FabSwingers.com forum: To show or not to show a verfi

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I had a great meet at the weekend, I'm in 2 minds to show my verfi, as I don't want to upset anyone I've made good connections with. Last time I showed a verfi all hell kicked off, shocking how guys get jealous on here.

Hmmmm what to do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show it, and perhaps reconsider if you want to associate with people who'll kick off at something so minor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show it, it's your profile not his x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's your profile; if anything on it annoys anyone surely it's their problem, not yours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a great meet at the weekend, I'm in 2 minds to show my verfi, as I don't want to upset anyone I've made good connections with. Last time I showed a verfi all hell kicked off, shocking how guys get jealous on here.

Hmmmm what to do? "

I don't show mine either, I prefer keep them private for mainly reason...

Follow your heart lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Lol, show it, if someone is going to get arsey do you really want them in your life.

Anyone got arsey over my verifications I don't care who they are or how long I'd known them they would be gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile, show it if you want it. Damn anyone who kicks off, they're not worth knowing if they feel they have exclusivity over you.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Hurry up... we're all dying to read it now that you've brought it to our attention!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Show it, show it, show it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hurry up... we're all dying to read it now that you've brought it to our attention!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So close to show it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So close to show it "

Eh, why ask for opinions if you're not going to take the advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go for it, don't be dictated to by the actions of the minority. That and we're all nosey feckers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good for you, showing it.

This is a swinging site and if someone can't get over the fact you see others, they shouldn't be in the lifestyle.

Their problem, not yours!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm what to do? "

If you like the veri, then show it and to hell with anyone who gets jealous!! Are they really the type of men you are looking to meet if they act so childishly? it'll be their loss not yours.

Sasha x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Is this count up the votes to show a verification?

Show it or don't, it's your profile. I won't be looking to see but I am sure others will be along to have a look soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm what to do? "

Show it if you want. Don't be dictated to by dicks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this count up the votes to show a verification?

Show it or don't, it's your profile. I won't be looking to see but I am sure others will be along to have a look soon.

I certainly will haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get it shown! Men cannot afford to be whining bitches on here!

Be proud

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for advice guys.. Think I will make his day and show it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for advice guys.. Think I will make his day and show it

Just been nosey.....it's not up yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for advice guys.. Think I will make his day and show it

Just been nosey.....it's not up yet

xx"

yes don't fuck with us we can be mean haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be, or not to be--that is the question: Whether 'tis nobler in the mind to suffer The slings and arrows of outrageous fortune Or to take arms against a sea of troubles And by opposing end them. To die, to sleep-- No more--and by a sleep to say we end The heartache, and the thousand natural shocks That flesh is heir to. 'Tis a consummation Devoutly to be wished. To die, to sleep-- To sleep--perchance to dream: ay, there's the rub, For in that sleep of death what dreams may come When we have shuffled off this mortal coil, Must give us pause. There's the respect That makes calamity of so long life. For who would bear the whips and scorns of time, Th' oppressor's wrong, the proud man's contumely The pangs of despised love, the law's delay, The insolence of office, and the spurns That patient merit of th' unworthy takes, When he himself might his quietus make With a bare bodkin? Who would fardels bear, To grunt and sweat under a weary life, But that the dread of something after death, The undiscovered country, from whose bourn No traveller returns, puzzles the will, And makes us rather bear those ills we have Than fly to others that we know not of? Thus conscience does make cowards of us all, And thus the native hue of resolution Is sicklied o'er with the pale cast of thought, And enterprise of great pitch and moment With this regard their currents turn awry And lose the name of action.

oh go on show it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for advice guys.. Think I will make his day and show it

Just been nosey.....it's not up yet

yes don't fuck with us we can be mean haha

We are all anticipating this veri ....it had better be a good read!!

Put us out of our misery xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's up and all to see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for advice guys.. Think I will make his day and show it

Just been nosey.....it's not up yet

yes don't fuck with us we can be mean haha

We are all anticipating this veri ....it had better be a good read!!

Put us out of our misery xx"

we are all waiting for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...just seen it, was worth the wait, display with pride xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's up and all to see

very nice verifs indeed

worth the wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone getting arsey about people meeting for no strings fun on a no strings fun website needs to have a word with themselves!

Block and move on if you get people like that.

Up to you if you show all, some or none of your veri's. People have many reasons for who they do and don't display and how many they display so don't let anyone on here (either positively or negatively) influence you - do what YOU want to do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Lol, show it, if someone is going to get arsey do you really want them in your life.

Anyone got arsey over my verifications I don't care who they are or how long I'd known them they would be gone

You have some weird veris!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show it. It's up to you who you see. Others should grow up . Good luck op x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Lol, show it, if someone is going to get arsey do you really want them in your life.

Anyone got arsey over my verifications I don't care who they are or how long I'd known them they would be gone

You have some weird veris!

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not as fucking weird as yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we hid ours due to a dickhead but not someone we had played/chatted with - if any of those kicked off we would get rid of them -

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Lol, show it, if someone is going to get arsey do you really want them in your life.

Anyone got arsey over my verifications I don't care who they are or how long I'd known them they would be gone

You have some weird veris!

not as fucking weird as yours

I'm shocked and stunned!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All that fuss and it wasn't even anything major exciting. What a load of drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've chosen not to show mine simply because I don't think it's anyone else's business who I've met.

I hate veris being written for me if I haven't asked for one either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm what to do? "

We had this problem and decided not to show our veris.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

The more varies you have the obviously so long as they are meets means you are increasingly genuine and some people are turned on knowing somebody is experenced . On the other hand some people are put off by somebody with too many varifications. My advice would be have a good mixture that advitices you in a good way and way you want perspective suiters to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty good veri too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As soon as anyone has a dig at us about a veri we display , the block button comes in handy .

When we displayed a couple of veris from TVs we got quite a few negative comments from people on our friends list . Needless to say they are no longer friends .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love lamppost pissing threads!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show mine because I want to. If anyone wants to get pissy with me. It's they're problem not mine

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

I love my veries. I know my profile is hidden at the moment, but I am still polishing them every day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love lamppost pissing threads!!!!

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