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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else want to brain someone when they say this to you...

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Maybe you've misunderstood something?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No....you just dont understand...

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Anyone else want to brain someone when they say this to you..."

No I question them, I love to understand, to find out new information!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What they should say is 'sorry, I'm not doing a good job at explaining myself'.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Can you be sure?

"If a man will begin with certainties, he shall end in doubts; but if he will be content to begin with doubts he shall end in certainties."

~ Sir Francis Bacon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the context.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My eledeat says this to me all the time. Id rather not brain her though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the context. "

exactly as a man you can't really understand what is to give birth for instance ... even if you try very hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the context.

exactly as a man you can't really understand what is to give birth for instance ... even if you try very hard "

Hey stranger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the context.

exactly as a man you can't really understand what is to give birth for instance ... even if you try very hard

Hey stranger "

how are you doing pretty ?

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By *ina75Woman
over a year ago

Stone


"Anyone else want to brain someone when they say this to you..."

"Oh I understand perfectly. I just disagree vehemently with your point of view you moronic piece of shite".

Is my usual thought when I see or hear that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry, but what are you asking? I don't understand...

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the context.

exactly as a man you can't really understand what is to give birth for instance ... even if you try very hard

Hey stranger

how are you doing pretty ? "

Shall we go find a room?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Are you misunderstood?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the context.

exactly as a man you can't really understand what is to give birth for instance ... even if you try very hard

Hey stranger

how are you doing pretty ?

Shall we go find a room? "

hell yes !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just smile sweetly and ignore their ignorance

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I rarely want to brain anyone, unless it involves doing so via the medium of vigorous sex.

No, I try and get to a point where I understand what they are trying to convey even if that is that they don't want me to understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please , explain it to me ... Thats just enough for people to know that I'm all ear for a good debate..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say that quite often to people who are ignorant to Autism, believe me it is justified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it frustrating when the person saying it hasn't listened and I do indeed understand.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say that quite often to people who are ignorant to Autism, believe me it is justified. "

As someone with Aspergers I can empathise with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say that quite often to people who are ignorant to Autism, believe me it is justified.

As someone with Aspergers I can empathise with that."

People always relate my boys to Raymond Babbit from Rain Man, they don't get the fact it's a broad spectrum and no two Autists are the same, even my twin boys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like fish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say that quite often to people who are ignorant to Autism, believe me it is justified.

As someone with Aspergers I can empathise with that.

People always relate my boys to Raymond Babbit from Rain Man, they don't get the fact it's a broad spectrum and no two Autists are the same, even my twin boys."

Yep, I usually get utter disbelief if I tell anyone in real life as I can mask it and 'pass' for NT in public. If I try to explain how it affects me I get 'oh, everyone feels like that sometimes'. I never get as far as 'no, you don't understand'. I give up and feel dismissed and small.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say that quite often to people who are ignorant to Autism, believe me it is justified.

As someone with Aspergers I can empathise with that.

People always relate my boys to Raymond Babbit from Rain Man, they don't get the fact it's a broad spectrum and no two Autists are the same, even my twin boys.

Yep, I usually get utter disbelief if I tell anyone in real life as I can mask it and 'pass' for NT in public. If I try to explain how it affects me I get 'oh, everyone feels like that sometimes'. I never get as far as 'no, you don't understand'. I give up and feel dismissed and small."

My lads are very severe, so it's easy to recognise, but it's not as easy with Aspergers, because it needs explaining to people, so they don't just think it's a child having a tantrum. Were you diagnosed as a child or adult?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say that quite often to people who are ignorant to Autism, believe me it is justified.

As someone with Aspergers I can empathise with that.

People always relate my boys to Raymond Babbit from Rain Man, they don't get the fact it's a broad spectrum and no two Autists are the same, even my twin boys.

Yep, I usually get utter disbelief if I tell anyone in real life as I can mask it and 'pass' for NT in public. If I try to explain how it affects me I get 'oh, everyone feels like that sometimes'. I never get as far as 'no, you don't understand'. I give up and feel dismissed and small.

My lads are very severe, so it's easy to recognise, but it's not as easy with Aspergers, because it needs explaining to people, so they don't just think it's a child having a tantrum. Were you diagnosed as a child or adult?"

Last November, at the age of 32.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say that quite often to people who are ignorant to Autism, believe me it is justified.

As someone with Aspergers I can empathise with that.

People always relate my boys to Raymond Babbit from Rain Man, they don't get the fact it's a broad spectrum and no two Autists are the same, even my twin boys.

Yep, I usually get utter disbelief if I tell anyone in real life as I can mask it and 'pass' for NT in public. If I try to explain how it affects me I get 'oh, everyone feels like that sometimes'. I never get as far as 'no, you don't understand'. I give up and feel dismissed and small.

My lads are very severe, so it's easy to recognise, but it's not as easy with Aspergers, because it needs explaining to people, so they don't just think it's a child having a tantrum. Were you diagnosed as a child or adult?

Last November, at the age of 32. "

That's a lot of years to get through, has being diagnosed help you in any way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say that quite often to people who are ignorant to Autism, believe me it is justified.

As someone with Aspergers I can empathise with that.

People always relate my boys to Raymond Babbit from Rain Man, they don't get the fact it's a broad spectrum and no two Autists are the same, even my twin boys.

Yep, I usually get utter disbelief if I tell anyone in real life as I can mask it and 'pass' for NT in public. If I try to explain how it affects me I get 'oh, everyone feels like that sometimes'. I never get as far as 'no, you don't understand'. I give up and feel dismissed and small."

They might just be trying to make you feel better/ less different? (Hope that makes sense, I'm not trying to be rude.)

Don't let them make you feel bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else want to brain someone when they say this to you..."

Not really... I probably don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say that quite often to people who are ignorant to Autism, believe me it is justified.

As someone with Aspergers I can empathise with that.

People always relate my boys to Raymond Babbit from Rain Man, they don't get the fact it's a broad spectrum and no two Autists are the same, even my twin boys.

Yep, I usually get utter disbelief if I tell anyone in real life as I can mask it and 'pass' for NT in public. If I try to explain how it affects me I get 'oh, everyone feels like that sometimes'. I never get as far as 'no, you don't understand'. I give up and feel dismissed and small.

My lads are very severe, so it's easy to recognise, but it's not as easy with Aspergers, because it needs explaining to people, so they don't just think it's a child having a tantrum. Were you diagnosed as a child or adult?

Last November, at the age of 32.

That's a lot of years to get through, has being diagnosed help you in any way?"

Yes and no. I can forgive myself for not 'doing life' very well, but I've also had to accept that I'll never 'get better'. Pre diagnosis there was always the hope that I'd figure out how to be normal and now I know I never will. I don't want to change who I am, I'm quite fond of me, but it would be nice to be free of the complications having aspergers brings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say that quite often to people who are ignorant to Autism, believe me it is justified.

As someone with Aspergers I can empathise with that.

People always relate my boys to Raymond Babbit from Rain Man, they don't get the fact it's a broad spectrum and no two Autists are the same, even my twin boys.

Yep, I usually get utter disbelief if I tell anyone in real life as I can mask it and 'pass' for NT in public. If I try to explain how it affects me I get 'oh, everyone feels like that sometimes'. I never get as far as 'no, you don't understand'. I give up and feel dismissed and small.

My lads are very severe, so it's easy to recognise, but it's not as easy with Aspergers, because it needs explaining to people, so they don't just think it's a child having a tantrum. Were you diagnosed as a child or adult?

Last November, at the age of 32.

That's a lot of years to get through, has being diagnosed help you in any way?

Yes and no. I can forgive myself for not 'doing life' very well, but I've also had to accept that I'll never 'get better'. Pre diagnosis there was always the hope that I'd figure out how to be normal and now I know I never will. I don't want to change who I am, I'm quite fond of me, but it would be nice to be free of the complications having aspergers brings."

That was quite hard to read, hope you're ok, it's the concept of normal that seems to be the problem, my boys have no such concepts, they just exist as they are without comparison, but with Aspergers there is always the feeling of being " different", and that seems to cause a lot of upset, I worked in a EBD unit in a comprehensive school, and I picked this up from Aspergers pupils there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say what don't I understand. Please enlighten me. If I don't understand I say no,I don't.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I rarely want to brain anyone, unless it involves doing so via the medium of vigorous sex.

No, I try and get to a point where I understand what they are trying to convey even if that is that they don't want me to understand.

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