berate others publicly. Theres differences between offering perspectives and

Pointing the finger.

You obviously realise you're in a difficult situation and have,I assumed thought through what you're doing. Maybe accept this places limitations on what you can get and the fact some will be negative to you. Doesn't make you a bad person...just someone in a difficult situation making choices.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm just gona say this - if a guy wrote this thread he would slaughtered for not saying he was married, called a cheater, asked how his wife would feel. But a woman posting who doesn't mention anything about being married on her profile? Hmmmm can't have it both ways, slightly hypocritical.

Not really ur business is it we all have needs and most men on here lie

Pot kettle black

You're both right! It's none of anyone else's business what other users get up to and they don't know the full backstory or facts of any other users personal situation.

But yes, had this been a guy he'd have been hung, drawn and quartered by now!

Absolutely nothing against you OP (as I'm attached too) but very typical of the way this forum works!

Wish I never posted

You had a perfectly good question and every right to post it.

Don't worry about what others think / say. I don't think the guy above (like me when I was replying to you both) was having a dig at you, more likely a dig at those who usually jump immediately on the attached guys (I've had it loads of times myself) - as you rightly say, nobody else's business what you get up to "

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just gona say this - if a guy wrote this thread he would slaughtered for not saying he was married, called a cheater, asked how his wife would feel. But a woman posting who doesn't mention anything about being married on her profile? Hmmmm can't have it both ways, slightly hypocritical."

I agree if a guy wrote this he would get slaughtered. In fact a guy opened a thread asking for a meet earlier today and someone mentioned his partner despite the opening post having no reference to her.The post had no other intention than to have a go at him.

OP, for sake of clarity I am not having a go at you. I think

this site is as much for single people as it is married people but a number of people on here do not agree with that and take the moral high ground. That I don't agree with. I also don't agree with the fact that if a bloke had made this post, he would have probably got a lot more stick.

As regards your issue, I should imagine that in time you will find guys willing to accommodate you or willing to pay for a hotel. The numbers are stacked in your favour in so far as the number of single men on the site are concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you accommodate if you were married? I'm having not much luck "

I think it would be incredibly rude and disrespectful to accommodate if the partner didn't know and approve.

If the partner did know and approved, then no issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just gona say this - if a guy wrote this thread he would slaughtered for not saying he was married, called a cheater, asked how his wife would feel. But a woman posting who doesn't mention anything about being married on her profile? Hmmmm can't have it both ways, slightly hypocritical.

Not really ur business is it we all have needs and most men on here lie "

Most men? Can you quantify that in any way?

And even if they do, it doesn't make yu lying okay

back on topic, I think anyone that met a cheat while their partner was out is an idiot, unless the risk turns them on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hang in op you will find the right guy patience is the way forward and you have the right to choose what you put in your profile to

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"*sits quietly in his greenhouse* "

I know what your doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They shouldn't be critiquing your profile anyway it's against forum rules

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According to the forum rules is is okay "if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success" - is that not the case here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooops, he found out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And yet again, the ugly face of the forums raises it's head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess his wife caught him lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"They shouldn't be critiquing your profile anyway it's against forum rules

According to the forum rules is is okay "if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success" - is that not the case here?"
I'm not a mod, but I didn't see her ask anything about her profile, you obviously know better

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"And yet again, the ugly face of the forums raises it's head."
its getting fucking pathetic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooops, he found out!"

I don't think it was that!

There are far too many righteous, opinionated people who are quick to judge others on this site.

What people seem to forget, even though it's a swing site, people can choose to live the life they live with out the need to be judged, or have to justify themselves.

No one on here is,perfect and I am sure we all have our hidden secrets!

Let people live the life style regardless of them being married or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooops, he found out!

I don't think it was that!

There are far too many righteous, opinionated people who are quick to judge others on this site.

What people seem to forget, even though it's a swing site, people can choose to live the life they live with out the need to be judged, or have to justify themselves.

No one on here is,perfect and I am sure we all have our hidden secrets!

Let people live the life style regardless of them being married or not"

I know, was just trying to lighten the mood. I'll get my coat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooops, he found out!

I don't think it was that!

There are far too many righteous, opinionated people who are quick to judge others on this site.

What people seem to forget, even though it's a swing site, people can choose to live the life they live with out the need to be judged, or have to justify themselves.

No one on here is,perfect and I am sure we all have our hidden secrets!

Let people live the life style regardless of them being married or not

I know, was just trying to lighten the mood. I'll get my coat "

Sorry that wasn't directed at you btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And yet again, the ugly face of the forums raises it's head.its getting fucking pathetic"

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"And yet again, the ugly face of the forums raises it's head."

To be fair it was tame and not worthy of being called abuse by the OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They shouldn't be critiquing your profile anyway it's against forum rules

According to the forum rules is is okay "if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success" - is that not the case here?"

Also plenty of "help critique my profile" threads appearing daily, they arnt closed? And where is anyone critiquing the OP's profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooops, he found out!

I don't think it was that!

There are far too many righteous, opinionated people who are quick to judge others on this site.

What people seem to forget, even though it's a swing site, people can choose to live the life they live with out the need to be judged, or have to justify themselves.

No one on here is,perfect and I am sure we all have our hidden secrets!

Let people live the life style regardless of them being married or not"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They shouldn't be critiquing your profile anyway it's against forum rules

According to the forum rules is is okay "if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success" - is that not the case here?I'm not a mod, but I didn't see her ask anything about her profile, you obviously know better "

Second post in she commented that she was finding t really hard to meet, which is what the rule I just quoted relates to.

Ultimately she got far less stick than a married man would for complaining people wouldn;t meet him in his house while his wife was out. It is a pretty vile thing to do to someone and having asked the question of would others do it what did she honestly expect?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And yet again, the ugly face of the forums raises it's head."

Where? She asked for opinions and people gave them. I don't see anything ugly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They shouldn't be critiquing your profile anyway it's against forum rules

According to the forum rules is is okay "if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success" - is that not the case here?I'm not a mod, but I didn't see her ask anything about her profile, you obviously know better

Second post in she commented that she was finding t really hard to meet, which is what the rule I just quoted relates to.

Ultimately she got far less stick than a married man would for complaining people wouldn;t meet him in his house while his wife was out. It is a pretty vile thing to do to someone and having asked the question of would others do it what did she honestly expect?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They shouldn't be critiquing your profile anyway it's against forum rules

According to the forum rules is is okay "if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success" - is that not the case here?

Also plenty of "help critique my profile" threads appearing daily, they arnt closed? And where is anyone critiquing the OP's profile?"

someone one was saying earlier it's very negatively written. having read the rules last night. I think it goes along the lines of only if the op asks for opinions...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP can't be blamed for how married men are treated on here. She didn't slate anyone and she wasn't abusive to anyone yet some had to bring up AGAIN how if a man had asked the same question he would have been vilified.

That's not her fault. Maybe just answer the question the OP was asking or don't bloody comment at all

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"They shouldn't be critiquing your profile anyway it's against forum rules

According to the forum rules is is okay "if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success" - is that not the case here?I'm not a mod, but I didn't see her ask anything about her profile, you obviously know better

Second post in she commented that she was finding t really hard to meet, which is what the rule I just quoted relates to.

Ultimately she got far less stick than a married man would for complaining people wouldn;t meet him in his house while his wife was out. It is a pretty vile thing to do to someone and having asked the question of would others do it what did she honestly expect?

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as I said I'm sure you know better, as always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They shouldn't be critiquing your profile anyway it's against forum rules

According to the forum rules is is okay "if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success" - is that not the case here?I'm not a mod, but I didn't see her ask anything about her profile, you obviously know better

Second post in she commented that she was finding t really hard to meet, which is what the rule I just quoted relates to.

Ultimately she got far less stick than a married man would for complaining people wouldn;t meet him in his house while his wife was out. It is a pretty vile thing to do to someone and having asked the question of would others do it what did she honestly expect?

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The OP can't be blamed for how married men are treated on here. She didn't slate anyone and she wasn't abusive to anyone yet some had to bring up AGAIN how if a man had asked the same question he would have been vilified.

That's not her fault. Maybe just answer the question the OP was asking or don't bloody comment at all "

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

There was no criticism until someone started talking about it...

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


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According to the forum rules is is okay "if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success" - is that not the case here?"

Yes

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By *huramMan
over a year ago

London


"Ultimately she got far less stick than a married man would for complaining people wouldn;t meet him in his house while his wife was out. It is a pretty vile thing to do to someone and having asked the question of would others do it what did she honestly expect?

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A guy was torn a new arsehole in the forum, for questioning the verification system.

Can you imagine the abuse a guy would receive for wanting to fuck women in his marital home while his unknowing wife is out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They shouldn't be critiquing your profile anyway it's against forum rules

According to the forum rules is is okay "if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success" - is that not the case here?I'm not a mod, but I didn't see her ask anything about her profile, you obviously know better

Second post in she commented that she was finding t really hard to meet, which is what the rule I just quoted relates to.

Ultimately she got far less stick than a married man would for complaining people wouldn;t meet him in his house while his wife was out. It is a pretty vile thing to do to someone and having asked the question of would others do it what did she honestly expect?

as I said I'm sure you know better, as always.

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Yes I do

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Ooops, he found out!

I don't think it was that!

There are far too many righteous, opinionated people who are quick to judge others on this site.

What people seem to forget, even though it's a swing site, people can choose to live the life they live with out the need to be judged, or have to justify themselves.

No one on here is,perfect and I am sure we all have our hidden secrets!

Let people live the life style regardless of them being married or not"

Sadly that doesn't happen, on here or in real life. The only plus side was it was tamer to when a man posts anything like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The OP can't be blamed for how married men are treated on here. She didn't slate anyone and she wasn't abusive to anyone yet some had to bring up AGAIN how if a man had asked the same question he would have been vilified.

That's not her fault. Maybe just answer the question the OP was asking or don't bloody comment at all "

Or maybe people should stop being hypocrites? One rule for one one rule for another it always seems

#equalrightsforall

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Ultimately she got far less stick than a married man would for complaining people wouldn;t meet him in his house while his wife was out. It is a pretty vile thing to do to someone and having asked the question of would others do it what did she honestly expect?

A guy was torn a new arsehole in the forum, for questioning the verification system.

Can you imagine the abuse a guy would receive for wanting to fuck women in his marital home while his unknowing wife is out?"

But dont posts like this just attract the negativity and abuse? All it does is draw attention and say "you're not giving her enough abuse"

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Anyway the lady has left the building so maybe time to shut this.

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